whats yalls opinions about this. Okay so i have developed a close connection/bond with my male friend over the last couple of months. my husband was an opposing force for me. He always had to find a reason to go against me. He was very emotionally abusive, controlling, and manipulating. and I have been going through those problems for YEARS with my husband. It was so bad between us. He used to get mad at the way i said certain words. He would be like " Can you not put an emphasis on that word and can you not say that word like that." He used to get onto me about what I wear. He used to accuse me of sleeping with my students ( I'm a teacher). One day he tried to finger me to see if he could see if i was having sex with someone else. our nieghbor who is 18 was outside and he tried to rush me in the house so the boy wouldn't talk to me. I was like " We are 30, I don't want a teenager. please chill." I had come to a point where i emotionally checked out. one day i messaged my male friend out of the blue. I have known him for about a decade but we never talked as much as we do now. my guy friend- He's the complete opposite of my husband- he's very nurturing, kind, compassionate, intelligent. Me and my male friend talked until the sun came up about literally everything. we hadnt talked in a while and we were catching up on each others lives, plus venting to each other about the romantic problems we have undergone. He's such a good listener. for the first time in a long time i felt happy, i felt understood. It was like me and my husband were speaking different love languages but me and my friend were speaking the same love language and we were and still are so in tune with each other AND we have a lot in common. me and my guy friend would send pargraph texts back and forth to each other constantly and I truly felt like I was on cloud 9. Everything i desired from my husband- the love, passion, and tender care are everything my friend posessed. my friend told me that how a man should treat me vs how my husband was treating me My friend really is a phenonmal person. the entire time i've known him we haven't had a single argument because we get along that good. a part of me feels like i chose the wrong man to share my life with.

I think I need to put it in writing or is there another form I need to fill out to stop the petition from going any further. I had my husband's petition approved for his I-130, we have not procceeding any further than this. As he has been having an affair and I want to withdraw my petition for him based on his fraud in our marriage. I have a message the other woman sent me stating he only married me for papers. We had been together for 14 years and it wasn't until 2018 that this apparently began.

Now that I filed, he says he doesn't want it and if I follow through he will leave and have nothing to do with our kids. We have been married for 13 years and he most recently threatened to divorce me while on our family vacation. My kids are small, 5 and 10, and they heard it. They have heard him say this stuff for years. We have had issues of verbal abuse in the past and now I am just wanting all the threats of divorce and ill treatment to go away. For myself and kids. He says he won't say mean things or threaten to leave but he still does.

I usually would keep it a secret but since they've separated seven times people can't keep up with it. I was asked by someone today who thought they were divorced already from a previous separation. They've been married 26 years with seven separations. They filed for divorce once prior.

Can that be fixed and is there a fine for that. Or jus an amendment can be done

So my wife and i going through divorce and she decided to have sex with someone before i even signed the papers, i still want to fix things between us. we are still going through divorce but she said i still have a chance of fixing things and being with her. Is what she did considered cheating?

Mentally abusive everyday for no reason just randomly, ruining everyday acting miserable, never showers or brushes teeth, makes false promises, acts like he hates me, breaks up Everytime we fight, has been physically abusive.. is he miserable or? Why is he doing these things to me

My husband has history of being a cheater in his past and even twice with me.. Anyway he has a high sex drive and constantly complained about his ex rejecting him and causing him to cheat. We are newly weds been together for 2 1/2 years and we always had sex everyday. Lately he started a new job. He's not tired. He comes home full of energy and happy.. however he's constantly rejecting me now sexually when he never did before. Why? Could it be because his ex did it a lot to him? He's made jokes of it being the reason. But I'm not so sure to believe that. Or could he be cheating? Or am I just not attractive anymore to him?

Is it an amount of time? Is it something you think? What is it?

Are they Bitchez around what don't have ever seen they husband's jock?

I got a call from my ex mother in law that her husband Joe was having a hip replaced and that she would be needing some help with him for a few days after he got home from the hospital. I was good friends with both of them when I was married to their daughter Sue. She asked if I would help her with him then. I said sure and I spent 3 days at their house helping him get around in a wheelchair and then on crutches. He has since made a complete recover and is walking normally and most important to him, he is pain free. I recently got an email from my ex wife's new husband and he was mad at me. He said that every time he visited his wife's parents, they keep on and on about how great the care I gave my ex father in law and he was tired of hearing it. He said I was no longer part of that family and I should never see her parents again. Should I just ignore his email or tell him if he has a problem, he needs to talk it over with his wife's parents or his wife. I don't think I should let him tell me who I can and can not see. If my ex's parents want my help again, I would gladly help them. Please give me some advice on what to do.

That way she can continue to sleep around like before marriage.

My husband and I lived in Atlanta for 6 months in 2013. We absolutely LOVED IT! We both landed great jobs, we had a lot of friends, a beautiful place. We left due to pure stupidity on both our ends. In 2016 we again decided to move back to Atlanta. We only ended up staying 8 months. This experience was much much different for us then the first time. Many of the friends we had previously made were gone, we struggled to make any new friends. The cost of living had increased tremendously. We both had jobs so we were ok financially. Now, 3 years later my husband wants to move back to Atlanta again. I'm just not too sure about moving for a 3rd time. This time id be moving without employment. I've been applying in my field out there since last February with little luck and very few interviews. I'm being told in my field particularly, there's been a drop in hiring in Atlanta. My husband is insistent the 3rd time is a charm and that this will be a good move for us. I'm very skeptical and hesitant. If it didn't work out the 2nd time why move back a 3rd time? Thoughts?

Okay let me start off saying that I will have to be in a committed relationship and have someone I really love and trust. But I think it would be better for college and university if I was to get married and own my own home. I refuse to live with a roommate and it would be better then living on my own. Not only financially but also to be with someone I love. I have heard of bad things if you get married too soon but also know people who have been married a really long time who married straight out of high school. I also don't know how my girlfriend would react to being proposed to.

and why do they always tell their wife's best friend that she's really beautiful

He also now wants to increase the loan to payoff his car and increase thhe can't unless I agree since we both own the home...hes becoming unruly and angry I was thinking of divorcing him (long story but he's verbally and emotionally abusive) is he trying to do a refinance loan because it will benefit him if we divorce? Do you think he's trying to do this loan to try to remove me from my home? Please help I do not know much about my rights and refinancing. Is he trying to screw me over...?

He told me that the company board told him to hire a secretary. Turns out he was the one who asked for it and he choose this girl specifically. She has no experience other than being young and pretty. I know all this because my friend works in the same company and she told me. Should I be worried?

I have a friend we used to be very close. She started dating someone back at the end of March and was engaged by June. Ever since she's been engaged things have changed. This entire summer I've only seen her once and that was in early May for my birthday. Every time I tried reach out to her she was busy or with her fiancé. She posted pictures online of her and other friends going out never once offering up an invite. Yesterday she sent me a text out of the blue and told me her fiancé got a new job and will be working a lot more hours.(12 hour shifts) so she will now be available during the week after work hours. To me, I kinda feel like I'm a "convenience friend" and not really someone she wants to make time for. My other friend assured me this is normal when two people are really in love however, I've been in a serious committed relationship for 5 years and my bf and I have always made time for friends and the people we care about. Thoughts? Is this normal?

She doesn't believe me although we continue to have sex and I always tell her that I love her and take her out on dates and pay her compliments and offer to do acts of service

I previously worked from home and my husbands company is nationwide so we've been fortunate enough that we can pretty much move anywhere we want in the country. We lived in Myrtle Beach SC from 2005-2013. We moved to Atlanta GA in 2013 but only stayed 6 months before returning back to Myrtle Beach. Unfortunately, 6 months into our return to Myrtle Beach, my husbands father got very ill. We chose to move home to Iowa to be with his family and stayed there from 2014-2016. In 2016, we moved back to Atlanta. This time was much different then our first time living in Atlanta. We weren't happy at all and only stayed 7 months. We then moved back to Myrtle Beach in Feb of 2017. We've been living in Myrtle Beach ever since. We bought a house and both agreed this was our last move. UNFORTUNATELY the company I worked for went bankrupt. My husband and I never really looked at or worried about the job market here in Myrtle Beach because we both always had stable jobs. Turns out the job market and pay is TERRIBLE here. My husband wants to move AGAIN back to Atlanta. He feels there are more job opportunities for me (which is true) however we've already lived there twice and our 2nd time living there wasn't exactly "pleasant" At this point, we are just starting to feel some struggles financially. We are concerned the longer I'm without a job or working a very low paying job the more financially we could struggle. Anyone have any advice for me? It would be greatly appreciated

I'm on the road to separation. Aside from being emotionally and mentally abusive (there are too many instances to detail here), my husband allows his mom to make our lives even crazier. The worst thing just happened. My youngest son had a birthday party a few months ago, and she had given him an action figure set. My husband made our son wait a week to open his toys because things have to be when he wants. I just decided to let our son take out one of the toys without my husband's consent (they were all in a big bag). He was of course not happy when he came home. Later that evening, my husband let him open the rest. Months later, it turns out the gift my MIL gave him was never in the bag. My son told her that he was wanting to play with it and she must have been livid ( I wasn't there), because my husband came home yelling at me to find the toy, accused me of throwing it away on purpose and followed me around the house. Later on that day, my MIL gave me this long speech about how I don't take care of things and she was never going to buy our kids toys again. I assured her I did take care of their toys and clothes. All the attention and blame was being put on me, not my husband and nephew who loaded the toys into the car that day. A few weeks later I was looking for something in storage, found an old backpack of my husband's and what's in there? My MIL's gift. I sent her a photo of it and said, "look what I found in your son's backpack?" I'm tired of the games.

I have a friend we used to be very close. She started dating someone back at the end of March and was engaged by June. Ever since she's been engaged things have changed. This entire summer I've only seen her once and that was in early May for my birthday. Every time I tried reach out to her she was busy or with her fiancé. She posted pictures online of her and other friends going out never once offering up an invite. Yesterday she sent me a text out of the blue and told me her fiancé got a new job and will be working a lot more hours.(12 hour shifts) so she will now be available during the week after work hours. To me, I kinda feel like I'm a convenience friend and not really someone she wants to make time for. My other friend assured me this is normal when two people are really in love however, I've been in a serious committed relationship for 5 years and my bf and I have always made time for friends and the people we care about. Thoughts? Is this normal?

I do not want my girlfriend socializing with her late-in-laws. That's because they're a negligible portion of a past that she needs to move on from and permanently let go of. She continues to put too much trust in them even though couldn't identify that she was being abused. She didn't speak with them about it, that was her mistake. Nevertheless, it takes a group of dumb people not to recognize abuse. The exes idiotic brother never noticed she was mistreated when he lived in the same home? Sure, he wouldn't have if he was deaf or blind. Even if her ex waited until his brother left to strike her, this doesn't mean the unwise brother didn't hear his brother verbally abusing her when he was home.

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