My mom is projecting onto me and trying to live through me cause she never had a wedding (her and my dads' parents were poor and couldn't afford a wedding) and has always wished she would have had one ... but I don't want one so I think she feels like it's a slap in the face? I don't know. She was saying "people regret not having a wedding" but I know I wouldn't regret it cause that's not what I want. But she wants me to get married in a church and I'm not even religious at all ... barf. I'm single and won't get married for probably like 10 years or more, so I guess I don't really need to worry about it but it just came up the other night and I feel bad cause I have zero desire to have a wedding. It's just not me.

Idk if I should go to police. He is a very powerful man. What would you do?

Divorces his wife because he has to be true to himself and leaves the wife of 35 years high and dry. And ohhh by the way kids........... you're all grown up and I expect all of you to accept me for my "orientation" Two of them totally reject the dad and he's "miffed" because they don't want to talk to him anymore.......gee I wonder why. The other one, the youngest hasn't see either parent for a couple of years.

Does anyone have a story were cheating saved your life? Or if you didn't cheat you would be upset l to this day? You hear all the bad stories when it comes to cheating is there any good one? YouTube, books , ect.

Some women and some men just seem to "get it" when it comes to being good people and being good partners and being in relationships and valuing others and making others feel loved. Some women love to groom their men, cook for their men, take care of their men, and make their man feel loved. And the men they are with make them feel loved, and taken care of, and appreciated as well. And then there are other people who are bitter, hateful, scream at their boyfriends, make them feel like crap, mistreat them, don't know how to love, or be loved. And same for some men, they abuse their girlfriends, treat them poorly, don't love them, etc etc.

I can't find a man that wants to commitment. . afraid I'm going to have to give up on men at 31.

If so you should tell her that

I'll start off by saying that my husband and I are married and we have a 1 year old little girl who we love to pieces.We're both 22. We always wanted to get married and have children later on..but she was unplanned.His family is catholic so they strongly believe in marriage before children,but that didnt happen lol.We ended up getting married when she was 4 months old.I love him very much and I know he loves us too.But there are a lot of issues I'm dealing with,we do both work full time off the record. When she was first born he would be more helpful with our daughter and we'd take turns.But for months now the whole both taking care of her has gone out the window.He sleeps in until at the latest 2 sometimes.Everyday its at least until noon or 12:30.While I take care of her.By the time he's awake she's having her nap.Then he'll leave to go on a walk or stay at home and play a game.Doesn't help with any of the chores.I have talked to him so many times about needing more help with our daughter and the chores.He always says he does help and if I need help to tell him what I need done.But he either says oh I'll get to it or is too busy. He doesnt bond with our daughter really and doesnt take care of her really, if she cries he says 'just give her a sec'So then I have to help her every time while he sleeps.There are so many things that are driving me crazy but he makes me feel as though I'm wrong or that its insignificant and try's to say he does do a lot

I teach a computer class. One of my students Betty ask me if I could drive her home after class. I said sure. As I drove up to her house. You could not call it a house. Mansion was a better description. I remarked "What a beautiful home you have". She said "I got it in my divorce when I caught my husband screwing his secretary". I like a woman that tells it like it is don't you? She insisted I come in for a cup of coffee and cake as her way of saying thank you. While talking and drinking the coffee I saw a picture of her on the wall being crowned Miss (our state). I told her what a beautiful picture and a well deserved honor. Then she showed me some pictures of other beauty contest she had won. I would sure like to see the secretary he lost a trophy wife for. She must be something else. Why would a guy with a wife that is this great looking and is such a nice person be caught screwing his secretary. He was not thinking with his head was he? He was probably thinking with another part of his body wasn't he?

Can you forgive and forget?

I been married to this woman a little over two years. She has two children a 8 year old boy and a 3 year older from her previous marriage. The 8 year old lives with his dad during the week to stay in the school system hes in. Wjat bothers me is that she had to go over there eve ru day to take care of him. Things like do homework, bring him food, make sure he takes a bath and his medicine, waits there with him after school until the childs father gets off work. The biological father basically just pays the rent and the Bill's at his place. Taking care of his son is all on my wife. I'm like if it's gonna be like that he should move in with us. It just bothers me shes over there everyday. When he walks in the door from work he sees her. While when I come home I gotta wait til she backs from there .

Buy stole her from her husband I mean he manipulated her into an affair. Is he guilty of adultery also even though he was divorced at the time?

She has lived with me for 3 years, we ve got two kids together, and we don t associate with her mom at all because she was abusive, a thief, and uses meth. Someone (the same person) keeps calling my cell from different numbers looking for her parents or guardian, but will not tell me any details. If she answers, they won t tell her anything either. They don t ask for a number to reach her mom at or anything. Should we be worried that her mom is trying to do something?

I basically have mental health issues (even attempted suicide a bunch of times) but I'm better now. When I do get married someday, I of course wouldn't want my partner to find out. I'm still taking medication but I'm planning to stop them if I do get married.

5 months ago to spice our marriage up I had another man sleep with my wife in front of me . I thought it was fun and all but never to do it again: since then she has slept with 14 men (I know of) and sent me videos of it even though I am angry she keeps doing it. Last week she said she was busy working then walked through the door 5 hours later and showed me a 40 minute video of her getting railed while my children laugh at me. Is this is a phase or should I divorce her she is 31.

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years and as far as I knew she's never been interested in women or threesome because I asked her about it in the beginning before we married and I asked her again 3 years ago she said no sweetheart I'm sorry I'm not. Now this.

I'm paying almost $300 a month for electricity . I live in a small 2 bedroom apartment. In public housing. There's only me and my 3 year old. We use the air condition it's never under 75 and it turns off automatically once it reaches that temp. We use a 2 TV's ,2 Roku devices, and Xbox , a box fan , the fridge , barely use the lights and our stove is gas.

not clubbing or house parties. For people in the 30s who is still single and get to meet other single people.

And my family is middle class at best. Would you say this could be a problem? She might expect a certain lifestyle that I cannot provide. I'm talking long terme. If we get married. I can make a good living as an engineer, but that's nowhere near what her father makes. She's aware of my situation. I don't think she expects millions to fall on me from the sky.

My fiancé and I are going tomorrow to get our marriage license. I read online that we only need one form of ID which i have on me. The website said we must present a social security number if we have one. Do i just need to know the number (which I do) or do I need to bring in my social security card? My fiancé is confused too.

She no longer says "I love you", but has always been shaky about saying it (she was previously married for 3 years to a guy where she was in a relationship for 6 years). We still go out twice a week and have incredible sex. We no longer talk about marriage, kids and moving in together... but she texts me constantly. We've only been dating for 2 months.

My wife's birthday is coming up. She doesn't anyone to do anything or even wish her a happy birthday. She says it's the "same s*** every year," and she doesn't need any reminders. She wanted to take some vacation time to avoid any at work celebrations, but her boss has a legal meeting to attend on behalf of the company. Personally I find it very weird. I know she will blame me saying I didn't plan anything (which I've done before) and regret her decision later. Our church brings everyone up to the front on their birthday and the choir sings to them, which she hates being in front of people. Why she never went to law school. It seems she'd rather spend the time and funds on doing something special for the kids birthdays (next month). I don't know. We don't have it in budget for her to go a spa for the day, which is what she really needs...a good massage with a bit of pampering. I don't force her to do anything if she doesn't want to, but this is really confusing...

it's like things are going backwards in my organs . i don't have access to a wife .

my sister married and everyone mocks me instead .

Hi everyone My sister-in-law is getting married in two months and her bachelorette in on the way. The problem is that it is so expensive! My husband and I are giving them a good amount of money for their wedding but her bachelorette is four days long, I'd have to stay off work, fly there and fly back. The whole ordeal is costing more than my husband and I pay on our bond every month! And my husband is going away for the bachelor party, which doubles our cost. On top of that, we're going to Switzerland in December and planned for that financially. The girls are big drinkers and also force me to drink. I am wildly introverted and cringe at the thought of staying over with a bunch of girls I don't relate to. The girls are very materialistic and wild. I am quite annoyed because this money could be going to the work I have to put into my new company. But my sister-in-law was very supportive when I got married. Granted I did not ask for half as much and considered everyone. What should I do???

Suppose that my company gave me a really great job opportunity in Brazil or Thailand. It comes with a promotion and a raise. This opportunity comes once and if i miss it someone else will take it in the blink of an eye. My wife is against it. She works as a teacher and doesn't want to leave her job and family. Now if I get this job, she wouldn't need to work anymore. I will take care of everything. This job is only for 4- 5 years. Not forever. She will miss her family a little, but she will see them soon enough. Is this not reasonable? I won't be seeing my family either and I'm not complaining.

I'm asking what can make it worse like rough sex maybe? And what gets worse? The legions do more show or do they just get longer? In my wife's case they seem to be long enough to intertwine I'm scared that if they get "worse" and form more eventually it'll cover her whole vagina.

Here I go. My great great great grandfather and her great great great grandfather were cousins through the maternal line. Making her my 5th cousin. I had to go through some internet genealogy sites to find out. Even some books. I told her and she thinks "it's no big deal". We have a common ancestor 200 years ago. You tell me If it's a big deal or not. I don't feel very comfortable sleeping with a cousin.