in my defense he wanted to date me And I said I just want to be friends and now I really miss him as friend.

I have this neighbor who likes to flirt with me. The other day he whistled at me and says he's been watching me ride my bike. He even says I'm attractive and said some dirty stuff to me. Mind you, he has a wife and kids. If you knew he was watching you ride your bicycle and made you feel uncomfortable, would you continue to ride down that street (he lives to the right of me) or would you ride down the left side of street? I am 30 and married. 

She has a lot going on, she told me she needed to be alone about a month ago, she was annoyed when i texted her 3 weeks ago so she avoided me and was unfriendly after that. She talked  to me yesterday, it was brief but friendlier. What should i do now?

I've been having problems with this girl giving me backhand compliments and just being super self centered (we're in the same coed fraternity). We got into an argument (we were both in the wrong) and she accused me of doing something (it was later found out that I didn't do what she accused me of) and threatened to tell the university in hopes of me losing my scholarship. We had to talk to the exec board of our fraternity, and she while I apologized, she refused to admit that she was wrong and refused to apologize. A few months go by, and she's talking to me like we're friends and like nothing happened. I just don't think I can trust her though. 

I've been having problems with this girl giving me backhand compliments and just being super self centered (we're in the same coed fraternity). We got into an argument (we were both in the wrong) and she accused me of doing something (it was later found out that I didn't do what she accused me of) and threatened to tell the university in hopes of me losing my scholarship. We had to talk to the exec board of our fraternity, and she while I apologized, she refused to admit that she was wrong and refused to apologize. A few months go by, and she's talking to me like we're friends and like nothing happened. I just don't think I can trust her though.  I was friends with another girl (in the same frat) and I told her something personal, and she told the girl I mentioned above, and that girl used it against me. I talked to my friend about it, because she knows that the other girl does not like me, and she said that she was just causally talking to her and didn't think that she'll use what I told her against me. I don't know if I should trust her either.

She told me she was going through things and needed space and then she avoided me for a few weeks after i annoyed her over text 2 weeks ago, what should i do

She always say hi and smile at me; initiate friendly conversations; and is nice to me. She likes my FB pictures! She messages me on FB to ask how I am doing sometimes... but she never asked my relationship status!!

Hi Im the spontaneous friends who's down for anything at anytime and never says no when a friend ask me to do literally anything. On the other hand, pretty much all of my friends are the opposite. I'm lonely all the time because nobody ever wants to do anything with me. I'm 18 so I just finished my freshman year in college and ofcourse I didn't have those same feelings since we all lived together. I miss college but with corona virus I'm stuck at home obviously. My best friends are at home but best experiences are in campus! Whenever my friends actually do ask me to do anything here, I want to give them a taste of their own medicine and tell them I'm busy or rain check. I just can't because I love them and they love me and I love spending time with them. But also to add on, they never call me, I call them and they usually never pick up. This might make them seem like terrible friends, they are not but it really hurts me inside. I just want people who want to be around me.. Am I in need of a boyfriend or better friends? Or like what

My best friend is African American. He came over in a fit of absolute RAGE the other night to my house. I understand he's angry and upset by the injustices going on. While at my house he told me there's soon going to be gorilla warfare? He then proceeded to pick up a knife and say all white peoples throats need to be slashed and this is karma to them. I got really scared. My other best friend was there too and told him he had to calm down and leave. I've never seen my best friend act like this. He's normally very laid back and welcoming to everyone. Honestly the fact that he picked up a knife and said that really scared me and I'm not sure I want to associate with someone like that. Does it make me a racist to cut ties with him? We've been friends for close to 10 years. I feel like I need to do more to support him but it REALLY hurt me what he said and did. What should I do? 

For example a kid tried talking to a girl and the girl didn't like it so the kid's parents made him never ever talk to any girls again. Uh just because one girl was like that doesn't mean all girls are. and in school if someone said or did something everyone in the class they're in is blamed and punished.

i'm 18 and she's 21. we've been best friends for 4 years but known each other for maybe 5-6. i'm always analyzing her behaviour and making sure she doesn't hate me or leave me. sometimes if she seems more short with me in a conversation i panic and ask for reassurance. i think about her and text her 24/7 and get upset when she talks to other people or shows signs of interest in someone. i talk to her about everything and i don't hide things from her. i guess i sort of look up to her like a parent. early in our friendship, from my age of around 14-16 i would get really angry and block her if she left me on read because i thought she hated me and was going to leave me. sooo, yeah. i try to hide this part of me but i've done this with most of my best friends since i was a kid. i guess i was wondering if this was normal or not, because most people tell me i can be intense to be around but i wasn't sure since they're my best friend i sort of figured it was normal to obsess over them.

Clubs, bars, house parties etc etc How much do you party ??? I love to party, get messed up with my friends. Making memories. I just wish i had more good times, I missed out on alot.

My best friend of 10+ years changed. It all started when she asked to take my student loan of 2k for something she needed. She promised to give it back to me even though, she owes her mom ten grand or more actually. She then asked if she could live with me in my living room with her dog that shits and barfs on the carpet. I am 20 and She is 21. The thing that really shocked me was when she asked to marry me. She told me that if I married her that she could keep her dog and we would get to have the benefits. I was not going to marry her for the wrong reasons. I think she's got some psychological issues. She has had a personality change. I can't understand how or why. She lies about everything all the time damn time. She only cares for her self. She uses people. She had tried to use me on different occasions for whatever she saw fit. How does this happen? I've wondered if she was on drugs or if her mental health is not okay at all. Why does she feel it's right to treat people like ****? Please help. I told her I will not marry her just so she can keep her dog. It's a crazy solution to a small issue. I want to help her and I don't know how. I told her I am on a friendship break with her. I think I need to cut ties with her for good. By benefits I meant she wants to get married because she is enlisting in the Army.  She was going to use me by marrying me so she can keep her dog in a close-by apartment and get out of living in the barracks. 

My best friend of 10+ years changed. It all started when she asked to take my student loan of 2k for something she needed. She promised to give it back to me even though, she owes her mom ten grand or more actually. She then asked if she could live with me in my living room with her dog that shits and barfs on the carpet. I am 20 and She is 21. The thing that really shocked me was when she asked to marry me. She told me that if I married her that she could keep her dog and we would get to have the benefits. I was not going to marry her for the wrong reasons. I think she's got some psychological issues. She has had a personality change. I can't understand how or why. She lies about everything all the time damn time. She only cares for her self. She uses people. She had tried to use me on different occasions for whatever she saw fit. How does this happen? I've wondered if she was on drugs or if her mental health is not okay at all. Why does she feel it's right to treat people like ****? Please help. I told her I will not marry her just so she can keep her dog. It's a crazy solution to a small issue. I want to help her and I don't know how. I told her I am on a friendship break with her. I think I need to cut ties with her for good.

Everybody gets like they like but me! why?

the other day i was at my boyfriends party with my friend. we both talked to these girls. we all got along and had good laughs. when we left they all hugged my friend goodbye and were like "awww you're so sweet" "you're so cute" "what's your snapchat?" to just my friend and like im not trying to be jealous she is a sweet girl and im glad they liked her but they did even say goodbye to me they acted like i didn't exist i just stood there awkwardly and one girl was like "oh yeah.. youre really pretty." and that was it. i just feel like things are always like that. im never the girl who other girls want to be friends with its always just like "youre pretty" like honestly i dont have many friends at all and i cant help but feel like im the issue. like maybe i come across as standoffish. or maybe im just annoying lol it sounds dumb but thats how i feel. so does anyone know what it could be? or how i can make friends?

I have a best friend I trust her and she never really did anything shady. But my best friend brags on how she is the most real female and she never will betray nobody. And she also brags on how she is jealous of nobody and give props when due. But lately she does things to not make me think she's not that good of a friend. She's never used to attention every time a elderly nice person  or a hot guy talks to me she sorta butts in and talk to them while cutting me off and gets very loud and wants all the attention on her. One time a lady was talking to me everything I was saying my friend was repeating after every thing I already said it's quite annoying it's like she copies me. She hates when I get attention if I do she tries to do everything for I won't get attention like talking to me loudly for everybody can turn to her. If she gets the attention she then starts bragging saying things to me like omg you seen that hot guy trying to talk to me or omg all the guys our head over heels for me Or she says things like I gotta be pretty if everybody is acting like this over me. I get annoyed because half of the time people rarely pay her attention. Another time she keeps repeating the same old stories of how her ex boyfriend gave her so much love and how she was so lucky. and she is Very delusional  she think every guy likes her or is stalking her A man one time ask her a simple question she takes things like omg he was totally flirting with me when he wasn't. Help ?  Everything with her is getting attention she wears things to be seen talk loudly to be seen. But she hates when I get seen she then starts to act like she doesn't see me getting attention which I don't care but when she gets it she wants you to know and brags about it and rub it in your face. I'm cool and laid back and get told I'm very beautiful so I get attention by just being myself. She have to dress sexually to get attention And all she says is She's the baddest and everybody likes her 

I feel like my best friend doesn't respect my time, and we're always doing things based on her convenience. I can ask her to hangout and she'll respond two hours later, or she'll say yes whenever it suits her schedule. It feels as if I'm always waiting, and waiting on her. And it's not like she's super busy with important things. I'm growing more tired of this, and if I say something she will likely get upset and angry.  What can I do? How can I bring this up in the most polite way?

Last summer I started visiting a church in my area and met a blind guy there. Apart from Sunday services I and some of the church members were having house fellowships. One time the host asked me if I could take along the blind guy to the house fellowship since I have a car and we live a few minutes apart. Of course I wanted to help and it was no big deal for me especially since I've already were giving a ride to two other people from my neighborhood. So this is how our 'friendship' started. I would take him along to Church events, occasionally, like once in a few weeks, he asked me a ride to a shop or to a hospital which seemed pretty reasonable. In autumn he got accepted into university in another town where he had to study for 2 days every weekend. I wanted to help so I offered to take him to the bus station and pick him up when he returned from his studies (probably a huge mistake). So now for the past few months he basically asks me to give him rides 2-3 times a week, and it really starts to irritate me and interfere with my life. I'm a freelancer so my schedule is kind of flexible, but I'm still not happy to work past midnight when I give him these rides that can take up from 3 to 5 hours of my time.