I read a book from a Psychotherapist who interviewed several woman to find out information about their friendships with other women. She interviewed one woman, who told her that she came home one day and found her best friend and her husband in bed together. I was laughing at this because I realized that this woman is a loser who couldn't satisfy her husband and that's why he betrayed her with her best friend. Isn't this hilarious?

and as a family or a couple how both of you decide it?

We have been married for 15 years now. I am 51 and he is 65. Over the course of our marriage I have earned 2 times his income which I have always brought into our joint accounts. When we met, I had just immigrated to US and had no money, he had 50k in 401k and a home worth of 650k with 460k mortgage on it. He had blown up 1 million dollar in stocks and had to borrow 460k against his house that was paid off! I came to this marriage with no money and no debt. Even though he is more educated that I am, I have always been better with managing and investing money. Now we own 3 pieces of real estate and are debt free and I have an IRA that is 2.5 times more than his IRA. Truth be told, It was my push to make sound investment decisions and his effort to execute my plans that has gotten us this far. also had slightly more of an inheritance to bring into this picture. He decided to draw social security income at age of 62 against my advice and for the past 3 years he has been managing our 2 rental properties and I have been selling on and off some real estate. Recently I have decided to put more focus on my Real Estate business and I have decided to have a business account under my name. I just got my first commission ck and I am planning to put 1/3 of it to our joint account and leave the rest in my business account but he is threatening me that he will divorce me if I separate my business income from our joint account. Any thoughts? Am I too selfish?

She's married with kids but she's been cheating on her husband with a supervisor for a while before I was hired (and god knows how many other guys shes cheating with) Now she showing interest in me. Her friend told me she's bored of the married life. Anyway, she's pretty good looking so is it morally correct for me to not miss this easy oportunity? I mean, she'll cheat regardless, right?

She complains that I snore too loudly and its really affecting her sleep...Can we cuddle and have sex in one bed and unless we fall asleep afterwards, go into a sepearte room to sleep...could this work..or only in my head? i asked if you think it would work and all these answers are kind of no brainers...

I think me ex had marred a foreigner fir money I am pretty sure but I'm scared to make the call if it's not true. He has always been a law breaker I think he is antisocial personality narssisist, he's a horrible hurtful dad too who lives fir himself. What should I do?!

After sending a message to my wife telling her that I've realized that she doesn't love me as a husband but only as a best friend and that this arrangement is NOT okay with me I've decided that I didn't wear my wedding ring today, because what's the point if she doesn't treat me like her husband? She swore vows to love me as an individual regardless of my status or my health, and she's not doing her part at all. I also blocked my wife from messaging me on FB (she can text or call my phone if she wants to talk still) then I changed my bio on FB to say "best friend" where husband used to be. Then I went on to declare on my FB wall (only family can see it) that our marriage is NOT okay and it hasn't been for quite some time. I know it seems petty but I was told yesterday that as long as she's "okay" with the arrangement of the relationship and I'm not giving too much grief she will maintain the status quo, so this is me trying to give MORE grief over our arrangement so she can let go of her matriarchal feminist beliefs and finally treat ME as an equal to HER. Why I finally snapped is because after 9 years of talking to all of you on here I realized that the one thing that I have over my wife is I am a vulnerability in her "perfect online persona", she fears being exposed for being fake online and hiding the truth; so there it is, the only thing that can MAKE her see the relationship is NOT okay. But how far is too far if all I want is change?

We have been married 5 years it's my 3rd and his 2nd. Both of us are in our early 50s. This past year I cut back my hours so could open my dream studio. To do this we used our savings and some personal loans. Also it's meant losses some income and thus we also agreed no vacation this year. My studio has been not as profitable yet but has supported itself and paid me about 1/3 of the lost income from me cutting back at other job. Well it was my husband Birthday recently and I kept asking where he wanted to go this year and he said to skip it because budget is still tight. Last weekend I took him to his favorite upscale restaurant to celebrate his birthday. From time we got there he was unhappy and only ordered a appetizer and water to drink. This was frustrating since suppose to be his Birthday celebration. The night went downhill from there. Let's just say he was not even interested in rest of his Birthday present later that night. Since then he has been kind of moody.

He says it creeps him out and kills his sex drive

Should I be ok with my partner maintaining a friendship with ex spouses family? The ex is extremely bitter over our relationship. Their relationship ended a year before I entered the picture. They were together for 12 years and have two children together. My partner and the ex do not communicate unless it's absolutely necessary about the kids. Ex sends me nasty emails, threatens to cause trouble, and talks badly about me on social media. I have never met this person or did any intentional harm. I understand there needs to be some contact with the ex spouses family in regards to the children, but I don't understand why my partner would need to make time to hang out with their family especially when they know how much I am hated by the ex. It makes me uncomfortable and I expressed this to my partner, but they don't see it from my perspective. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? Can anyone give me some insight?

i like to be a caring and kind person more and more and grow it day by day what should do for it?