Me and my fiancée have been together for going on 5 years now, he has two kids from his precious marriage and I have 0. Is it worth having kids with someone who has already done it? He was divorced pretty much the whole time, so he never really got the family scene.

Hello. We are both 20 and I've been with him for almost a year. This is moderately graphic so if it bothers you leave I guess lol. So usually I go down on him for like 5 minutes. I suck his palls, do a lot of suction, can deep throat him pretty much the whole time. He sometimes goes down on me but too much sensation makes me uncomfortable and I shake uncontrollably. When we have sex I'm usually high. This has started to annoy him and I'm less easily satisfied when sober so I need more options. His peen is 6 inches which is above average but not impressively large. We usually do doggy variations, missionary variations, me riding him with him sitting up/laying down, me riding him reverse. I've let him do anal. He liked it but didn't want to do it again. I'm asking because he had a weird rant a week ago about how our sex life was getting repetitive, how I was high and that always bothered him. Then he said it was fine he just hated that I was almost always high because he felt like it's bc I have PTSD when idk the weed just makes my puss feel better and I've told him but it still annoys him. Preferably i prefer sex with coke and weed mixed. I'm into power struggles and can only masturbate to abusive porn. I really like when he gets aggressive which he does but not to the extent I want, but it's honestly bc I think he's just worried about my mental health. He wants more romantic sex and I guess that's fine too. Idk. Help

We are going to counseling next week. To work on our marriage problems. He has been cheating on me for a while now. But since 2019 started we got to a point where I feel like things are starting to get better. But sometimes he falls off the rails and the result is not pretty. It seems like he is forcing things to go back to the way they used to be sometimes. Sometimes I can control myself some other times I get very emotional. I took counseling as last resort because I was going to file for divorce and family made me think about it over again. I was going on my own now after another argument he agreed to go to counseling thinking that they will take his side once they hear him out. The argument that happened lately left me wanting to divulge to him in front of the counselor any proof I have that he has been cheating and he can choose between her or me. And I would understand and move on if it's not me. Because I'm through with all this suffering. My mother said to not bring it up if we will be working on our marriage. Because I will mess things up. To concentrate on fixing our relationship instead. I want to bring it up do you think I should?

So my husband and I are getting a divorce, but we live in North Carolina so we have to be legally seperated or living seperate for a year, we have no children. Is he still allowed to live there through our separation or will they move him back into the barracks.

Been with this man for 36 years, now him and his family are saying I committed adultery. And he is saying that the daughter we have is not his. She is 23 years old now. Can they still ask for a DNA test? Can they still ask my daughter for a DNA since she is over 18?? Is it her choice or there's? Please no judgements against me, just asking a question.

I'm in love with a woman who has 2 kids by different men. We're set to get married next month, but my friends strongly advise against it. Why is that? I understand that her kids will always come first.

My husband is on a relationship site., talking to many women. exchanging photos and lphone calls. I'm very sad about this situation, I do not know what to do.! 😌😔😟😰

So my husband cheated on me, the girl got pregnant but he told her he wanted nothing to do with the baby so they haven't spoken, however, ai went through his phone the other night and he keeps looking for her on social media, why? We are trying to work on our marriage, why would he do this?

He's talked about marriage though

Alot of people advise not to argue with a woman, with a smile. I hear them say its useless and you won't get anywhere, especialy if she is your wife. Why is that ? Are women really that square minded ? Anon, thats what i mean ? Why is always wins ? Or is it just a matter of being stuborn just for the sake of winning ?

He was driving Uber but the money didn t seem enough for him to buy yaba drugs. Currently he s living with his sick mum who s pious & trying to make ends meet by herself somehow. In anger & in need of money he ends up being verbally and physically abusive towards her too. But out of all the people in the world, he s scared of her the most. That s because she s got sources to put him in rehab but currently she can t afford to pay for the rehab centre. He last told me, he s wishing & waiting for the day when my parents & only one younger sister dies. Why ?! Because his addictive mind believes that my family is influencing me to not give him money to buy drugs. I think he doesn t want to get cured, even though he often said he s taking the drug to get rid of physical pain. Being from Muslim family, I can t afford to share or consult with anyone of my family or relatives about my disturbing married life. Unless he s willing to go to rehab, it s not possible to send him practically by force. We ve been married for two years. A part of me is hopeful to get him fixed & partly I m confused whether I should divorce ?! 😞😔😒😩

So, my boyfriend and I have lived together for over 3 years. He quit his job a few months back to go back to school for 4 months to pursue his fitness trainer certification. He saved money before he quit his job to cover his half of the bills. Now, he has no money and he's in the process of taking the certification exam for the 2nd time ( He failed the 1st attempt). For the past 2 months, I've paid all the bills on my own. My family thinks that it's wrong of me because we are not married, and it was his choice to quit work. My family feels that I shouldn't be the responsible one to take the fall. I have a child, annnd...we are not married..and he doesn't seem to looking for another job I guess because he would want a job in the fitness industry..but what do you guys think about this?

Is it because the divorce rate is high and people want to have sex?! Also when people marry young and don't know what they really want?! I just think it's all of the above, what do you think??! I'm just not used to it since I and my brother are the only children my mom and dad have and they aren't divorced! Which is VERY typical (I think) of the US and now the other countries are catching up! What giveS?! They've been married since 1976.

My husband has been cheating for 15 years of our 26 years marriage. Always a different girl and when I discover it he would apologies and I would forgive him until last year when I just packed my bags and left. He has been apologising and saying he s changing and wants me back and doesn t want a divorce. I just discovered his gf has moved into our house. He said he will ask her to leave if I come back. I have started dating and want the relationship to move forward. We haven t had sex because I don t believe in cheating and wanted to divorce first. Should I tell him I found someone so that he can expedite the divorce process or just silently continue with my relationship. We are now in different countries.

We are 4 years into being married. He has always been attached to his parents yet I saw it only right before the wedding, sadly, did not think it would be such an issue as it is. My in-laws own their own 2-story huge house with the first and second floors connected by an indoor staircase. We are on rent but are putting off money to get our own place. They are healthy and wealthy people and own a few businesses and do not need anyone to support them yet they never can get enough money (everyone who has been friends with them says so and now we see it) and they take my hubby's earnings. At the same time, my hubby refuses to tell me his income because he says he does not like when people control his money, which I never have and never have used it for my good. I pay for my own needs and for our 2-y.o. sons. MIL and FIL take away from my hubby to expand their business yet hubby gets and will get nothing from it, while we are trying to save up for our own place. Also, they are using my hubby's money to renovate their second floor. At the same time, MIL is trying to get us to move to the second floor and live with them. NEVER! my husband turned out to be a mommas boy. She controls his decisions and he wants me to think like her. I told him about my concerns yet he does not see any problems and says I am not a good wife if I disagree with him. I should listen and obey him. We are Christians, yet I do not see how that is being Christlike!! I'm stuck in a marriage I have to make work and want to make work but through all these years it's been a battle. I am unhappy. Please help! When I said I saw some of this right before marriage..it was about wedding planning and I really did not consider it and view it as a problem since these were minor things, only now I understand that those were red flags...sadly

I'm very pretty and smart. I'm also quite funny. Guys seem to enjoy spending time with and talking to me. But, they ask other girls to be in relationships with them and not me. And, the girls they ask aren't even nearly as pretty as I am. So, what's going on here

As long as guy isn't giving away resources to the pieceofass at work (she hot AF, btw, and gives it out for free), nobody is really being cheated out of anything, right? If the wife wanted exclusive access to her guy, then she should actively put out, instead of being prudish. I just don't see where the word 'cheat' fits in here.