My wife told me she use to date a female, and she still finds some attractive so i told her she could have one. As her husband is it wrong for me to want her to have a girlfriend. She says its cheating but i wouldnt care just as long as the other person was clean so there wasnt any stds being passed around

Think twice about doing so he left! At the time I was 3 months pregnant with his second child.. The ***** he was with got pregnant but I heard she was messing with her cousin as well.. so now the hoe says the baby is my husbands.. I forgave him and he came to me to say sorry so I forgave him and we've been together for 3 more years now and I really don't want anything to have to do with that ***** and the bastard child. My husband doesn't believe it's his either and I've told him there's no way in hell he will go see her or the kid in the future.. because he really hurt me and I'm scared for life.. she knew he was married but had to slither her way around him and of course men can't be faithful.. I feel as if He did anything else like this in the future I will leave him for good this time!! I love him but I ain't going to accept any more bull**** Advice anyone no rude comments

I'm also in my 20s and have a masters degree! I'm very educated and I am also very good with makeup too

He works for a family member and leaves at 5am and gets home till 9pm so I don't see him much.. when he gets home I let him know that before he would get home at 6pm but now he is too busy working and I know he is because we both have an app installed to see where we are. But the point is sometimes I feel alone and I even stopped seeing my family for him I don't see them so often because he betrayed me in the past and my family is upset I forgave him we have 2 kids together and all I want is more attention from him and maybe even some more quality time. I just finished school and have a degree but I'm taking a break now to be with my kids at home. Women who are married and going through something similar any tips or advice I really don't want to talk to my family about this No Rude Comments Please!

I get being acquaintances or distant friends but what of close friendships? Is it possible for heterosexual women to be friends with heterosexual men without one of them wanting more? Does your answer change if one party is married and the other is single?

Married for 16 years. Lots of alcohol, anger issues, and mental abuse and manipulation on top of never really being a supportive husband, dad, or financial contributor. The last 4 years were better with some of those things with him gaining better and longer employment but we ended up having a second child 3 years ago and his issues were not completely stopped so I left to avoid a terrible falling out and for my kids to stop seeing the worst in him. He tells me he's been sober all this time after 5 months at a sober house, and that he regularly sees a psychologist. On top of constantly reminding me that he lives in his car because he can't afford an apartment right now. Does this sound to you like manipulation all over again? Do spouses really ever make a change after a split?

The first one seemed genuine mistake but this one was when we were hand holding and talking. She happened to have this kind of problems when we first mate, she used to call me with her colleges name. But it's been a while now and of course she changed that job. She's been working for about 5 months now. I am curious? Should l not I be?

I belong to East Asian Family and i am currently in arranged marriage, i have been married for 3.5 years almost and lately i feel like my wife is becoming extremely annoyed related to my family issues. these issues started when my wife had a miscarriage 1.5 years back and my family wasnt supportive. My Sister in law (brother's wife, SIL) is kinda rude to my wife many times especially the day of miscarriage but always when i am not around. My parents isnt very supportive in this regard and always favor my SIL. now everytime anything happens, my wife become extremely annoyed and tries to vent out on me and brings up everything from start of marriage till now. when i suggest to do anything, she becomes even pissed by saying i am just discussing not telling you to do anything. I understand that but i cant have same annoying discussion over and over again weeks after any incident. today same thing happened, she became extremely pissed of over dinner preparations done by my mom (Mom and SIL are visiting) and when we were on walk she keep saying stuff and same as last few times she started to tell me how i am same as my mom and not supporting her (which i honestly think i support her completely but when she get angry she discard everything) on which i told her not to say such things she said ok and then after 5 min she started telling me again how i dont support her. same happened today and we had big fight Please tell me whats the best way to fix this issue.

I mean I obviously know that random sex with random people is bad, which I honesty have to say I'm guilty of in the past. But is pre-marital sex with my girlfriend who I love with all my heart a sin? I never cheat, wouldn't even think about it. And me and her always talk about the future and getting married, and moving in together. Would this still be a sin? I'm trying to change my life for the better as is she, and we've been trying to find the answer to this.

Marriage is failing.

I have been with my husband for a few years now and the sex life is fantastic. We are romantic and passionate and we try different things and we both agree that there is no problem with anything in our life. We are a happy married couple and we have sex almost daily. But yet I still find him sneaking masturbation in the shower. he doesnt know I know and it s a daily thing for him. Why does he need to do it?

This guy has been talking to me everyday because he said he was unhappy with his wife. He got back in contact with me (there's a history there) and has been the one flirting etc. Anyway his wife must have searched his phone and he rang me wanting me to tell her that it was all me and that he's innocent! I couldn't believe he was asking me to do that and wanting to portray me as some sort of crazy ****. I've messaged his wife the truth but don't know if she will ever see it as it's a message request, he has lied to everyone about me. I'm happy to take my share of the blame and fault but not be lied about. When he was trying to get me to lie and say it was all me to save his skin I was silent, his wife said 'she doesn't want to talk, that speaks volumes'. What did she mean by this? What did my silence suggest?

My friend and her ex-partner were on and off for about three years. She has two children, one five year old girl from a previous relationship in which the father isn't interested and there is no chance of him coming back, and a one year old to her ex-partner in question. She tried to work it out amicably between the two of them but he is constantly harassing her. He sends her text messages all times of the day and threatens to come down to the house and on several occasions had to be forcibly removed from her property by the police. I've seen text messages that say "Why is your kitchen light on?" and "I'm looking through your kitchen window right now." which scare me to death as she lives alone with her two children. He tried to take her to court to get full custody of BOTH children. It only got as far as mediation where they settled it. He's now swapping his agreed days around and telling her he won't have them on certain days he's meant to because he's too busy trying to deal (he's a bit of a drug dealer)... He's also contradicting himself by saying he wants the child that isn't biologically his and then saying he doesn't want to see that child. She felt sorry for him and let him contact her and into her home to see the children whilst she was in the middle of trying to get an injunction order. Can she still go ahead for one even though it looks bad on her part? He's really scaring her and he won't leave her alone.

I'm a strong White soviet man

My husband and I have been married for almost two years. We have a lot of great times together however for almost our entire relationship he has cheated on me and gotten two women pregnant, one of which actually decided to have the child. I have accepted that and tried to move past it. But now the issue is that he hasn't had a stable job our entire marriage. He just up and decided to quit the one job that he had to go help his friend with a business. This means he will be away from our home for almost a month and because the job is contracted I have no idea how much he will be getting paid or when. I have asked him to come home because I am wondering what will happen once he's done helping his friend and has to return with no job. I need him to help me consistently and not rely on me to pay the bills but when I bring it up he tries to make me feel guilty by saying I just want him to work a fast food job. He tries to guilt me by saying that I don't support him and I don't believe in his dream. I don't understand why he doesn't get that all I want is his concurrent financial support. Sometimes I feel like he's using me to get on his feet and that is why he always cheats. But then he moved his mom here who is older and sick so I would feel bad abandoning them both but I'm just really tired. Help please

I moved from Nevada to Georgia for my husbands job a little over a month ago. I'm unemployed at the moment and I can't get myself to do anything. When we lived in Nevada I worked full time. I ran every morning before work, I had a lot of energy, I cared about my looks and how I presented myself, our marriage was good. Since moving to Georgia I have no desire to do anything. I haven't ran in the past month, we haven't had sex since we moved here I have absolutely no interest in sex, it's a struggle for me to even get up and take a shower every morning, I'm always tired, I can't even clean the house. I have no energy! I'm also at the highest weight I've ever been at in my life I've gained 10lbs this past month! I've never felt like this before. I don't know if the heat is getting to me or if it's something more serious going on. My husband hasn't been very receptive and instead just keeps telling me to snap out of it and look for work. The lack of sex is putting a huge strain on our relationship. I don't know what to do! Any advice? How do I get out of this funk?