I am 35 years old. My mother feels the need to interject when the GPS dictates which way to go, because she knows shorter routes. Although, it's very nerve-wrecking, and I feel so insulted when she does that. It's as if she thinks I don't know what the words "left" and "right" mean, and that I'm "special." To top it off, when we got to our destination (our family), she told them about how the trip was, "He drove, I was the navigator." But the family obviously knows we have a GPS, so now my mom is unintentionally making me look like the family retard. Please excuse my poor choice of words. I don't mean any harm to people with disabilities. But I don't like how my mom basically defeats the purpose of me driving, by trying to stay awake so I don't get us lost. She never takes a nap when I drive, even though the GPS is directing me. How do I kindly tell, her to relax and to not do that? It's for that reason I hate going on road trips with my mother.

I suffer from Ms, social anxiety, depression, high blood pressure, learning disability, tinnitus. I never did anything wrong to anyone. The worst thing I ever did was steal a can of pop but only because I was screamed at and pressured into stealing it by my cousin and 2 other friends because I was the only one small enough to fit under the fence. I was suppose to be a truck driving but after I discover I had Ms I'm not allowed to drive trucks. My cousin been selling drugs since he was in high school, there is question wheather he killed a girl, he broke into multible peoples houses, he stole from my grandmom, he turn his friends house into a drug house. He runs around having sex with different girls. He has 8 kids. One of them he look most alike he treats bad because the mom is a half breed and he favor white girls. Hes black My cousin been hurting people since high school and hes still walking around. I have follow the rules since high school, never even said anything to offend no one, even my enemies. So why is it i and not him in a wheel chair?

Ok so as of right now I'm 21 years old and I'm still living with my parents. I'm working nearly full time for my internship and I just moved home from campus. Growing up I've always done several hours yard work around the house every weekend with my dad. I would always have to earn to make plans and to even just go see my own boyfriend at the time. It was never "oh this needs done first before you go." It was always "you need to do at least 4 hours of work before you leave." I understand this form of discipline to an extent, I was never spoiled, i pay for my own phone and I just bought a car. Looking back at it and looking at it now, my dad never really pays attention to me unless work needs to be done.,,I've done this so much growing up I just feel like I'm nothing but free labor to him and it causes too many fights. He never spends time with me my mom or my sister. He just sits downstairs and watches tv..He never wants to go out, spend time with us or go see a movie or anything. I literally feel like all he cares about is yard Work. It's to the point where I sometimes refuse to do it because of the issues it's causing. In my mind I'm thinking "If this is the only form of attention he wants from me then I don't want it therefore I'm not going to do it." I'm just sick of it all. Am I over reacting or is this something that he's done that's wrong?

Long story short. I was extensively abused in the worst manner as a kid and, due to the fact that I live in such a small town, it's common knowledge. Now that I'm in college, I've been looking to settle down with my girlfriend of 1year. The only issue is, and I dont consider it an issue (other ppl do), she has a 2y/o son. I adore him and think he's the coolest kid ever. His biological father chose not to be involved so I kinda stepped up as that figure and love him as my own. We're a great family unit. She feel the same to my knowledge. But, some people have made unfair and offensive comments to my gf abt me. Dumb -ish coming from some of her friends and family mainly. And, they say it in way sound like they're advising her out of concern. Some of the stuff is so irritating I wont even repeat but for example, "...studies show that kids who were abused are this percentage more likely to be abusers so keep a close eye". Or, "it's nice that he helps out with caleb but maybe dont let him change him or give baths" I know they probably don't mean for it to come across the way is does but it's just offensive to me that they use my past experiences as a judge of character or something to be cautious of. When, in reality, I would NEVER do anything to harm him in any way. My gf knows this, I know this and Caleb knows this but i just want other ppl to stop the comments. I've thought of like snapping at them but dont want to look overly defensive or suspect.

Let's say she's single, and so is he. In addition, she has no siblings. Therefore. She feels lonely. If she drinks a lot, is that because her son hasn't become a dad, and if so, is the drinking his fault?

I was chubby in my teen years and my mom tease me and said no man want a fat woman. I lost weight later, but I was hurt by my mom and people. I did get asked out after I lost weight, but I feel resentment sometimes. I do feel better when I lost weight, but I wonder why all the negativity toward me when I was chubby. People use to mock me and tease me for the way I walk and look, and I use to hide away from people at school so I wont get teased. My parents were worse, all they did was insult me and I sometimes cried from my mom. I became thin and nobody tease me, one person said to my mom any guy who will be with me is so lucky since I'm pretty. When I was chubby I had 1-2 guys interested in me now I got more interest.

Yesterday I was at the mall and I was bringing my iMac to the apple store because it was broken and I got it fixed and I was walking out the mall with the computer in a box and I saw a clothes store called Nordstrom so I decided to go buy some clothes and left my computer outside the store in the box while I bought some clothes and when I came back out I got a text from by brother he was in the hospital so I rushed home and then today I realized I left my computer at the mall. I know im really stupid for forgetting but I was really scared for my brother, he is ok now but what do I do about the computer? it was a 2000$ 2017 iMac 27 inch

The things she says to me is just low. She's really mean to me for no reason. And my sister and brother will agree with her. But when my sister yells at her and calls her a b*tch, she says nothing. Instead she apologizes. She's always been this way towards me. She treats my sister and other siblings better than me. This makes me really upset. I'm planning on killing myself in a little while. I just don't want to live anymore if I'm going to be treated this way.

When I was eleven years old, my mother began to work a lot in the summer and left me at home all the day with my aunt (45F) who was not working at that moment. She had never done something like that before but one day my aunt began to caress my pussy. Obviously, no one had done that to me before, and the disgusting part about this is that It felt "nice". I shouted her and told her to stop. Another day, I passed by near her and she slammed my ***. I shouted her again. One day I was in the dinning room with my mom , a friend of her my aunt and another man. I was leaned on a wall near to the table when my aunt was sitting. Suddenly, with my aunt looking at my mother she extender her arm towards my pussy. I was more fast and moved quickly. The most creepy thing is that she did the same gesture again..And do you know the gesture and the two fingers guys uses to finger on girls? She was doing that. I told my but she rested importance. Through the years it was like living with a creepy old man. She blatantly stared at my *** . I felt very uncomfortable in my own house. When I began to cover my *** so she couldn't look at me , instead, she stared at my pussy. ( obviously I was dressed) Both times I let my aunt to do my hair for different reasons when I was 15 and 17 she took advantage and touched my boobs Maybe this is not as serious as other cases but with 19 years old is something that still affects me so much. What can I do to overcome this?

My mother in law Gloria (my wife's mother) is staying with us for a few weeks while her house is remodeled. I really like her as she is the nicest person ever. Both my wife and I work so what a pleasure to get up in the morning and have a home cooked great tasting breakfast ready for you and a great home cooked meal ready for you when you get home from work. I was in the shower getting ready for work and I was just getting out of the show when Gloria walked in. We were both embarrassed and I think she said the first thing that came to her mind. She said "You would gag Linda Lovlace". That makes no sense to me. I wonder what she meant by that? Anyone know?

I recently got into a huge fight with my brother (17) because he started using Ativan regularly (we dont know where he gets it from but it's not prescribed). He claims he only uses it when "he has" to. That's usually if he stays up too late playing video games THEN realises at like 2am that he needs to go to bed if he wants to make it to class in the morning. His arguement is that he's using them for what they're meant for "making him less anxious and aiding sleep" but idt it should be to that extent. My parents are aware of what he's doing and they've warned him about it but just say "no matter what we say, if he's gonna do it, he's gonna do it, we cant control him". However, I don't accept that and kn my opinion this is considered drug abuse. I'm pretty sure, just the fact that he's using it without a prescription means someone (him and/or another) is committing a felony. I'm not sure but I think I read that somewhere.

Okay. I just need to rant! So please hear me out and help me! My mom and step dad kick me out they don't want me and I live with my dad and his family. There is this uncle that I hate and dislike very much more than anything in this world or that could ever exist in this world. Well I live with them and I don't get along with them well but this uncle he's the problem and so it goes like this I hate and don't like him and he could careless and I know he don't like me he could careless for any reason or no reason and he being selfish and being selfish for no reason where he doesn't have to think about me and because we can't stand being around each other. And so can't be around each other makes it worst. Where he takes advantage and I'm just stuck. And to say he is also very toxic. And since I live with them they think it's their house. It like I'm just stuck I can't do anything. But everything is getting worse. And I really need help overall everything is getting worse and worser. It's not that they don't care. It's fine if they don't want me there but it's not okay for them to be doing this. I'm having so much problem in my life and I'm also so stupid. Pls. Just help. Idk should I just get knocked up get pregnant and live with my soon to be man. And or even If I don't have the choice. It's fine but I can't stand them either. P

So my sister and her friends went out for pizza, a movie and shopping a couple days ago. My sister always makes my parents spend money for them. I just know it. We are a low-income family that qualifies for cheaper meals at school, around $40K for a family of 4. She doesn't care about this as she's 14. This time, I told my mom not to go and bring so much money because I knew she would exploit them. However, my dad told my mom she had to through text messages and she went along. Later, my mom came back and told my dad my sister and her friends did not bring any money of their own and asked my mom to borrow everything. They asked for drinks, candy, movie tickets and everything, and I don't know the exact total but the movie tickets + everything were most likely around $100. The tickets were $13.69 each for 4 kids and my mom had to go as well. When my mom came back, she told my dad everything, and I overheard. I was not surprised AT all. I knew this would happen, and I stopped caring at this point because it's the 50th time of this happening. My dad got angry and complained about it like a little baby. However, I found this completely stupid as he gave her permission to go and he forced my mom to leave. I also found it incredibly stupid how easy my mom was to exploit and how my sister and her friends easily got her to spend a large amount of money on them without bringing any of their own. Are they truly completely stupid? Should I tell them something? Or just laugh? I'm also 17 and getting a job soon because I'm sick and tired of my parents not able to afford me the things I need for school but voluntarily doing this for my sister and her friends. My dad was complaining but doesn't care at all anymore. I swear to god my sister will eventually do this again in a couple of months or so. TL;DR My sister planned a girls night out with her 3 friends. We are low-income (40K fam of 4, qualify for need based aid in lunch) but she doesnt care as shes 14. My dad forced my mom to go to be responsible over them. My mom spent $100 on them, the girls didnt bring any money of their own, and told my dad everything. He complained for about an hour, but this happens all the time and he always has the same reaction. My sister easily exploited my mom and does it a lot. Are they stupid or alright I fu**ing never did anything like this you dumbass piece of sh**

If a few of my relatives dont visit with me as much as they do other relatives, could that be a sign they dont respect you? I have two brothers and three sisters. My oldest sister has a good relationship with my two brothers. They usually have get togethers and keep in touch on the phone. I want to be part of their life too, but it seems when I try to communicate with them, or call them. They dont call me back, and they always have reasons of why they cant see me. I personally feel they just dont want me part of their life. We are two different people. They have more money and better lives. I have a learning disability with social security benefits, but I'm pretty independent. I cant think of any other reason why my brother and sister try avoiding me to get close to them. Could it be they dont respect me? Or am I just being emotional?

that are out of social and law rules in a 16 year almost 17 old male. thank you from america That's indeed the problem, I "do that" a lot, but thinking those thiings So, basically, the thoughts won't make me a pervert unless I act upon thhose fantasies, and I never will do that

My dad,grandparents and relatives are abusive. My dad abuses me verbally and sometimes physically. My grandmoms enables his behaviour. She says there is nothing wrong with "punishing" your children for their imperfections. Even i can't take it anymore. So i retaliate with bad language. My grandmom has vaginal cancer. So Whenver my dad abuses i abuse his mom and i keep saying stuff like yours moms pussy is cancerous. Your mom is a whore. Go **** her.... And i do say a lot of vulgar things about my grandmom in retaliation.

Okay so,I was looking through my mom's old phone, since she was giving it to my dad and he wanted me to get rid of some old photos to free up some storage, and while I was doing this, I came across a random, very random video of a blonde girl, pleasuring herself. I was so confused? My mother is not one to watch things of that nature, at all! I have no idea how it got there. Is this some sort of virus? Or..?

My mother is in the hospital and may be dying. I haven t seen her or spoken to her in more than ten years. After a lifetime of trying to have a decent mother/daughter relationship with her, I finally had to cut her off because of the way she made me feel about myself. I have always longed to feel her love for me and it has effected every aspect of my life. What do I do now?

So my I've been in my step daughters life since she was 2 years old, and her mom and I broke up for 2 years back when she was 6. We get back together, she was 8 years old and she no longer calls me dad. Now she's 13 and I've been bending over backwards spend time with her, asking her to do things ect (which she doesn't shut me down). The problem is that she never ask me to do things with her, but she has no problem asking her mom or someone else. I'm taking it personally even though we spend time together, it's not from her wanting to. Her bio dad passed back when she was 2. Why does she have this wall up from me? I do so much for her. I've tried backing off and that doesn't work.

When I was 14 and 13 my mom would always have me sit on her lap in the car at home. why? wasn't I too old for it? wasn't I too big and heavy for her?

When I was 14 I sat on my mom's lap a lot how strong was she?

It's ridiculous! Fathers can be more protective towards their daughters than the mom.

They are doing exactly what the aunt asked them not to do 11 years ago. My parents show very poor etiquette. I am afraid the aunt and my cousins will not want to be around me if they're mad at my parents. My parents will take it overboard and turn a disagreement and make it into a war. I'm the collateral damage every time.

She died earlier this summer. There was not even a funeral.

It seems so wrong to hate family like my mother does. She always felt her mother in law disliked her during her twenty year marriage to my Dad. Yet my mother is doing what she was so upset her in laws supposedly did in her marriage.

So my parents are going on a business trip next week for 10 days and they are leaving Monday and im 15 and I really need RAM for my iMac and I want to put windows 10 on it so I ordered a windows 10 pro disk and 2 GB of DDR2 RAM from amazon with my moms credit card I took from her purse when she was cooking and when I finished I put it back and the stuff I ordered is supposed to come Wednesday in the mail and my parents wont be here so I can take the package inside and my parents wont know. is there any other way they could find out? it was 50$ total

I know someone who when he was 13 he would sit on his mom's lap a lot. she was 51 kind of thin and he was 13 and thin. was she?

I want to take my dream job out of state but she just doesn't understand that the same opportunity isn't available down the street. She can be really nasty and condescending and belittling if I don't pass up the job to continue living close by. I went to uni locally because she could not handle me leaving the nest. I have written a list of suggested boundaries such as "let me learn through trial and error" (as opposed to her helicopter mom tendencies) "if I ask for help give advice not intervention" "picture yourself when you were my age" (she had traveled the world moved out of state and started s family while she insists I am not capable of even driving 3 hours away on my own) "find comfort in knowing you raised me well enough that I am ready to test my boundaries" and "try to be happy that I am ready to expand my horizons"I picture this causing a huge fight but I am hoping she will eventually hear me.

My cousin who is 16 years older than me, she was always around when I was a little girl, played with me, talked to me, and looked after me. Now she doesn't say a word to me. And when I was at our grandmother's house today, I was out in the front and I saw her leaving through the gate, and she put her head up and walked out. She hates me. I was crying. She hates me. How to not care about her? I wish she loved me.

Ever since I have been 15, my mom and I would get into arguments that usually ended up in her screaming at me telling me to get the f**k out of her house, she doesn t want to see me, she ll call the police if I don t leave, etc. etc. However, usually that night or the day after she ll call me crying and saying to come back home & she s sorry. And I knew since I was still a young teenager I had to go home. Well, now I am 17 ( I ll be 18 in less than 6 months ) and she has already told me this twice this month to get tf out ( I even have witnesses ). I actually just got kicked out about an hour ago. I was wondering if she calls and tells me later to go back home, if I actually have to since I am so close to being 18 now? Thanks :)

I am 24 years old and I live on my own I am his son. My Dad said son you need to shave I said I don't want to. And he said you need to look presentable out in public and that no son of mine is going to look like he doesn't care. I said I can look however I want to look he said you my son are not going to talk to me like that ever do you read me? I have been living a hell of a lot longer than you ever have I don't f-cking if you are 50 years old you are still my son and you are going to do what you are g-- d--n when I tell you or their is going h--- to pay do you f---ing understand. I said I can look however want again. He said if you are still small enough to put over my knee I am going to blister that skinny little white sh---y @-- black and blue and bleeding blood all over sh---ing you snottty upstart sh---stompping young p--k of a f-----ing you are in heap of trouble you g-- d---n son of a b---h. He grabbed me through my f-----ing car and gave me a good spanking and he said this is for your own good son.