Hello, I was in tv room on the chair then I start hereing moaning from the kitchen. I walk in and seen my son(19) fignering my daughter(17) on the kitchen counter. They yell at me to leave so I did. I want to ask how do I tell them that they should do that in there rooms and not on kitchen counter it unsantary and we might get sick. I dont want to sound weird when I talk to them. Thanks and god bless.

So my middle sister we were always close now she cant even stand me. We would go out have fun then I got more into school and I had to study. I rarely went out with her but we would kind of go out but we would be fighting at the end. Then the middle sister tells the youngest sister everything and she completely hates me. I rarely talk to my youngest sister and both my sisters have wished for my death. I just recently got in a relationship and it s gotten worse I don t talk to them at all, all day. Also when they do its because they start saying bad things to me. When they look at me it s with disgust and pure madness in their eyes. They are my family and I have a younger brother he is completely fine with me and even hangs out with my boyfriend. My parents are good with my boyfriend. I have talked to my sisters so many times that we are family and this shouldn t be happening. I want to ask, am I in the wrong to not want a relationship with them anymore. My boyfriend has noticed everything. I know they have hate towards me and they dont even say hi to him when we are at my house. All I am asking I d for your opinion and no my parents cant do anything with my sisters they have tried already to be at least respectful.

My family has always hated me. They just don't like me. They think I'm weird. I don't fit in with them. They're all crazy. I don't want to see them anymore. Every time I'm around them they look at me weird and bully me. I get a weird vibe from them.

It's all my niece ever talks about. You can start talking about anything but she manages to steer the whole conversation back to Abraham Lincoln 's assassination.

And why does everyone try to emulate that stereotype when they become parents? Why do they lose their identity? When they were teenagers and in college, they had hobbies and interests, listened to cool music, were artistic, or were athletic, and fit into a certain subculture that they liked. When they become parents, they always become boring. They used to listen to Metallica, now they listen to what every other mom and dad listens to to "fit in" to the "normal". They used to be a hardcore weight lifter, now they pretend they never even were a competitive powerlifter anymore and just look like an average joe. etc etc I'd rather have a dad who played video games, fished, lifted weights, and had interests, than a dad who just worked and watched TV and was "normal". I'd rather have a mom who still played the piano, was into makeup and fashion, and did gardening, not just a boring mom who's a "soccer mom" and posts on facebook all day like all other stereotypical moms

So im a boy btw and im 16. My brother is 18. Btw we are really close. I was going to talk to him about something and instead of calling him "Bro" or something like that i called him "Love". I was so embarrass and he just burst out laughing, and now he is always moking me, saying "Why arent you calling me Love anymore?". Everyday he makes fun of me because UNINTENTIONNALLY i called him "Love", idk why i said that, it just came out of my mouth but i dint mean to. What do i do to make him stop moking me? Why did i unintentionally called my brother "love"????

My dad just recently got divorced as of like two weeks ago. He spent 3 deployments overseas to Iraq and Afghanistan during desert storm, OIF and OEF, and didn't see me a ton. I'm a 24 year old male and he didn't see me a lot during my youth. My mom thinks it's good cause I can help my dad and he can see me. I've had previous issues with my dad but they've been forgotten. He has PTSD and all but I feel it would be out of the norm if I moved in, but I agree it would probably be good for the two of us. I'm also working full time and going to college too. Your thoughts?

I used to eat 2300 calories a day or 2000 calories. Lately, with school (college) I ve been eating 500 calories for basically a week straight. I am doing work every day or studying. I m on my last year and so I am getting all my assignments done early for my classes so I don t have to worry about it later. And I noticed I have a disinterest in food lately. If I am eating something, I ll put it down and go do work instead and I ll basically go the whole day barely eating anything. I haven t lost weight though. But I m starting to feel like **** and like I m about to collapse at any minute. I m also not sleeping either. Today I had probably 4 hours of sleep. I wonder why I have such a disinterest in food. The weird thing is I don t feel extremely hungry. What is wrong with me?

My cousin and I were wrestling earlier today and I accidentally tackled him onto the stairs. He got a tiny bump and scratch on the side of his head that was bleeding some but once we put a towel on it, it stopped. Then, after that he said it hurt to breathe. We think it might be because he's breathing weird and super short breaths but also, he's got a huge bruise on his ribcage where he his the step. For now we decided we arent telling my parents when they get home but it's been almost an hour and nothing has changed. I told him to put ice on his ribs but he said it wasnt helping. I tried to give him water but he would drink that either, it made him hurt more. Will this go away by itself? We'll only tell them if he's gonna die otherwise.

I'm 15 and a freshman in high school. I still have to share a room with my 5 year old sister. I am the only girl in my grade that doesn't have her own room. Everybody else I know has their own room. Does anybody else feel this way?

I have been really stressed out with my financial issue. I help pay most of the bills at home for my parents (gas, electricity, phone, internet), and also one of the two cars we have. My brother wanted these cars, he pays for insurance for both cars plus the monthly car bill. He pays me back 200 monthly to cover whatever, which is like one of the house bills. I also help pay for many other things, like when we go out to eat or like some of the things my mom buys for the house. I have suggested selling one of the cars since we don't really need two cars. I don't drive, only my brother does. But my mom and brother said is hard to do since the cars are financed. Everytime I bring the money issue up, I'm the bad guy. They make me feel like I shouldn't complain and just continue paying whatever bills they give me. I just feel like my brother should help out more with the bills. He makes more than me, but even he can't save money cause of the cars. And I have told my mom that my brother got himself into this for wanting things he can't really afford. But I shouldn't have to take the burden of paying almost all the bills just because my brother puts all his money into cars. He needs to take more responsibility. And my mom always tells me not to mention it in front of my brother since it would upset him. But I'm thinking, what about me, my feelings? I don't want to make a big fuss over this or make my mom unhappy over this either. I even told her if I wasn't stuck with the car bill, which takes out the most from my paycheck, I have no problem paying for the house bills. I would even gladly help pay the water bill which my parents pay. I want my parents to have a easier life and not stress about money. They raised us up, and now we're grown, they should be enjoying life. I feel guilty when I complain, but I feel like it needs to be heard.

On Roblox, there's a game called "Roblox Titanic". Basically on the Roblox Titanic, you try to survive the sinking of the Titanic. However, some people on the game don't survive. Yesterday, I told my mum about the game and she looked horrified about it. She said to me "who in their right mind would ever play that?" She also went on to say that that game is insensitive and disrespectful towards the victims of the Titanic and their living relatives. Is she right about that?

I'm 22 and when I see my family my 3 yr old sister (who's the baby of the family) would always want me to carry her, play with her and her toys, play hide and go seek and well you know kid stuff. I basically treated her like my own baby. Then just recently all of a sudden she started being weird around me, like she doesn't want me around her. She would tell me "bye bye" or tell me to go away and honestly it hurts because I don't know what I did to make her upset at me to the point she doesn't want me around. She's only around me when I have food though lol also I've been having pregnancy symptoms so could it be that? I highly doubt it but that's the only explanation I can think of, maybe I am pregnant and she can sense it so she shuts me out because she doesn't feel like the baby anymore????? I dunno I just know if this happened to anybody before

Me and my mum have always had a very close, open and trusting relationship. A couple years ago the whole family was going through a pretty rough time and the state of my mental health wasn't great. I had never really broken rules my whole life, I always did things the right way and was always responsible. Other kids my age were shoplifting expensive items and skipping school but I never did, though I felt like being a little rebellious for the first time. I nicked a couple cigarettes from a family member who was no longer using them and I didn't even really smoke them, I just barley puffed them and I know it's shitty but I stole a couple library books. Since that's literally the only rebellious thing I've ever done in my whole life I'm kind of fixated on it and feel guilty. This happened a while ago now, at the time it felt like a way to cope with stress, as dumb as that sounds. Is it worth saying anything to my mum about it or should I just let it go (or maybe in 20 years time I can bring it up, I don't know if there's a statute of limitations on these things)? I guess I'm just asking if it's okay to keep secrets of this nature with your parents and if not owning up to it is damaging to our relationship.

I do not want to be estranged but some say that is the motivation he needs.

I grabbed her by the shoulder and said "will you grow the hell up" and she now says I choked her twice. In the process of grabbing her shoulder and her then scratching me I may have pushed her off where my finger nails made a mark. Was I wrong? The sister that this all happened with is 26 and has fits like she is four.

Okay. I just need to rant! So please hear me out and help me! My mom and step dad kick me out they don't want me and I live with my dad and his family. There is this uncle that I hate and dislike very much more than anything in this world or that could ever exist in this world. Well I live with them and I don't get along with them well but this uncle he's the problem and so it goes like this I hate and don't like him and he could careless and I know he don't like me he could careless for any reason or no reason and he being selfish and being selfish for no reason where he doesn't have to think about me and because we can't stand being around each other. And so can't be around each other makes it worst. Where he takes advantage and I'm just stuck. And to say he is also very toxic. And since I live with them they think it's their house. It like I'm just stuck I can't do anything. But everything is getting worse. And I really need help overall everything is getting worse and worser. It's not that they don't care. It's fine if they don't want me there but it's not okay for them to be doing this. I'm having so much problem in my life and I'm also so stupid. Pls. Just help. Idk should I just get knocked up get pregnant and live with my soon to be man. And or even If I don't have the choice. It's fine but I can't stand them either. Pls help.

My parents took my phone away from me, and they say I've got to think of ways to earn it back. I need some ways to earn it back, so can you tell me any ways to earn it back. I already have to do chores and help my siblings with their homework. I got my phone taken away is because I was using it and playing games when I was supposed to be unpacking since we recently moved house. I don't think they were very angry about the games, but rather the fact that I was using my phone instead of unpacking and the house had a lot of things to be unpacked. As such, they were very angry and took my phone away. I have had my phone taken for 56 days now, so please help me thank you :)

My older brother and I have had major major issues for most of my life. He sexually assaulted me when we were children, and to this day continues to disrespect and undermine me. He publicly blames me for our alcoholic and abusive mother, and constantly makes fun of the abuse I suffered at the hands of her. The point I am trying to make is that we have no relationship. At this point I have excommunicated him out of my life, and accepted the fact that any kind of relationship with him will be toxic. I am actually finding myself more angry with the rest of my family these days. It seems that no matter what he says or does to me, no one sticks up for me. My father doesn't really do anything but say I should just accept the way he is and actually kinda blamed me back when I was attempting to have a relationship with him. My two other brothers live with him, and refuse to kick him out even when he is verbally abusive to me and is late on various bills and is a slob. This is most likely due to the fact that they need his share of the rent, but I just can't believe my respect and dignity is worth an extra $500 a month. Everyone just sweeps it under the rug and smiles at family gatherings, pretending nothing has happened. It angers me deeply, but I find myself trying not to make anyone take "sides." My brother does this abusive behavior to no one else but me. How can I stop being so angry at my family for just trying to have a relationship with their son/brother?

I feel so lonely and depressed! My family and husband just don't understand that they play a huge part in why I hate myself. I try everyday to do what I can to help everyone and I have neglected myself and I hate myself.

iam from india and ours is a respected family in our society, Iam highely ashamed by my moms behaviour though she was not showing her face in those videos my dad would kill her if he came to know about this.. I dont even have a single trusted person to discuss about this what shoud i do now?? pls help

I feel guilty 72 years old , I hear its 110 degrees in FL and to pay to ride to airport then air fare and car rental food and what not ,we dont have that much saved however you know sisters and brothers , they think yule beg ,borrow and steal to go? what do-you suggest to say to her when the call comes tomorrow?

Okay, so when I had my first child we lived with my in laws with someone else so not much room. When he was born he was always in the bed with someone when he slept and my in laws spoiled him to no end. I felt like I had no say on how to raise him or anything and my husband wouldnt back me up. When I had my second kid we moved out and once again a gew months layer his in laws moved in with us and now its the same and my 2.5 yr old (oldest kid) will not stay asleep at nite if someone (mainly his poppy(my father in law)) want next to him and he continues this and will not sleep by himself. I keep bringing up that the issue is he doesnt want to be by himself cuz he always has had someone next to him but no one will listen and my husband wont back me up and I feel like I have no say so again and I m pregnant with our third and I just dont know what to do.

Someone told me at work that the place would be better off without me. That the only reason I was hired is because I work cheap. A family member keeps telling me they are nuts and jealous, but I feel like they are just saying that to help make me feel better. I know I'm not good at my job but what gives this person the right to disparage me like that? I feel very bad and stuck because otherwise I can't pay my bills. What should I do??

My mother told me what happened yesterday to her. She had a fever and she was also on her period, so she went to Walgreens to pick up some medicine. She said she was a bit dizzy and like disoriented. She was waiting for her medicine, feeling still dizzy and disoriented she thought she grabbed her phone and put it in her bag. Apparently it was not her phone, it was one of the workers there. The phone was the exact same color with the exact same case so she didn't know. Then the man started screaming at her and telling her that he was gonna go through her bag and my mom was like still confused, she didn't know what was happening. So she tried to leave instead bc she was scared and the man literally grabbed my mother and choke holded her while he took her bag and threw everything she had on the floor. My mother had already put the phone back where it was when she realized like a while back and the dude grabbed her wallet from the floor and opened it and everything. My mom hurriedly picked up like half of her things from the floor and grabbed her bag and left bc she was terrified. I was at uni at that time so I didn't know till she told me today. Is there anything I can do bc right now I'm really pissed that a man grabbed my mother like that.

My older brother and I have had major major issues for most of my life. He sexually assaulted me when we were children, and to this day continues to disrespect and undermine me. He publicly blames me for our alcoholic and abusive mother, and constantly makes fun of the abuse I suffered at the hands of her. The point I am trying to make is that we have no relationship. At this point I have excommunicated him out of my life, and accepted the fact that any kind of relationship with him will be toxic. I am actually finding myself more angry with the rest of my family these days. It seems that no matter what he says or does to me, no consequences are given to him. My father doesn't really do anything but say I should just accept the way he is and actually kinda blamed me back when I was attempting to have a relationship with him. My two other brothers live with him, and refuse to kick him out even when he is verbally abusive to me and is late on various bills and is a slob. This is most likely due to the fact that they need his share of the rent, but I just can't believe my respect and dignity is worth an extra $500 a month. Everyone just sweeps it under the rug and smiles at family gatherings, pretending nothing has happened. It angers me deeply, but I find myself trying not to make anyone take "sides." My brother does this abusive behavior to no one else but me. How can I stop being so angry at my family for just trying to have a relationship with their son/brother?

My cousin is 18 and I'm 21, she has a boyfriend but I have always loved her, 2 years ago I saw her in a bikini and I was fantasizing about her touching her and doing things would I be wrong to do this?

I need some good sound advice. I am having serious car issues which makes it very unsafe for my 2 year old to be in the car it's so unsafe I don't even allow my son to be 18 year old to drive it. Now, I was supposed to meet my ex on Sunday so he can spend time with our son. I texted him telling him I can't drive far because the car isn't safe and I don't want to drive far in case something happens I will be in the Mike range for AAA or my cousin and come help. I gave him to options which will keep us about 45 minutes close to home and within AAA range. He is giving me a hard time? He wants to meet half way and I told him again the car isn't safe and I told him exactly what's wrong with it but he doesn't seem to care. I am so sick of his crap! He has made every single excuse in the book not to see his son yet here I am with a car issue and currently I have to wait to fix it due to finances. I'm so over his ish! I basically want to change my number and not bother with his *** anymore. Between the harrassment, drama, not financially helping with his child, poor excuses, and now this I am just done. Am I wrong? I am beyond tired. Please advise.

So my sister is dating a woman I don't like her. She does not like being told what to do. I don't like gay people. My sister and I weren't talking but now we are. But her partner doesn't appreciate me standing over her telling how to mow the grass how to watch the 9 year old child. The partner is too fat to be sliding in the pool. My niece got a bloody nose and a scratch on her elbow from playing on the slide in the pool while I was yelling at her partner about how to watch her. My sister asked me to leave and was mad at me not the partner because she said I stir **** up. The partner thinks I am an bossy asshole and does not want to talk to me about what she did wrong. She thinks I made my niece nervous by yelling at her.

My parents took my phone away from me, and they say I've got to think of ways to earn it back. I need some ways to earn it back, so can you tell me any ways to earn it back. I already have do chores and help my siblings with my homework. I would appreciate very much if you could help me think of some ways. Thank you. :) Update: Ok, so why exactly I got my phone taken away is because I was using it and playing games when I was supposed to be unpacking since we recently moved house. I don't think they were very angry about the games, but rather the fact that I was using my phone instead of unpacking and the house had a lot of things to be unpacked. As such, they were very angry and took my phone away. I have had my phone taken for 56 days now, so please help me thank you :)