I hadnt talked to my sister in several years and when she called me after I sent her a letter through the church she said I could have called. I told her I couldn't look up her number because I didn't know her last name now. She said she has always had the same name and will always have the same name but I know for a fact she changed her name each of the three times she got married. The only reason I could think she lied about never changing her name is because my father was jealous of the inlaws and tried to make us proud of our family name when the family is really only filled with rapists murderers and thieves. Why else would she say it?

I'm 16 and I have 3 sisters we are all girls I just don't know why its only me he hurts. If i leave and not text him back for a couple days because I live in a ******* hell hole my dad will grab me shove me to the floor pulls my hair and beat on my face he usually grabs my hands and just hits my face with them. He will step on me sometimes to keep me still and just shake me screaming that I dont care about him or im killing him everyday. I do drugs but he dosent care because hes on drugs to but why is it my sisters will listen to me scream stop or see him pull my hair they dont do anything about it my younger sister tells me I problye deserve it.they see me with black eyes but no one cares why dosent my dad hit them to its not fair im not even enrolled in school and everytime i leave im only getting ****** up on drugs I dont know what to do anymore.

I'll be with aunt Julie so don't have to see it.

I was actually deprived of the West my whole life. I'm white, but was raised by asian parents, so I was only allowed Asian culture. I finally got out into the real world in 2017, but by then it was too late. Civilization was falling apart. I feel like an outsider to history. Now, I have nothing to excite me because I didn't experience anything.

My sister grew up hanging with this woman throughout my childhood. I unfortunately had to be around her. I don't know why my sister hung with her, she claimed her mother was a psychopath, she claimed that she raised herself. Her mom and dad knew where we live. They are very dysfunctional as well. When I was 14 I was teasing and aggravated her a little bit and she knocked me down and rolled her head viciously and vehemently yelling at me that she was gonna 'kick my ***' My sister got word that she did this and stood up for me. Ever since then this woman has been spiteful towards me. She seems to have a 'I don't care' attitude and dropped out of school because there is nothing to it as she says. She tends to be a person that nobody can get confrontational with or else you would have to call the police. She comes over here and there because I still live with my grandparent and taking care of them me being 31 years old as of right now. She still is attitude and moody with me when she gets in a position where she has to talk to me but otherwise she don't talk to me at all. This woman is butched and she looks like a stereotypical bully. When she comes over to see my grandparents what should I do?

I was visiting my husband's mother and I ask her to see his baby pictures. She gave me her family picture album to look at. In it was pictures of her being crowned Miss YYY (the name of our state) 23 years ago. Was she ever beautiful them as she is now. She had never told me about this and neither had my husband. None of her friends know about it either. It was quite an honor so I asked my husband why she never told anyone about it. He said she was embarrassed that she could not fit in the dresses she wore when she was crowned Miss YYY. She had a gorgeous figure then and now. It turns out she is only 1 dress size larger now than when she was 20. What a remarkable feat for a woman in her 40s. She has a birthday soon and I would like to give her a party to celebrate her birthday and being crowned Mis YYY and invite all her friends. I think they would like to know and would be very happy for the honor she has received. However the LAST thing I want to do is cause her any embarrassment. Gals, please give me your thoughts on how and if I should proceed with this. I will not do this if she does not want me to. I will ask her permission before I do it. Would you be embarrassed for your friends to know you were crowned Miss YYY 23 years ago. THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE.

I am a 21 year old who lives in New York . I have not lived with my mother for over two years , my recent living situation i was living with my fiancé and his family babysitting his nephew every day besides the days his parents had off , and cleaned the house on a daily basis so I didn't have to pay rent . Just as of two days ago I moved in with an elderly lady into a room where I share the kitchen and bathroom , I can live here rent free on the following bases - I pay my own internet -I pay half of utilities (central hudson) -I provide my own food -I cook meals and clean household . -and help the elderly lady with small talks she needs help with This deal sounded great to me , as I have a low income right now and this will help me build up some funds to eventually live on my own . Now me and my mother have NEVER really gotten along well she has controlled my life the entire 18 years I lived with her and she still tries to and succeeds in certain ways to this day . She has found out about the living situation and is insistent that I am going to go to jail for it because I am not paying half of everything ? I have gotten multiple opinions and hers is the only negative opinion , and with the type of person she is I know she would be the one to try and start problems because she does it to everyone in our family . So I'm unsure if I should go about getting a lawyer ? Or if I should just ignore her negativity and continue on with my arrangement ?

My girlfriend (29f) and I (22f) have been living with my parents for the past 2 years. She works full time. I m in college full time and working part time. 3 days ago something happened between her and my brother and now she s moving out of my parents and wants me to come live with her and her aunt. The situation between her and my brother happened suddenly and her wanting to move out happened without much warning. Literally the day it happened she was already packing up to leave, so I m still processing everything. I have a really strong relationship with both her and my parents. Personally, I am not ready to leave my parents yet (emotionally & financially). I m still in college and I can t pack up and leave with only a days notice like she can. She grew up always moving to different places and had an unstable home life where I had a more stable home life and never moved. I wanted to compromise and stay at my parents 3 nights out of the week, and stay the rest of the time with her at her aunt s house. My parents and her aunt are fine with that, yet she seems to think I am still being unreasonable and selfish. She thinks that if I don t pack up and move in with her and her aunt full time that I don t love her and that I m going to abandon her. I told her that this would be different if we had our own place to go to and if we actually were PLANNING on moving out, but she just doesn t seem to understand where I m coming from. Am I being selfish? What should I do?

also how old are you and what kind of laptop do you use? you are the legend of y!a

every time we go to church, my dad puts on a really short pair of short shorts. he thinks it's cool and funny, but i'm so disgusted by his inappropriate and immature behavior. he wears short shorts when he talks to others, and they giggle at him. every time he walks into the bathroom, people point fingers at giggle at him. how do i convince him to be more appropriate?

My boyfriend mother is married..not that it matters, but its not his father. Anyways, she's constantly having him do things for her that her husband can and should be doing. She's told me personally he does nothing. He doesn't work, gets money from his mother to support himself only, lets his mom wash his clothes,and he does absolutely nothing around the house to help out. No cleaning dishes, no cleaning up period and no mowing the lawn. My boyfriend works, mows the lawn, brings food home sometimes when she gets mad because her husband has pissed her off. He also washes the dishes,sweep,mop,cleans the bathroom,washes her truck,watches the house when she has somewhere she wants to go,oh and did i mention he never has any money leftover for himself or us because every 2 weeks their is a "bill" that needs to be paid? She promised him she would pay his car note(325) if he paid hers (175), until she got some extra money....a month and a half went by and she fussed at him for them taking his car asking why he didnt save money...Shes always back n forth with him..nice sometimes and evil other times. He asks like he's blind. She used to talk about him, calling him names to me and while he's in front of me. I stopped going down there for almost 4 months until i got my car and was able to visit him regularly. Anyways, its his mom and he should talk to her but he won't because he's obviously afraid. What should i do?

My sons aren't being raised to think they automatically have to protect their little sister and so far they ignore her except for when my mother forces them to play together while they are at her house Why do parents put that unnecessary pressure on big brothers?

So a couple weeks ago i lost my car keys my sister then calls asking to use my car to pick up her kids i say of course i just cant find the keys and it was really frustrating, she then says that shell call the locksmith and pay for a copy to just pay her back the locksmith showed up scanned my ignition because the door was already open and charged my sister 100$ i thanked her blah blah blah she then calls me 45 minutes later saying she hit someone i got really scared and said are the kids okay? She says she dropped them off already she just went to stop by my moms house so i got pissed and said why would she take an extra detour?! She says shell handle it and comes back with zipp ties holding up my bumper, now she said she was going to take it back on friday to finish paying the guy, however the following night i accidently hit the side of a flat bad and totalled the car it got towed and the cost to fix and get the vehicle would end up costing more than i payed for it.So what im basically asking is should i even send her 100$ for the keys if she will now never get to pay for the damage she had put on it if my dumb *** totalled it before she could fix it? Like are we even?