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My best friend has been married for 7 years .. the first 5 years was great.They always looked happy together…. But then the next 2 years I've seen some tension between them.. Sometimes the wife talks to me and complain about all the stuff he is doing.. She told me one time, he came home with scratches on his back…. She asked him how did you get those scratches and he said he did it himself...she took a picture and showed it to me and it looked like a woman did it... I told the wife that this is none of my business.. I don't want to get in between it...but she still continued to vent to me about the things he's doing within these 2 years, eventually she got a little bit TO comfortable with me and this is where I messed up because I got a little bit comfortable with her… .its was one night...she called me 2 am..she said that she needed a place to stay because she just got into an argument with him….so my dumb self let her in….she came in the house and she was emotionally hurt and crying to me….I gave her a hug to comfort her…. ..then she kissed me on lips...then was she was trying to have sex with me and so it happened...and so now she called telling me she was pregnant...and now I have no idea what to do..she said that she was going to lie and say my best friend is the father... I honestly don't know what to do. Should I tell him or not tell him?

SO I was on my iMac 2008 and it wouldn't turn on so I had enough so I unscrewed it and opened it and grabbed the hard drive and smashed it on the floor over and over until it fell apart and then I grabbed the logic board and ripped it out from its screws and grabbed a hammer and cracked and smashed it to pieces and I grabbed the optical drive and beat it with the hammer until it fell apart then I used a crowbar to smash the power supply out and then I used the same hammer to smash the cpu in the logic board then I smashed the graphics card in the toilet and flushed it. I feel so good now, this is a serious question btw

driving me crazy with a lot of thing she does. We're both 17 yr old girls but sometimes she acts really immature. She makes all of these animal and baby sounds really loudly screams in my ear and if I show any sign of irritation or ask her to stop she pouts and says she's unwanted and that I told her to go away. She constantly needs attention and hugs and I do give them to her but then she demands more and latches on to me and won't stop. Today she pouted for half an hour because she was going to take a shower and asked for a hug and I gave her hug after hug and she wouldn't get off of me and kept screaming in my ear and I asked her to just go and take her shower and calm down and then she pouted in a different room saying she will stay away like I want. I'm getting really frustrated and annoyed. What do I do

A few months ago there was tension between a friend and my sister and I because she was stepping on toes. She takes great initiative and expresses great ideas, but she was stepping on some toes. My sister and I along with this other guy are leaders and she was invited to help because she's really good with finances and fundraising, but I think she didn't like that. Tension/friction happened between us (sister and me) and her, and she reached out to invite us to dinner and talk things out. I wish I could say I believed her side or her motives, but there was something I couldn't put my finger on. After that, all four of us had a meeting where the guy said: "She told me that she talked to you guys." And that's where it clicked. She was only reaching out to be on this guy's good side, not really cared about the friendship. And before all this, my sister and this guy were texting and getting really close and this girl found out and didn't like it. She started making subtle comments or expressions that made me think stuff. And my sister decided to break it off with the dude to save the friendship with her. My question here is: how I can I look beyond this? I've caught hidden sly smiles from her, its affecting our friendship with mutual friends, and certain comments that are aggressive. Every time there a team meeting, she always mentions US AS LEADERS, when that's not even true. It's just my sister, me, and the guy who were appointed.

I always get that asked by at least someone each day bc the place where I work it's a big company and we always have new people that get hired and I just feel weird when I get that asked and if I have kids , it makes me think that I Am behind the whole marriage situation and giving kids. Bc I see a lot of girls my age be having kids and that makes me think that's why I am being asked.

I don't feel like going. I felt the same way last time I went, & ended up having fun, but I just don't wanna go this year. I've had 3 groups invite me, & one of them has been like "no! Hang out with us only instead!" & I love them, but it gets annoying. My friend in another group said she thought it was creepy that those friends excitedly greeted me with hugs, which wow ok wth is wrong with that? Then there's my guy friends from band, & one of them has a crush on me. If I went, I feel like he'd be following me all night & ask me to slow dance, which I want to avoid at all costs cuz I do not like him like that. I've been really busy this week, & I'm not feeling too great. I have to go to the homecoming game cuz I'm in band, so I'll be mentally exhausted. My friend I'm going with has been encouraging me to go with her group too, & I already said I'd go so they made reservations. I even bought a ticket, but I don't have a dress yet, & the dance is tomorrow. I'm just overwhelmed. Should I still go? I told my friend that I might change my mind. She still said I had to go to the dinner since they already made reservations, & that I should go to the dance since I already bought a ticket, but I just wanna bail even though I'd feel bad for ditching reservations that cost money. I also don't wanna go to the dance & then ditch my other friends after cuz I said I'd hang out with them after the dance

There were a few times where I was leaving an event with my sibling, and a person who we had both spoken to during the event said "Goodbye, [Sibling]." After he had replied with a goodbye of his own, I said goodbye myself to the person. Each time I did this, the person who I spoke to seemed to be weirded out. I know the person was addressing my brother, but I felt it would be rude to leave without saying goodbye to the person as well.

Our friend group is divided because on of my friends thinks (even tho I said no) that because I let him hold my hand we're dating now. Previously another of our friends, we argued all the time he was a trump supporter or so I thought until another friend told me he only said those things to make me mad (my grandparents are Caribbean immigrants), he asked me out and of course I said no. He tried to push me out of our friend group and did some passive aggressive things.

I met a guy at a school party and we talked for a bit few months ago. Now whenever he sees me at school he always says hi and he tried to talk to me once about school work. He is always well aware if I am around him. He also talked to me last week, and I was surprised that he remembered my name since we last met was few months ago and we only talked for a bit. Yesterday, I was at the library reading and when I looked up I noticed he was looking at me, so he waved and smiled and I waved back. Is he just an Outgoing person?

I had this friend that's been driving me to school, he asked me out during the summer and I said no, so far it was good until today. He was holding my hand in the car which I don't mind, me and my other female friends do it all the time, but today while waiting to leave he was with his friends and I joined them because he said he'd drive me home after, and he came up to me and started kissing my neck. I was very obviously uncomfortable but that didn't stop him and I didn't wanna say anything because we were with his friends and I really needed that ride (my house is a couple of miles away). The entire time I was just slightly etching myself away from him. Our friend group has had this problem before and he knows it. Should I start walking home? Bus is not an option, I only have one class.

I am a junior at a University, and have an interest in Entrepreneurship. I was reached out to from a professor on my college on social media about one of her programs in to help students like myself. When I met her she was extremely nice she offered me free help & extra help with other classes. After doing some research I find that this woman is a lesbian and it is very obvious I am as well. When we are around other students she is extremely professional and nice. When we are alone she is more touchy. How would you take this situation?

People are always telling me things that are simple (to me) that I have done or are familiar with so I always say "Me too", "I've done that" and I can feel them being annoyed. What kind of personality disorder do I have and how do I stop being so annoying and "been there done that" even tho I actually have been there done that =( Examples that have actually gotten me annoyed looks, there are tons of these during any conversations i have :( Friend: "My daughter is half Italian so she has dark peach fuzz on her back" Me: "well I have that too and I'm not Italian" (lol) Friend: "I ordered all this stuff from Wayfair, it's a website" Me: "I order from them all the time"

I've been friends with them now for quite a few years but recently we have grown apart due to not having much in common. My friend isn't very sociable and I'm their only friend. They don't like it when I go with my boyfriend or with my other friends as then they are all alone. The thing is they don't even make an effort to socialize with other people, they just are dependent on me being there for them all the time meaning I can't go talk or sit with other people. My friend puts no effort in, they tell their twin all of my secrets, never ask to meet up and does not attend any social events but somehow I'm in the wrong for not making an effort. Trust me I've tried, inviting them to sit with me at lunch or in lessons but they either don't talk or are really blunt. I'm really struggling to maintain this friendship because it's so one sided and to make matters worse my friend doesn't tell me any time something wrongs I hear it from their twin who is rude and aggressive and clearly doesn't want to hang out with my friend either. One time she screamed at me in front of the whole school over a simple misunderstanding. Their parents also apparently slag me off even though I haven't done anything wrong so I'm seriously considering going separate ways with my friends as we have clearly drifted apart.

Friend was being kind of cheap. Owed me 11 bucks paid me 10 lol. He being cheap I know but just forget about it right?

I'm a 21 year old guy. Recently, I became friends with a customer of mine at the store I work at. She is a 48 year old woman, divorced and has kids my age. Very nice, cool person. We discovered we had a friend in common on social media and added each other. She wants to hang out. Here's the problem. So, I just bought a brand new 35 k car. Problem is, one of my friends smokes. I'm afraid if I hang out with her, and she lights a cigarette around me. The smell on my clothes will leave a smell in my car. What should I do? I can't be rude and say "don't smoke around me" you know? Or If I give her a ride. She wouldn't smoke in my car, but I'm worried about the smell the smoke leaves behind. I keep delaying hanging out because I'm worried for my car. Which I worked years and years to get. My dream car.

I'm 18 and she's 20, I feel guilty for wanting to stop being friends with her because I know she wants to be a good friend and she hasn't had the best childhood, but I'd been through a lot of stuff too as a kid and I'm not whining about it constantly like she is. She can be really clingy and I try to be understanding but it's something that I've never liked in people, and she constantly needs to be reassured, which I try to do but it never seems to be enough and being around her is just..draining. She doesn't seem to understand the concept of boundaries and I've got a lot of stress on me right now with my classes and school and i've told her many times that I need space, I can't hang out with her as often as usual, and also for her to please stop blowing my phone up with long paragraphs about all her issues that I've already heard about several times. And she says "yeah that's totally fine" but continues to do it. I really do care about her and how she's doing but all she does is talk about her problems and she rarely ever asks me questions or how I am and it sucks. She's getting help and she already has a girlfriend and other friends who are so supportive but it's like she still looks to me to solve all of her problems or something and I obviously can't. I'd hate to drop her as a friend but at the same time i'm being emotionally drained and no matter how much i talk to her it doesn't seem to help. Sorry about the long *** paragraph but any advice would be appreciated Thanks so much to everyone who answered :)

Last weekend, four and my close guy friends and I went out drinking. My friends told me afterwards that my buttcrack was showing the entire night at all the bars. Apparently 2 inches was showing toward the beginning and toward the end of the night 3/4 of my butt was showing. I am super embarrassed and keep thinking what people thought and if anyone took a picture. Well, my friends and I stayed the night at one of my friends house so we did not have to drive. I slept on the couch and apparently my entire butt was showing. In the morning, one of my friends took a picture of my whole butt showing and group texted all of my friends that went out that night and said "Hey thanks for the full moon this morning" I am embarrassed that he took the picture and hope that picture doesn't end up online. I am always afraid that a picture of my buttcrack is going to end up online somewhere since 1-2 inches of my buttcrack always shows. Should I be embarrassed that my friends took the picture? What happens if they posted it online?

I've been at my school for a few weeks now, and after a difficult adjustment period I'm starting to feel comfortable here. The only think I'm really struggling with is how to make friends. I have a small group of about three friends that includes my roommate, but I'm realizing that I don't really like my roommate enough to be her bestie (although she still really wants to be my friend). The only two girls are great, but for some reason they think that just because they're in college now they have to branch out and are constantly complaining that they wish they had more friends and think our group of four is hanging out too much. I think that they like me a lot (but I know they also don't like my roommate) but their comments are sometimes hurtful and they make me feel bad for wanting to spend time with them. I feel like I should really be branching out but I'm just not meeting anyone I click with. I did theatre in HS but the theatre community here feels less welcoming. One of the main reasons I chose this school is because I thought I would meet a bunch of people compatible with me but that is far from the case. How do I make genuine friendships when everyone around me has already formed little groups? I'm trying to get into some other clubs. Also sorry this is so incoherent lmao.

So my friend recently broke up with her boyfriend and she started acting different around my guy friends.She came to my school a year ago and I was the one who introduced her to my friends since she came from a different school.After her break up she started to flirt with every single guy from my friend group.She totally ignores me as if I don't exist,she only talks to my friends and always calls them by flirty names and is always around them whenever we are at school.I talked with my friends about it and they agree with me that she acts weird.She used to be good, I always helped her whenever she needed help since she comes from a different city and it feels bad when she acts like this towards me as if I'm invisible.She is basically trying to push me away from my friends.She is getting on my nerves.How can I deal with her?

A friend of mine was telling me and some other friends how upset he is that people make fun of him and bully him. So i said something to make him feel better and motivate him. I said that inspite of how he looks and inspite of how much people make fun of him he is still willing to go on stage and participate in school events and that's one thing i admire about him. When i said this he felt even worse.... I don't know why.

I'm supposed to meet up with a new friend tonight, but they haven't texted me back confirming the time. Should I text them again to ask? Is that annoying?

Some people don't spend time with others because they actually care about others; rather, they just need an audience. They'll invite you to something and then talk AT you the whole time. Or they are doing something such as a small speech at church or at another event and invite you, but the event is all about them and you're just providing an audience. Do you bother with people who just need an audience?

I ve always been more of an introverted person, and somewhat a workaholic but I would still make an effort to go out in the past. Lately I have had no modivation to do so. I m not depressed or anything I m actually quite happier than I ve been in a while, but apart of me fears that I ll regret working so much and missing out on social opportunities when looking back on this last semester as a college student... any advice or similar experiences to this?

I'm currently going through something with a friend and I feel as if I've had this happen before in friendships were they seem to lazy common sense and tend to put themselves first and disregard everything I've ever done for them. This happens often and at times I always try to take other peoples feelings into consideration and see from their point of view if I'm wrong but I'm not. And it's like this small situation but just from the way they act shows a much bigger picture as to the person they are. I understand they don't ask for more effort into a friendship but it just seems like common sense to me to put your all into friendships, I value friendships so much more than actual relationships with significant others (probably because I'm young so I don't value like significant other relationships )

If a friend observed someone whisper something to you about her, and she asked you later on what was said, should you tell her?

I re found girl I was in a class with in community college. She's honestly the first person I ever felt anything for, but she's 29 (and even mature for her own age) and I'm 20. I accepted when I caught up with her she wouldn't want that. She gave me and her friend her Facebook and I talked to her. She's so talented and I wanted to learn from her. She responded with a thank you and heartrd my comment, but I tried to message her again to talk and she leaves me on read. She's too mature to not be mad about something with good reason (I felt attracted to her because of how clear headed she was-I'm not that way). She liked my post on Facebook, but won't talk to me. I messaged her today and yesterday with no reply (we began talking the day before). I undownloaded Facebook and messenger so I won't bother her again. I just want to know, is she just trying to let me know she doesn't like me? As I know that already and I don't want her to think I am trying to facilitate that. I've done enough selfish things in my life. I don't want to lose a friend over her being uncomfortable with me. To one person-I know she doesn't like me and I don't want her to stop being my friend. I won't 'pursue her' out a vain attempts for my self esteem. I like her for her. To the other person-If she's ghosting, like another said, then I guess she isn't who I thought she was. I don't think she would do that, as she seemed to want to be clear, but if that's true I guess I am not interested in being a friend anymore (though there is no way to tell). Please. I know I'm needy for friendship. Please someone tell me I am so I can have some closure, without what may be. Just tell me that I should give up caring about this.