So basically I moved to a new school in a new state for eighth grade about four months ago. Overall my experience has been horrific as I haven't made any friends I feel I connect with. This girl offered that I could sit with her and I agreed after having no one to sit with. It was fine for a couple days then went downhill as they don't talk to me and leave me out even though they are super nice to me. It feels as if they are being fake friends or something. Recently someone told me that they don't like me sitting at the table because we don't share common interests which is true. But I don't know anyone else I could sit with and especially next year which is High school. I spend most of lunch by myself as the people I sit with leave to talk to the popular girls and I usually have to stand there awkwardly even though I try to talk. I do nothing most of the time and I just wish I had a group of friends who actually like me and can joke around with me. I hope I'm not a loner next year

I'm a 22 year old guy. I've got a girl friend who I used to work with. I never asked her out because our work place doesn't allow dating. So we became friends and she used to text me all the time to see what I was doing, if I was working that day, etc. We would hang out at the mall, get ice cream, I would drive her around in my truck, etc. Anyway, a few months ago she left for another company and we drifted. I would text her and ask her to hang out and she said she was too ''busy'' and she would let me know. So she pretty much tied my hands. I stopped texting her. Recently, we reconnected on snapchat. We found out we both like to jog. So I invited her to jog with me and we seemed to hit it off. 2 weeks have gone by and no texts from her at all. I want her interest to raise but I can't think of anything I could have done to make her like me more. I always had a crush on her and I want to ask her on a date. But how am I supposed to do that if she doesn't even seem to care for me as a friend? I can't be initiating every time. How can I get her to think of me? And actually want to see me? And text me? It's like she doesn't see me.

Today a friend and I was joking around. I made a weird joke that I at least found funny. He didnt and jokingly said that's why I dont have any friends. I of course laughed it off and then changed topics. Now I cant stop thinking of it. I know I have friends, not that many, but I love them and I know they have to at least enjoy my company a bit. However I cant stop the nagging feeling their only my friend out of pity or desperation. What if their just annoyed by my jokes and presence? And what if the friend who told me that really does think I'm a loser and isn't actually my friend? Any advice or words for this feeling? Has anyone else felt this way?

The kid claims that her parents don't care whom she's hanging out with, so that's how she's spending so much time with us. Seems like poor parenting, but I don't know if it's true or not either. None of us have ever met her family before. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but it isn't always fun to have a 14 year old tag along with us. If anything bad happens, we are responsible for her. Besides that, she's just not somebody to confide in and become really close friends with. I don't know her reason for hanging out with people so much older than she is, since none of us are her sisters or relatives. It might be that her parents only give her the basic daily needs (food, shelter, clothes, education and safety in household) and don't offer much attention to her.

Italian women, how are they so dangerous, they do nothing unless there's an ulterior motive behind it. A man is a sex resource and a human producing toy to an Italian woman. Italian women don't view guys anyway but as an animal with benefits, a resource, a product. Italian women would see a dog and cuddle it and tell it 'aww you're so cute your fur is so irresistible!' The Italian woman gets to keep the dog but very soon the dog disappears and she ends up wearing its fur coat. The Italian woman sees a guy and she hunts him down desiring him, as he is a valuable resource to her. She will follow the guy and break her neck to trap him anyway she can. As it gets harder for her to keep the guy, she will become destructive and very scary. When an Italian woman gets mad, you will see literal h e l l, as she would chase you down with a pin roller to beat you over the head with it.

My very close cousin and friend is graduating this weekend. I can't make it Becuase I am working. I think it is okay since she didn't attend mine or give a gift. I'm not mad and still want to give her something since I'm a year older. Should I hand my card in person or send it along through my mother who is attending?

I feel depress and empty.I want to have a baby with my best friend but he said"no, you are not ready for a baby." I am 26 years old.

I had sex with a guy but I didn't really enjoy it. He's on the smaller side maybe 4 or 5 inches. But I'm used to 7 inches because that's the size of the guy I've been having sex with until I had sex with this guy. So I'm just wondering if the smaller guy actually liked it. While we were having sex he said I was amazing and that he was cumming. But I don't know if he actually did or not it was so quick. He wants pictures of me so I guess he enjoyed it.

I'm confused on what to do. I've got friends who say tell her I think she's cute and ask her out. Isn't that a bit jarring?

I had sex with this guy he's on the smaller side between 4 to 5 inches. I did feel it when he penetrated me but after that, I didn't feel much. But this could be due to the fact that the other guy I had sex with is on the larger side. He's 7 inches and with him, I can feel when he's inside me. But it had been five months since I had slept with him. I had sex with the 7-inch guy in September and then I had sex with the smaller guy in February. So I know I was tight but I'm just wondering if he felt anything. During sex I heard him say I was amazing and then he started saying he was cumming. But it was so quick I don't know if he actually came or not. I didn't check the condom at all. Now he wants pictures of me so I'm guessing he enjoyed the sex.

i have a good friend who is constantly showing signs of down syndrome but when i tell her she has it she degrades me. how do i convince her to go to the doctors to prove my point? Okay, it might be autism.

I have remained friends w my ex gf. It's COMPLETELY plutonic /non sexual but we're super close. She supports me emotionally and has even let me stay at her place for several months when I was out if work and in return I also emotionally support her and share all I can with her. Well recently our other mutual friend warned me my ex was laughing about how she will occasionally take some cash out of my safe or has taken small items of mine to pawn a few times when she was housitting for me! I was able to verify this as I set a trap to test her ( I sometimes buy bud and ALWAYS share it with her) and when I left the room I saw her in the reflection reach over and pinch off more! I really can't believe this as we've been SO CLOSE for YEARS and I NEVER suspected this! Worse if all she brags about it!

Other then my closest friends that ive known for 10 years. Most people that i meet always dissapoint me either cause i trust people to easily if they do something nice for me. It's like ik starting to see the world as full of of assholes even though they smile and act friendly.

We were friends for about 16 years. He got married to a terrible, negative woman and changed. He's also really far behind in life (his wife too) I mean he's almost 40 and still being subsidized by his parents financially, 11 years for a 2 year degree program, etc. He was always a good friend prior to her though he was never a high achiever. I have ignored him for the past year and a half but my gf suggested getting back in touch with him. Should I or just find new friends? My issue is that he is not anywhere near the level I'm at in life so I can't really get any good advice from him and they say who you associate with is who you become... And if I do reach out, should I be honest with him as to why we haven't talked?

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I'd like to make friends who are positive but that's so hard to find. They either complain s lot about life, or judge me I am trying to be a priest, or they try to use me for something. I used to have a best friend but she ghosted me after telling her I want to be a priest she asked what I wanted to do so I told her. We been friends for 10+ years to.

my friend is really bad at fortnite and he wants to know how to get more wins

So I thought this guy was interested in me, we hung out twice, and ended up giving each other oral. Then he stopped texting me, so 4 days after our hookup, I texted him asking if he wanted to hangout and he said no because of his class. Two days later, I asked him again, and he said that he was busy and that he'll get back to me. My guy friend knows this guy well and he told me good things about him (the guy this question is about), so I told him (my guy friend) what was happening, and he talked to him (I didn't ask him to). The same day, he asked me if I wanted to go to lunch with him. So we went to lunch together, and it was awkward, because I was the main one asking questions/starting the conversation - he did initiate some of he conversations, but not much. Then he had to leave early because he had to go swimming before the campus pool closed... A few days later, he texts me asking how was I doing and how did my moving go (I told him that I was moving off campus). I texted him asking what he expected from this "thing" and at first he said that he didn't know and should've been more clear, then I texted back asking what does he want now. He responded saying that it would be hard to start a relationship because he's going away for the summer, but he wouldn't mind getting to know me better.

Ok so I have a friend that is always very stingy with her money. I hate to say that honestly because I don't want to say negative things about a friend but it's just a pattern I'm noticing. And on the other hand I selflessly spend money on her. I've paid for her concert tickets, food (she doesn't even consider what she's ordering when I pay even if it's $$$). And also she asks me for gas money which is something I would understand but to go small distances. For example the day I was taking her to the concert she said she'll drive and I was like oh ok then. So we pull up to the gas station and I just gave her my credit card cuz I don't usually carry cash on me. Disclaimer- the venue was only 20 minutes away and our city is NOT a busy one. So there's no way she should have swiped ANY more than $10. I watch her pump And she gets back in the car swiping a FULL TANK of gas. I think that's pretty ****** up still bc I feel like she really used me for filling up her gas tank. Also on Christmas she didn't really get me any presents not even handmade but I understood that cuz she didn't have a job. But a month later she got a much higher paying job than me and makes like $900 a paycheck. Mind you this girl is still extremely dependent on her parents she doesn't pay any bills. And recently it was my birthday and she didn't give me anything and I felt second hand embarrassment for her. She tried to convince me that she's let me smoke her weed a bunch of times but TF like 5 hits in total.

An incident happened in college today. There is a friend of mine. I called her in the lunch break and one of her male friends picked up the call and started making sounds at me which i thought was disrespectful. So that evening i told him that i didn't like it and i asked for an apology.. Because of which he dragged me out of the college gate and started humiliating me... I didn't keep quite I hurled some insults of myself.He wanted to beat me up publicly and humiliate me. I never liked her friends. They seem unsophisticated and mean and i had a feeling that they are all mocking me.My friend first scolded me for picking the fight with him and told him to stay away.During the confrontation he called me "gay" multiple times. I asked my friend if thar group mocks me too... And she said that no one is trying to mock me... They never have.... Which i find hard to believe.... Because he called me gay during the fight...which means he's called me that before multiple times beind my back.... It can't just come like that.

I have a male friend on my FB. Him and I never met in real life because he lives a few hours away but we started chatting through a dating site. He eventually had a girlfriend and we stayed connected a bit as friends but then he broke up with her and we started talking a bit more after that but just as friends. We had said that we would meet with another female friend of mine that lives near him and I was so looking forward to it but a bunch of stuff happened and I have not been able to get out there and will still never met ..now he has a whole new girlfriend and I dont hear from him anymore. Anyway, I was thinking of saying hello to him and wishing him luck with his new girlfriend and seeing if he wanted to still meet with my other friend and I wound invite his girlfriend too..but would that be appropriate for me to contact him at this point like that? We were just talking as friends but since he has a new girlfriend I am not sure how to approach this and I am not sure if I would be out of line to contact him. will choose a best answer

I'm 15, and I'm in 9th grade (going into 10th grade after school goes out May 31st) and in all honesty this year has been crap because I haven't had the guts to talk to any one at all. Like once there was this girl from Canada that transferred to my homeroom and I kept telling myself that I should talk to her and maybe 'she'll be my friend' but even at the thought of going up to her made me nervous. My heart was beating really fast and I was kinda shaky. Then when I actually FOUND the guts to talk to her I was the same. Fast heart beat and kinda shaky. Before that there was this one girl that tried talking to me but I always found myself distancing myself from her and not even saying hi to her when I saw her. I feel like an asshole for doing that but I wasn't even sure how to say hi to her or if I talked to her I would have to have a whole conversation and the thought of that was troublesome to me. Even when the year is almost over I get nervous over little things such as saying hi to my classmates when I see them in the hallway. That and I find it really hard to eat in front of someone so that's one of the main reasons why I sit alone at lunch. Idk why I've become so nervous all of a sudden because before I turned 13 I was a really social person. Now I'm just a shell of who I used to be. My mom just tells me to get over my nervousness but I'm not sure how to because I feel like there's something wrong with me. Advice?

I've been bullied and made fun of in school for about 2 years now. It's because I'm different from most people there in many ways.I don't even have friends. I had exams for a whole month. We had one exams then a weeks gap in between.I'm just going to school and writing the exam and coming back. For a whole month it was peaceful because no one got a chance to pick on me.... But today i ran into one of the bullies and he insulted me just like the old days. This month I've started working out and going for fitness boxing classes for month. I do seem have improved a bit. I started working out because i realised I'm being bullied not because anything is wrong with me but simply because i dont know how to fight and that makes me an easy target. I have all the anger piled up and really want to beat the hell outta then.... So do you think it's about time to put my training to test.... Or one month isn't enough.... Should i wait longer?

We have been friends for a long time and moved in together for convenience, but seems we're polar opposite personalities at home. I'm more casual, and he is quite uptight it seems I got told off in the first week for going naked to shower in the morning. Which is pretty reasonable and I changed that. Now after 5 months of chilling about the house in shorts (like boxers, trunks or sweats) he thinks it would be better if I wore pants and a shirt outside my room He doesn't like me using the main bathroom because I clean the one downstairs. And he doesn't like how close I park to the driveway on the street. He doesn't even like me watching TV in the living room if it's not something we both want on and are both watching at the same time.... The straw broke my camel on the weekend when he got up me for bringing a girl home. He met her in the morning while we were making breakfast, She was perfectly nice to him and we ate in the bedroom. As soon as she left we had a fight because I should have gone to her place given others live here too..... I don't get it. I don't know if I'm the asshole or he is, but everything I do feels wrong. Everything I do is offensive. And he let's me know that in some way, nearly every day. I never had any of this with my previous flatmate and I'm wondering if he's just more conservative or something? I'm trying to accommodate but it's worse than my parents to be honest. Am I overreacting? What do I do?

I'm 22 and feel completely lost. I'm in a relationship I'm unsure of, I don't have any friends, I don't have a job (my fiancé works), and I don't have any family. I feel very alone and everyone I try to be friends with has careers and families and seems to not have time for friendships anymore. Please help, I feel like giving up on life. I'm miserable.

There's this lady I was friends with on social media a long time ago. We've never met in person. We met through an NKOTB fan club group on Twitter. Although I've never met her in person, I have looked out for her in the past. The first time she got upset with me was when she got back together with an ex-boyfriend. I told her to be careful because she didn't know how committed to her. I even told her that I didn't want her wasting her time. She stop speaking to me after I told her that. I then searched for her a few years ago and we reconnected briefly. When she met a guy and went on a couple dates and didn't hear from him after that, I told her that he's not interested. I checked up on her a few days later and I told her she didn't need a part time text message buddy. She blocked me from social media a month later although I would check up on her randomly. She then sent me a message a few months later that she thought it was a mistake she accepted my friend request on Facebook. She said it wasn't a good idea to rekindle our friendship and wished me all the best. I didn't bother to respond to that message. A year later, she unblocked me from Facebook and sent me a message saying she didn't need motherly advice from me. Today, after not hearing from her for a few years, she sends me a message saying she was sorry and asked if we could reconnect. Do you think I should or no? If not, what should I say or just ignore her?

I'm 17 and my best friend was a girl from India who was two years older than me. We were put in the same grade because she got held back two years because she had to learn English, a new family, and new way of life. I always knew that she was different and that people made fun of her, but she always seemed to shake it off. Other kids made fun of her age, her voice, and her face. Lakshmi was my best friend's name. We always had each others back but I noticed how in the past few months she wasn't herself and then I found out how she was raped and beaten in her own house by her own adopted parents. I only found that out a week ago when I learned that Lakshmi had killed herself because of all of it. I've been pretty numb about the whole thing and I haven't talked to anyone about it. But I can't sleep anymore and I can't stop crying anymore either. I don't know how I'm supposed to react to any of this. What do I do?

I have a "friend" who always asks for Adderall from me because it "motivates" her. Everytime she asks and I say no she guilt trips the hell out of me and so I give in and give her a couple. I used to take it but quit and now I'm taking it from my dad. This has been on going and I have had been caught many times doing this. I hate doing this more than anything because they are my dad's but I am trying to keep her as a friend and I feel if I stop she won't be there for me. I give her a lot to begin with because I am such a giving person and I care more about others than myself. I just don't know how to stop myself and I really want to. I hate stealing and lying but I do it because it "helps" her.

Some of my friends talks nasty about me behind my back and it's really to much why are some people return the favor with such thing how to understand that person ?

Where I work the company owner, my boss brought in his new wife and introduced her to us employees. Our boss John is in his 50s and his new wife is in her early 20s, my age. A few days later he ask me if I thought his wife was cute. I said, "I had not give it much thought but yes she is cute". It became known at the office that John was very jealous of his wife with other men. One day John ask me if I would like to "fool around with his wife". Wanting to not get involved with his personal life and wanting to keep my job I said "I would not fool around with any man's wife". He said "then you are the person to train my wife to use the company's computer system so she can help me with the business. I did not want to do that but I had no choice to do it if I wanted to keep my job. I did train her but it took a long time. After the training she told me "I owe you big time. Please let me take you to lunch to say thank you for being patient with me during the training". I told her I could only do that if her husband John came with us. She said he is very busy and probably could not find the time to join us for lunch. I told her a thank you lunch was not necessary. My thoughts were that a lunch with her without him would put my job on the line. Do you think I made the right decision about this or was I worried for nothing?