Hi so umm, im bisexual and i have this crush on this guy for like 4 years!!! When we first started talking he used to give me a lot of his attention and we used to play around all the time and I've heard that some guys flirt by being mean to you...but i also used to be mean to him in a playful flirting way. We stopped talking for a while but then we started talking again and everything went back to normal. He used to laugh at all my jokes even the ones that weren't funny. Make eye contact everytime we could and he used to smile at me a lot! Here's where things get weird: one day we just stopped talking. He wouldn't laugh at my jokes and none of that stufff. I saw from the corner of my eye that he still looked at me when I wasn't looking. I don't talk to him because im super shy and i think its the same situation with him idk.sometimes i feel like we mirror each other's behavior. Idk what happened and I really wanna talk to him again, idk if he likes me back, im just so sad about the whole situation. I tried following him on ig but he blocked me...and idk what to do at this point. Im afraid that if i talk to him he'll tell me to **** off but deep down i know he wouldn't...what should i do?

PLEASE FRIENDLY ADVICE ONLY. my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 months. he recently turned 18 i'm 15 turning 16 next month. yesterday we were making our and he started kissing down my stomach and was pulling my pants down. everything we have done, has been with our clothes on. he is my first serious boyfriend and i don't know if we are moving too fast. was he attempting to have sex with me? i was into making out with him until after that we kind of slowed down and finished soon after. once he saw me pushing him away he did stop. when would be an okay to time have sex? i am willing to consider it, but i don't know if we have been together long enough?

I went out of town to Florida last week and when I came back my friends at my college said "oh, we missed you so much!" but my other guy friend who teases me all the time said, "yah, everyone did miss you but I didn't miss you at all" while he looks and smiles at me. He likes to give me a hard time but is always joking and never mean. I was talking to him about something that reminded me of him and he said "ohhh so you're thinking about me, huh?" again while smiling. I also noticed that some of his friends who I met once know stuff about me because he was talking about me. We are both 22. He doesn't talk like this or joke with our other female friends but maybe he just likes to joke around? Or could he be interested?

I was asked out by someone but I want to stay friends nothing more but I don t know what to say help‼️

English is not my first language so I'm sorry if there's lots of typos. I'm 19 and dating this guy who's 22. He's honestly one of the best guys I've ever met. He's sweet, has a good job, isn't overbearing, just all around a great guy. We've been together for 5 years now and up until a few days ago I hadn't thought about us ever breaking up. About 5 days ago I was visited by an ex of mine. He and I hadn't had an official relationship but we occasionally had sex and were head over heels for each other. We talked for a while to catch up and pretty soon we were in his car banging it out. I don't know what had gotten into me. I had a great guy and now I might lose him. I'm not sure whether I should come clean or just dump him for a completely different reason so he never finds out. I know I'm a shitty person and that I did this to myself but I don't wanna hurt him. He's kind of sensitive and I know it'll absolutely crush him if I come clean. Any thoughts on what to do?

I am a 27 yr old virgin. I met my 33yr old bf 5 months ago. On our second date he asked about my past relationships and how far i've gone with my partners and i told him about being a virgin, but lied to him about never given a guy a BJ. Hi told him i never went down on a guy and he was like good bc that's worse than having sex with multiple men. Now im afraid he'll find out from my ex i'm being paranoid even though it's highly unlikely they will ever cross paths. He is about to purpose to me. I feel bad for lying to him about this, but if i tell him he'll most likely not marry me. What should I do?

So there's gonna be no prom for my school cause the place they were gonna have it at I bought for 5 days and the principal told the students this yr there won't be prom. Most of the students are upset. So funny. Now nobody gets left out. There were few including me that had no date. This Saturday I'm going to the place and celebrate.

So this past sunday was mothers day and i spent like the whole day with my mom and fam and went out to eat and ****, but then i went to the gym with my bf for literally an hour to get a workout in and see eachother before the week starts .And my bfs mom texts him and asks if he was eating them that night, i think they were ordering pizza or something.And as we were leaving my bf asked if i wanted to get a quick sub sandwich at jersey mikes and john texts his mom back saying " i think im gonna grab something with tiff" (me). And believe me i tried to tell him it was mothers day and he should eat Sunday dinner with his fam. even if he didnt feel like eating pizza.So his mom responds back with "ok. eat with her." Does that sound salty like does she not like me now? And the past few times ive slept over she like either leave or directly goes in the shower before we leave his room. I thought his mom really like me before these things occured the past month. And i literally sleepover once every week or two times a month. My mom does not like my brothers girlfriend (there are legit reasons) and she refers to her as "her".. Thoughts?

Hi, i'm 14. Throughout my life ive never really had any actual love or romantic affection towards anyone, but recently, ive been talking to this person online. We are both a part of the same online community for the same show, and in these past few weeks i feel like ive never connected with anyone like this before. I love talking to him, and thinking about this just kinda gives me some kind of giddy sensation washing over my body. Thinking about some of my conversations make me feel a certain way that I can't describe. I want to ask here to see if I'm overreacting because if im not overreacting then this would be my first love.

I've been staying away from them since high school because people told me to "stop looking". I just turned 26 a few days ago and I've never experienced being with a girl before. I don't know anything about girls or what they want. I was told to just ignore them because isnt that what "it happens when you stop looking" means? As if people are saying "ignore those stupid braindead zombies." If they say that you meet someone when you stop looking, what's the point of having a crush on someone then? Replace the zombies in walking dead with women. Much better. Can something spontaneous happen in my life already? I wouldnt be constantly waiting around for years for something to happen and letting myself age. The next person who says "itll happen when you least expect it", shut up.

I thought that all the straight men would **** any girl they could.What was that?

She gave me a birthday present and then broke up with me on my birthday. She just had her birthday and I got her nothing

we don't like each other anymore, just the sex. is this a good idea, bc tbh i can't get anyone else

my ex gf and I lost our virginities to each other while we were together for almost two years. She broke up with me for no real reason, but she'd constantly lie to me whenever I asked her questions. since then, she hooked up with on of her frineds, they had sex, then he left her. she just came back to me and we agreed to start dating officially again (since she left me 4 months ago). we said this specifically. now she's saying we never agreed on that, and now she just left me again, for absolutely no reason. we were together for a few days and everything was fine. we had sex, went out, etc. today she was happy, then five minutes later she got angry and just stormed off for literally no reason. what should I do??? forget about her?? should I even be sad?? I think she's a genuinely nice person, but I don't know why she keeps doing this to me.

On break from class, I was sitting out in a lobby. As I sat down on a chair, this girl from my class sat next to me really close on a chair, and nearly brushed up against my legs with her legs! She sat next to me, then she nearly touched me with her legs, and kept her legs there, like really close to me and not moving? Almost as if she was invading my space, because I didn't move and her legs got really close to my personal area! Why do you think she would sit so close to me and not move? I've never talked to her before!

I'm 18.There's a girl that I've really liked for a few months.I've never had a girlfriend.We got really close 3 months ago.I know back then she also really liked me but her best friend said she now goes back and forth.We've done things with just the two of us maybe 3-4 times. Things that I and many friends would consider dates.I can tell that she goes back and forth giving mixed signals.Her friend has told me that she is confusing me with these signals because she is also confused and not sure what to do.I think there are two main reasons of why she is so hesitant.She has had maybe three boyfriends (which didn't last long) all of whom have cheated on her.She has trust issues and is scared that again.The other reason may be that college is close and she doesn't want to get into a relationship before that.This last weekend was prom, and we both had a great time.The entire day,she was sending mixed signals if she wanted to date.Pictures,maybe;dinner,no;grand march,dance,and afterparty,yes. I thought I was looking good Last night I heard from her friend that she is too nervous to date even though she wants to.She is going to talk to me about it sometime this week.I really like her so I'm pretty sad.I think that her reasons are understandable, but a little dumb because 4or5 good months could happen.I guess I'm wondering what I should do before or when she talks to me?Should I try to change her mind?Should I convince her as we talk?How should I respond?Thanks for listening

My boyfriend is going through a very difficult time - family member dying of cancer and losing his dog 2 weeks ago - and he wrote this to me, "I m fine and am just needing space now and I simply can't move things ahead in a relationship as it's not fair to you or anyone. I have high anxiety and getting these texts only increases them. Please respect this." What does this mean? Does it mean he wants to break up? Please help. Thanks.

We carried an ok conversation. He told me a couple times that it was great meeting me. I did not hear from him so I texted him to say hi the next noon. He texted me back in an hour. I replied in 6 hours because I was working. Then I did not get reply. Wii l see him again?

I've been talking to this go on and off for a couple of months, a couple of times we planned to meet but had to reschedule due to something coming up (both sides). We've had really good text conversation and spoke on the phone once, then finally met up at a bar, he was with his friends who told me that he was talking about me all night. We hooked up, but he had to leave abruptly with his friends so when he messaged me the next day he was regretful and apologetic. There hasn't been much conversation since, it could be business at work. I did message him first and he replied almost instantly but the conversation stopped. Did he lose interest after meeting in person (regardless of spending most of the night with me) and is just being nice, or is he pretty shy about the situation?

My FWB, who I used to be romantically involved with for about a month but am still best friends with, is going through personal issues right now, but even as his best friend he will not open up to me and give me insight on what is going on with him. I know vague details but he won't talk about it much. In my experience with past men as well, they just do not like to say when they're struggling and discuss it; why is this? Is it because you don't want to seem weak and like you need help? Because from a woman's point of view, all we want is to be let in on your emotions and to be able to help the people we care about, so it's frustrating when a man is obviously upset/going through something and lets it affect his behavior, but he won't talk about it to resolve it.

I was in a healthy relationship, the problem was that we're long distance. Due to my lack of experience the relationship started to become toxic without both of us being unaware. I was starting to feel pressured and eventually I had to break it off in order to keep track of my priorities in university. After 5 months from the break up I can't seem to regain my confidence. I've focused on myself as I've recently learned that its totally fine to be selfish. I tried picking up new skills along the way these past months but noticed that I overthink things now. I get anxious around attractive girls, and I just don't seem as confident as I used to be. Does anyone know why this happens and how I can regain my confidence?

Im 18 and i never been sexual with anyone before but my gf ask me will I give her head? But I don't really know what is she asking.

A girl told her guy friend that she don't want him to pick on her about her body because she is really insecure and he told her that she need to stop thinking like that. What does he really mean by that?

Fyi he dont have a sister and that wasnt his grandma or mother. Some people say I'm overreacting.

So my bf and I are high school seniors and its going to be our one year anniversary in a few weeks so I've been thinking of a gift. I was gonna get a little notebook and write my anniversary card message inside along with a bunch of my favorite memories from our relationship. I'm also gonna decorate the inside with little drawings etc. I was also gonna bake him something. But I still want to get him one more things but idk what. He's going to a service academy for college (which mean he has to leave early for basic training) so we're only going to be physically together until mid june before we have to do a long distance relationship. Therefore, I want to make my present really special, but idk what to get. Would it be too mushy for a guy to get one of those stuffed animal hearts since he's kind of a nerd and I could be like "it's since you have my heart." Or idk, I'm really stumped on what else I want to get him. Any advice? thanks :)

A regular customer used to come all the time, was always friendly and chatty as i was with him, one day i felt really flirty and drew a smiley face on his coffee lid, next day he came in and he just started talking to me more and i ended up falling for him but i was pretty discreet about it, last week he came in with a coworker and his coworker ordered a burrito and asked him if he was gonna get the same thing and i went "hes pretty consistant" in a sarcastic way and his coworker went like oh she knows your order and i dont remember what he said but anyway.. he didn't come for a week after that and just on Friday he came with another coworker and looked so serious didn't crack a smile once and he told me he went to starbucks and that his girlfriend treated him... i was so thrown off couldnt even make eye contact and today he came in again but didn't even look straight ahead.. so im just curious like what happened last week that made him not come in anymore. And if its cause he thinks i like him, i dont think that should be the reason why.. i mean what am i going to do, grab him over the counter i know he's off limits. Im just curious why he stopped coming in and would feel really about myself if it was cause of what i said last week.. i genuinely didnt think it was harmful, just playful teasing.

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What does it mean when your guy friend gets all awkward when you talk about your fiance? What I mean is that whenever I bring him up, my friend kind of responds with a "let's not talk about this" tone. I thought I was delusional so I KEPT bringing my fiance up and he reacted the same way every time. He also has yet to acknowledge my engagement and gets all awkward when he looks at my engagement ring. By the way, this friend is happily married and has a family. He's 39, I'm 28. They've only been around each other a handful of times and whenever they're around each other, my friend is nice to him. What's funny is my fiance doesn't really like HIM that much because he's convinced I have a crush on my friend, all because I admitted that I used to.

So my boyfriends birthday is coming up. It's our first time celebrating his birthday together. He is the type to not want to do anything special bc he doesn't like to be center of attention. So what I was thinking was to take him to dinner and then go to the beach at night to just hang out and have a few drinks and invite some of his friends along with the guys girlfriends so they can be apart of that nights event. And also are flowers a weird gesture? We've never really talked about it.

we have been together for four years. we were best friends for a LONG time before we got together. when we were friends we would basically talk all day everyday laugh and joke around with each other, we were both sort of nerdy and outcasters and didn't fit into any particular group. neither of us are into drinking and partying. my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend one particular day after me saying that he could never make me fall in love. he said I was different from other girls and an example of how a true woman should be. I never thought we would actually fall in love but we did. he's always been there for me. there was a time when I was unemployed and he would give me hundreds of dollars per week. I don't have my license so he drives me everywhere I need to be. He has three kids but he still makes the time to see me at least twice a week. I actually lost my virginity to him. I can say that he is the only man I've dated that has never cheated on me. we haven't had sex in like six months and he still hasn't cheated. he decided we should wait and do things the godly way, btw. it wasn't my decision. however, in the first one-two years we were together he was very controlling and had a short temper. one time he got upset when we went to his house and the neighbor who is 18 was looking at me. my boyfriend tried to rush me into the house. my boyfriend is scared of everything. my boyfriend used to have an issue with being out at night, he had to rush me back home before it got dark. he doesn't want to go and ride roller coasters with me. everytime I mention traveling he has to name all of the dangerous places and which ones have gangs. i'm an adventurous person and love to explore, have a change of scnery. the one thing that we both love is going to the movies. we go to the movies every weekend and that's kind of our thing we do i'm trying to learn how to drive and my boyfriend doesn't want me ever driving for fear of me dying. I don't want to be dependent on him for the rest of my life. I don't know if he might ever leave me or die or whatever. my boyfriend says my attention span is too short to drive and i'll end up killing myself or someone else I am finding myself falling for my coworker as I find that he is more easy going, laid back, he encourages women to be independent, as well as he has a good career, his own house, two degrees, and isn't scared of living his life. i'm trying to push back these feelings but it's so hard because I see him everyday and seeing him just reminds me of everything lacking In my relationship. im 26 my boyfriend is 35, he has three kids with two baby mothers. he just recently got into it with his baby mother about the youngest child. she wants him to sign off his parental rights and he's conflicted on what to do. I just need some advice ughh

so today was the first time I was intimate with my boyfriend. we had sex and every time he thrusted deep it hurt, but at the same time it did not hurt hurt. then when I was in the dog position and he did the same deep thrust it hurt a lot. Ive had sex before and it didn't hurt at all but with him it did. can someone give me a theory on why?

Last year before we got ENGAGED he went to his country for 3 weeks for vacation and came back all normal and stuff after he came back we got ENGAGED and married I asked him if he done done anything stupid and he said no I believed him. Come this week I got a gut feeling to check his Facebook and I found a message from a girl they exchange # but she wrote him and he never replied back and I got on his Facebook pretend to be him and message her and she tells me that she can t wait till he visits again and I asked and she told me how he was super wasted one time and that she had to pour water on him to sober him up that happen after they had sex even tho she says that he didn t finish because he was too drunk and he didn t remember anything the next morning I asked him last night and he said nothing happened and then he said that they did have sex but not all the way! I cried my eyes out he had time to tell me before marriage unless I found out he would have never told me he says he will never go back and he told her to leave him alone and to erase him on all social media and he said he was sorry and that he promised on his life never to do it again. What do I do I love him but Im Heart broken I can t trust him anymore should I give him a 2nd chance? We are married and just bought a house. What do I do

We haven't been together for a while and i still have feelings for her but I don't want to get back with them

So there's this guy that I like. In my Spanish class we are doing a dance and one day we were practicing during our homeroom and both mine and his partners were gone, so he asked if I wanted to practice with him. He also posted a like for a TBH thing and I liked it. He sent me a paragraph about how he liked talking to me and that I am smart, funny and chill. What does this mean?

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This is troll-worthy, but i'm african (nigerian) american, but i never feel black enough because of my slight accent and quirks. As a first generation, i was very whitewashed growing up and gravitated more toward White guys and ever since I was little, I've always had a huge preference for them and very much attractive to me. I feel like it's odd because growing up, i didn't like black guys much, especially because I was dark skinned and my brothers are black so it would feel like I'm dating my brother. Also, I didn't look good for me as a dark skinned to date dark skinned men because of the way it looked. Growing up, I started liking black guys more, but as I've said before. I feel like I don't look good with one because of the coupling. Anyways, I want to know if there are many first generation Africans who feel the same way.

When I was in 6th grade the woman teacher I had once worked with my mom and one time she put her arm on my shoulder while we were walking and talking and she seemed to be extra concerned about me and look out for me than any other student and sometimes I'd kind of touch her butt like one time she was bending over and my finger moved on it like twice and she didn't say anything. and I didn't feel anything sexual when doing it