I've gone on a few online dates before but I met a guy in his early 30's. We had a fun date but he wanted me to go back to his place and it was hard to say no. We had a few drinks. Ever since then he has been texting me like crazy. First thing in the morning etc. I'm not a big texter and I explained that to him. He wants to meet tomorrow and then he wants to hang on Monday as well.. I find it a bit over bearing. He even told me he gave me a 'special ring tone' I'm just like come on. All these compliments that I feel like a bit cheesy. I had fun on our first date but that's cos I had a few drinks. Now I'm wondering if this guy is a psycho and wants so much attention. Like I don't text him within 20 minutes, he sends follow-up texts. Today he was suppose to wait for me to text him how was my day and he couldn't even wait. He claims he has no impulse control... Him "I'm sorry if I'm bothering you all the time. I don't know I haven't wanted to talk to any one person so much after meeting them once in I don't know how long." Every 2 minutes there's a text!!

Let me start with this. My husband came home from work a couple of months ago going on about how this woman (manager) kept bragging on him & making him feel important at work. The way he was explaining it to me, his whole mood changed about it all. Meaning, he seemed all giddy talking about the situation. It was a little off putting because he never gets like that & because it was from another woman. This woman is very pretty mind you, a few years younger than we are (she's 27) but she is a lesbian. They then texted some about work over a week or so. I told him I felt a little threatened & insecure about the situation. Ok, so my husband & I went to his company's "night out". There was drinking, socializing, etc. I finally met this woman & we seemed to like each other & became friends. We were all drinking & I happen to catch my husband several times with his arm around her shoulder throughout the night. When the night was over, I was pretty drunk but my husband was not. We got home (we live an hour away from where the company get together was) & I passed out. Then my husband left our home, drove all the way back to the company party, called this woman to make sure she got home ok & then proceeded to take her home & have a heart to heart talk with her about her & her girlfriend. We have been together since high school & have always been faithful. How am I supposed to get over this? I feel so hurt and disrespected. He swore nothing went on.

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Me and my wife have been married for 12 years we have a son who's 9. We tried to have another baby a few years ago but she had a miscarriage. I got 2 boys from a previous marriage they're grown up one is married the other one still lives with us he's not seeing anyone they're both older than him. Should we have another baby ?

My parents divorced when I was 11, and I'm 17 now going into 12th grade. My dad met my step-mom when I was around 13, and got married when I was 15. She has two kids, now 19 and 16, and I have two younger siblings, ages 15 and 12. About two years ago they decided to move to Utah (from Colorado where I am) hoping for better jobs and to save money. They originally moved out there with plans to stay for a year. Now they're still there and have no plans to come back, even though they always say how much they wish they were closer. I do love my step-family, and they're great people, and I love my dad, but it's really hard feeling like he had a choice between me and my siblings and my step-family, and he chose them. I want him to be here to help me with school and come to my stuff I have, and just be my dad like he should, but I don't think it's ever going to happen before I go off to college. I don't really know how to still keep a relationship with him when I only see him once every couple of months, especially as I only get busier. Anyone have similar situations they can share to help me figure out what to do or how to get over my feeling of abandonment? I know I'm lucky to have him still pretty near relatively speaking and to have such a nice step-family, but it's still really hard for me.

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My fiance and I are getting married next fall. I'm 28, he's 26. We both are having baby fever BAD. All we've ever wanted was a family and we are so ready for a baby. We also are Christian and go to church together and I'm sort of well-known in the church because everybody makes a point out of knowing who everybody is there. Sometimes I worry that if we have a baby before we get married, people will judge us. I worry my church family will disown me, but I hope not. If we were to have a baby soon, we'd still plan on having the wedding next fall. We've already set the date, it's on the church calendar and my pastor has agreed to do the ceremony. Do you think it's a good idea to have a baby before marriage? We're not actively trying, but we're not actively avoiding it either. We don't use protection. I actually recently had really bad PMS for over a week and I was 2 days late on my period and we were so sure I was pregnant, but after 3 negative tests and my period starting this morning, we realized I'm not and we were very disappointed. I even cried lol. I'm more of an open-minded Christian than a Bible-oriented Christian. It also says I shouldn't be bisexual, but I am. ;) I lost my virginity at 21, so "waiting until marriage" for sex is way out the window, friend. Tj, his parents got married because his mom got pregnant with his older sister. But that's not the reason we're getting married. We agreed to get married and set a date for the wedding and all that before the idea of having a baby was in our minds (I mean of course we've wanted a baby, but we didn't expect to want to get pregnant so soon). We would make sure our child knows we didn't just get married BECAUSE of them.

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Okay, maybe not so vocal about hispanic guys, but there are really many white girls that have dated a hispanic guy at some point in their life time. What I notice though is nobody with the exception of Asian girls doesn't openly admit they prefer white guys. I guess I can understand one of the reasons, not sounding racist, although I think it's stupid to believe preferring white guys is racist. That implies you believe white guys are racist by nature. However even though it does not control my life, it definitely hurts a bit... because of jealousy? I guess. I do agree black guys have it hard when it comes to life as a whole or at least harder than white guys, but when it comes to girls and stigma (you know what I mean) I really envy them. Now I know not all white girls prefer black and hispanic guys, but it seems most do. Now I am open minded too but I'm far more likely to prefer white girls, Asian girls behind my second choice. That doesn't make me racist, it's just what I'm usually attracted to. I guess in the end what truly represents a person is not his race or religion, but his personality, his deeds, his interests and his ambitions, but I cannot help but feel a bit insecure about it when it comes to dating. I'm feeling like black and hispanic guys usually get a head which is not really fair. I don't complain about it too often because at the same time I understand white guys are the same compared to indian/eastern Asian guys (head start). What do you guys think?

Let me start with this. My husband came home from work a couple of months ago going on about how this woman (manager) kept bragging on him & making him feel important at work. The way he was explaining it to me, his whole mood changed about it all. Meaning, he seemed all giddy talking about the situation. It was a little off putting because he never gets like that & because it was from another woman. This woman is very pretty mind you, a few years younger than we are (she's 27) but she is a lesbian. They then texted some about work over a week or so. I told him I felt a little threatened & insecure about the situation. Ok, so my husband & I went to his company's "night out". There was drinking, socializing, etc. I finally met this woman & we seemed to like each other & became friends. We were all drinking & I happen to catch my husband several times with his arm around her shoulder throughout the night. When the night was over, I was pretty drunk but my husband was not. We got home (we live an hour away from where the company get together was) & I passed out. Then my husband left our home, drove all the way back to the company party, called this woman to make sure she got home ok & then proceeded to take her home & have a heart to heart talk with her about her & her girlfriend. We have been together since high school & have always been faithful. How am I supposed to get over this?

He works 3rds and we have an 8 month old that i care for full time . I try to ask but he never wants to . Last time was pro a couple months ago . He sleeps in his first day off all day and night , then sleeps most the day the second day off . He is 27 . Idk i get a peck goodbye , thst is about it . I have to ask or we would never do anything . He does rub himself bc i have caught him , im like i want to do it and you would rather do that ?! I dont know what to do about it . He acts like our sex life is perfectly fine , i feel like its once a month and i am tired too but am willing . Idk

I don't even understand the hatred my wife seems to have towards our 26 yr old daughter. She's the only one of our kids who have a degree, the other two dropped out of college, she doesn't do drugs and she never came in our house at crazy hours of the night, and not shacking up with a significant other like our son. She definitely isn't perfect she has her bad traits but it's no excuse for the abuse. But talking to her isn't working. Our daughter moved out temporarily saying she couldn't take the abuse from my wife any longer but I called her and told her I promised I would get my wife to stop the abuse for good if she could come back. She was staying in a dingy hotel. I didn't want my daughter staying in a hotel where the sheets probably haven't been washed in weeks. She has a job but she's a substitute teacher and they little to nothing in the state we live in. They make $58 a day so I believe a hotel was all she could afford. I gave her a time frame of a year to find a better job and move. I think 1 year is reasonable. Yesterday my wife took our daughter to work and I was in the car with them and My wife just snapped all of a sudden. She got angry because our daughter wasn't wearing a bra and had a T-shirt on. My daughter said she gets cold in the classroom so she has to wear a undershirt and my wife said " I'm sick of you, you're killing me. You don't wanna follow any rules and you not going to live in My house not following rules" , she slapped our daughter.

He does peritoneal dialysis from home at nights when he is sleeping so he is free all morning. He is only 46 and can still walk and move around. All I asked him to help with is dropping off the kids at school and appointments. He gets extremely angry about having to help. We have four kids so I guess he thinks that is too much. I used to do it when he worked fulltime but now that he has to do it, he complains about it all the time. He just wants to sleep all day and expects me to clean up after him and constantly puts me down. I can't do it anymore and need some advice. I am so stressed and don't have the money to pay someone to do it for me.

I filed for divorce from my husband of 20 years after I found out he's been having an affair with 2 different women (possibly more.) he's admitted to the two I know about, I'm devastated. My kids are 16, 12, and 10 and they don't know the reasons behind our divorce just that we are separating. How do I tell them that their father has been having affairs with multiple women? This is their father and I know he's done very wrong but I don't want to be the parent who turns their kids against the other parent. Any advice on how to approach the situation?

My husband and I married for 10 years and had 3 kids, boy 6 yo, girl 5 yo, and baby 1 yo. He lied and cheated on me many times, but I tried to forgive with hope he will change and my kids have a family. This time he cheated again with a girl oversea and want to divorce. He said he wil leave everything for me and the kids, house (paid off) and basement shared for $500 cash per months. Old car he drive pay off and new car still financing has 4 more years. And I need new car because big for kids. and he say will leave saving in the bank for me. He has site job earn cash I cant control. Im stay home mom after having the third baby, He the main financial support. If he files a divorce and want to the custody of 2 older kids, will I lose. Im the one taking care of kid from A to Z. After work, he never helped with cooking or playing or help kids to bed, just sit on sofa and chatting with ladies.if Im the main custody can I request him to sharing taking of 2 older kid such as drive to school or pick up, feeding in couple days a week. He has site job it take his time so his schedule is very unclear beside the job in a company. Any advises?

We have had financial strains that took 2 years to resolve. It's like a new start for us. Then I was told my company is relocating. My boss said it might be a year down the line and if I was asked and can't ill get 4 months severance. She also said I'm valuable, liked and can negotiate to work from home and travel into the office once a week since I am a manager. I have 3 children 6 and under and this worries me. I actually have an interview somewhere else. I'm in my mid 30s so I have experience and a masters. I should be fine if I need to find a job. It's just the worry all the time. Not sure how to overcome it

My wife is a vet who goes around doing house calls. She cuts off horses balls and bulls balls and all sorts of balls. So I collect them. Big or small, they are all beautiful. I love balls. But my freezer is getting full and I am afraid my wife would get so horny she would die if she saw so many balls all in one place. So my question is: how should I eat the balls? Frozen? Sauteed? I think maybe each set of balls should be cooked differently. And, if I put them in a dinner dish, should I tell my wife before she eats the balls or after she eats the balls?

My wife and I are separated. She cheated on me, we were living together and have a daughter. I came home early once and walked in on her cheating on me whilst my daughter was in the house. We have been separated for 10 months. I have met a new girlfriend and she has became significantly more difficult. She's trying to put on the divorce papers that I was the one that led our relationship to break down. She has also written out a long list of debt that I apparently owe her. Right now I am paying off a fridge that is in her house, paying off debt that I've accumulated during our marriage and now she is asking me for even more money. She also has MY £1000 computer in her flat (which was originally our flat) and refuses to give it to me, saying she's going to sell it to pay off this debt that she seems to have calculated on her own. can she legally do this? I just want the divorce to be finalised and for me to have my belongings back. If that computer is "ours" by law giving her permission to sell it, then surely her car is "ours" and so is anything else either of us brought during our marriage. This all just feels really unfair considering I was faithful the whole time and even after she had an affair I was still willing to work things about but she didn't want to, saying she no longer loved me. I want to know if I have any of the law on my side so that I can get my computer back.

My husband has become someone I don t know, he cheats and he lies constantly, the lying isn t just to me or just about important things he will say things just to make himself sound "cool. Anyway I have tried everything I can think of to save my marriage, I have tried to fix every problem he sees with me and it s not good enough for him, I know I can t change this behavior that s up to him and at this point I don t want to be with the man he is now, but I want him to feel my pain. He knows I won t divorce him, I don t believe in it, he will always be my husband but I don t have to do my wifely duty s to a man that doesn t care about me. He also knows I wouldn t ever do the things he is doing and I absolutely wouldn t but I would like to make him think I am, I need a cheap way to fake an affair that seems legitimate.

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I need to know for my exam I have tomorrow to officialy be certified to become a doctor with a p.h.d. Please no "checkered"!!!

y boyfriend refused to be with me if we weren't living together. We've been together for many years and it just didn't workout for us to live together. These past 9 months we haven't been together and he refused to see me. Most of the time he goes gambling and I stay home. Upset and isolated. Yesterday I called him again and plead for him back. He took today off at work to gamble and now his phone is off which makes me suspicious he's with someone. I don't understand he told me loved me yesterday. Now I can't get a hold of him. The only thing I can do is buy these tickets to see his family overseas. I don't understand why I've isolated and alone for so many weekends without him. Like is this normal to torture someone and pick up their calls and let me plead and beg for you? I feel so trapped and I think this guy really does care about me. He responds how I look so bad and I'm just wasting away since we haven't been together. I don't know what to do.