It's like they think that if someone is conventionally attractive, then they aren't beautiful on the inside. They think it's either one or the other. "I don't date good looking people because they aren't beautiful on the inside". It's hilarious to listen to their reasoning. There's plenty of amazing people who are beautiful on the outside AND the inside. But people act like it's impossible for someone good looking to be a good person too and it's always ugly and fat people who say "it matters more what's on the inside". Guess what, most people are decent people on the inside and genuinely care about others. It's not some rare thing that only unattractive people have

I've been at college for about a month now, and I've somewhat struggled socially. My roommates and I are friendly but I wouldn't hang out with them. I've met a couple of kids that I hang out with every weekend but that's about it. I've met so many kids but I end up just getting their Snapchats and we don't end up connecting again. I've involved myself pretty well, I went on one hike through my hall, and on another through the hiking club. I went to all of the welcome week events and I've gone to club meetings. I enjoyed the hiking club but none of the kids were really my type. I guess I'm just worried that I'm never going to find a group of friends. I'm hoping that when ski season starts that I will meet a ton of people in the ski club. I'm also trying to find some kids that like to watch football, but it's kinda hard to just force that. I guess I'm just wondering how normal this is. Is there anything more I can do to try and find my group of people? Should I just stick with my two friends for now and let my group of friends form naturally? How worried should I be?

can someone be my friend

My parents have been noticing me coming home crying and are getting angered at the fact that i wont tell them why. how do i tell them that its because i found out my online friend killed himself? leaving them in the dark makes me even more stressed.

Every morning before school she always argue with me for no reason. I told her to stop doing this but she doesn't listen. She keeps saying that I have no friends and that no one comes over to my house. That because she doesn't let nobody to come over and she doesn't me go outside. This one kinda hurts me because I have a best friend named Aundrea and few friends at school. I nearly cried. What can I do to make her stop? I don't want to sound like a spoiled brat or anything. Btw I'm 16.

Back in my elementary, I once had a crush on her. I never seen someone like her before (I was raised in a black neighborhood that hates white people). But then in Middle school, things drop me like a ton of bricks. She went from this happy go to girl to some gothic freak. Whenever we meet, she is always giving me this glare. A kind of annoyed want to kill me look. Throughout my middle and high school, we became bitter enemies somehow. Always on a daily basis, she would always give me that look (And I would internally scream "What!?"). If anything, she seems annoyed by my very existence. Then Senior year came, we both had art class together. There we got to know each other better. She even helped me lift this mannequin. Then she moved to another high school. When I created my facebook account, I see her in my suggestion list. She was extremely active with her account, so I added her to be my friend. She didn't accept the invite, leading me to believe that she still treats me the way she did back in my middle school days.  How do I deal with a person who STILL shows you no respect and hates your very existence?

I've seen this happening a lot among guys but rarely in women. Guys get into a fist fight. Sometimes one is beaten and they're friends afterwards. My own brother beat the stuff out of his former bully on Dec. 2018. Both guys are now HS seniors and their friendship got stronger since. To my impression, the guy himself said the beating was deserved. He didn't even seem mad at my brother. In contrast, when girls get into a catfight or punch each other...a close friendship doesn't happen too much.

My company is being taken over by another company and they notified us that our department was being eliminated. This will put 11 women out of work. The new company offered us a new position with higher pay if we complete a training course. They found an employee, Bob to give us this training at no cost to us. We take 4 hours of training each Saturday morning. Bob is 25, single and a great guy to give us his time to train us. He is not getting paid to do this training. All 11 of us have called him after work or after class to ask for help and he is always available to help us when we need help. We all thought the least we could do to repay his kindness was to take him to lunch after class. When I told my husband about this he had a fit. He said he did not want his wife taking a single guy to lunch. When I pointed out to him that there would be 10 other women at the lunch AND he could come if he wanted to it did not solve his problem. Gals, what do you think. Is my husband being unreasonable? All of the other women's husbands don't have a problem with this. In fact they are grateful to Bob for saving our jobs. I will really look ungrateful for all of Bob's help if I don't go. What should I do?

I want to start my life over startung with cutting people out of my life and distant myself. My friend and i friends for about 10 years and i recently think about our friendship and overall i feel that i am being used for money. She has a job at the hospital as a CNA and shes pregnant snd has a boyfriend. I feel that my friendship is based on money and nothing else. I always help her out when shes in need but now im starting to get annoyed because of her asking me for money constantly after telling her my financial situation. I don't mind helping out but at the same time it would be nice to be paid back. First she'll start off with the drama in her life and then ask me for money. She lives in hampton but works 40 minutes away and i was like how does that make sense why working far away when you know you can't afford gas, etc. She only text me when shes in need for something. Im a very nice person but im sick of feeling like im being taking advantage of. And that's what i want to vow myself when starting over with my life is to not get used and taking advantage of ever again. How can i end my friendship without being mean? 

best friend wants to sell pills (drugs) to locals and close friends he knows and keep it very low key (he doesn't take them). he told me and i said it was a bad idea but he says he will be careful and just wants some money and will do it slowly and carefully. he also says because they're pills they're hard to find and he has a friend who will sell him the powder for half the price and then he will put in in capsules and sell it for double what his friend sold it for. can anyone think of convincing reasons why even if it's low key it could be a really bad idea?

At this place (picture shown) you have the chance to go through 30 or more courses in the trees. Some are easy and some are hard. This place has been her for a long time and is extremely safe. There has never been an incident of injury. Also when i ask her out, should i not tell her im taking her to this place and let it be a surprise or should i tell her exactly what it is and show her a picture of the place? I was going show her a picture and ask her if she would do something like this. If she says yea then say "lets go do it together sometime".

I mean I live there and I feel like anyone who interacts with me has a motive or they're just acquaintances. There are no true friends, that's how I feel anyway. And the boys are the same. They just want to use the girls whether it's for sex or for studying. I just feel so lonely. I'm thinking of moving back home. My mom loves me. I mean I cuddled with two guys because I'm lonely and then quickly realized they only wanted sex. If being an adult is this lonely, I would rather be a child forever. This 'independence' thing makes me so lonely

I've posted this question a few times before. I have this friend who used to talk to me a lot, but now she talks to me a lot less. The weird thing to me is that she still talks to me in a way like we're close. For example, one time I unfriended her on social media and she got mad. She sometimes sends me random texts and she talks to me the same way she used to. It's just strange to me. I was going to say something like this: "Did I do something wrong? Are you ok? You used to talk to me pretty much everyday. Now I talk to you probably once every three months or less." To me it just doesn't make any sense. Why would someone randomly start talking to someone a lot less? One thing I've noticed is that her other old friends say the same thing about her too.

Hey my name is Jason, and today i began working in a new department at work. As soon as i arrived i saw this girl Joanne, we both made eye contact at the same time and i got goosebumps. It was a weird feeling and its a feeling ive never felt before, and now i cant stop thinking about her. Thought the rest if the day we kept looking at eschother, she even looked nervous........what is happening??????? I think she has a boyfriend

5th grade daughter has a really needy friend She follows her everywhere, face times and messages her constantly afterschool and gets upset if she chooses other friends. She is now dressing like my daughter, into the same books, interests, foods as my daughter.q Her birthday is coming up and she doesn t want to invite needy friend because of the drama she causes, but she doesn t want to hurt her feelings either. She is a very thoughtful friend with gifts, sharing snacks and having her back. She talks about other people mean and isn t monitored online so she talks to strangers and sends inappropriate videos. My daughter doesn t know how to separate herself without hurting feelings. She would like to stay friends, she just isn t feeling the bff vibe that her friend wants.

Im a 23 year old dude, at my work i met this woman named Mariana. Mariana was 35, Married with kids. She kinda knew i liked her but deep down i felt like she had feelings for me. She would stare at my like crazy, i would make her laugh and blush so much  One Day Mariana was having a conversation with my besfriend ( a girl) Mariana told my besfriend that she's been having feelings for me, and cares for me. Mariana felt guilty having feelings for me because she's married. Mariana begged my friend to never tell me. My friend obviously told me but i never said anything to Mariana  Later everything was good between Mariana and I, but coworkers began making rumors about me and Mariana. Everyone said that me and Mariana flirt at work. My manager told me to stop talking to Mariana at work to stop the drama. But Mariana would still talk to me behind everyone's back   Weeks Later I noticed that Mariana began giving me the cold shoulder, but I didn't think much about it. One day for her birthday I gave her a birthday card, later she told my manager about the card and she told my manager that she can't focus with all the drama going on at work. so my manager moved me to a different floor far away from Mariana. I would see Mariana in the hall but she looked really awkward and would not look me in the eyes. Weeks later after i was removed from her floor, she quit and blocked me from Facebook Why did she get mad with me?? Any advice??