My BF of 7 months wants us to go with the flow. He said he is committed as BF/GF but not ready for marriage even though he did bring up the topic about 2 months ago. He said he and his ex made a lot of promises together which obviously didn't work out and so he needs time. He said it even took him a long time to ask me to be his GF. 

Originally, it was because of debilitating headaches. Then he decided to write a book (three, in fact) but now I can't even get him to get a job working from home editing. He says he will, but time and again, he doesn't. Meanwhile, I'm working two jobs... Once staying awake for nearly 60 hours straight to do so. My body is falling apart. I got horribly ill over what should've been a little cold. I can't sleep normally anymore. I'm getting serious edema in my legs from standing so much. I'm to the point of wanting to leave, but I can't afford alimony plus a place to live. Any ideas would be welcome.

I'm 36, my wife is 29. We're both professionals, and we've been married for 2 years (going on 3). Our marriage is great, foundation with us, she's super accomplished (competed in professional pageants, eats great, stays in shape), but the only think is that we just could NOT get pregnant. It's always been my dream to start a family (my dad walked out of my life, so it's honestly inflated)... He wanted to start 1-2 years after we got married, which we did, but nothing happened. Long story short, I come home from work this evening (she's a housewife now (with 2 degrees), and works part time with non-profits (she has her MPA) .. And she is sitting on the couch SOBBING, breaks down and tells me that the reason we can't get pregnant is because she is only BIRTH CONTROL, I was furious. punched a whole in the wall/ cursed at her horrible, and am sleeping in the guest room. I am done and need advice on what to do next????

The problem is my love, she doesn't dare to marry me, because these people are very shameless and want to destroy my life so. They are like abusive selfish.

Should I suspend visits because of covid from my ex husband. I don't know where hes been and I don't want to risk it. I have  4 year old and I don't want her getting the rona when he entertains his broads

For someone who is married, if you don't mind answering these few questions down below. One sentence is fine, more than one is greatly appreciated. For a school project, thanks. 1. How did you meet the person you married?2. What was a big reason you wanted to marry them?3. What was it like planning the wedding?4. What thoughts went through your head when you proposed/were proposed to?5. What new responsibilities do you now have after the marriage?6. How has marriage changed you?7. What is one downside to marriage?8. What would you say to someone who is thinking about getting married?9. In your opinion, is getting married the best thing to happen to you

Do deadbeat dads stop paying child support when the kid is majority age even if they barely ever paid and have a huge debt? Just wondering if they still have to pay the parent because clearly someone was keeping the kid alive and wants their money! I dont have children. I would never have a child with a broke man. Im asking out od curiosity what happens to the arrears. The question was meant for those who have experienced this or know the law, not for guesses as I have guesses as to what happens

I am 27,  I live with my partner and our son that is 1 we all live with my mom in North Carolina as well as my sister and niece. We have always been together, not because we couldn't afford to be alone but because we were so close. Before NC we all lived in a big house in California my mom decided she wanted to retire and bought herself a home in NC and she decided to move. We of course did not want to leave CA My partner has his family there and his career. But she refused to leave us, I finally agreed to move but my husband did not want to, he had his job here and his family. He made me promise him that if it did not go well in 3 mnths we would come back since his boss agreed to give him his job back if he returned. Almost 4 mths have passed and he has had no luck in finding a job he has a past criminal record and NC laws are more strict than CA. So now he is working at a low end job and we do not like it here. We are going back to Cali in 2 months but I feel so guilty because I don't want to be away from my mom, and she doesn't want us to leave either we will still come visit but she won't get to see my son grow. People regret not being able to spend more time with their mothers when they pass and I feel like I won't be able to live with myself. I'm angry because I'm suffering for her decision to move here I'm torn with my mom and my husband. I told her how I feel and she suggested I leave him, but I don't want to leave my husband he is a good man. I dn't know what to do. 

My fiancé and I are expecting however he wants the baby more than I do. I am a 24 year old college student and was working part time at a club making good money (which I also consider my social life). Being that's he's a much older man, divorced, and has a child- he's very capable of taking care of us completely & financially. He doesn't want to try again later on and wants me to keep this and won't forgive me if I abort it. I love him, I'm very secured with him but I'm not sure if I'm ready to sacrifice my youth yet.. !

This is against nature. You're supposed to marry attractive people so that the next generation will be the most healthy and perfect. Yet, you see fat ugly people do copulate. Why is that? And to those married to one, why are you doing this to yourself?

I have had four back operations and cannot carry even a gallon of milk.  Yesterday I told my husband I needed some scoopable cat litter. He drove me there and he said "Do you want me to drop you off at the store or have me park and you get in your motorized cart and bring it out.? I said I was assuming he'd get it because it was 10lb. He said well, if I hadn't driven you, how were you going to get it? I got really upset and I said you know I cannot lift anything heavy. He then went inside to purchase it, but I've been upset due to his inconsideration. My sister said he probably wasn't thinking when he said that, but he knows I cannot pick up much or I hurt my back. I picked up a fire log once and was down for 6 weeks. I'm not old. I'm no Doris Day. That lady lived to be 100. What does that have to do with me? Also I will never be able to lift milk. I have a deteriorating condition that will only worsen in time.

Hi everyone, my husband is very disrespectful. He treats me like a child and call me names. He gets very disrespectful if we don't have sex often. I don't feel sexually attracted to him anymore and I believe it's because he doesn't even apologize when he disrespects me. Each time he curse me out, he'll just come around and start talking to me like nothing happens. He said he wont ever see a marriage counselor. He told me things like I'm a peice of ****, a child, a retard etc. Sometimes he'll throw a fake sorry and then say them again at another time. I'm really hurt and stressed, I don't feel loved. I'm in my mid 20's and we have a 2 year old son and a 3 months old son. I really want a household with both parents hence the reason I've been holding on for 4 years. But i'm not use to anyone talking to me like this so it bothers me daily even when he's being nice. Am I overreacting? 

Sadly I get along with 1 or 2 wives of friends only. Several are drunks and one tries to kiss me in a discusting manner and my buddy from grammer school's wife almost tries to flirt with me in a tacky way but gets me a glass of wine before her husband. 

My wife asks me to separate part of our assets to under her name. Since she has never worked before and doesn't have any pre-marital asset, I need to move some of my asset to her account and declare it separate legally. The purpose is for each of us to be responsible for our own finance. Does anyone know how it should be processed and how much will a lawyer normally charge?

My fiancé and I are expecting however he wants the baby more than I do. I am a 24 year old college student and was working part time at a club making good money (which I also consider my social life). Being that's he's a much older man, divorced, and has a child- he's very capable of taking care of us completely & financially. He doesn't want to try again later on and wants me to keep this and won't forgive me if I lose it. I love him, I'm very secured with him but I'm not sure if I'm ready to sacrifice my youth yet.. !

To stay with an abusive husband most of the kid's life and ruin their mental health for almost ever and then stay even though the child begs the parent to leave. Everyday the child is yelled at constantly and completely lifeless and depressed. The dad was sorta sadistic and did not care of the cries of his daughter. He did not care when she said she wanted to die or run away. He had everyone around him thinking she was just a bad child. He does not leave him, he left her. He waited until all the children were 18, just to finally divorce her. Now the daughter is completely damaged. The mother does not care how much damaged mess the child up. 

I've been with my SO for a year and a half with almost no issues. I thought this would set to last because of consistent marriage talk and a stated plan for getting to the goal. We get along very well and when we disagree he's very good at listening to me and deescalating. I also felt he was the one, and I don't remember getting along with anyone so well. Anyway, I should mention this was a long distance relationship and our plans were squashed with COVID-19 grounding everyone. And yes I had a lot of hesitation because I feel a relationship must be face to face to truly know someone, which was part of our goal. One day we were talking about that - how are we going to plan the uncertain future and what steps should we take to get to our goal of being together and married. Old topics came to the surface and a few things he wants are not within my purview to give, and that we have to find a middle ground, to which I suggested a few options. He wouldn't agree on any, told me it was a deal breaker, and said there's no point in getting married. We wrapped up and agreed to stay in contact. He would call daily, call me "baby," and not act like we're done. He even called himself my husband again and I had to remind him he's not. He said he still loves me. I love him too, but I don't feel the same after what happened. He did this husband thing a few times and after telling him he's confusing me, now he's not calling me anything and won't say he loves me. This is hurtful.

For example:  If a man is 30 and his Wife is 43 and they've been married for 4 months and got married after four months of dating but have known each other for a few years. What's the likely chance it'll end in divorce due to age gap? 

I have been told it is unusual but my ex wife and I are on friendly terms. She has remarried and I try to stay out of her life as much as possible. We did not have any children. However a very unusual problem came up. Her job where she works is being eliminated. This would be a financial disaster for her. The company told her it has openings in other parts of the company if she get some specialized training. The open job that pays the best is Web Page Designer. She priced that training locally and it is very expensive. She ask me if I would give her that training on credit. I told her I would give her that training and I don't charge friends for helping them. There is however another problem. She doesn't her husband to know that her ex husband (me) is giving her the training. She wants me to pretend to be someone else with a different name and give her the training. I am not sure I want to do that. I would like to help her in her time of need but I am afraid this will explode in my face. Any suggestions on how I can get her the help she needs with out causing a problem for ANYONE. Perhaps I give her the training and insist her husband be in every training session to see nothing improper happens. THANKS for your advice.

  I have been separated for 4 years and was just holding on to the marriage to keep my last name for my kids and health benefits. But now I am ready to finally pull the plug because of my new friend. We have been dating for about a year and things have been great. He is very helpful to me and we both have kids from our marriages so we are not looking to have kids with that aspect. We are very much in love and he shows me all the time by cooking for me and doing all of the things I need him to do. He showers me with gifts all the time and we are even set to take our first relationship. However he is still reeling the divorce as he has supervise visitation with his kids after an altercation with his ex-wife. How to pursue this relationship and help him find hope in marriage again

When we are on bed I think of her not as her but as a russian model I has a crush on before falling for her? My girlfriend has a similar face to her but they are completely different in terms of personality, though I made the mistake of changing my innocent and sweet girlfriend into her, asking her to do the same things  she did (of course I never mentioned the model), like insisting on her not being shy on bed but letting me do all the things I wanted. I feel so bad, cause I loved my girlfriend, and I insisted on making her do that because she reminded me of another girl. Am I a bad boyfriend? I miss the first times when she used to blush and cover herself, I feel like I have changed her, though only in intimacy, cause all in all she stayed the same.

Hi I am Robert  My wife told me that she was abused as a child by her parents her mother would hit her slap her kick her and yell at her and her dad would call her ugly and said that nobody would want to be with her. My wife's needs weren't met and it was very lonely for her my wife had one 1 brother and 1 sister. Her mother also told her that she looked like a whore and enjoyed treating her like crap. They would lock her in the shed for 24 hours and if she was luck only 2 hours. When she was 22 she met me and moved in with me and my family and I helped her get out of an abusive family. We got married at age 27 and we are stable we have 7 kids and Gorgeous grandchildren. But my wife still breaks down and still cries about her parents not giving her any love during her childhood some how things will get better than bam she will remember and then get depressed again it wounded her very deep and she isn't ready to move on or heal from it What can I do to help her heal? This isn't a troll this is a serious matter I forgot to mention that my wife was 6 years old when her brother started hitting her and my wife told me she started cutting herself at age 16 she still cries herself to sleep for having an emotional abusive household I have been loving and supportive  Well I have been giving her what her parents never gave her unconditional love for the past 3 decades and I have been her rock throughout all of this whenever she cries i would hold her in her arms and let her cry I would tell her that everything is going to be ok I love my wife unconditionally  Her mother is alive and is living alone in a trailer in Florida a lonely old miserable hag

Hi Was wondering if the courts knew if a parent was in a one bed house with his wife would the courts still allow two boys 11 and 12 to stay over even if they had the bedroom and they slept  downstairs in the living room with no door as the stairs goes straight into the living room is that not classed not suitable accommodation for overnight stay especially when its un certain if the wife has her son the same age living with them  Yes they can share a room but it's still not enough bedrooms and would imagine it a small  place 

If a wife explored everything including dating multiple partners,sex, gifts, cuddling, kissing, touring, etc but the husband is a virgin and will only be having one partner for life and that too a partner who has already explored everything and nothing is new for except the new body in the form of husband, then will the husband always be inferior and loser compared to the wife? Will the wife able to control herself from comparing her inexperienced husband with her experienced exes and will she feel for the husband who will never get anything like she got before