Me dijo que tenia sentimientos fuertes hacia mi. Me agradeció por yo quererla tanto. Le deje un detalle en su casa y se molesto.? Edit a las 3 horas me pidió disculpas por ser ruda y que tomara distancia de ella, que tenia mucha carga en su vida. Ella es mayor yo y adora la soledad. Algún consejo? Quien entiende a las mujeres?

I was casually telling a co-worker about how we're throwing my in-laws a surprise 50th anniversary party this weekend and I mentioned that my wife had invited all of my mother'in'law's remaining living siblings to come. They don't live in our city. Then I casually mentioned that my wife's grandmother had like 13 or 14 children, all of which did't survive. I said that was during a time some 60+ years ago when people had big families. I then said that I wasn't sure if all the siblings were by the same man so I asked my wife if her grandmother had ever been married before. This one co-worker said that I was wrong to ask that as it was none of my business. Was I wrong to ask my wife if her grandmother's children were all by the same man or was it possible that she had been married before? Or do some people "these days" think it's wrong to ask anyone anything about anything? I've been in this family some 15+ years and I was just curious to know some family history. Sub question: Is it wrong to ask about someone's family history or even family tree? And it wasn't like I walked up to a total stranger and asked them about who all has been married in their family and how many kids they have. This is technically my family now, my extended family.

I am in a LDR with my bf of 7 months (NY - VA). We've been having talks of eventually living together, getting married and starting a family. Problem is my mom doesn't want me to move while his mom is pressuring me to move, as well as pressuring her son to try harder in convincing me. I am able to see myself living in VA, get out of the craziness in NY. We are both at least 30, and I know we are grown adults, we should be making decisions for ourselves. But that doesn't mean we neglect our parent's feelings and opinions. From my mom's POV, she's getting older and she just want her kids close by. Even if not living in the same house, but at least in the same state/area. It also goes for his parents, who's also in NY. My bf's POV is he has a really stable, well paid job. He loves what he does and was just recently promoted. If he moves back to NY, he would be taking a pay cut, and there are no open position in NY for what he's doing now in VA. Not that is all about the money, but he wants to be able to be well prepared and be able to support his own future family. So I'm now stuck in between. I do see it from both side. Is not that my mom wants to ruin my happiness and tie me down to stay with her, or that my bf doesn't understand my mom's thinking. He has thought of his own parents too. But currently, things are going well for him in VA. He also said he would eventually move back to NY once his parents get old and needs him.

I really need some answers about my pregnancy. So I know this was extremely stupid of me and I'm aware of it. So, my SO (significant other) and I were having some troubles in July, he had sex with another woman so I had sex with another man and that was on July 19th, 2019 I was not ovulating and we used protection and he also pulled out when he came just in case. My last period was on July 13th, 2019 and I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my conception date is July 27th, 2019. Is there any chance that the man I slept with could be the father? I was also having sex with my SO (significant other) and he would *** inside of me many times. I'm very desperate for answers and losing sleep over this and ask that you guys are kind when answering :(

My boyfriend and I don"t share any common interests, hobbies, or values (such as political, religion, etc). I try to enjoy the things he does, but I can't stand it especially when he doesn't try the things I like. It's to the point we don't watch tv together because we aren't interested in what one another is watching. We end up arguing over everything because we can't agree on anything and I hate having conversations; it always leads to arguments. The only way we get along is if I give in and do what he wants or listen or watch what he likes. It's to a point that I discussed separating, but he doesn't want to and believes we don't have to have similar interests or values to be in a relationship. What should I do? I forgot to mention we have a child together and have been together for years so it isn't an easy decision.

my daughter's boyfriend is 37 and she is 27. he lives at home with his grandmother. i don't know why he does that. he can be saving for his future and a downpayment on a house but he's giving her money so she can splurge on expensive clothes, makeup, and whatever else her spoiled self wants. i checked her account because we share an account due to her not having a license they wouldnt let her have her own account i know i cant tell that man how to spend his money but this seems troublesome to me. does he not know how to tell her no i will not give you three hundred a week to spend on clothes. i saw everything she was buying. she has a serious spending problem. she was spending fourteen a week on paper towels at target. I had a talk with her boyfriend he needs to stop giving her all this money and save up for a house because this is crazy. he can't even get his own place because of all this nonsense.. i told her boyfriend he can give her fiftya month. my daughter scoffed and said " that's not enough. I like luxury. he won't listen to you. youre wasting your breathe." and i said " fine by me. nintenty percent of marriages end up in divorce because of financial reasons. he will grow to resent you because of this. just wait."

i spend all my money trying to buy all the new makeup thats out that i cant afford to replace my purse and wallet that i've been carring around for 5 years and finally broke i blame the makeup companies for making so much pretty makeup, its hard to control yourself when companies are sending emails everyday of new makeup my friends say i look crazy putting my things in a ziploc bag

This is the message he wrote on my messenger and it sounds like a confession: My name; After you read this, you'll probably hate me. I've been holding into this secret for too long but I might as well share it with you. I always knew this since I was 12. I've never acted on it. I will never but can't help what I'm attracted to. I'm a f****** POS for even getting turned on by it. I wish I was a normal guy attracted to women my age or older. Why did God place this curse me with this? I feel like an eternal child in the body of a grown man that will never grow internally. I'll never form meaningful relationships with women. I'll never have a wife. I have no intention of ruining innocent lives. I really don't. Remember all those times I refused to participate in any gatherings with kids, the time I yelled at a kid telling him to get lost and even told you I hated kids and how I was crazy to have a vasectomy done? I already had a vasectomy. That was my way of maintaining control over it, over my sickness. Some day I feel like ending it. I hate my life. I hate myself. This is what I'm guessing. In the message he claims to have never acted on it and seems disgusted to even have that sickness. He hates himself on the message.

There's this second cousin that's a well known musician in my family. I have many second cousins because I'm from a catholic family. Earlier I was trying to get free tickets to go to his concert like I've heard he does for family members, but he didn't. So then I told my friend what happened and my friend asked how closely I'm related to him. I told him that he's the son of my parents first cousin. Then he said that I'm acting like this guy is like my first cousin. He told me that my first cousins and my first cousin once removed (parents first cousins) or whatever it's called is considered family and anything more distant than that just throw out the window. Mentioning that theyre barely related to me and that I can have sex with them and it wouldnt be incest. Then I told him that I have second cousins that are special to me and he said, "yeah, maybe if you grew up with them they could be a family kind of thing to you, but you didnt." But what's your opinion.