My husband and I got married young. He already joined the military before we met. He promised me this great life and I believed him. I waited for him during bootcamp, we got married and moved (first time I had ever moved, out of my parents house, states away). It's over five years later. We have a son and have had a lot of drama the entire time. We live in constant financial problems. Constantly never having consistent money. I get so angry because he shouldn't have had a family if he didn't want to support them. He blames me for every problem, saying "it's my fault we're broke", especially since I stay at home with our child and don't physically go to a job. I have to stay at home with our child and we don't get help from anyone. I can't get a job and that isn't the route of the problem. I barely spend any money at all. I'm at my breaking point of being bored all the time and going without basic things. Today was the worst. I hate staring at the TV all day and we have nothing else to do. I have no other entertainment (we sold everything else) and am sitting alone even more bored but don't want to watch anything with my husband at all. I'm livid and bored out of my mind. I wanted to have a drink and hangout, but we have no money once again. We can't afford anything right now, have been sitting around all day and he tells me to "just deal with it". I am so mad and tired of just "dealing with it", I can't sit next to him and hangout or I'll lose it. Am I overreacting?

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My husband and I got married young. He already joined the military before we met. He promised me this great life and I believed him. I waited for him during bootcamp, we got married and moved (first time I had ever moved, out of my parents house, states away). It's over five years later. We have a son and have had a lot of drama the entire time. We live in constant financial problems. Constantly never having consistent money. I get so angry because he shouldn't have had a family if he didn't want to support them. He blames me for every problem, saying "it's my fault we're broke", especially since I stay at home with our child and don't physically go to a job. I have to stay at home with our child and we don't get help from anyone. I barely spend any money at all. I'm at my breaking point of being bored all the time and going without basic things. Today was the worst. I hate staring at the TV all day and we have nothing else to do. I have no other entertainment (we sold everything else) and am sitting alone even more bored but don't want to watch anything with my husband at all. I'm livid and bored out of my mind. I wanted to have a drink and hangout, but we have no money once again. We can't afford anything right now, have been sitting around all day and he tells me to "just deal with it". I am so mad and tired of just "dealing with it", I can't sit next to him and hangout or I'll lose it. Am I overreacting?

My boyfriend doesn't understand marriage and I have always wanted to get married. Before we started dating, i asked him if he'd ever want to get married to someone and he said "Yes." apparently this was all to appease me. He said if you believe in marriage you will "need to make a more convincing argument about what marriage is." He also wants to invest in real estate and said if we don't live together all the time he doesn't really care. He never goes down on me or satisfies me, he used to all the time, but now he barely kisses me, or touches me. I feel emotionally, physically neglected. Needless to say I have become bitter and get angry at him a lot because I try to address these issues and they never get addressed. (I actually attempt to communicate and don't assume he should read my mind.) Me getting angry at him and being short doesn't make him want to be intimate with me obviously, and all I want is for him to understand that I love him and that I'm hurt by his actions. Even when I try to tell him this he just deflects.. I am realizing he really just doesn't care.

I'm on vacation right now and last night I met a guy at the bar and ended up going home with him. My husband and I have been separated for 4 months now and when we first were talking about the rules before I left he said I can date if I want to and I immediately told him I don't want that and I'd appreciate if he stayed loyal to me too. My intentions were to stay loyal to him, I love him very much even if some people would say I wouldn't have cheated if I really did. I have a bit more of a sexual appetite then he does and I've found it hard to not have that kind of intimacy during this time. I have faith that our relationship will work out in the end and we will be stronger, but I don't know if I should tell him about my one night stand or not. He did give me the ok but I broke what I said about being loyal. I made it clear to the guy that I was married and he made sure I was ok with it and that this was just a fun night for me. I feel terrible when I think of how my husband would feel knowing what happened but I don't feel bad about the act itself because it didn't mean anything and my husband was the one to initiate the separation in the first place. Even though I used protection, before I go back to him I will check myself first. I don't think my husband would actually want to know that I slept with someone else but I feel shady keeping that from him. Thoughts?

My husband has a son from a previous relationship and we have 2 small kids together and I have 2 from a previous relationship. He is still in contact with his ex (not the mother of his son). She buys him schools supplies and takes him to do things for his birthday. Last year I found a credit card in his wallet and he finally admitted that it was from her and that I was wrong for going into his wallet and the credit card was for his sons needs. I felt betrayed because I was like what else is she giving you and why is she still relevant. He would flip out if I was still communicating with my ex. What should I do?

I always see fuming hatred from women who are single and bitter or feminazi's at women especially who are stay at home mom's who have the financial freedom to stay at home and raise their own child, and also at successful handsome intelligent husbands who make 100k+ a year and make time for the family and his family is his number 1 priority

We are newlyweds married less than 2 years. He will accommodate if I tell him I want sex but he never wants it anymore. Anything I ask him to do he will do sexually at anytime but it's no fun if I have to ask for it. I want to be wanted. He'll flirt when the grandkids come over knowing we can't and won't have sex when they are here. Is it a game? Ive never cheated on any guy I've ever been with. All his exes have cheated on him. I love him but I don't think I can go the rest of my life without sex. It's not the main thing but I'd like to have it a few times a month. It didn't always be like this. I spoke to him about it and he says he's tired and he thinks about it but just too tired. What would you do?

We are in the process of getting divorced after she cheated. We are very different people and that was probably our big downfall. Our marriage was not good for probably the last year. Now that the person she cheated on me with is gone and everything has calmed down between us we find a weird comfort in being around eachother. We are both depressed about the situation for different reasons and both agree that our marriage is over but we still find comfort in beihg around eachother. For example I went to her house yesterday recovering from a hangover. We cuddled and fell asleep for a while. Then we ordered pizza and watched a show for a while. Then we went back to bed and fell asleep. I left after a while so I could let my dog out otherwise I would have probably stayed at her house that night. Is this weird?

She whacked me in my midsection last night during an argument about various topics when I was driving. Not enough to cause physical damage. Or cause me to have an accident. Not the first time she's stuck me. I did not hit her. Never have. But I told her if she did that again, I'd break her arm. To me, her action was immature. Married 25. Thoughts? Suggestions?

Does that mean she settled with a provider after enjoying with her exes now as her body starts to demand multiple sex partners like before she can't control herself like addiction and so she submits to it? So is there a risk for innocent husband to marry such women?