I don't have my license because for the longest time I had crippling anxiety but I've went to therapy and overcome it now. I feel like I can't really live my life or experience things because I'm not driving. I feel like I'm not really living my life. And I want to do this but he's so scared for me. I'm 26 and will be 27 in June. He's 34. He drives me everywhere I have to go. I appreciate him driving me places but sometimes I would like to be on my own time and not have someone monitor my every move. I want to be completely independent and better my life. I told him I could die walking down the street or someone could shoot me. He said that the blood will not be on his hands if something happens to me while driving. He said he couldn't forgive himself if something happens to me. He said he will teach me how to drive but he doesn't really think I should drive. He said that he will take care of me. Problem is he could break up with me or die and then I really am going to be messed up. He has those three kids he has to take care of also so I don't want to be a burden too much. All of my family is pushing me to drive, my friends want me to drive, he's the only one that doesn't support it. Is he really scared of me dying or is there more to the situation? another reason I need to drive is because my boyfriend might get mad at me and not want to take me to work or wherever I need to go. I don't know what the future holds and I don't want to be crippled by this anymore. he says I shouldn't drive because my attention span is bad. I asked him was he afraid that I might not want to be with him anymore once I became indepdent and he said he's not worried about all that, he's worried about my safety but it's strange because he's the only person that isn't pushing me to be fully independent and drive. since my boyfriend drives me everywhere he's pretty much all I know and all I see. I had a crush on a guy at my job that I found intrigueing but aside from that I really don't meet new people and it's been this way for the whole 4 years we've been together

I need help with an engagement ring for my girlfriend! I am unsure what to do, because she's not allowed to wear jewelry to her job. She has 2 job, and the one job she's not allowed to wear a ring to work at all. She is a Hospitality aide, and works with seniors and food..her other job she won't even try to wear because she's a short order cook, and she says it it will get destroyed with heat, and Grease. The know she would smile and happly wear a simple plain ring, but the rings I know she would love she would never wear due to work, but she would still love it. I really don't know what to do. Help

I got invited to help the camera person out. We are not a professional service. My best friend told me we are going to be videoing the wedding/reception with a few cameras and like 2 other people. I don't know if he knows the bride or not but she wanted him to video it all with some help. Am I a guest? Do I dress up? Filming the reception, can I eat the food and dance?