My moms always calling me names like *****,dumbass, etc and she always tells me **** you. She gets mad at me over the smallest reasons like today she told me I need to start buckling up more and I couldn't buckle up after school because my backpack was taking up a lot of room and my siblings told her & she started yelling at me that I'm a ******* dumbass and all I said was ok? And she was like are you ******* stupid or what & I was like all I said was ok ? And she was like yanno what go to the back I don't wanna see your stupid *** face **** you in front of my friend (I'm 16) she also always calls me a loser for not having a job any advice ): ( I can't talk to her about it she always tells me that she doesn't have to explain **** to me and I need to stfu because I'm ungrateful 😥)

Last night, I put on my Instagram story a poll with the caption "My neighbour has been coughing most days and nights since May this year. Do you think she has a chronic respiratory condition?" 12 people answered - 11 of them said yes and the remaining 1 said no. My mum found this out through one of my friends, who follows me on Instagram. She rang me up and ordered me in a very angry tone to take the Instagram story down in case the neighbour sees it (even though neither of us follow each other... I'm not even sure that my neighbour even has an Instagram account. I know her boyfriend doesn't. She doesn't even know my name, so...). My mum also said that what I did is technically talking about her behind her back. Is it even possible to backstab someone who you've never talked to, or even seen in person? Also, my mum overreacting?

I asked a previous question but there was not enough detail I'm 21 as of now . Growing up I lived with my father until he passed @ the age of nine I moved in with my grandparents , ( they tried making it permanent but weren't able to ) so I ended up moving in with my mom around age of 15 or so . I have NO good memories in general all my childhood memories are the traumatic ones for some reason especially the ones with my mother ! All I remember is her leaving after visiting me for a little bit once in a while , I don't even remember the parts of her actually coming to visit I just remember the parts of watching her leave and crying ( especially when I was with my father which I loved very much! But he was always high on pain pills etc) When I finally lived with my mother we had arguments almost every day, she never asked me how my day was , or asked me how I was feeling ,never ever supported anything I would do I have only hugged my mother maybe twice my entire life ! has ALWAYS favorited my youngest brother ( me and him have a very good relationship I do not resent him for her decisions ) he is 15. He can NEVER do anything wrong (even when things genuinely are his doing ) nothing is ever wrong or his fault She let him sleep in her bed whenever he wanted still does ! He can talk to her about anything She has a nickname for him I just want to know will I always feel this way towards her ? Will it always be like this ? Am I always gonna resent her for my childhood?

I'm 19, my cousin is 8 or 9. Our whole family went to Hawaii to celebrate an event. Since there are so many of us we got several rentals but stayed at ours most of the time since the water was closer. We all used the outside shower to shower off before going inside. It was my turn next then his turn. He made a comment that we should shower together that I just ignored. Once my brother got out the shower I got in. My older cousin (his mom) yelled around the corner " Ulio is going to jump in with you since we have to go." I didn't respond but I seen through the cracks he was getting undressed. He walked in and started starting right away at my junk, feeling super awkward I stood in the corner covering myself with my hands and let him shower first then I finished. Why did he basically force taking a shower with me? Not a troll, legitimately asking

What is suposed to train them to do?

One daughter is a narcissistic bully. She mistreats everyone in the family and no one likes her. The other one is nice but a little obsessed on getting revenge against the narcissistic sister. Also, the narcissistic one criticized my Mom's parenting.

He has six kids from two marriages (two are step-children) and I am wondering since my uncle is an alcoholic (has a beer in his hand every single time I see him) will one of his 6 kids likely become one? Our uncle's father was one and I understand his biological father was one also (he was adopted by his step-grandfather who is my late grandfather). Also why might it be my mother covers up for our uncle but got mad when her brothers covered up for their Dad (my grandfather) when he was drinking? Both are the same though the grandfather was more sloppy when drinking. My Mom wouldn't speak to her father for 5 years whereas she is fine with her brother and him drinking. The uncle always tells people he has his drinking under control now but is very visibly still an alcoholic. He went to rehab 4 years ago and relapsed when his 2nd wife divorced him anyway after rehab. They had a dysfunctional marriage anyway and she was an alcoholic in recovery also.

I cane from a broken home, where my mother was never around as my two older siblings bullied me. When I was in 5th grade, however, I became friends with a girl at my school and for the next five years I spent a lot of my time with her and her family (5 other siblings and two parents) or just getting into mischief with her (i.e., shoplifting, smoking weed, hanging out with boys). But I ran into trouble with the law, went to juvie, and completely turned my life around. So much so, that she sent me a text message saying that she didn t want to hang out anymore. This was eight years ago and I never really mourned the loss of that friendship nor did I ever really respond to the text message. But I feel hurt, betrayed, and I miss that familial feeling I had with her and her family. I have a husband and two children and so does she but our lives are still VERY different. I don t want friemdship with her but theres this feeling that I can t really put my finger on, besides feeling sisterly I guess? Any advice on this?

When I got out of high school, I had a hard time finding a job. I finally found a job with good pay and a GREAT boss. One day in his office I saw his high school graduation picture on his wall. I told him that my mom went to the same high school. He asked me her name in school. When I told him, he said "I knew your mom in high school. I can see were you get your good looks. She was the most beautiful girl in the school." WOW was that nice to hear. He asked if I had a picture or my mom now. I said no. He said "I would like to see her again to catch up on old times. Why don't you let me take the two of you to lunch some time. I said "great I would arrange it". It sounded like that would be fun. When I told my mom about this she said she did not want to see anyone she went to high school with. When I ask her why she told me she had gained 10 pounds since she was in high school and didn't feel like she looked good. I told her 10 more pounds in 20 years and after 3 kids did not change her great looks. She still looked great. How can I convince her she is still beautiful and should join us for lunch? Would taking her to get her hair and nails done and helping her buy a new dress make her change her mind? It is always good for your job to make your boss happy don't you think? Moms and others, PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THIS.

My husband's mother Joan (my mother in law) is beautiful and has a gorgeous figure. She sure does not look old enough to have a son my husband's age. I just adore her. She is a great friend, something my other married friends can not understand. Both my husband an I work. Sometimes when we get home from work Joan has a hot delicious meal ready for us or she takes us to a high end restaurant for dinner. On some of my days off from work, she takes me shopping or to see a movie and/or then to a restaurant for lunch or dinner. While shopping if I see something I like she will buy it for me. She will not let me pay for any of the restaurant meals we have. Next week we are going to Las Vegas to see a show we wanted to see and she is paying for the whole thing. I told my husband there is no way we can ever repay her for all the things she is doing for me. He told me his mom was the only girl in her family and she did not have any daughters so consider myself her adopted daughter. She is thrilled to have a female in her life to share herself with. He said she is happier now than at anytime in her life so just please continue to be her friend and if she wants to buy you things, let her. Please give me some advice on how I should feel about this. Should I feel guilty about all the great things she has done for me? I would like to find a way to show her how much I love and adore her. Any ideas? Am I the luckiest wife ever?

My dad has snapped. He told me to put a cover on my food in the microwave and I covered it with two napkins but he still told me that he said cover my food because I was seen by him wiping a small stain in the microwave. That was on Sunday. Today he told me that I should've put the trash out last night instead of this morning but he completely didn't even think about the trash pickup arriving earlier than usual. He just blamed me and told me what I should've done. He used to say put the trash out at night but today he said put it out at night when it was too late. I did what he said but just because unexpected things happened he screamed at me about what he told me in the past and what I should've done without even understanding that unexpected things happened in spite of me doing what I was told. My biggest issue overall besides these two incidents are the fact that he can't consistently be understanding and the pointless daily screaming. I can't just bond with my dad and talk to him without him screaming out of anger at me just because he's mad at someone else. It feels like he's mad and screaming most of the week. I have no power and can't communicate with him without the anger and screaming consistently so therefore I'm just stuck with an angry dad.

My cousin who is my aunts son is getting married and he's always liked our uncles soon to be ex-wife so he's inviting her to the wedding, is my grandmother right to demand that my cousin not invite her? This is not the uncle son but his sister's son and so it's a cousin no longer related to uncles ex

my mom went to my room where i been breeding a homoculos and it started growing hares which was awesome. it was almost ready to leave the bowl (i have had about 4 fully survive and release them into the wild) back to the problem well when she got into my room somehow she got into my closet and found it. she asked me whatw as the stink in my room i told her to BACK OFF. but anyway she somehow found it and im not sure if she stabed it or hot it or WHAT but its FULL OF BLOOD AND THE YOKE IS MUSHED UP (which as you know is NOT the corect way) i burst into the sewing rome and i TELL HER I KNOW SHE MURDERED MY SON and she keeps saying "what are you talking about justin' and bretending she is oblivions but I KNOW SHE DID IT. my dad heard me and he hit me with the belt hard so i am back at my room and im NOT GOING TO SCHOOL TODAY PERIOD i just want to know PLEASE is there anything to do i put the piece of ham near the bowl and it DIDNT EVEN MOVE OR REACT and i am realy woried. if my mom kiled my son im warning her the cops are coming or shes gonna be the one next....ive had it somewhat grafik picter of my son at the botom sory but itsa important to see the damage

Where could I sign her up for political causes that we constantly send her spam mail?

And more importantly how do I stop caring when they do? I'm well into adulthood and 37 so it's not like I'm a kid they're trying to discipline. They refuse to support anything that's a passion of mine largely because my passions involve relationships with family members that they dislike. My mother has an all or nothing relationship with people where they are all good or all bad and nothing in the middle and my dad enables that and is codependent on keeping her happy.

He slams them every-time, when he gets mad sometimes its about me and other times it because others get him mad. But then it effects me since i have to live with him. In my head i get so paranoid an anxious as hell when he comes out his room when he walks around the house and i have to sleep in the living room since my sisters have the other room. Im a college student majoring in biology and he doesn't understand how much i have to get done my grades are great cause i try my best but just hearing the constant slamming for years of growing up really took a toll on me that i start crying when hes gone. (and yes he does have anger issues everyone in my high school knew him for his drunk rages and how rude he is.) Whats wrong with me, i feel weird in my brain as if it starts freaking out.

After me & this dude were not agreeing on something, my brother walked in & he said this line "I understand what it's like to be an older brother" and tried negotiating something with my brother WTF was that about? why would he say that to my brother?

Seems like no matter what, I get people ignoring my emails and texts. Not like I do it often. Only once every month or two at most if I really need to and it's only a sentence or two. Why do people ignore me? how am I supposed to gain the information I need if they don't answer me?

My father since I was a kid was not let me live my life. He said the world is a bad place and life is hard. He always just forced me to hang out with him. As I grew older, bad things happened break ups, car accidents, lay offs, yet. I still don't think life has been incredibly bad, I love going out with friends having fun going to the beach, going to socialize, yet every time i do my father gives me a dirty look when I see him. He is never happy for anything not my college education or my loving relationship not my friends. He always cries and gets anxious. What is his deal?

i ve come to the conclusion that she hates me for who i am , since i was never a decision maker in our family , that was my father ! i recently discovered some songs she was listening to before she left for canada with her husband ! it was all about hate and how "you're a no one now" . what should i do with such a sibling ?

Soooo I'm 19 years old, and I'm currently not in college. After I graduated high school I went to community college for a year and realized it wasn't for me. I didn't really have a drive or passion for anything so I felt like I was going for no reason. Both of my parents are in the military, so they have pushed me to go into the military as well, and I had previously almost enlisted, but I chickened out and chose community college, but now, I'm deciding to go through with it again. I feel like I am going through with it only to make my parents happy and because I feel like it's my only option because I don't really have a passion for anything and college wasn't really my thing, so what else could I do? I'm not sure what I'm asking per say with this question, but maybe just like some support or realistic ideas of what I should do...am I making a mistake going into the military? I personally have an urge to just move out of my parents house and live somewhere on my own, but I'm not sure if I could support myself. I know I have to make decisions for myself but, I don't know, I feel lost. Sorry I'm a mess...okay...thanks.

My mom and dad split when I was 8. I rarely saw him until I was 10-11, when we started hanging out on weekends, but we'd always do stuff like movies. I want to do stuff that connects to him, but every time I go to his house he's drunk or still trying to awkwardly connect with my interests when I'm trying to do the same. He has cataracts, which limits what we can do. How do I better connect with him on our outings?

I am a college student in my early 20's and I have a horrible home life. This is mainly due to my mother who displays manipulative and abusive behavior to those that she is close with. She gets angry over silly things such as how to do simple tasks or stuff that doesn't even effect her. She is also criticizes everyone all the time. My therapist said she might have borderline personality disorder and recommended I read "I Hate you don't Leave Me". I've tried my best to help her and the dynamic at home. I recommenced family counselling to my parents but both my parents screamed at me and threaten to beat me. My dad knows things are wrong but refuses to do anything about it. I've talked to my sibling about this issue and we are at a mutual agreement that nothing is going to change and we don't have much time left living at home. Recently things have gotten worse when I got engaged. She has been super judgement with wedding decisions and acts like a victim if we chose something she does not like. She has extreme jealously towards my fiance's family and has tantrums when my fiance or his family gives me stuff. I am seriously considering moving since recently she has said horrible things about my fiance and has lied to my dad and said that my fiance made fun of her. I just got a job and can financially support myself. I am just afraid to tell them or if I should just leave and tell them indirectly. I just want know I am doing the right thing.

All my mom does is yell at me dont get fat and if Im attractive I get rich man, like im 20 and I realize all my mom advice is silly. I dont know how to do a lot and I have no life experience, just in college. I didnt learn anything from my parents except seeing them fight. Since I was 13 all my mom pressure me to be thin and I am always nervous about how I look and now they want to marry me or engage and I feel it unfair I didnt enjoy my single life.

Me and my mother have never been close , I lived with my dad till he died when I was 9, I moved in with my grandparents and lived with them on and off the rest of my childhood going between their house and hers . I don't have any good childhood memories with her , most of the childhood memories I do have in general are traumatic ones , (my father being high , my mother constantly leaving me behind not knowing when I was gonna see her again because I was young and didn't know) We always clashed , she has literally only hugged me once in my life , she is someone I constantly feared telling anything growing up once I was living with her (teen years ) To this day I still don't tell her things just random things out of fear of disapproval or anything she will say or her comments she will make . We have no relationship really at all , we talk but I do not feel anything , like I don't feel any mother daughter bond , I resent her for a lot of things especially for the relationship she has with my youngest sibling because they have the relationship I wish we had . I just wanna know If this is gonna be this way my entire life ? Am I always going to feel this way and what would you do in my situation ?

It's gotten really annoying. Just last week he stole the expensive razor I bought and told my parents it was his, they believe him. He steals my money and my parents believe him, today he tried to take my phone, it's really annoying, what do I do?

Okay so this is gonna be long so buckle up partner. Okay so this isn't like every other kid who just doesn't like there parents because of little things. First thing first I live in Illinois and I'm 15 this will come in later. I feel mentally abused from my parents. My mom always has an issue with me especially with school. She never believes me. My dad always haves this threatening way I guess when he is mad with me. My parents don't buy me clothes and I do have clothes but my girlfriend bought me all of it. My parents don't buy me shoes and if I wanted shoes it comes out my birthday money. The point is I don't have shoes and they can't buy things a child needs. I got shoes recently but my girlfriend bought them for me. When I'm hungry I ask to eat say it is 8PM my parents get mad at me and are trying to keep me from eating. Yeah I get food but when I'm hungry they get mad and don't let me have any. They hate to be wrong. When I cry there mad. I'm so afraid to talk with them about anything like how I feel or anything. They talk behind my back .I feel much safer and loved at my girlfriends house. I was wondering what I can do? This isn't all of the things shits worse. I was wondering if I can leave my house at 16? This isn't sum so I can just be with my girlfriend I just don't feel welcomed at my home, or is there anything else I can do? Update : the part with the food I mainly get food when I'm at my girlfriends house. I'm 5'8 123 lbs. They compare me to my sister saying how I won't be much in the future compared to her. Also my biggest issue is that I wanna start working only because j wanna support my self since they won't . But they only gonna let me work if I pay them each month like $700 bs right lmao what I thought but it's true .