I know she's in a relationship but I know she can do so better. She's so amazing she's like an angel she is a ******* godess. I just want to see her be happy but we're not really talking much. Our last convo was a week ago over text. I think her guy knows about our texts but the thing is she always checks me when I'm wrong. I'll text her she's amazing & she'll say I'm smart & such an amazing human when I don't even believe that. I'm at war with myself & In my eyes she's the closest thing that I have to God. She's the reason I wake up in the morning but it feels like she hates me. I know you've been with him for 6 years but it goes on & off & I don't want to see him hurt her anymore. I'm scared that I'm gonna die alone but I want her to be happy and healthy and liberated. I want her to be free and I want to free her from his prison. He's the only real relationship she's had because she's 21 going on 22 but she's more than a body to me she's proof that I am loved. I read her texts when I consider offing myself. As wrong as it is I hope they don't last & it's selfish I know but FML. Do I still have a chance? What can I text her cause last thing she texted me was yes (my name) tell me what can I help u with. I know she cares

Lately I ve been feeling a bit like this. When I graduated college, I had dreams of moving across the country and saving enough money to go back and travel the world again. This would be after paying off student loans and such. Only a couple years later, here I am in a new city, but with plenty of debt still in sight and "settling" (or not) with a corporate job at the moment. This is after the fun/glamorous startup opportunity didn t work out. The job pays better and is starting to get better after about 7 months of being there though. That said, the thought of "settling for adult life" creeps in when I think of this job vs. work I had done previously I m also not single anymore, which of course I didn t factor into any of my plans before, so this has altered things too (mostly in a good way). That said, this relationship would make it logistically more difficult to do a sabbatical than before when I was single. So I (realistically) only forsee short-term travel so as long as I m in this relationship (the other area that once in awhile makes me feel like I m "settling for adult life"/losing my youthful spirit). I m not disappointed with my current life at ALL, it s just not turning out like how I planned and there s a part of me that s still unsettled with this (especially the idea that I may not be able to do a sabbatical around the world any time soon/in the future) Let me also add that there's nothing going wrong at ALL in my relationship - I'm very happy right now and don't feel like I'm settling FOR him. It's the settling for ADULT LIFE thing (ie: a long term relationship with a future). He has more "adult" aspirations like owning a house whereas I'm partially still in a "I want to travel while I'm young"/not own anything substantial mindset

I have been "dating" a married man for a year and a half now. He s from another country and so is his wife that he brought to America about 6 years ago. So, every summer she goes back to her country to visit for about 2 months. And he stays to work. This happened last summer and this summer. This summer I connected to my "boyfriend" in an entirely new way. I ve lived at his house with him for two months. Playing the role of a wife. (Which I enjoy so much) he was so happy and please by how well I took care of him. Which is what he wants from a women. I know the entire situation is stupid and I m a young idiot (I m 18) but I fell for him and never seemed to be able to leave. He claims he loves me and couldn t live with out me and that I m the only person he s every truly loved but why when the summer is over he is going to send me back to my house and she ll be back and I have to go back to sneaking around and seeing him when he can. Why doesn t he leave her if I make him so happy? They have two kids together but I ve seen so many couples divorce and they both get plenty of time with their kids.

I'm a 23 year old college girl (grad student) having a casual sexual relationship with a 45 year old widowed mom (I'm lesbian, she's bisexual). Her husband passed away about a year and a half ago. She told me she's not ready for a relationship (I wasn't looking for one with her BTW) but she does want someone to express her sexual feelings with. On a completely selfish standpoint this is a great input for me. I am completely swamped with work and school. I'm working towards PHD economics student hoping to become an econ professor. The material is intense. I do not want a relationship right now, but having a purely sexual partner is great. I also think that despite being 45 she is incredibly attractive looking. There's also something sexy about doing it with an older woman. She is super good in bed, which is interesting since she's never had lesbian sex (got married to her husband really young. I think he's the only other person she's slept with). However, on the down side I feel guilty because sometimes I feel like I'm taking advantage of her. I can tell she's still in love with her husband. She's actually mentioned to me a couple of times that she really misses him. When she told me I could feel very strong emotion in her voice. I think (don't know, but think) this is more of an emotional cover up for her than she's letting on. KEEP READING I also feel guilty about the fact that she's a mom. Most of her kids are older, but her youngest is 10. I've heard of kids who were scared when their parents were sleeping around. I guess she's not 'sleeping around' if she's just sleeping with me, but I still wonder if it would really bother them. Is it a bad idea to keep it going?

Over a text I sent him, I was on the couch taking a nap and he ripped the blanket off and yelled at me, I thought he was going to hit me but he didn't, he took my phone, which I pay for along with his phone and my kids phones and went back upstairs, I went up to get it back and he physically would not give it back, passing it between his hands like a game of keep away, I never hit or slapped him but I did physically sit on him (he was on his back in his bed) and hold his wrist so he couldn t pass my phone back and forth between his hands, I don t think he will but could he charge me with physical abuse for sitting in him and holding his wrist? He is 5'11" about 160 lbs, I am 5'6" 125 lbs.

He estado en una relacion de maltrato leve durante 4 años(escupitajos,me ha roto e movil,agarrado del cuello...)He intentado dejarlo varias veces y parece que esta ultima va mejor con ayuda de un psicologo.hace 2 semanas desde que lo corte y ayer quede con un chico(ya lo se demasiado pronto y me arrepiento)la cosa fue que hicimos el amor y fue supercariñoso aunqe me hablo mucho de su ex.Cuando se despidió me dijo el tipico ya te llamare y se despidio con un beso en la mejilla. estoy confusa gracias

We've been broken up for 3 months. He's in his early 30s and I'm 28. Just over a month ago he messaged me saying he hopes I'm well. I replied & said I hoped he is too and that's all the contact there was. I wanted to say so much more, but wanted to see effort from him because he said his life was a mess and we agreed to break up. During the relationship when we had a couple of problems, he would say "hope you're ok" or "have a nice day" - something like that to get me speaking to him normally again. But it was up to me to make the effort from there - like that was a big step for him. Since we broke up he's never really been online. He has no family and not that many friends. I feel sad without him because we understood each other even though things weren't perfect. I did a rebound thing early on but it didn't stop me thinking about him. I want to reach out so much but am not sure what to say. Sometimes I just want to ask how he's been. He's a bit of a loner (not in a mean way), and doesn't go into relationships lightly. Is the ball in my court? I just want to be happy & not have this thought at the back of my head if I should reach out.

I met this guy when I moved from my country to USA and he kept looking at me since the first day he saw me. He sent me a message first on facebook and then we started to be close friends. One day he told me he was in love with me but to be honest I wasn't into him very much so I was like 'let's just be friends!'. He started to flirt with me and I started to like him more than a simple friend. But one day he told that our friendship/relationship couldn't work because my english wasn't really good at that time. I really felt bad because I liked him. After a month he dated a girl and I was devastated. We kept being friends and I was kinda happy anyway. I think he always looked at me in a different way,more than a friend. All my friends told me the same thing because the saw the way he acted when i was around and the also heard and saw what he said to me and what he did to me. We actually acted like a couple even thought we didn't noticed that. He held my hand all the time,he played with my hair. Sometimes he squeezed my cheecks and he also drank from my straws. All of this was happening while he was dating. One day he broke up and i was the first persone that knew about it. After a week he told me that i was the reason of everything,he told me he loved me. We started to talk more than the usual and i was so happy! He called me princess,baby girl ;) but after a couple of days he told me that maybe our relationship couldn't work because of my parents.

was walking with my friend to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her teacher & I was looking at her but she was looking straight ahead & then I stopped looking. Then later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early?

If they're on my Facebook profile all they post is 'funny b I t c h memes' In person they are passive aggressive, like they will talk to you when they choose to talk to you, blank you for the rest of the time. They seem to all have issues holding relationships with guys and always says their boyfriends were jerks, babies, etc. They seem to light up when you mention you have a job getting $ amount. They seem to draw to people who has a income, however they keep hopping boyfriends. They seem to have different children by different daddies, and seem to post duck face pictures on Facebook and middle finger memes. What the heck is wrong with these girls, I keep running into a flow of them.

Mi vagina esta muy gordita, velludita, grande, algo oscura Siento que a nadie le va a gustar mi vagina así, que opinan de una vagina muy grande y gorda Tengo 17 Soy delgada y si tengo caderas y pompas y no están tan mal mis pechos separados pero grandes, pero siento que no soy lo suficiente mente bonita de hay abajo; estoy algo oscura de abajo porque me masturbaba y me sentía muy bien exitada y hasta se me hinchaba pero pienso que si pasara mi primera vez tal vez no sea del agrado de quién vaya a ser mi pareja

Every time i remember what she did to me, I feel really sad. I need help is really painful to me.

I meet this girl online. This girl is young, 18, cute and like to have fun. She is a bit far away from me. After chatting a while, she wants my number so we can chat on text message application. She texts me after I give her my number. She usually text fast and curious about me. Is that a good sign she is interested? We can text everyday Any other signs I can notice?

We have the best times together and it is absolutely amazing. There's a connection that I haven't felt with anyone else. Only problem is he is married. He has kids with her and will not leave her because of the kids. They sleep in different bedrooms and are only together because of the kids. We work together and it makes me so happy to be around him at work and it's hard/impossible to move on. I don't know what to do.

Mi vagina esta muy gordita, velludita, grande, algo oscura Siento que a nadie le va a gustar mi vagina así, que opinan de una vagina muy grande y gorda Soy delgada y si tengo caderas y pompas y no están tan mal mis pechos separados pero grandes, pero siento que no soy lo suficiente mente bonita de hay abajo; estoy algo oscura de abajo porque me masturbaba y me sentía muy bien exitada y hasta se me hinchaba pero pienso que si pasara mi primera vez tal vez no sea del agrado de quién vaya a ser mi pareja

Seen it about four times in real life. The hottest guy, who made the girls go WILD, scream and lose control whenever he hit the runway, really attractive and hot, like 10/10, with body and confidence to match, never won the title, and was even lucky to be second runners-up. The winner always tends to be a bit eeeeh, maybe a 7/10.Why do you think so? Does he make the judges feel insecure? Is he seen as too proud of his looks? Do judges want to pass the message that looks are nothing? Jealousy? I have also seen it to some extent among female models. The super gorgeous rarely wins. It baffles me.

Is it better to mastrubate with the door shut so people can't see you when they walk by but they can suprise you while opening the door when you aren't done or better to have the door open when you mastrubate do you can see them coming and gives you time to cover up but could still expose what you are doing?

My professor is 35-year-old male, not married. I am 20-year-old female. He was asking if I would like to have coffee with him (only "me and the professor" alone, no other people accompany us) Does he simply want to chat with me and drink coffee? Or, does he have other meaning? He didn't mean to discuss any problem or homework assignment.

Estoy trabajando en un restaurante y hay una chica que es hija de los dueños que me contrataron de mesero en fin.. empezamos a conocernos y así, a llevarnos bien chido, y últimamente la chica me trata siempre con cariño, abraza y me dice que le diga que la quiero y esas cosas el punto que siempre que me dice eso la rechazo y le digo que no la quiero y nunca la abrazo, pero no se..por que hay otro tipo que siempre va a verla pero e notado que solo conmigo se porta así, con el otro chavo no y casi no lo pela, [(siempre se porta conmigo muy cariñosa pero la rechazo)]pero aveces si salen y ella siempre se lleva a su hermano... Lo que quiero saber esque si pueden decirme si esta chica quiera algo conmigo o nomas es juego.. Y si si para lanzarme y por último siempre jugamos aveces a ser novios y ella me abraza pero no se por lo mismo del otro tipo que la va a ver..

I m nearly 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been together for 11 months now and we are in a happy and stable relationship. We both work and see each other the majority of days. I get on really well with his parents and my parents are very fond of him. However, my parents are extremely strict! I have curfews still and I have to ask to even pop to the shops! I think the way they are with me is ridiculous, especially some things they say to me-he isn t even allowed upstairs! I have a lot of respect for my parents and after my 9/10 hour shift at work, I return home, prepare and cook my siblings dinner then make sure the house is clean and tidy for when they return home from work (if they aren t already home). I believe that I do a lot for my parents but I feel like I am still being treated like a child and I need some advice so I can convince my parents to trust me! The reason that I want my parents consent for us to sleep together is because I would like to have a weeks holiday abroad for my 18th with him which is means we would be sleeping in the same bed and I wouldn t want that to be the reason for me not being able to go on holiday. Another thing is that I do not want to sleep to have sex or any kind of sexual activity! I just want my parents to trust me enough to live my own life! Thank you to anyone who takes their time to read this and respond,I really appreciate it(I know it s long I m sorry!)

How would you know if I wasn't autistic?

I live in a sanctuary with a bunch if other women. My little brother is friends with this one little girl. Last night they were texting and talking about the water park that we will be going tomorrow. She said she can go only if her older brother went. My brother, without asking my mom if he can take her older brother, said that we won't have enough money to take him. She said she wouldn't be able to go than, but her brother will. My brother said no. She replied with "well that's rude" and my brother said that he'll just take his two other friends. She said that that is unfair and to stop texting, so he kept bothering her and sent those red mad emoji faces, but after sent laughing faces. I already discussed to him that what he said wasn't nice. So he had apologized to her and her mom, since her mom told her to tell him to stop texting. The thing of it is, the other women know that this happened because the mother told them. And now they are making it seem as if my brother, and myself, are bad people, when first off this had nothing to do with them. Idk what to say because I'm only 18 so I know that they won't take me seriously, cause they never do. I want to discuss this to the mother, without seeming mad or rude. My mother won't be home till tomorrow and I want to handle this before she does because she'll yell at us and get mad. How should I go about this?

I'm a guy and I fancy girls most of the time but the odd effeminate guy can work for me too. I've only recently come to terms with it, but I reckon at 18 I'm bound to discover new things all the time. There's this openly, even flamboyantly, bisexual guy from work I've started texting. He's very affectionate, even physically. Nothing overtly sexual, but if he's say telling a joke or a funny story, whether he needs to be quiet or not he'll touch both sides of me and lean in. He was once joking with an older lady co-worker of ours, sitting on a bench beside me, telling her she couldn't sit with us. He grabbed my hand as part of the joke, but held it after she'd left for at least 20 seconds and then let go by sort of running his hand up my arm a bit. He's leaned on my shoulder and had zero problem eating after me as well. He's 22 but, I wouldn't say he's immature , but quite childish and sort of "flighty". He's very, very forward and never met a stranger. I'm not sure if this is why he's so physical. But he's also asked me what he should wear, and I feel as if he wants me to say I like how he looks in certain things. Just earlier while texting, he mentioned he was dying his hair because he wanted to look cute for when we hang out this weekend. I haven't mentioned a thing about liking even some men to him however. But just how forward he is makes me unsure, because he's also affectionate and even flirty with older men and women. What do you all think?

Ok so im going to tell you what i do right now. So im an incoming freshman to highschool and i play highschool soccer and cheer and allstar cheer along with marching band. My friend and i were asked to do both jv and freshman cheer(lets call her B) and B brings up the fact that i shouldnt do both this is hat she texted me," i don't mean to upset you but i really don't think it's a good idea to do freshman and jv because i don't think you realize how much it is going to be once we have school and homework" yes i know im insane and yes i know im not going to have time for anything but im gonna be honest im better than her and i just feel like she is jealous. Also by the way I NEVER EVER BRING IT UP SHE DOES! And i just dont know how to respond because i want to tell her " these are my desicions that DO NOT involve you" but if i say that then i dont want to end our friendship because we have been friends since 2nd grade. But i dont even know what to say. Please help!

I have been getting serious with this girl shes 21 and had spent the day with her guy friend which I didn't think much of until I randomly asked her what she was up to and it was 10pm, she said that she was !cruising around town in her friends new mercedes" ...... continued below in first answer

please hear me out rather than lecturing me , i know what i did and i feel terrible. Theres this girl thats really pretty & gets a ton of attention, she gets over 100 guys commenting on her pics telling her how hot she is. basically she has everything i want, every single guy i talk to and every guy i know for that matter talks to her. i dont know her personally but i always knew of her from my friend. not too long ago (earlier this year) i felt very down about myself and i had alot of anger at the time. i had a tough past years emotionally. Anyway i was really jealous of that girl for many reasons, i would always send her these really hateful messages almost every day (on this fake account) . i tried to stop but i couldnt control my anger. Sadly i went on for months, every time i saw her get the attention i wanted i got worse, i didnt say just silly things, i said some pretty hurtful stuff and i feel really awful. Later on , she found out it was me who did it all along (dont ask how, its not important) i dont know what she thought of it, cus i dont even think she knew i existed before this. i immediately stopped and never said anything again. its been a few months and i feel terrible, (NOT cause she found out it was me). i would do anything to go back, shes none of what i said to her. i just feel really bad and i wish i could go back and deal with things differently. i want to apologize but im not sure how? & what if she says something awful she lives in a different town and goes to a different school , ive never seen her in person so i dont think i would be able to do it in person

I don't normally put myself out there like this, but lately I have noticed that I'm not funny like I used to be, being funny was my identity it was who I was, without I don't know what to do,

what I should do. She is attractive but it is someone I work with. For ex she said I didn't know you worked out. Maybe I'm taking it the wrong way. Thoughts?