Long story short: I recently found out my fiance's best friend has been talking a lot of crap about me and has, more than once, encouraged my fiance to leave me. The first time,was before we were engaged. My mom had passed away and I was depressed and I guess I was acting like the world revolved around me and apparently I wasn't doing much for my then-boyfriend, so his best friend told him he should leave me. He ended up staying with me and now we've been engaged 3 months. Last week, the guy (again) encouraged my fiance to leave me unless I clean up my act. This happened because I had to leave work after an hour of work due to getting sick at work from being hungover and still slightly intoxicated from the late night before. I found out this guy has talked crap about how I'm not in school and how I don't have a good job and how I don't have a license yet (I am working on that, though). When my fiance told the best friend I found all of this out, he got flustered and said he doesn't dislike me and that he doesn't understand what I have been through, that he just worries I am taking advantage of my fiance sometimes and he wants his bestie (my fiance) to be treated better. Should this guy still be in the wedding? He's my fiance's "Best Man." I told my fiance his best friend should apologize, but he doesn't think his friend is going to. We're in our late 20's. I've told my fiance that from now on, we'll talk to each other and vent to each other about how we feel about each other and that any time one of us screws up, we'll talk about it rather than vent to our friends about it. What's worse is the guy was encouraging my man to leave me after my mother had just died and then, he was encouraging him to leave me, but to make sure I do it AFTER Mother's Day. The guy didn't care if my man left me after my mom had died, so why would he care if he did it before, after or even ON Mother's Day? -rolls eyes.- *to make sure he does it......not I. drip, our church requires us to do premarital counseling before getting married in their church, but we'd do it anyway even if it wasn't required. That's not scheduled until next summer, though...a few months before the wedding. I still talk to a couple of my closest friends about him, but I normally don't say anything real bad. I've stopped venting to my best friend about him because like his best friend, she just encourages me to leave him over small crap like sometimes my man's annoying. drip, I have driving anxiety. It runs in my family, but I've been working on getting over that. I have my Adult Learner's and have been driving on the back roads and I am getting my license next month, but I also don't have a car either so I am working on getting one. That's what I mean. He is definitely talking crap. He's a jerk. He doesn't have empathy. He thinks because he grew up a certain way and was raised a certain way, that all people should be a certain way by our age. It doesn't work like that. Twiggy, a few of my loved ones have said that if his best friend can't accept me or approve of us being together, then he doesn't belong in or even at the wedding. He hasn't said anything real terrible about me. His best friend just expects everybody to be perfect and have their lives together at our age, but it doesn't always happen that way. He wants my fiance/his best friend to be with somebody who already has their stuff together. GEEGEE, I was drunk and snooped his Facebook (he has said he has nothing to hide so I'm allowed to snoop his stuff...so I did) and saw the messages between him and his best friend so the info. is from the horse's mouth.

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My fiancé and I added plates , silverware set, silverware organizer for draw, towels, keriug machine, bath towels set, soap pump, steamer for clothes and something else i cant think of. My mom saw the list and complained to me it was 11 items like thats a bad thing. I feel like i am being greedy. My fiancés family didnt even ask for a wedding registry list only my side which is mostly my moms friends and such (dads an only child mom has one brother alive who she doesnt speak too so we just have a lot of family friends who treat us like family) What can i add to the list? We made it at target.. i dont want to be greedy :/

My boyfriend and I are looking at rings, and I was wondering what to get or do for him as a token of my love? (He buys the expensive engagement ring, but what should I do for him in return? Is there traditionally something the woman does for the man?)

I don't believe in the hormones thing.... he is always sad afterwards. The first time (I mean, mt first time when I lost my virginity to him) he was extremely delicate and worried about hurting me. He cuddles and gets close to me, touches my face but it looks more like compassion than happiness. When I ask him why are you sad he denies being sad and just says he loves me and kisses me and holds me tight, but he doesn't look happy. He never mentions our intimate life, never buys me underwear (and of this somehow I feel grateful because it shows he is not shallow but a sensitive guy). He never touches my butt but only my breasts when he wants to cuddle but never in a sexual or offensive way. I like the way he is, and his discretion is something that I admire so much. I just wonder why he looks sad and compassionate. He's young and gorgeous but looks sad and dreamy. Why is he so?

I was at a wedding recently and one of the old women from my Church (who knows the bride and her family well) remarked that "[the groom] has got the tiger by the tail."

You are a divorced mother. You will be paying for the rehearsal dinner for the wedding of your child. It will cost 15 thousand dollars Because this divorced mother is forced to throw the dinner at an expensive restaurant in par with the expensive wedding. The mother will not pay for the wedding because it will cost 75k. 75k is too much for the mother. The mother is stingy with money. The mother is shopping at Trader Joe's for her own groceries everyday. If you are this mother, how angry would you be