I am currently homeless and my Son dad has a home for him to be but my daughter dad is no longer in the picture and he has no family to help me nor do I have family 

My uncle (my mother's twin brother) died the same year I was born. My grandfather (again, on my mother's side) didn't even try to get into contact with any of us or even his children. I don't know why but never having known them leaves me with a strange sense of emptiness. I have family that I never really got the chance to know. Is that wrong? Or is it natural to feel that way?

My 19 year old daughter graduated high school a year ago. She and I left our home state and moved across the country a couple of months after graduation. Since then, she has hardly left her room and that is not an exaggeration. She started taking classes at the local community college in January but quit after two weeks saying it wasn't what she wanted to do. She doesn't drive and hasn't bothered to look for a job in months. The only interviews she went on prior to COVID were ones I had set up for her. She literally sits around playing video games all day or messing around on her phone. I just asked her to take out the trash and was told, "I'm busy." Yeah...busy playing on her phone! She won't do anything around the house -- dishes, laundry, even vacuuming -- unless I remove the cable to her TV first and then hold it hostage. Meanwhile, I have a full time job that I have been able to do from home, plus I just picked up a job as a cashier at a grocery store and ANOTHER job working in a gift shop for the summer (my full time job lets out in the summer). I'm busting my butt doing everything around the house AND working and she does nothing. I'm afraid that if I kick her out, she'll end up on drugs or something else that's really bad and I don't want that to happen to her...but I'm at the end of my rope. Help!

My mom asked my sister and I if we wanted to help her make some brownies. I said yes and then I asked my sister if she was and she responded with, "I said fine!" My mom got upset and was like "Since you girls are so BUSY, then you don't have to help me; I'll do it myself." She was angry after that. Reason why I asked my sister if she would help also is because I'm the one that helps my mom cook but she doesn't really help. Like if she has the time, she won't say she can help. Normally my mom is satisfied if just one of us helps. It's just frustrating. And is my mom in the right or not? She asked us if we can help and then gets upset if we don't, so it's like why bother asking when the response that you want is "yes". I just want other opinions if what is right in this situation.

My father is 6'0 and my mother is 5'8. Both of my grandfathers were 6'0 or above. Both my grandmothers were 5'8"-5'9". I haven't really grown since 15.  Edit: My bones are not big, I think I have slow bone maturation.

Because I do not trust my brother-in-law and I think he is cheating on my sister because he is nervous when he is at home and he is on his cell phone and sometimes he makes excuses to leave

Because I do not trust my brother-in-law and I think he is cheating on my sister because he is nervous when he is at home and he is on his cell phone and sometimes he makes excuses to leave

their messing up the country

My 44 y/o mom has always been a filthy person and everything she owns somehow ends up Smelly/ruined and covered in a buildup of dirt even her steering wheel. My dad and I are neat freaks so we always cleaned the home/cars. For a long time she would blame the kids but now we're adults. Their marriage was over as soon as the youngest went to college 3 years ago. When we visit we usually stay w/my dad and I felt sorry for my mom so I'm staying with her until I find a new place. I Deep cleaned her house and organized everything. It was FILTHY/moldy and gross. I don't think she's ever cleaned her home. Shortly after I clean she messes everything up and for awhile I just cleaned up behind her but after seeing her literally throw trash onto the floor I lost it! I told her to start cleaning up after herself to avoid buildups And to use the freaking trash bin but she  doesn't listen it's frustrating. I decided to not clean after her just to see If she'd do it and for 1 week the house was disgusting! I finally cleaned everything bc ants were everywhere. I'm not sure where she picked up such bad habits bc my grandma is a VERY neat/clean person & most of our family is. How can I get her to see how important it is to be clean? I'm losing hope but I hate to see my own mom living in filth like that. 

Hi i was just wondering how do i go about obtaining an older Autopsy Report the Report is for my Father who passed away 13 years ago & when he died i was still pretty young at 13 years old & my Mother never really gave me the full details of how exactly my Father died because she was trying to be selective in what exactly she told me details wise especially since i was the first one to find to find my dad deceased & it wasn't a pretty sight he was dark purple & blue & cold & stiff to the touch & i was awake the entire night that he died! i was playing video games & watching DVD's all in the same living room my dad was on the couch bed dying a few feet away from me it just looked like he was sleeping heavily as he did pretty often & i felt totally responsible & completely blamed myself & feel extremely guilty & still do to this very day! & my mom always tried to ensure me that it wasn't my fault & my father just couldn't have been saved even if a good doctor was at his bedside knowing the exact moment when he was about to die! & i always brushed it off as she's my mother of course she's going to say that sorta thing to me! & she even had a detective who was handling my father's death call me & tell me it wasn't your fault! but still i blame me!, myself!, & i, but anyways i wanted to obtain an autopsy report of my father so once & for all i can see exactly how he died & what kinda condition he was in health wise at the time of his death!... PS i'm from New Jersey so you know!.. Yes my mother is also deceased & she did at one time have my fathers original autopsy report & death certificate but both were lost along with various other things about 2-yrs after my dad died because it was all lost during me & my mom moving out of our old house & i know initially it was shortly briefly ruled inconclusive but after further testing apparently the cause of death was determined cause i remember my mom giving the life insurance check to the funeral director who did my dads service

Like an amazing police officer.....an amazing person.......

Just curious because my parents never loved me. My father was physically abusive and my mother happily let him do it. They cut ties with me when I tried to sue them. At least I found out the truth--that they didn't love me. And yet there's this whole family love concept, parents lovign their children more than anything concept going on out there in the world...which I never got a taste of. So I just wondered how many parents truely love their children.

She is needing a place to stay for a while during this COVID and unemployed status she is in.  She does not have a place to live, so we are taking her in.  Unsure how long she is staying.  I know she is family and thats what families are supposed to do.  Past history, she has been pretty verbally nasty to me and other people in the family.  She only gets nasty when nobody else is around.  She has lived on her own (unmarried ...ever) for over 60 years and has never had to co-habit with anyone. So here we are.  I feel that our lives will come to a screeching halt from the point when she gets in, until the time that she leaves.  She is all about herself.  Drama queen with a wicked tongue.  While I really do want to make this work because at the end of the day she is family, just how much should i have to bow down to her and take her crap?  Past history I guess should be forgotten and treat a new day as a new beginning, but for the life of me, to do this is going to be quite difficult. I am a remote employee who works 40 hours at home.. so I fear that I am not going to be as productive as past. I am a simple person, who does not do well with self induced drama situations, which is her 100 percent.  She cannot drive, has no license, no money but has expensive tastes. I have been working really hard to get the house clean and ready for our guest, but honestly it wont be good enough.  How am I supposed to deal with this indefinately? I I think its my husbands responsibility to set the ground/house rules but he has failed to do that upon agreeing to her coming.  Am I wrong that house rules and expectations should have been discussed early on?  Such as .. be RESPECTFUL to my WIFE and anyone else that comes by?

Not too long ago I had come to the conclusion that my mother despite claiming me as a child only did it for the money because as soon as child support was over or her she wanted me gone.  I currently live with my dad and step mom and who I had moved too for the first time before turning 18 because of other troubles with my mom. Which I then moved back to 2 years later to because of a disagreement had with my step mom. After 2 more years of working a full-time job and being kicked out from my mom's because I didn't get a loan for her that later figured out she probably didn't need. With having that job and studying from business people on how to at least budget money I was able to save a decent amount. My dad has recently wanted to start his own business with a coworker for the first time and wanted to borrow what I saved up while saying "Since I helped you now you can help me back this way." My step mom shot it down when she heard about it.  I am 22 years old now. Never really had any close friends or other family. Still have had and still have the feeling that my parents don't care about me as a person as much. Does it seem that I'm thinking about something(s) wrongs? What do you think? (I am female by the way.) Your answers are appreciated and thank you for your time. c:

I transferred to a university after spending my first 2 years of college living at home and going to a community college. Of course when I got away from home I accepted invitations to go to parties. It was my first real opportunity to go out and do things on my own. I didn't have my first drink until I was 20 and I was honest with my parents about it. My dad would ask if I had been out to a party yet and drank and I told him the truth. He would joke with me about it because he already expected it and wasn't going to lecture me because I was an adult. After awhile it all changed though. I wasn't crazy when it came to going out. I would only do it if it was a weekend and I had all my school work done. He started treating me like some party animal though. I got my car washed and had a scent stick in it. He asked me what the smell was and when I told him it was from when I got my car washed he asked if I was trying to hide the smell of dope, as if I had been smoking. On my day off from work, I slept in and he called me. I missed the call because I was sleeping and when I called him back he asked if I was hungover. Every chance he gets, he assumes I'm partying and being crazy.  It's frustrating because I'm usually working my *** off either at work or school. I don't know how to get his mind off of that; he's stuck on it. I get being worried about your kid, but damn. I was a goodie two shoes all the way through high school. He has no reason to believe I would be acting out now.

I like to drink on occasion. My parents judge anyone that does. I understand not wanting certain things in their house, but even when I'm out on my own and paying my own bills they seem to be very judgmental if I go out with my friends and do any kind of drinking. I'm 23 and very careful when I go out and do anything; they know that I'm very responsible. I tried to be open and honest with them about if I drank with friends, but they'd make a big deal out of it even if I was doing it from my home and barely drank anything.  Now I feel like I have to keep that kind of stuff from them. It just seems to cause problems. I want to be open with them about all parts of my life, but it seems like I have to keep things like that to myself to avoid drama and arguments. I understand their protectiveness over me, but it really sucks being treated like an irresponsible child, when I haven't given them any reason to think I'm being dangerous. To make it worse, my dad is on a whole spiel about how he feels I'm not being open with them, but what does he expect? Of course I'm going to pull away a little when I feel like I'm being judged for being a normal 20 something year old. I'm not even being a crazy party animal like he thinks. I'm literally just going over to a friend's for a poker night and having a couple drinks. Or inviting people over for dinner and having a couple drinks. Nothing even extreme. How should I handle this?

I can't sleep and I'm looking for suggestions

Me and my brother overslept one morning as we realized our mother didn't take us to school. I was wondering because we had state testing and our mom was really urgent about that. So me and my brother got up and walked to the room. We saw our mom laying there still. Teary eyed, still and unconscious. I was a bit scared and called her name. Then I went up and laid my head on her chest to hear a pulse and I didn't hear anything. Her body was so cold and stiff and I heard my brother scream and cry because he saw a syringe in her other hand. It was then we realized my mother had passed away. She was 33, we were 11 and 10. We didn't want to believe it and I lost my mind. I was screaming and hollering. That was the scariest day of my life and not a day goes by that I don't think about it. How traumatic is this? What would you do if this were to happen with you?

My friend just gave me 4 of them 2 black, 1 brown, 1 white and said theyre all adults. because she was tired of taking care of them. They didnt even come with a cage, just a large long plastic box. I woke up like half and hour ago to them screaming and scratching. Now one of them has a really bloody ear. I took the hurt one out and put him in a laundry basket in my closet. I left lots of watermelon and broccoli in the cage so i dont understand. Two of them have marks on their belly. One has inflatided genitals and the one female im not sure if shes pregnant because shes the smallest and always gets bullied out of food but ive seen them raping eachother before and my little brother was laughing. I just smacked him in the side of the head. One has no discernible genitalia so i guess he can be female too or just young. They bute my little brother when he picks them up. They also have really long nails. What can i cut them with? 

my moms boyfriends kids are visiting (they hang out regularly) and both adults told me and my little sister (and one of the kids) to stay in my room so Boy (he's the only male so) is the only one out in the living room. Well, something is wrong. I don't know what. We have a few snippets but nothing big. For some reason LS (little sister) thinks it's something with worms. All i've heard is that for sure my mom told us "Make sure to wash your hands after you use the bathroom, and before you eat. Wash them extra good every time." They're having a private talk now and i'm worried- what could it be? if dinner matters it was chicken and dumplings, i can give any extra information needed

So I'm at a point in my life that I have to do something. I didn't go to college after high school and I'll be 25 in August this year. I've been focusing on music as I play guitar and sing and play in a band and work normal hourly jobs. I feel this is no longer sufficient for me and I want to make sure I have a good future in which I can support myself and have a family and buy a house someday. My parents have offered to let me live with them and go to school for two years to work in the same field as my dad. If I do this I will be leaving behind everything and everyone I know and moving over a thousand miles away. That is what is making this hard. I don't want to leave behind all of my friends and my music family, but I know I can't just rely on music to support myself, especially in this day in age. I know I have to go to school to get a good paying job. I'm just more looking for advice for this because I'm struggling with this. Thank you in advance. 

I overheard my mom on the phone talking to a close friend. She was talking about my dad. She married a man and had my brother and sister. Their dad died of cancer when my brother was 3 months old. She married my dad and I came along. She told her friend that she never actually loved my dad and just married him to give my siblings a dad. I want to talk to her about it but am scared that she'll be mad and think I eavesdropping.(Which I hadn't, I could hear her clearly just by sitting on the couch.) Should I ask her about it, and if so how should I approach her?

I can hear them laughing all the time. But they never invite me. How should I tell them that?

How long can we live like this without having proper human interaction. My kids are upset they cannot go play in the playground 

I'm a senior in college but due to the pandemic had to move back home. My parents also decided to move to a new house (3 bedrooms on the first floor with one bathroom) and the basement that has two huge rooms and a bathroom. I technically called dibs on the basement bedroom because I need my own bathroom because my parents are messy and I don't want to share a bathroom with them. All the sudden my brother and I got in a fight because he wants the basement bedroom now. He is messy and in highschool and forsure will trash the place.  I know I won't live there for long because I graduate soon but I wanna live comfortably while I can.  What should I do? What are pros and cons of the situation? Thank you in advance for everyone's answers :) I won't be moving back to college because classes will be online. So I will have to live here for a year or two until I save up to move out

today my dad approached me and asked if I could talk to my 9 year old sister about a search he found on her iPod for 'imiges of cex'. When he brought it up to her she strongly denied that is was her, and blamed it on her friend who she'd let use the iPod. He looked at the search time and it was from after she's hung out with any friends though... he asked me to talk to her about it and I'm trying to figure out what to say. Curiosity about sex is natural, but it's worrying that think of her going down that rabbit hole on the internet.