Occasionally I'll see a man and his wife at the gym I go to working out together. I have never spoken to them but I assume they are married, they appear to come into the gym together and leave together when I see them. Well tonight at the gym, the man wasn't there but his wife was at the gym near closing time and she was talking to this random guy flirting with him on the cardio machines. I thought it was weird because I thought she was married to the guy I usually see her with. So I saw them leave together and I left at the same time they both left together and I got in my car and the man got into her car and I was parked right behind her and sat there and watched for a little bit (call me creepy I don't care, just looking out for this guy and trying to find evidence of her cheating on him) and I saw the man kissing her in her car and being playful and flirty with each other. Should I tell the husband when I see him at the gym next?

If you are 19, marrying someone. The person has a visa. And a parent tries to sabotage because they think you are too young. Could they report fraud? Also if you get married without parents knowing will they look for your parents to interview?

So I met my childhood best friend when I was 7. We were best friends for about 12 years. Then I got married and she got weird. She was always a loner and felt a little jealous when I made new friends but she didn't like that I moved away with my military husband. Like any normal marriage we had issues for the first couple years. She knew all the details and kept telling me to leave him....for things that were just arguments. My relationship was never abusive or dangerous. I moved back home for 6 months while my husband was deployed and she and her boyfriend wouldn't shut up about how much they hate my husband and how I should divorce him and move in with them and etc. it was weird and pretty terrible that they would say such things to my face. I spoke with her a few times about how I didn't like it, nothing changed. Finally after moving back in with my husband I decided to tell her either she stops or I can't be friends with her anymore. She said "okay" and blocked me on everything. She has contacted my mother and sister over the last few months. Asking my mother if the family was attending her wedding and then wishing my sister a happy birthday and the best in life. She requested that my sister never tell me that she contacted her cause she doesn't want to upset me. I don't hate her. But she obviously doesn't care about me. I want her to understand how dangerous it is to treat people this way. I can't say anything without arguing. How do I handle this? I care when I shouldnt

y boyfriend refused to be with me if we weren't living together. We've been together for many years and it just didn't workout for us to live together. These past 9 months we haven't been together and he refused to see me. Most of the time he goes gambling and I stay home. Upset and isolated. Yesterday I called him again and plead for him back. He took today off at work to gamble and now his phone is off which makes me suspicious he's with someone. I don't understand he told me loved me yesterday. Now I can't get a hold of him. The only thing I can do is buy these tickets to see his family overseas. I don't understand why I've isolated and alone for so many weekends without him. Like is this normal to torture someone and pick up their calls and let me plead and beg for you? I feel so trapped and I think this guy really does care about me. He responds how I look so bad and I'm just wasting away since we haven't been together. I don't know what to do.

My child's father left me alone pregnant because he wanted his ex wife back and they've been divorce 4 years. They have a three year old and we are trying to work on things but she doesn't want the kids together and he listens she also makes him keep the child outside of visitation so I don't get much help. We live separately now because she doesn't want the kids together and he says I nag too much am I wrong for being upset that he doesn't help or want the kids together and listens to his ex

When I was in my early twenties, I allowed myself to be seduced and swept away by a man who turned out to be married. I fell stupidly in love with him, probably more like infatuation but it felt like love we continued seeing each other for nearly 4 years. It didn't end until I finally met a really wonderful single man who I developed feelings for and decided to start the relationship clean and cut all ties with my married lover. It's been months and I till haven't forgiven myself. I feel bad for helping a man continuously choose to betray his wife and grown sons day in and day out for years. I'm not religious so I don't know how to ask for forgiveness and clear my conscious. I don't want revenge, I don't wish any harm on anyone. I just want to forgive myself for being young and stupid and dishonest and just move on. How can I? Thank you.

There's this guy who claims to be my husbands brother, but isn't at all related to my husband, just uses the term, came into our lives randomly about a month ago.& now he wont leave my husband alone. He calls everyday, always needing favors, or asking for money. But this guy twist's his words, to make everything sound all good,my husband is so gullible & believes him. My husband just likes to be friends with everyone. But It got so bad, that this guy was taking my husband every day outta the house, on all his time off from work, to help him with random stuff or to drive around & do nothing. Me& the kids hardly see him, it was affecting us.So I spoke to this guy&asked him for some boundaries with my family& marriage. Be friends,whatever, but my husband has responbilities as a father& a husband first. And you cant just show up unannounced& take him all day. We need time with him too. And this guy, snapped at me. Telling me im out of line,& that I need too be put in my ******* place. Threating me that he will drain my bank account& that I need to shut the **** up& respect him. I was pissed. All cause I asked him to give my family& marriage some space. What friend talks to other friends wives in that manner? I did tell my husband what I said to his friend. And he didn't care. And clearly he doesn't care about my feelings cause I want this guy out of our lives. But when I try to talk about it, he gets annoyed and tells me im treating him like a kid, by telling him who he can and cannot be friends with... And I think that's ridiculous. Feel like my feelings don't matter. And that he needs to grow up and realize whats most important. His wife and kids. but IS giving an ultimatum being to controlling? And I am a stay at home mom, my husband is the sole provider. so his excuse is that he does everything for me cause he financially supports us, so he gets to go and blow off steam with this guy. But everyday is absurd. and he doesn't worry about any household chores or anything, cause its "all my job". but any type of communication I try to have with him about any problems, turns into a fight cause he hates confrontation.. How do I keep trying for someone who isn't trying back..

With Memorial Day coming up my husband mentioned that he wanted to grill out this weekend for our house and kids. Then he suggested that we invite my sister and her kids. Ok, cool, I sent out a group text this morning and got no response so I assumed everyone was cool with coming to our house. My husband seems to always have this idea that when you invite someone over for this type of event there should be no problem asking them to bring something. I'm of the mindset that since we're having the cookout we should provide everything. When my husband mentioned everyone bringing something immediately they all started saying they can't make it or have other plans. I told him I thought he was wrong for that. He mentioned that he feels that some of our family members think they should always eat for free. He said it's not going to kill someone to bring condiments or someone else to bring a few bags of ice, or someone to bring some buns or drinks. And typically my sister is the biggest culprit. She'll come and bring her 4 kids and won't bring anything with her. Is he wrong for expecting people to bring something to a cookout if they are invited?

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When I first met her she was slim and had an amazing personality. After giving birth, she's become a bloated miserable person with swollen ankles. I can't stand being in the room with her because she's constantly picking fights with me. We no longer have sex or do anything but fight. This question is for guys only since women refuse to be objective and they'll only answer with crap like "She gave you a kid" as if she didn't want one and only did it for me.

Ours was not a perfect marriage, there were arguments, there was love there was sex and everything...but when she got involved with the other guy, life became a living hell. I loved her so the thought of divorce never occurred to me...I blamed myself for all the arguments but later realized it was her guilt probably and the stress of managing two relationships . Her repeat cheating and infidelity because a cause of my loss of trust in her, she had been hiding facts and would not admit until a proof to prove otherwise was given, I did not feel she was remorseful or even sorry for the act. Living with her becasue a cause of constant worry what she might be upto and constant low-self esteem. At the time of divorce I knew I would fall for her and may buy into her crying and take her back, to ensure that does not happen I told each of my friend and my extended relative the reason for divorce is she had sex out of the marriage. so taking her back would become impossible for me. Lately I have been thinking about her, I moment I want her back and the other moment I hate her I donno what to do? any advise will be helpful.