To the point where he had to call her back and ask about it

I mean these woman are easily aroused by good looking men.

I am a mother on two beautiful kids a girl and a boy. Girl is 9 mos and boy going to be 2 years old. I really don't know what to do I am dealing with my husband that drinks every freakin day and he doesn't want to help me with our kids. Every time we go to parties I don't want to go because it is an embarrassment. I always have my kids and he is drinking and drinking to the point that he forgets and also to the point that he can't walk. It seems that I have three kids. He doesn't want to help me with the kids like changing diapers. I live in an apartment with stairs there is a point that I have to help him get up the stairs and me with the two kids on the side. I don't know what to do

Similar to guys abounding with "no, I don't pleasure myself" - For some reason guys have trouble admitting these things.

I found 15 credit cards that my husband had hidden from me. I asked him he lied he said "those are wal mart cards that we put money on 2 pay bills." But they weren'5. They were all Visa with his name engraved on them. 15 credit cards. He isn't spending the money on me and says hes always broke. What u guys think?

My parents had to do it because they were worrying too much about people in my age group getting married and having children and that there wouldn't be enough good people in age group available. Here we are, me, 35, going on 36, and my husband, who's 36, having a complicated marriage because he is so bossy and clingy, and we cannot seem to get marriage therapy since there aren't enough decent psychiatrists in our area and I can't divorce him as well. He is worried not only for our kids, but about me leaving him for the wrong people, anyone that is too young, too old, has previous or current relationships, etc. that it is being projected onto me. Would you believe my parents about this or not?

I understand that in the state of Florida you cannot drop your soon-to-be ex husband or wife while proceedings are still undergoing. As I understand it, you cannot remove them from your auto coverage until after the divorce is finalized. However, my ex is now telling me that by law I have to give 30 days notice before I can remove her from my auto plan, although we are now legally divorced. I don't feel like that's accurate and can find nothing to support the fact. Any help would be appreciated.

I need such a man. Lol. Dont make fun of me for being weak

Like the b..word...says degrading things about my appearence etc....i pretend it doesn't bother me and attack back by fighting back tears and then shouting back and then telling him to apologize and show some dam respect...he later reverts like a child and apologizes...but when I go off to another room i cry...because he says really disrespectful things...like attacking the way i look all because he wants to win an argument...but when we are not fighting he's an Angel. Has anyone said mean things to thier spouse about their appearance but you dont really mean it? Because when we do not fight he sees how other guys at the grocery store look at me ( is hevsaying it to try to make me insecure?

Ok... here's the thing..I'm 34 years old... and I want children badly.... back story... I've still healing from childhood trauma (sexual abuse) ptsd... in stilll healing... I'm waiting for my loans to be cancelled... (disability act...)... I'm on disability but I have a college degree. I want to hurry and go to a Sperm bank and have a kid but I'm living with my sister and poor.,, I don't want to wait because my clock is ticking but I also dont want to put myself in a situation that's going to make my life worse... Should I go have the baby... or should I wait? But if I wait... then the one may never come and if I miss the time frame I will be devastated 😞

I am seriously thinking of divorcing my husband but after speaking to my friend about this I am not sure if I just need to be more supportive. My husband quit his job to help his friend work in their business for the summer. So far he hasn't sent any money home and I've been caught him cheating. I was all ready to divorce him until he egged me to come back. Now one day later we get into another argument because I asked that he don't facetime his son's mother because this is someone he cheated on me with and I don't like them having direct contact. He had this child 4 months into our marriage which means they were sleeping together during our engagement. No he FaceTimes her daily saying it's to see his son but his son can't even speak yet. I've told him I'm not comfortable but he isn't willing to change it. Also, I asked him to come home because he isn't sending any money back. He told me he will come home but he's not getting another job. Instead he will do illegal things to show me. He says I'm unsupportive because I won't allow him to do things on his own but he makes stupid decisions. Idk if I should put up with this because my vows say for better or for worst or if I should just leave. I don't feel respected, wanted, or loved by him. He says he loves me but if he did he would communicate with me and make decisions with both of us in mind not just him.

My mom's parents divorced. It's quite complicated, to say the least. I'm about to go to my cousins and I'm wondering if I should call my grandpa's wife my grandma.

I'm leaving for 4-5 months to visit my family and I told my husband he can have 2 passes to well.. you know sleep with someone while I'm gone and he got pretty upset but I'm not sure why Before we got married we use to give each other passes when one us would be gone for more than a month back when we were younger ( you know to keep things interesting ). We haven't given each other passes in about 6-7 years, why is he upset about it now and not before?

My husband's family tries to be very overbearing and involved. It really gets under my skin. If his family is rude or crossing boundaries, my husband kind of takes a step back to avoid confrontation. Sometimes I feel like there's no privacy when it comes to our lives. We have been married for 5 years. Every year his family goes on a family vacation and we go for a few days. This year, we are considering skipping because I am pregnant and can't do much. His mother is really pushing for us to keep the tradition going. My husband kind of avoids the topic with his mother to prevent any conflict with his family. I think avoidance makes it worse. He needs to put his foot down and stand up for us. Any advice?

I actually have two twin boys who are five years old and they turned out to have dark brown hair and black eyes although me and my husband both have black hair, except I have dark brown eyes and my husband has black eyes. I've tried to convince my husband that my sons inherited my mom's dark brown hair but he doesn't believe me. He suspects our sons are not his and that I was having an extramarital affair with a White guy and is also worried that their skin color switches back and forth. Is my husband being paranoid or not? I am confident my boys are mine. Maybe I could just leave my husband to marry a guy of a race different from his although I'm too scared to.

Attach photo in the comments!! I'm getting married in 20 days and want to surprise my husband with notes from all around the world

With Memorial Day just passing my husband and I didn't have the best of days. For the past week or 2 he kept saying how he probably wasn't even going to get out of bed. Well, Yesterday morning we woke and he immediately grabbed the remote and started watching shows on the DVR that he had recorded for himself. He didn't think to start one of our shows so we could watch together. Well, I asked him what his plans were and then her reminded me in a snarky tone that he probably would just lay in bed all day. I get dressed and left to run an errand. When I got back my husband was gone. I called him to ask where he was and he said he was at Lowe's. Our toilet has been running lately and he had been saying he was going to fix it. I then said to him, "I thought you were going to stay in bed." He said that he decided to get up and get some stuff done. A little while later he walks back in the house and the first thing out of my mouth was, "So, I thought you were going to stay in bed all day." At that point he got furious asking me why I kept asking him the same question. He said that it's funny how women can change their minds but men can't. And why did I have to know his every move? He said we both had the day off and he decided to get some things done. Eventually he washed his truck, fixed the toilet, then did some work on my car. But at this point the day was ruined because he hardly said 2 words to me after that. Why can't we just get along?

My wife and I make good money, but we chose to have student loan debt and send our kids to catholic school. It's a choice we made and are fine with it. However with the tuition cost for 2 little ones, it's tough. In the next couple of years we are going to move to a better school district to get them into public which would save $1200 a month. In the mean time all I think about is money. We are able to have kids in sports and have some entertainment money, but I stress. Wake up in the morning and checking the budget and what bank account has. I'm worried by the age of 40 I'll have a heart attack due to the stress and anxiety i get over money. What works for you?

After wife / sister passing.

i would like to talk to them but they are moving and rich and the house is for sale, he told me they wanna movei guess he was right, also he had motorcycles and left everything to other family, and i didnt even get maybe cell phone with my oictured, i know it sounds bad but that s all he talked about what to do with his money. mainly im just recovering from another relationship but iam ok why am i being judged, i was judged by him too nothing was ever good enough... you dnt knwo what happend, verbal abuse, etc, i guess its good to let it be on th epast i was his friend thou, he chose that no i am/ was upset that he sucke dme into his life and left me, i guess i m upset i know all this and have nothing to show from being in a two yeaor relationshi,p if they move, its all over kinda, he wanted to buy me a ring and i declined cause im to cheap and humble