I have been with my husband for 10 years. I miss him when im at work but aggravated when im with him. I still cater for him, but i argue with him over EVERYTHING. I started telling him what i dont like about him and hes a nice guy, he doesn t argue back. Sex isnt interesting. we have kids. Just hit me w the truth!! Is this normal at this length of marriage? Am i not loving him anymore??

I just now told my newly wedded wife that I dont like other peoples kids and she got very upset. She told me that I should because she has a big family with lots of kids and babies. I just cant do it. I wasn t raised to love other people s kids. I love my own but I cant hold someone s elses baby and do googly baby things to him/her and call thier toddlers cute and spoil them. I just cant do it. She s pissed at me and told me I have to try, but I cant change in a week or be fake with these kids....Banging my head on the wall.

I'm very pretty and smart. I'm also quite funny. Guys seem to enjoy spending time with and talking to me. But, they ask other girls to be in relationships with them and not me. And, the girls they ask aren't even nearly as pretty as I am. So, what's going on here?

My husband is a marine who is currently deployed. I had been sleeping with a couple guys and somehow he managed to find out? Now he's saying he wants a divorce and that he's serving me with the paper work when he gets back. I am so devastated and don't deserve this. I am 21 years old and without him I am pretty much homeless. I have still been spending money out of his checking account and savings, is it illegal? We are still technically married.

He was 36 with 2 kids and lied to me about being rich; I was 24 and gorgeous! He would've never even made it past the first date if I knew about his lies!!! He was making less than $70k and told me he was making $200k. He got deported and looks aged! He was depressed for a while and had to beg friends for money. He has a shop somehow (I think he used friends to get it). He also posted a picture of himself in a slum in "designer clothes." He's a designer btw. People have posted comments about how he's a beggar in rags and it's good that he was deported! And, he looks worse in real life

i used to have a new relationship every 3 months when i was in college because there's a certain high you get when you meet someone new. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and so i clearly don't feel excited anymore, the butterflies are long gone. this is the ONLY long term relationship ive ever been in. i'm getting bored 4 years in i wonder how on earth people manage 20 and 30 years LOL seems an awful long time to be in love with one person. sometimes i find myself flirting with other men unintentionally because i love to feel desired by a new and exciting man.

Lol i feel like i missed out so many times by being super shy and expecting the guy to do everything

When I express a concern to him, he will literally just shrug it off. We never talk about my concerns and problems, but I always make time to address his. He just seems so caught up with himself that he's losing focus on me and our marriage. I've been noticing that I'm truly becoming unhappy in our marriage. I'm scared to tell him that because to me, that's a big deal, but I deserve the right to be heard and he should understand and try to work with me. I just don't think he will take me seriously. He just doesn't seem to care. What can I do?

My ex and I had a child in 2009. We broke up 2010 because of his drug use. In 2012 I met my now soon to be ex-husband. We got married in 2014 and in 2015 he adopted my daughter after my ex terminated his rights. Six months ago he asked for a divorce and left to another state. He hasn't spoken to either of us since. My daughter started to ask about her biological father. She is so desperate for a father to love her. So I went and looked him up on Facebook. He is engaged to be married, clean for 3 years, and has a new baby. I'm feeling so much because he wasn't there for our daughter. I want to reach out to him. My daughter deserves a father, and now two men have let her down. He can never regain custody unless my husband terminates his rights. Which he may or may not do. I had filed and was awarded temporary sole custody and him some visitation, but he hasnt' exercised any of it. He hasn't even paid any of the court order support either.

My family, even my boyfriend are waiting for a wedding and children... I honestly do not see myself in that life style.. I also cry at night, at the thought of me having children or getting married.i get really depressed when I think of those things. I'm 25 does that explain anything ?

My 5 year old is deaf and his school wants to make him do kindergarten all over again because hes not progressing the way they want. Hes in a regular school with an interpreter. I feel the reason hes not doing so good is because hes the only one in his class that is deaf. So I was recamend to move to a state that has more opportunity for him to learn better where I live we dont have special schools for the deaf and hard of hearing. My husband doesn t want to move because his business is here it s how he takes care of the family if we up and move it will be hard starting all over. The only other option is to send him away to a special school where he would live there and visit us on the weekends. I cant bare to be away from my son like that he is not my husband s biological child so I really dont expect him to understand he doesn t have any children with me or from a previous relationship so it s hard to make him understand. So now I m stuck in a rut move so my son can have a chance at a better life and good schooling. Or listen to my husband and send him away to school. My husband makes decent money where we live but it s not like hes making a killing to the point I need to sacrifice my sons future. I m a stay at home mom but if I have to work in another state to make ends meet so be it. I just dont know what to do at this point. My husband said if I leave he wants a divorce and that hes not moving under any circumstances unless we are making more money.

Been binge watching this show, and while the actors are all very good looking, the people talking say that the people they're talking about are sexy, beautiful, gorgeous, etc., then when they show the pictures of the actual people, they are not exceptional at all. Have people lowered their standards or something?!

Me and my wife have been married 13 years next week we have a son who's 9. She's had a rough life her parents kicked her out when she was 10 she was sent here to live with her uncle where she met me. Me and her uncle are best friends I work for him. We got married only a year after dating she was only 13 I was 33. I had two boys from a previous relationship and marriage the youngest is a couple years older than her than her the other one is a few years younger but they think it's cool. She got pregnant with our son when she was only 16 she had him at 17. Nearly 13 years later I'm 46 she's 26 our birthdays are two days apart we always celebrate together her uncle didn't care we got married her parents she hasn't seen or heard from in years. Is that wrong ?

I said no way, so now she spends nights out with her friends. she's 32 years old and is acting like a child. What can I do? wife wants me to su ck another guy off, her ex husband

My husband told me the only reason he is with me is because he is scared of how a future husband may treat our son, and that divorce carries a social stigma still. I asked him if he loved me but he just stayed silent. I said to him that this is not a good enough reason to stay if he is miserable otherwise and I d rather he divorce me. I don t know if I did the right thing... He said his inclination is also towards divorce. Our lease is up in a week and I asked him if he wanted me to leave. He said no and that since I asked him to reflect & make a decision on divorce, then I should stop asking him questions & share my feelings with my mom. My mom thinks we will regret if we divorce and for me to be patient because my husband is under a lot of pressure from his family. I really don't know what to do. Should I stay put and silent while this storm passes through or run?

For the last month I keep getting sexual dreams where I'm cheating on my spouse. In the dream I'm aware that I'm married and cheat. Sometimes it's ridiculous things like me and my spouse are in bed then randomly a naked person would walk by our door and I'd follow and boom... Cheating. What does this mean? These dreams happen VERY frequently and usually very explicit. Our sex life is pretty great. We have sex 2-3 times a week (not including random Bjobs) and we are pretty adventurous as well as lively with it so I'm not lacking anything sexual in my life. But these dreams bother me A LOT because in the dreams I really enjoy it.

So we took the kids to school, we took off work to go to their graduation, we had a good hour alone at home, I tell my wife, hey you wanna play around and she said no, why??

they had a ton of drama in their relationship and a lot of fights. They moved in together after 3 months and broke up after 8 months She's always talking crap about him online. She deleted her facebook account after their breakup and would post attention seeking pics and quotes on her instagram and tumblr passive aggressively trying to get his attention after the breakup. She has that tough girl attitude, where she talks a lot of smack about him but then goes back to him. He's 40 and she's 21.They separated in November '18. He made a new instagram account after their last breakup to start fresh and avoid the drama and was only following 20 people total including me. Then last night he added her and she added him which I could see on his list. So that defeats the whole purpose of him starting over! I looked at her linked tumblr account to see if I could get a clue if they were getting back together and saw she posted these tumblr photo quotes the same day they both followed each other. She had these posts all the day they reconnected: "so many people love you, don't focus on the ones who don't" "he never wanted me, he just wanted my attention" "you don't know how many times I've put my needs before others and it didn't get me anywhere" "I wish I could tell you it gets better, but it doesn't get better, you get better" Yet they added each other on the very accounts they both created to start over. He and I went on a couple dates. Does it sound like they're back together

My baby boy has been through so much since the womb when he turned 6 months i started doing bad things for money and would leave him for weeks at the time with my mother and other baby sitters that i really trusted and that lasted 6 months until i finally found myself and did a 360 . weve been through so much but TOGETHER until i finally decided maybe his wealthy dads side of the family can start helping me out with him (mind you i kept my son away from that abusive man but i actually saw a major difference in him because we were 15 at the time and hes 21 now and wayyy different) so i finally decided to give them a paternal family shot and theyve been doing good so far they take my son for weeks at a time and weve been doing a 2 week here 2 week there visitation and i dont think my son is quite adjusting due to his seperation anxiety from past trauma of me having to leave him to put good food on the table he tells me he doesnt want to go with his dad even though ive been around both of them and he loves his dad and i just dont know what to do to help him feel ok the reason i ask is because tonight he had a nightmare of a dinosaur chasing him and attacking him and stepping on his leg and i googled the meaning of that dream which is - the fear of being useless or not good enough anymore and ive realized he does feel like that because every time we get in the car he tells me "mommy dont leave me" or randomly during the day