So, my cousin is getting married next year and has sent out both save the dates and invitations. I received neither of those. My grandma and I were arguing tonight because she says that I am invited and that it's just implied that I am included in the invite sent to my mom. However, I disagree because I have been moved out for three years and my cousin knows this. I also pointed out that my sister, who has been moved out for a much shorter time than I have, received her own save the date and invite. I would also like to point out that knowing my address should not be an issue because I live on the same street as my cousin's father and stepmother. He could have asked them for my address. Also, he could have very easily messaged me to ask for it. My grandma's argument is that if it were true, then I'd be the only one not invited on that side of the family and that doesn't make sense. But my sister pointed out that recently I've had trouble with my aunt (his mom) and that's probably why I didn't get an invite. But my mother had an even bigger problem with her and she got one. I know that I could easily ask him whether or not I am included, but then I figure he'll just say yes because he doesn't want to feel bad. And I don't want to make a long drive for a wedding I'm not wanted at. I'm on here looking for opinions on whether or not I am actually considered as "invited". ps. my mom does not remember how the envelope was addressed.

Of all the weddings I've been to, every time I go to the reception part when the broom and bride slow dance in front of everybody there is always country rock song. I'm not saying all weddings do this but why do most times they do?

I'm getting married next year, and my best friend is my maid of honor. I just gave her the date of our wedding and she's already trying to say she can't come due to college. The thing is, I gave her over a year to plan ahead (September 20,2020) she's aware she's the maid of honor, and her school is relatively close (only a few hours away). Am I allowed to be upset over this or am I overreacting? I understand she has school but missing one day, really wouldn't kill her. Especially considering she's the maid of honor, and she's close by. I also offered to pay for her gas money to get here and back. I feel like she has ample time to make plans to not be there for one day NEXT year. I'm very hurt by this and just don't know what to do. thankyou for any input, it's much appreciated.

She is coming home from a 3 week business trip and from the time she boarded the plane to when I pick her up from the train station at 7pm today, it will be 24 hours and she only got 3 hours of sleep last night. I would think that this proposal will be a bit more of a surprise, but she will be so tired. I plan to ask her to dinner... the location will be the restaurant we went to for our first date. Hoping to go on Friday. This proposal would be more expected, but she'll be all rested. She already knows that I'm planning to propose. She even picked out the ring before she went on her business trip. So which scenario sounds better for a proposal?

Hi everyone. My parents are in the process of getting a divorce that came on very suddenly (for me). My fiancé and I originally planned to get married in June of 2020 but decided to move it up to October of this year. At this point I keep getting hurt by my mom and dad because they are in the middle of this divorce and it is killing me. They are both acting like teenagers and going out of their way to hurt each other (and me in the process). My dad keeps telling me he doesn't want my moms new boyfriend at the wedding and that if he comes he won't be civil with them. I feel like I don't want to deal with the drama from this anymore and that I would like to just cancel my wedding and elope with my fiancé. Do you all think this would be a huge mistake or should I just go and be with my fiancé and have a ceremony together where there is no drama.