There is something that was is about this girl. It was a feeling. I did a search and found out that her dad has been arrested for- beating his wife, driving while intoxicated many times, evading arrest, theft, hot checks AND manslaughter... this man has a criminal record as long as his arm. His brother( my son's gf uncle) has been arrested for rape. He brutally raped a 25 year old woman. Went to prison for it. This girl is very close to these people. She doesn't know that I know. My son doesn't know that I know. He's been seeing her just a couple of weeks. What do I do??

I am not a jealous person by nature, but I am very observant of some changes with my wife lately. She has always gone to the gym after work... usually twice a week. For the past month she has started going 4-5 days a week for longer periods of time. She has also started dressing differently when she goes. Tonight for instance she left wearing a sports bra, tight booty shorts, white knee high socks. She admits that she talks and hangs out with a few guys there, but thats all she says goes on. Another thing that has made me suspecious... she started coming home a couple weeks ago with her gym sneakers untied with the laces so loose her heels slide out of them when she walking. I asked her why, and she just said its comfortable to walk with them like that and does it to relax after she done working out. Do ladies untie there sneakers after there done working out, because im thinking shes having sex and doesnt bother tying them when shes done?

I have a weird but genuine question. My wife Sadie (who's 23) and I got married in July. As a late wedding gift, my parents got us a hot tub for the backyard. Which is great. We love it. This weekend her mom and friend came over to lay in the backyard and use the hot tub. And after awhile, Sadie announced that she had to go to the bathroom. I assumed she'd come in the house. Instead she just stood in the middle of the yard and...yeah. She was wearing a swimsuit, and most of our yard is trees, but we do have neighbors on one side who could've seen her. I thought it was inappropriate, her friend was appalled, and her mom said don't do it again. I was glad it wasn't just me who was weirded out. I said, "That's not an option." She just shrugged it off and got back in the hot tub. I suggested she go inside from now on. But how can I get my point across, without seeming like a rude/bossy husband, so she doesn't do it again? I don't usually care what she does, but that was a bit much. Please be kind. We're still learning.

So me and my bf got into an argument at his house and I scattered all his clothes on the floor and poured soda, lotion, and cigarette ashes on them. Now his mother is trying to press charges against me. Is she able to do that even though that's not her house and that it wasn't her property? Also, if this is considered vandalism, what would be the penalty?

Wanting to leave an emotionally abusive relationship but moved out of state for this guy and don't know many people here. I have a friend who lives about an hour from my job who I can stay with but I am scared cause what if she randomly kicked me out one day where would I go? As of right now I still live with my ex and have been trying to save money. Should I stay here and save and get my own place eventually or stay with her and save and get my own place or should I move back to Texas with my family. I like it up here and don't really want to move back to Texas

This topic is going to be on the heavier side, and i know yahoo answers is a weird place to go about this issue but it's the only place I could think of.. So, all of my life I've been in some sort of abusive relationship but it's always been by choice, and I'm not looking for help, just looking for answers. My ex of 6 months was very obviously using me but for some reason I didn't care, even when he pressured me and made me do sexual things with him, but for some reason it's never really bothered me. That's when I realized there may be an issue. I'm now dating someone that I met way back in middle school, we've been together for a little over 8 months now and the entire relationship has been neglectful and emotionally abusive. I won't go into detail because I'm unsure if it will effect the answers or not, but the point is that I either don't care about the abuse or i just enjoy it. I came to the conclusion that I'm a masochist ages ago, but this feels much more than just masochistic behavior. I'm not looking for help because i'm not trapped in the relationship, I just would like answers as to why I may be like this? I've been told by a friend that it seems like a form of Stockholm syndrome and i'm wanting to know other peoples opinions, ill be going to therapy soon but i want other peoples opinions until then because it's not starting for a while.

I DONT even know them but one of them always whispers to his friends something about me I pretend I dont notice but I clearly see them looking at me when they are "talking" about me. not only that but when I was getting my lunch I saw both of them looking at me while smiling. I was really confused on why. I dont know if they re rumors spreading about me which I highly doubt because I am really nice and I dont get my self involved in drama so yeah I dont even know these guys. can someone help :(((