One of my good friends is getting married, for the second time. He's in his 50s and has been living with his soon-to-be wife already for a few years, in a perfectly fine house that they plan to stay in. What should I get them for a wedding gift? I'm in the wedding, as a groomsman. They don't drink. Thanks.

How rude is it if I tell her in a text message? It's really hard to get a hold of her she never answers her phone. Our schedules are very opposite so trying to find time to tell her in person is impossible. I hate confrontation but I know this is the right thing to do for the wedding and I know it will ruin our friendship. She said some pretty nasty things about my fiancé and our relationship. There's a lot more to the story as to why I want to ask her to step down.

I was sending thank you notes for my wedding gifts and there is a minor problem. A very expensive wedding gift was from my ex husband. We remained friends after our divorce but I never expected such a nice gift. My current husband REALLY enjoys this gift. My ex husband probably knew my current husband would not want us to get a wedding gift from him so he used a fake name on the gift card. It was a name that only I would know who the gift was really from. My husband is delighted with the gift. He shows it to everyone that comes by our house. He is very proud of it. Should I tell him it is really from my ex husband. I am happy with the gift, my husband is very happy with the gift. Is there any reason I should tell him if he does not ask it is from my ex and cause a problem. Do you think it would be a problem if I told my husband the gift is from my ex? Isn't this something that is better left unsaid?