she makes me wear diaper and a pacifier at all times. she makes me sleep in a crib. she makes me sit in a playpen she spoonfeeds me baby food. she makes me wear a bib and sit in a high chair. she bathes me and dresses me and brushes my teeth. she won't let me use the bathroom, and doesn't let me talk like a normal person, i have to say "goo goo gah gah" or "blankie" and she forces me to cry she spanks me really hard. she pushes me on a stroller when we go outside and makes me sit on a rear-facing baby car seat, and makes me crawl around at home she follows me to school and pushes me on my stroller. i have no dad, and all my 3 older siblings have moved out. and im a girl, and im 48 years old. my mom is 79.

im a 15 year old guy, and im in 10th grade. my history class is going on a 3-day overnight field trip for the end of the school year. well, my mom (who is asian) wants to come. she says she doesn't want me to miss out on anything or delay everyone else by having to use the bathroom, so she makes me wear diapers. she also wants to come with me (just to embarrass me), and she's going to change me, bathe me, and feed me with a spoon, and make me hold her hand everywhere i go. she'll also monitor my every move, and it's gonna be really embarrassing and awkward to have her there. i don't want to wear diapers or have my mom come, but she's insisting on coming. what's worse is that i have an 11 year old sister. when she goes on field trips, my mom never goes there to chaperone, and lets her do anything she wants. she doesn't have to wear diapers, and she can use the bathroom whenever she wants. please help, my parents already paid for the field trip and we submitted to the permission slip.

for my entire life my mom has always treated me like i'm worthless; she yells at me, verbally abuses me, has hit me before, and a lot of other awful things. my brothers don't seem to notice how terrible she really is, and I'm getting so annoyed with this kind of life. I've started self harming again, not deep, but I can still see the very faint scars. i'm having panic attacks twice a day, thinking about killing myself at least 10 times a day, and so much other awful stuff. I can't talk to her alone or else she'll tell me to go live with my father if I hate her so much (they're divorced, and my father is also physically/verbally abusive), which I don't wanna live with him.. any advice...?

My daughter Kathy is a senior in high school and has a lot of difficult homework. She often ask for homework help from anybody that is convenient. For example, I had a ladies club meeting at my house and she ask some of the ladies for homework help. They gladly helped her. When my son had some of his friends over, she ask them for homework help and they helped her and were happy to do it. When her sister's date came to pick her up, Kathy ask him to help her with her homework and he did until her sister was ready to go on her date. What seems so unusual to me is that EVERYONE that helped her told her if she needed more help to call them which she sometimes but not very often did. With all the help she has received she has an A average grade and has a choice of the college she wants to attend. Kathy and I and her dad are very grateful for all the people that have helped her and we have told them so.

Will my mother be his/her grandmother or stepmother?

On Easter Sunday, my family gathered to my grandparents house as is annually done, and I saw my cousin whom I don't particularly care for. I've been thinking a lot about her for rhe last few weeks. Shes always been this way from childhood to adulthood. Shes always been a loner, she doesn't talk much and when she does, she always looks like she's about to bawl her eyes out. I'm sorry, but she's just plain strange. No matter how serious the setting, she's always off by herself drawing in heavily used art tablets. Her hands are always covered with graphite, paint, maybe occasionally charcoal. Sometimes she even has smudges on her face. She only buys one type of clothing: leggings, tee-shirts and jackets. I don't even know if she owns a dress. My mother has explained to me that she has learning disabilities, because this has always been her way of acting. She's almost unable to make pleasant conversation and she keeps her nose in her own world. But when she does speak, she doesn't have many nice things to say. Not that she says anything bad about other people, but she constantly puts herself down. She never got to finish school because she was bullied so much and she had to leave early. Technically shes uneducated. I only have a few semesters left and I'll be a certified nurse, but she's older than me and she still hasnt accomplished anything. I get why she doesn't like herself, but if she really wanted to be happy, she's improve herself. Am I right?

They said they have to have a talk with me and ive been in my room ever since because i dont want to go out, my parents are middle eastern and super strict and think weeds heroin, also i have a little edge over them because i make 6 figures off my phone and im flying the family out to hawaii and im doing good in school to just for my parents so i dont know what theyre going to do.

so. we both live in a big town and i work full time and make good money, i am 19 college educated and she is 25 not college educated and living off of sugar daddies and my parents.. she is trying to make a career off of upholstery in furnature i guess but doesnt do anything. a couple weeks ago she tried commiting suicide and i felt so guilty. she is not a person i enjoy being around and hionestly. she brings me down and is so negative.. and when i try to help her it doesnt work she doesnt take my advice. she does weed and hard drugs on the daily and i try to tell her to stop.. thats causing the depression. but today she decided to move out of her apt and break her lease.. because she "hears" people tallking about her through the walls. i have an apartment but my dog lives with me and i worry for his safety ... I worry for my own and if she is there when im at work idk what she could do. i cant offer her to live with me but i can try and tell her to quit drugs but she wont.. idk what to do

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He is single and very ordinary (just so you know that he's not at all out of my league. I've dated guys who make much more than him, look much better than him & have bigger social circles. Not that this matters, but still.)...why did he do this to me? He doesn't show any interest in me or in talking to me.... And behaves as though he's too good for me. But I like him so much, maybe I'm infatuated with his physical looks. So, basically he has rejected me. Why did he do that? I don't have any negative qualities, and I think I atleast look pretty enough for such an ordinary guy. I feel so depressed over this. How do I forget this guy? I like him so much despite him being so rude to me....

I grew up in a Christian home where obedience is everything. I got married at 18 and have been married for 4 years now and have a 22 m.o. son. I was happy to leave the house since every day was a struggle. I know I was young when my hubby and I started dating (I was 16), but my mother would require me to tell her everything. I have a younger sister who would see my mom constantly listen to the conversations I had with my then bf (now husband). She made me show her each chat and tell her every detail. I felt like there were three people in our relationship instead of two. Despite her wanting me to be with my bf, she acted controlling. If he did not give me the present she anticipated me to get from him on an occasion, she would tell me to dump him. If he did not call me at the time she considered he should, she'd also tell me to dump him (though I explained he was working at the time). Everything was about doing things whenever she considered they should be and how they should be done, otherwise, I was "The worst child ever". The funny thing that pushes me off is that when everything is going her way I am "a great child" and when I wanted to study what she had anticipated I was going to "make it in life". Fast-forward to today, I'm 22 and I really think such things should not impact my daily life, however, it does. And trust me, of all the ways I have tried dealing with it...nothing helps. And I'm struggling. If I do not call her at least a few times a day - "You forgot about me. You got married, now you do not care". If I do not call in the morning she gets mad. On the other hand, our son is her first grandchild and she loves him. She took great care of us as well. We were always fed well and dressed and the house was clean. It's only the emotional and physiological side that has given a few family members a somewhat rough life. My sister is 16 now and she says she's having a really hard time. She constantly gets accused of things for no reason and controlled. I recently was over at my parent's house and she constantly reminds me of one situation when I was little when my sister was born. To me it's nothing but since she brings it up so often... She won't stop reminding me about it saying I was a selfish child. It was when my sister was about 2-3 months old, I was 7. It was close to midnight and I had a hard time breathing and got scared (Later turned out to be an allergic reaction, an inhalator helped before the ambulance arrived). I never had my parents worry for no reason, I love them and do not want to cause them to worry. But that time I got really scared and we called the ambulance. By the time the ambulance arrived, I was fine. They checked me and said I was okay. My mom keeps on reminding that to me saying I was seeking their attention and jealous they were giving it to my newborn sister then. I did not say anything for a while but for the past few times she brought it up I clearly said: "I'd never do that cause I care about you but back then I really was feeling like I was lacking air and could not breathe well". When I told her that she literary burst out saying I accused her of talking bad about me. So just because I disagreed with her? She's not talking to me like before since that situation. Where am I in the wrong? I said, "I'm sorry but I also do not feel good when you keep on telling everyone and me that I was so bad and was seeking attention". I also told her it was long ago and that all of that does not really matter now and I think it's time to forget about it. I did not raise my voice or talk in a bad tone. This is just one of the situations out of everyday situations. I tell no one but I do post online anonymously. Some people say "she's just loving". I know she loves me, but I think there's too much manipulation in such love. I cannot tell her how I feel since she instantly plays the victim. I cannot by any means tell her I was offended by something she said because all I will hear is what an ungrateful daughter I am. She'll make herself the victim, telling me she'll call everyone to tell how bad of a daughter I am. I just feel miserable and feel so emotionally distressed. I tried talking less with her but for her, it's out of the norm and she also got mad for that. PLEASE HELP. If you were in such a situation, how did you come upon it and what helped? If your mother did not want to cooperate, what did you do? My Main Question: What was your solution?

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Let me give you a little bit of a background. When I was five years old, my birth mother (soon after divorcing my dad and to out it simply) kidnapped me and took me away from my father. After that, all I remember are the bad things. I don't remember any good things. I'd honestly rather not list anything down. She has been trying to contact me for 10+ years. I'm currently writing a letter to her and I would like to know how to end the letter. So, how can I end it?

so all of my dads side of my family smokes weed and i've known hat for a long time and i smoke a good amount of weed, does anyone know how i should tell them?

It's been like 10 years since I realized that my dad is cheating on my mom with my mom's younger sister and back then, I was just a child and the even more disappointing fact is that my aunt isn't the only one he's been cheating on my mom with but she's the one he's constantly in a relationship with. My mom loves and trusts her so much and doesn't even know about this but she knows about other girls and she has overcome. I'm not exactly sure what would happen if she realizes that but I'm pretty sure it would be miserable, I don't want to see her surviving much more and I need to know what to do

What is my mom's problem? Edit So Sometimes when i'm around my mom, she says i have a attitude even when i haven't done anything. Anyways, one day, she asked me if i been using her vinagar for my clothes. I said why does it matter and my brother jumped in and asked why do we have these stupid conversations every month. I got tired of it all and went to slash my arm with a knife. My family had a talk and like always they side against me. They said its my fault im depressed. The next day, i was going to the gorcery store with mom and she said i have a attitude. She argued with me ALL the way to the store and did'nt go in because ''i would scream and act up in the store''. I told her to take me to grandmas and she told me she doesn't want to deal with my garbage. Yelled at me and made out to look like a devil child untill i cried. She said i was acting like a two yr old. She also is very intorant towards other people and their beliefs. She even calls our neighborhood a ''white'' one and the minorities there ''foreigners.'' We are black btw.

Every time he gets juice,instead of using a cup like normal people, he uses a water bottle fill all the way to the top. so there will be less juice in the carton it comes from? I see him doing it again and he tells me they are the same amount. i try to show him that the bottle is more by telling him to pour the juice in the bottle in the cup and it all overflow. But instead of doing it you know, OVER A DAMN SINK, he pours on the table near my dad's computer! lucky i moved it but he got a little of the mouse pad. I ask him why and he says he did it, he says because i told him to. He's 15 btw, not 4. I told him to clean it will a towel and he uses paper towel. And to top it off, he said everything i do is wrong. I say that Virgos (which he is} always say things like that because they have to be right all the time. Why does he always have to be a smart aleck and try to look like he is the saint and i'm the sinner. why do people like him always act nasty towards me when we're alone? he literally let it overflow near the computer just to be a brat. at least I don"t try to damage my own electronics when people disagree with me. If he is still spilling his juice at 15, then it looks like baby still needs his sippy cup.

I notice a big difference between my sister's childhood and ours (me and my little brother). My parents didn't worry about my sister's future until it was almost too late. They coddled her so much because they wanted her to be a baby for as long as possible (even at 16-17 years old). However, our parents changed and spoke with us about future careers once we started elementary school. They expected us to think about it at a very early age. As a result, all 3 of their children ended up being on extreme ends. They raised me and my brother to be emotionally mature for our ages... while my sister was raised as a little kid who isn't allowed to grow up. Note that I'm a male as well. I was told it has to do with gender, since our parents are from a culture where it's conservative and gender matters etc.

My mum has been through a lot, she's been abused in her marriage when I was just a baby and throughout her life by my elder siblings. They have thrown her on the floor, they have hit me, giving me black eyes and bust up lips. I thought it was all over when they all left but now my younger sister has been emotionally and mentally nasty and malicious to my mum. My sister ridicules my mum and does it in front of her own friends. She comes in my face trying to provoke me. I'm a male student and love my mum to bits, I suffer with anxiety and start to shake when someone is in-front of me trying to harm me. I need some help please...I've been crying so much this week

For my brothers 16th he got my dads old car. It was worth 2K. For mine my mum gave me her old car as they got a new one. It's worth 8K. He is 4 years older than me so Mum was still using hers when he was 16. I have a job. My brother is at University. I've saved $4000 towards a new car as mine is Manuel and I'd feel safer in automatic. My mum gave me permission to sell my/her old car. Then today she says she wants to give it to my brother instead. It's still legally hers but they gave it to me. They pay for his EVERYTHING. I depend on them but I pay for a lot of my own things and worked hard to save 4K as I'm still in high school. Then as I was upset since he gets what 10K for nothing and I get nothing Mum says "when you buy a car I'll pay you 4K towards it to make up the difference" since mines worth 8K and I have 4K saved. I appreciate the gesture as I know she's not made of money and she doesn't HAVE to do anything. I'm just mad that I had to work hard all this time to get equal to what my brother has. He claims he can't get a job because Uni is too hard yet so many uni students have to get one. I don't want to be spoiled but I'm so mad that's how it turned out. You can't revoke someone's gift?! Does this seem fair to you? What would you do in my situation? I struggle in my last year of school as I work so much yet my darling brother doesn't have to work and gets everything he wants? Also he reason he needs a new car is be cause his broke and is not worth repairing.

She inters my room and mess with my things she re place my stuff and yesterday I told her mom those are clean clothes hugging near the closet and I told her not to touch anything before she asks me she keeps doing it so ,, what to do

When i'm at a family dinner party or whatever they all treat me like the dumb one because i'm unemployed and they look down on me for it. I'm gonna be starting my lifeguard qualification soon so they can keep talking.They say I'm the weirdo in the family because i have mild anxiety and i cant articulate myself sometimes and they just make fun of me laughing like "why you so awkward and strange" I don't defend myself which is annoying in my part. How to avoid my family from now on? I am gonna stop attending parties and xmas so I don't have sit in their company. But most of them are in the same street as me. Should I move house or try get on with them for now?

I really want to go on the trip (3 days) but do not want to go to the club, is it wrong for me to tell her that? Or am I being selfish? I hate the environment and all the dram that it brings...am i being selfish for not wanting to go?

My dad's a firefighter, and in the next year or 2 I'll be eligible to join the same department. My dad has been obsessing recently over having his legacy continued, having me be the 2nd generation firefighter in our family. However, I'm simply not interested. I don't turn 18 until next year, so my dad can basically do what he wants. He keeps trying to force me into the fire dept. explorer program, tell me what courses I can take before starting the fire academy to give me a "boost," etc. Every time I tell him it's simply not something I'm interested in, he has a fit and yells at me to "stop saying that stupid sh!t." How do I get him to leave me alone?!

I'm 17 and am turning 18 in July. I leave for university soon. However, I have barely gotten to experience anything worthwhile in my life. My parents have controlled every aspect of my life thus far. It was to the point where my parents refused to teach me how to drive in order for me to not to be able to go out with my friends. I had to pay for driving lessons just to have my parents refuse to put me on the car insurance or let me have my mom's old car. This car issue has created a trickle down effect to my school and work life as well. My parents refuse to pick me up from after-school activities. Although I'm ranked 6th in my class, I've barely gotten any scholarships due to my lack of extracurriculars which made me seem one-dimensional. I can also only work on days that fit their schedule. I was supposed to have two jobs this summer but they made me drop the other one because they didn't feel like driving me there and they don't trust Ubers (I can't fully blame them). This controlling aspect also goes to basic things such as ironing, cleaning, etc. Being an only child, they spoil me and when I try to ask how to do them, they don't show me, but when I don't, they are mad at me for not knowing. My parents already planned out everything for me to do in college and I need them to accept that I will soon be an adult and I know right from wrong. I'm not saying that I'll be out partying every night, but I just want to experience some fun for once.

I got two annoying oldest brothers who think they know more than me but they don't.

Past few nights she's been fighting sleep. No night terrors just flat out won't go to bed. Tells me NO and refuses to sleep for school. She's been ornery for school and gives me attitude. So last two nights ago I decided to wake her up at 4am and put her in timeout until 4:10 extra 2 minutes was for talk back. Was I too harsh? She got up for school not a word out of her.

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