Please don't try and talk me out of this I know plenty of places I can go for that. all I need is advice to help ease my pain. So my problem is I can't decide whether I should send a suicide note to my online friends. My (very little amount) of real-life friends will hear about it but my online friends won't. I don't want them to wonder where I went but I also don't want to hurt them. I was thinking perhaps I could make up a lame excuse but at the same time, I think I owe them the truth. Telling them and thanking them would also help with the guilt as they know I'm not coming back but also how happy they made me. Thank you for answering or at the very least reading and have a good day :)

I feel like this person never genuinely wanted to be my friend. I used to be friends with this person (I'll call them R) and she was a good friend of mine. The person whom I'm wanting to end my friendship with doesn't like  R (as she's told me on multiple occasions). (I'll call her D). D was apart of the same friend group as me and R and she was always overly affectionate with me and I was clueless as to why. I'm pretty sure R noticed as well because after some time of this going on R confessed to me that she was into me and I was unsure of whether I reciprocated her feelings or not. So I reached out to D to ask her for some advice (at the time I thought she was someone I could really rely on). And D said she was probably saying that because she was confusing friendship and genuine interest. I just went with that because I wasn't sure how to comprehend her feelings otherwise. After R had confessed to me, D and her had gotten into what I assumed was a really bad fight because they were trying to make me choose which one I wanted to remain friends with. I don't know what made me choose D, but I did. And now after being friends with her for a little over a year and becoming part of a new friend group, I just feel out of place and unwanted. I keep having thoughts that D just wanted to be my friend to get at R, and the more I think about it the more I believe it. I severely regret my choice but now I feel it's too late to go back and I don't know how to stop being friends with D.

So if your neighbor was being creepy and watched you every time you were outside or riding your bike down the road, would you continue to? He lives on the right side of road. Should I just ride it on the left? 

My best friend and I used to text for hours on end, we haven't been as close this year but for the past month she had been blatantly ignoring my texts. She has been going through a tuff time not liking her college and with anxiety. I've tried contacting her but she doesn't respond, she has changed her username on the site and has liked multiple posts since then. Should I stop trying? Is this a sign that she doesn't want to be friends anymore?   

Have you guys ever had a toxic friend? In one of my previous questions I asked ab a friend of mine who happens to be what some might call toxic, AKA she's mean and doesn't treat me right. (reasons why can be found there.) Have you guys ever known (or do you guys know) a toxic friend/person? And how did/do you deal with it? How far can a toxic friend go until you say "enough!" and end your friendship? And how did other friends who knew the toxic person too react? Please share your opinion ^-^

My now best friend and I was enemies in high school from 1998 to 2001 and we even got into a lot of fights.  We later bumped into each other in 2009 at a store and we became very close after that. Lately he's  been bringing our past up and keep telling me that I hurt him and that he just really wanted to be my friend but his friends at time wanted him to bully me.  I don't  know how to handle this as we both hurt each other.  I love him like a brother and I let him know that everyday.  What should I do? 

So I told my friend my penis size and he told me his. I'm not friends with him anymore because he told this girl I liked. I have to go to the same highschool as him and I'm worried that he might tell more people. I'm scared that everyone will know my size and this one mistake may affect my whole future.

I fell in love with a guy whom I met on dating site. When the government announced lockdown, he cut down his communication with me, pulled away and became distant. When I expressed my concern he gave me attention and expressed his feelings only to become cold again. I broke up with him and he was very upset so after 2 weeks I contacted him again because I wanted him back but he was angry and indifferent so I didn't express my feelings for him. Three weeks forward, we are not communicating with each other. And I miss him and want him every single day. Whereas he has moved on and updated his profile on dating site and is very active most of the time. What should I do? 

I am not trying to sound like a narcissist whatsoever. However, I was kind of the leader of my pack back in high school. I went to a good college, and got to live in NYC. I am smart, funny, attractive. PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT TELL PEOPLE THIS! However, it has occurred to me that I have a lot to be jealous of.  Anyways, I have noticed my friends will leave me out of a lot of group events. And I think I am starting to catch on that they might not want the attention on me. (again please do not attack me for sounding narcissistic). However, I think this truly might be the case. How do I handle this? Just make new friends?  

Friend was telling a story that everyone in the group found funny but i didnt... just wondering if its just me. My friend was walking to the shops when he met a neighbour with his dog. During a nervous akward conversation my friend was petting the neighbours dog. When he asked his neighbour " Does the dog eat biscuits ?" as he had a packet on him. The neighbour told him" No he doesnt get anything " My friend quickly replied "Poor dog he must be starving"

So I talked with my friend last night and she had mentioned how it was somewhat silly of this new trend how people all post a picture on their Instagram completely Black in regards to the Black Lives Matter in solidarity. She was saying how All people follow each other. Well we hang up on the Conversation and end the zoom. Then 5 minutes later, I check my Instagram and I log into my social media and she Ends up doing it herself. I support BLM completely. But I was somewhat mad at her for obviously being a hypocrite completely and bowing down to peer pressure just like that.

Lmao I'm 18 in a week. So apparently hes a pedo? Thats dumb asf. And js , its Ephibophilia not pedophilia, get ur fax straight .

I feel I've lost a good bit of friends that I considered close or even best friends during my college years. I'm 23 now. I feel I am very self-aware, and to be honest, I usually side against myself, thinking I am flawed rather than the person whom I lost being flawed. My very best friends always side with me— but  I feel they are biased BC they're my friends. How do I know what's me and what's the people I've lost? How do I know if I'm just attracting the wrong types of people? Each friend has been lost for a different reason, but looking back I  can't help but think there's something wrong with me. I say that knowing I have a solid  group of very close pals— but that doesn't always comfort me completely. I have a problem with befriending the people who are unseen, and in general  being friends w/ everyone— I've lost a few friends who wanted to be bffs with me but the connection just wasn't there for that  level of friendship. Two friends were lost because I was the only one pouring into the friendship. Another  because I went to college and "changed". Another because I was lonely and forcing a close friendship with someone who I didn't actually connect that well with. I almost feel like I used to be lonely and looked for people to fill that in me but now I feel so much more independent and feel maybe I grew out of these people. But it makes me feel horrible and like something is wrong with me. But free and more sure of the types of friends I do want all at the same time. 

Can anyone please tell me how I can seem nice to people? I hate to look at people so much no matter how much I try, I walk around people to avoid touching them because I believe I'll somehow turn into that person (don't know why I think of this), I'm so awkward when talking to people, I'm only myself at home because that's where no one can judge me, I feel like everyone thinks I'm unpolite or weird but I don't know, and to be honest just overall insecure. I really want people to see me as an genuinely genial person next year when I return to school and since I'll be needing to do volunteer work. Plus, just by reading this you probably can already determine that I have zilch friends, so appearing kind and communicating is probably what the missing ingredient in achieving friendships with my fellow peers.  Any tips on appearing affable will be lovely :)  Please don't criticize on how I act, all I'm asking is on how to appear friendly toward everyone since I'm devoid those characteristics. 

He was with a friend, and they were playing games. And I thought maybe I could join, because he usually doesn't mind. And he and his friend both got up and left me sitting there alone. I didn't even annoy them... or even talk!! I feel like he is hiding something from me, or ashamed of me... :( maybe I'm just ugly and my brother doesn't like me anymore