like they dont understand what this means.that is very simple. they have alzheimer. i am 18 yaer old girl i also have a brother that is older they have alzheimer? i mmeant

There's this guy that I know where I am and I've known him since the year 2013. You seem like a good person but there's some things that I don't like about him that's a little off. Is Italian descent on his mother's side and he's Puerto Rican descent on his father's side. he wasn't raised by his father because before he was born his mother and father had already divorced so his mother raised him his twin brother is older sister and his older brother. Whenever I hang around him and other people who are Hispanic we talk Spanish towards each other, and he makes fun of other Hispanic people in how they speak Spanish and he thinks they don't speak Spanish properly and that they need to learn how to speak Spanish like people in Spain. For example in my family when we say the word bus we say guagua instead of autobús. Instead of Vale for ok, we say esta been or de acuerdo, but he thinks all Latin Americans say okay instead of Vale, and he only speaks English meanwhile his twin brother speak Spanish that he learned from some Dominicans. he wants to pass for white so bad but the only thing that gives a mother is the kinky hair on his mustache and beard that he got from his father's side. I have an olive skin tone but I don't have the same facial hair that he has. he's starting to make me feel a friend that because I have some friends and family members I have facial hair that has in it kinkiness to it.

I lose so much time because of work and running errands that realistically can wait a day. If I tell my sib I can't do something at that moment, my sib flips out. The other day I told my sib I would do something for them when I got home because I didn't have time to do so before I left, and they threw a full trashcan at me, dumping it all over the carpet. If I tell our parents, they say my sibling is young and I should be sympathetic. We are only 4 years apart, I hate my grades are suffering and I look like I have bad time management because I have to act like a stay at home mom.

for example, a fly or mosquito that won't live you alone and you can't kill makes everyone annoyed and angry. what thing makes you angry. about me my mom and others make me angry..i can't sleep some hours earlier she teases me when my effin brother sleep whole morning and is awake at midnight and doesn't effin do anything at 28 years old she doesn't annoy him like atttt allllllllll. like right now she called me 4 times .so annoying. and my effing dad forces me to eat things that give me diarrhea and if i say I have diarrhea he will take me to doctor which I shat my pants and underwear in the way. then he doesn't make a dare to say a single word to my effing brother.he thinks he is a plumber. he ripped the p-trap off the sink. now the whole sewer and poop smell is in my room. when I say he says no the sink is ok go away. then when my effing brother yelled at him the sewer **** smell is in the house what the heck did you do to the sink he stayed silent shivering in fear.

Parents are mentally and physically healthy and can take care of themselves. Same goes for the son. Son has a company with his father 50/50. Son has no money saved from his salary because his mother controls his expenses and collects his salary for bills and everything else. But son can spend his money however he wants, just has no control of them as stated. Son decides to buy a house 50/50 with his parents and reside with them. Lived with his parents all his life. Do you guys think this is normal for a 33 year old male? Are his parents doing the right thing controlling his money? Opinions? Thanks and sorry for my English :) They all live in USA. I'm asking about my Fiance btw.

My mom is holding something that happened a long while over my head. We have talked about this before and I have apologized even though the situation was very confusing. (It was my birthday and my stepdad was taking me out to eat. He was dating another woman and brought her along. I wasn't quite comfortable but I didn't want to cause trouble& went along. My mom was upset because, as her being my mom, I didn't leave.) For the other question,disrespect shouldn't be tolerated. Does that mean if it happens you should stay upset with the person even though there's no possible chance of letting them apologize? For example: Involving my mother again, my S.O. told her he doesn't care for her approval and what she thinks of him. The only thing that matters to him is if I'm happy with him. He doesn't feel the need to have our parents be involved with our relationship. This convo was between them, so I stayed out of it. She got upset that I didn't say anything to him about it. I apologized for that as well. Another incident, he got into it with my parents because he was sticking up for me but they felt it was none of his business to intervene. It got intense so things were said while I tried to stop it but I failed to do so. He knows what he said was rude. My parents were rude too but they don't feel in the wrong whatsoever. They're still upset almost a year later. Would you break up with someone who did this or let your parents demand you end things or just move on? (All adults here.)

Let's you're 18 and your parents die you have two siblings. A brother who's 16, a drug addict and hates you. And a little sister who's 6. Would it be wrong to only be legal guardian of the 6 year old?

My sister is in her 40s and my mom in her 60s all my mom does is watch tv. Im a positive calm person spiritual and enlighten. I was dianogised with mental illness years back in 2011 i recieve ssi and food stamps. They talk down on me saying i cant work and my silbinggs who are normal can work. When i want something with my food stamp.they ger angry and scream at me it depresses me. I think.they are using me for my mental illness benefits and when i say it to them they get angry and scream at them. I want to move out. Whats going on with these people?

I live with my very strict family, and I am 19 years old. My parents helps me financially to go through college and they have helped me get a good job.... but they're emotionally and verbally abusive. They usually control every decision and path for me, and I have no say in it. When I told them a I wanted a semester break for college, they said no and signed me up for another stressful high level class. Yet, they were disappointed at the low, but passing grades I gotten in return.... it wasn't on purpose though. I do hate being a failure and failing things and expectations and so forth. I am so very drained and tired of it after so many years with them. It used to be physically when I was little but it has gone better and became absent and changed to the other two. Although, they don't do anything bad or negative to my younger sibiling, they love him a lot. My bf of almost 2 years told me to move out as there have been a lot of bad times and incidents.... but I feel guilty and scared to just leave the place... They helped me a lot... education and financial wise. But behind doors... it's hard to stay happy and motivated to go through things. It's affecting my grades and it's getting harder to get out of bed and do the usual routine... I don't know. Should I move out? Or am I being too dramatic and selfish? I'd like to know other's opinions. Thank you.

If so..Happy Mothers Day to you all !!

For instance, does the daughter, have the right to disown the mother if she allowed her brother to go to the mall alone but not her. Does she have the right to disown her for allowing her brother to travel alone in a hotel but not her. Does she have the right to disown her and alienate her mother when she blocks her right to go alone on while they are on vacation but permits her brother that right? What would you do if you were in the girl's shoes?

I hate her! She is so annoying! So here's the thing, I want to go to my boyfriend's house because he invited me to be his date for a college party. I'm almost 18, he turned 19 one month ago. He told me he didn't want to be alone so he wanted me to come. He's in college as a freshmen and I'm a high school senior. I wanted to take my dad's 1999 BMW to the party, but he told me to ask my mother first and then I screamed because I knew she was the worst. She tells me "absolutely NOT!" because she thinks there is going to be alcohol. Is she a stupid cúnt? How the hell are we suppose to get beer? I HATE HER I HATE HER SO MUCH!

My parents have been in our fair share of fights and I have done plenty wrong, but I am 18 years old and I graduated from high school with honors, am enrolled full time in college paying tuition completely on my own. I bought a car on my own and pay for insurance and gas and utilities. I am my fathers daughter and the woman I call my mom is my step mom. She is continually hot and cold with me. some weeks we are best friends and other times she wont speak to me for months depending on if she "approves" of the things I am doing. she consistently believes i am doing things wrong and is entirely rude. Today is mothers day and I got her a personalized glass along with a witty teeshirt. she wont speak to me and refuses to open the gifts. when she is mad she calls me a wh*re and ungrateful. She is entirely mean to me and says I don't deserve the food she provides and that I don't deserve to live there. My dad is a median to all of this but I don't know how much more I can handle. I am confident in the person that I am. I am confident in my choices, and I know how much I am capable of. but I never feel worse about myself than when I am around her. I know I am 18 and I can move out but last time I spoke to my dad about it he said absolutely not and that it was not an option. he said I am running away from my problems and that my step mom loves me but is having a hard time with the situation. am I wrong for wanting to get out of this situation?

This stemmed from an argument they had in his car while he was driving us home. I was spending the night with him 30 mins from my home. They asked me to take them to a place that was15 mins away. My bf drove the 30 mins there to take them. On the way home, they said to me how I abuse & neglect my cat since I leave for 1 day to spend time with my bf & cannot take her with me since his gma is allergic & that I don't leave enough food or water when I make sure I do before leaving. This made me cry and my bf saw so he had snapped back at them and told them to back off and tried to defend me. It got heated and my bf was saying he wasn't afraid of them and wanted them out his car. After dropping them off, my parents had left his doors open and was trying to get him to come out the car. My mom is a firm believer in God and he told her god is dead to upset her before he drove off. I was trying to get them all to stop but everyone was at eachothers throats. My parents told me I did nothing and didn't defend them from him and how disrespectful he was. After that, they say nothing positive about him. He has let go of the argument but he doesn't appreciate the way they treat me and how my stepdad threatened him and feels like his family was threatened. My stepdad and him basically want to fight eachother. (Rest of the story will be in a comment).

I graduated HS early (3yr) in 2015 and had party at the house. I didn't get much gifts, few cards and money. Started working right after. My sister's going to graduate in a month, did Not graduate early, yet she got senior pics I never got, shes planning some party w a bouncy house and whatever else she wants apparently. Suddenly both parents want to give her a vacation trip I never got so I think she's getting two vacation trips. Even my grandparents got all excited for her giving her a Class of 2019 blanket when I didn't get any Class of 2015 gifts.... Grandparents even gave me some random pillow when they gave her the blanket, a pity gift since they didnt give me anything for graduation... What confuses me is I try to give as much as I can to family, spend like all the money I can (I had to get a job at 16 while my sisters almost 18 and hasnt had to), yet my sister just uses everyone for their money and only considers getting a gift if someone else pays for it... Yet suddenly everyone wants to give her everything....? Is there a psychology behind this, do I just need to stop giving..? Just went to my room crying cuz everyone seems to think of unique gifts for her and I just get the pity gifts after they think of nice gifts for her... Not just graduation, like my mom got her some penny with her birth year and birth stone, then "felt bad" she never gave me anything like it so I got the same gift few weeks later when it came in the mail...

I'm 14 and last night my mom and I had an argument and didn't exactly make up. This morning I go to give her her mother's day card and my dad follows. She is kind of irritated already and gets more irritated when she finds out my dad forgot to write his card and wrote a quick note in the morning. He didn't even get her a gift. Then my younger sister comes in and gives her card to her and she didn't even write anything in it! I can tell my mom is hurt and I feel guilty because I started it with our argument last night. How can I fix this

So I have a problem with my mom. I live with my mom and I'm 15. I wanted to surprise her for mother day in my room and I woke up and initially didn't say anything because I wanted it to be a surprise. I got up and I had a slides presentation and as well as a mother's day card. I extremely had to use the bathroom so I went and after I went back to my computer to pull it up. Then my mom called me so I went and when I got there she yelled at me for not saying happy mother's day but I wanted to surprise her in my room with the presentation music and the card. I wanted to explain to her what I was doing but she had zero interest in listening and told me to get out and threatened to hurt me. I went back to my room and I sat there and after about 20 minutes I tried at least give her the card with chocolates but she ripped the card and threw the chocolates in the trash. I tried to even say sorry and that she misunderstood what I was trying to do but it just got even worse. I don't know what to do and there's nobody to help me because I just love with my mom. Honestly I'm just really sad.

I'm 26, but when I was a kid I was dealing with a bipolar Dad who didn't support us. We lived with my Grandparents to have a place to live. I was constantly ashamed of all this. My Dad wouldn't try to look for work, besides his odd jobs that he did. Until I was 8 it was OK, but after that he physically couldn't handle the work so there was less of it. As a kid I wanted a Dad who went to a regular job. Something like teaching or an office job. I also even wanted him to go for being a janitor. Anything. Of course higher paying jobs really drew my jealousy. It wasn't just the nice things, like trips to Disneyland, or having trampolines. It was knowing their Dad's worked hard to provide for them. They cared about the happiness of their kids. They wanted to give them nice things. My Dad cared about his cigarettes and his weed. As an adult the jealousy still comes. My Dad doesn't work at all. Only my Mom. My Dad is 57. Men his age still work, sometimes multiple jobs. None of this holds me back. I work even going into overtime. I like making money. It's just something I never let go. Seeing how kind some Dad's can be, and how they work so hard.

...wish you'd just come back home. Dad can't cook worth **** and he shrank the laundry.

Im injured, busy, and dont feel like catching up. Plus she said some horrible mean and nasty things about my fiance and stopped by her house unannounced, yet says my fiance isn't welcome. I feel like crap knowing my mom might be sad or offended, but she will turn angry and get mean randomly. She asked me to unblock her number too bit Im.not ready to yet. In the past I gave her a chance and she got very clingy and i terfered with my life. She causes me bad luck also. A lor and tells me she will curse me.

My 17 son came out as gay (like 7 months ago), and his ego shot right up. He become more confident, got himself a job (which he still works at), got friends, met guys. And it was great! But he started talking to a guy a month or so after coming out and they ended up dating and then he was heartbroken after they broke up after 40 days or so of dating (it is a long time when you think about it), he then got with a new guy two weeks later and was kind of mean to him and then broke up with him and said it was a rebound (which I wasn't very proud of as I didn't raise him to be that way) anyway he's messages a few guys in between and met up but nothing went further. But today we got him in the living room and asked what was the matter and he said he was embarrassed by us all, and thinks his twin is a *****, and little brother dresses ugly, and is embarrassed to bring anyone round his dads house.... and I personally don't know why he is being this way. Whereas at work he is completely different .... and laughs and is so talkative (asked his colleagues), he is nice at work and polite, but it's just at home he's all different? Any help would be appreciated.

I'm not sure if it has to do with location, but I'm always seeing single moms taking care of the kids and the dad is nowhere to be found.

I suffer from anxiety disorders due to emotional abuse, I am 24 years old and my dad does not respect my decisions. Now that I have a job and I can finally work up to save my money to get a new place to live in because I am tired of getting into arguments and fights. My dad thinks that just he is angry means that he has the right to howl out loudly, especially if I have mental health issues. He even thinks that hitting a little child is okay too and even yelled at someone else's children before. The 2 little girls were terrified and cried as they played and I had to come over there to comfort them. Abuse is a really common problem in Vietnam and my dad and I were in Vietnam when it happened. In Vietnam, I even saw a Vietnamese man kicking, beating up and cursing at his son with my own eyes. The biggest problem is that in Vietnam, there is no law that prohibits such Abuse and violence against children. I came from a Vietnamese family, so I know how it feels like to be abused when I was left with my physically abusive babysitters when I was a 4 year old boy. My dad gave my babysitters permission to beat me up, and this elderly woman slammed my head to the ground. My dad even said that Emotional Abuse is not abuse either, in denial of what actually happened. When one of my babysitters slammed my head into a heater that was still operating, the right side of my head started bleeding, I could see blood coming while I was in tears by the time that I was 9 years old. Even though I am a person with mental disabilities. I went through the Abuse since birth and I moved out of my abusive babysitter's house when I was around 11 or 12 years old. I moved into that house when I was 4 years old, but since I moved out for good, I am still dealing with emotional trauma and fear because my dad wouldn't change his behavior.

My relatives had come to stay in our house. One afternoon my younger sister and two cousins were using their phones. My dad then came and grabbed it from my sisters hand and also my cousins hand and took it away from them. Then my cousins were like what's his problem? What an idiot. Can't he mind his own business? I heard them say all that. Then i told my dad to only grab the phone from my sisters hand not my cousins. I just can't stand the fact he's being insulted. I don't think there is anything wrong with my father's behaviour.Being addicted to phones is not a good thing so my dad only wanted to discipline them. My cousins say that my dad isn't their dad so he has no right to tell them what to do and how to behave and he's supposed to mind his own business....especially since he isn't their father and he's got no right to tell them what to do.

im the baby of the family and only boy. I got three way older sisters. Eversince we were little my mom always told us all to bond. My sisters favorite game to play was tickle monster. all three of them would tickle me because im the youngest and most ticklish. My mom loved to watch and her and all my sisters always say aww and how adorable I am. They love to tickle my feet. I always have so much fun but after I always blush and get embarrassed but my mom says be a good sport thats what big sisters are supposed to do? What does she mean? Do you think they make fun of you?

I know the girl is just trying to befriend me, but I'm not rejecting her to be cruel or mean. Some parents might not want me hanging out with their 16 year old minor children. It can look creepy, regardless of gender. I'm also an adult who can legally purchase drugs or alcohol. Imagine if a kid stole their parents' alcohol to the parties themselves. People could think it was me who provided illegal substances to their children, and I'd get into trouble for things I didn't do. Besides that, I simply moved on from high school and would rather not come back. I'm in my early 20's now, which means that my 16 year old days are long gone. She has requested me to attend her parties several times, and isn't getting the message that I don't wish to go.

So my boyfriend is being kicked out of his home because his mother is moving in (he lives with his grandfather) and his mother wants him out in two weeks . My boyfriend is in college and suppose to graduate in July so he's doing college and a unpaid internship (to graduate ) making it very difficult to find a job so support us just until he gets one and to move out with . I'm working currently but my job doesn't pay enough , so I'm trying to find a better job so that we can move out I even got my security guard License so I can get a way better job (I just got it today ! I know congratulations to me lol) Any suggestions on what we should do ? No he doesn't have other family members to live with . We live in nyc not to mention .

Both my 18 year old sister and I pay $50 for our share for car insurance. My parents say I have to pay $100 now. I work two jobs and am in college. They bought my younger sister a car but I have to share with my dad. She gets to pay $50 but me $100. He yells at me every time I have to go to work. I pay for the gas in his car as well. I feel like this is completely unfair and I told them that. What would you do?

I'm a 15 years old girl. My father hits me over trivial matters and he does it barbarically. He leaves marks and bruises. I hate him. I can't do anything because he's stronger than me. He is no alcoholic, and he doesn't have anger management issues. He never hits my mother or my sisters, he just hits me. I don't understand why he hates me so much. He often makes snide remarks about me and intervenes when I'm talking to my mother just to humiliate me. Then, after he makes me cry because he hurt me, he apologises and tells me how I am his favourite, prettiest and most intelligent daughter and then buys me something. He is manipulative, I can see and I hate him with every fibre of my being. I hate him with all that I am. I want to kill him. He's vile and disgusting. I can't even run away as I have nowhere else to go and I'm not financially stable. He is the reason I'm incapable of loving anyone. I don't feel safe with him in the house and that's why I lock my room and keep a dagger on my bedside table. He is the reason I seldom leave my room. He has made my life hell. He tells me that he wants me to be a doctor and when I tell him that I have other plans, he tells me how I am a disappointment and how his other daughters are better and when I express anger, he gets all apologetic. How to deal with him? How to ask him to leave me alone and never to talk to me again? I don't want his spurious apologies and the things he buys me to manipulate me? How to kill my monster of a father?

I'm a first time mom so obviously it's my first mother's day.. I'm really kinda sad that nobody got me a card. My grandma gave my mom a card but not me. My dad bought my older sister an mother's day card and wrote that it's from her pets (he felt bad since she really wanted to be a mother but she's not). It makes me sad because I know it's just a card but my dad gave my sister a card and wrote from her pets. Like really, you give her a card from pets but not someone who's actually a mom?!?!? It might be stupid to be upset about this but I kind of am..

Sometimes I feel like a failure of a father. My son is 28 years old, single, and he said he is gay, which I am still getting use to. On top of that he doesn't have many friends and lives in another city far away from me. And he also makes a low salary of an admin assistant -$35,000 a year. He messages me sometimes but I feel like he is distant. I feel like a failure

My boyfriend and I have been together a while (think 2+ years) and we're both in our early/mid twenties. Last June his father had a very bad stroke and needs someone to live with to help with day to day things (bathing, laundry, food prep, etc). Now, my boyfriend pays for all the bills at the house (that his father bought with a mortgage 3 years before his stroke) and we've been talking sort of about living together, but the situation isn't great at his house. There is no room for a third person in that house and he can't move out and away from his father. My question is, what are some alternatives here? We can't think of anything because selling the house isn't an option at the moment due to how much is still owed, the chance of making it back is slim.

I've seen and heard some things over the past week that leads me to think she is pregnant. I am 22 and am living at home mainly to help with the 5 young siblings i have. I have had a huge irrational fear of her being pregnant again since she had the 6th baby last year. i have recurring nightmares of this and i can't pinpoint why i feel this way because i adore all of my siblings- but part of me doesn't understand why she isn't happy with all that she has and always feels the need to have more. they struggle financially (i help out), and have no time to make each of the kids feel special, i just feel bad for them. I'm an adult so I'm over it, but i haven't had any one on one time in years with my mom. I just need advice if anyone has any. please don't attack me, I'm asking for advice and not rude comments.

I remember onetime I was talking to my brother in law about red dead redemption 2. I told him how on the side (outside of the main plot) i go to the swamps to hunt alligators. My sister turned to him and smirked. Does she think I'm a nerd? Lol

are mocking him since my sister married . what should i do ?

isn't shame supposed to be shared across the family ?

I have a older sister and a younger sister. My little sister and I are close but she is very close to my older sister whom I am quite close to aswell but I'd say they definitely more closer than we are. My younger sister is always interested in my older sisters life , she loves to talk about everything with her but when it comes to me telling her stuff she literally doesn't care . I'm not sure if it's because my life isn't that interesting but she will legit just be like oh cool For example I showed her this guy I really fancy and usually you would think that little sisters wants to know more and will want to see more pictures of him which is in her personality lol she's nosy but she just looked at one and walked away and said I'm over it. When it comes to my older sister she will want to know everything and legit stalked her Instagram to find him but she really doesn't give a **** about me. Is it because my life isn't that interesting as I am not a drama kinda girl, Or is there another reason or am I just looking at it too deeply. But I've seen her do this many times like when I'm talking about my career and wether I wanted to go to university and really wanted her opinion but she just was like I'm off to my room now when she knew I wanted to talk.

Now and again I'll go over and watch a sporting event with my brother. I asked if I could bring some food (chicken breast and rice) to cook there while we watch the game. He said he just cleaned. I clearified that any mess that I made I would clean up. He said no. I get it's his kitchen but honestly from my own brother it's unreal so I didn't even bother going over there. Who's acting out of line?

I'm 25 and I've been living w/ my parents and helping them pay bills and rent until they decided they wanted to pay everything so I can focus on my car payments. Then my stepdad got fired because he took too many days off so I had to help again. I've gotten into an argument with them before because I have an anxious cat that doesn't like when I leave. I've gotten her a calming collar and tried the pheromones sprays to help her but they think that's not enough on my part. They also get on me about my bf because they got into an argument when he tried to defend me because they were saying I abuse and neglect my cat. I spend time with him 1 day out of the week and it's always a problem but my mom has said I shouldn't stop living because of a cat but expects me to take her everywhere when I can't because some people are allergic. So I had told them I would get a room and before I was going to move, they flipped out and said it was a bad idea. (It was with my coworker). So they wanted to work things out and now we're back to square 1. I'm gonna try to find a room again but they want me to say I'm wrong for doing this. Am I wrong? I don't know what to think. My bf is going to be leaving for airforce and he thinks either dealing with the situation, splitting up or giving my cat away are the only options I have right now. I told them its not their business to be so involved in my relationship but was that wrong too?