Some men, without making any extra effort, know what to wear, have the right interests/hobbies, know what to think, and know what to say to appeal to the opposite sex Others are drawn towards awkward styles of dress, interested in video games or engineering, hold opinions that are emotionally irrelevant to women, and are unable to communicate in an appealing way. Both are equally attracted to women, but where is the disconnect? Is it a matter of role models/ parenting?

She does not want to deal with her friend when she is in a vulnerable mood or state What is she afraid her friend will do

My good friend added me on facebook I was looking at her page and her friends Was shocked that all her friends send posts about how bad the world is, how bad our government is, how stupid our politicians are, how disgusting one culture is etc These types of posts keeping going on everyday Should i drop her on facebook

I am black with prominent black features, and my wife is half black and white. We have one child, our oldest who is no doubt mine. He resembles me greatly, as do our other two children to a lesser extent. We had a new child in January, and his skin tone was light at birth but that didn't draw my attention but when he turned 6 months and still looked very pale and didn't resemble any of our other children, and I took a photo of them all together (not in relation to my concerns) and he looks so different. If I ask my wife for a DNA test she will flip out, I know her she overreacts to everything I don't even want to imagine her reaction to that question.

It's legal here but our parents may not be on board.

A "friend" of my wife's has essentially ghosted her. Today was the Mother's day celebration at school and this "friend" made a huge show of acting like my wife wasn't even there, but greeted our daughter. Well, my wife confronted her about it later and told her if she says hello or speaks to our child, then she must greet my wife too. Apparently she's po'ed that my wife didn't respond to her about the school project a couple of months ago, so she's unfriended her and blocked her from all social media. Then she said that we didn't get a copy of the packet at the kindergarten parent night for them, and now she has to find other means of getting the book for the summer homework. Another school mom was with my wife when she confronted this "friend" and the other mom says to mail a letter to the school cancelling the "friend's" daughter's registration. Seriously what is wrong with people? Getting into over BS and then going so far as to screw around with a child's education? My wife told the other mom that's not the way to handle the situation. Best to ignore her and avoid her Questions are: what is wrong with people and is it worth contacting the school to see if we can request the children not be placed in the same class?

I'm considering leaving him for someone else. He's not a good money saver and spend money on useless things. We've been married for almost 5 years and no kids. I don't want kids with him. I did at first but I came to realize he's not ready to be a father or a husband. He spend all his money on things and expect me to pay bills and always have money on the side so he can have fun. He's immature, selfish and rude. He have no money save up. He expect me to do his dirty chores so he can have fun. I'm tired of him forcing every little responsibility onto me. He's so careless and doesn't care about anyone but himself. He makes me hate him. Married for 5 yrs... no kids, no house..still living in a 2 bedroom rent and not a lot of money saved up. I met a new guy through my bff and I'm into him. Everyone think we look good together. I think so too. He's very into me and the way he stares at me makes me feel flattered. He makes me feel beautiful and very sexy. We both have same life goals and want similar things. We both want a family and a loyal partner. The very first time we got intimate with each other. Wow! It feels out of this world. It's getting so serious.. being with him feels like a deep bond, never letting you go kind of feeling. He's my ideal man. Omg! Just thinking about him gives me butterflies but I'm stress out... this house could end up exactly like the old one. So if you were me.. would you chose the new guy? He's a lot more secure and he's not a show off.

It's almost 4 years since we've been married. We both were raised this way and decided not to have sex before marriage and we were both virgins. Before marriage, he would kiss and hug me a lot. I would hear compliments and nice words from him. After we got married it's all about just sex, meaning just the act. I first did not say anything but recently have begun to tell him I need foreplay. I do not enjoy sex and it's not pleasurable emotionally, therefore, physically as well since he does not get me in the mood. We have sex pretty often since I know he likes it. I love him a lot and to see him receive pleasure makes me happy. I give him a lot of bj's and do not disagree with whatever he wants to try in the bedroom. In the end, he almost always tells me how amazing he felt but that's it. It's all about his pleasure. Though he does give me orgasms almost always, I don't like them since he completely ignores me. It's like he wouldn't care if there was someone in my place laying there. I work out for him, he says he likes me when I ask but otherwise he's really ungenerous for complimenting words. I tell him I'd love foreplay, he ignores me, literally, ignores me. He does not kiss me, does not hug me, he goes straight to putting it in. Even without lube! I tell him it hurts and he just continues to push it through. I sometimes actually scream that it hurts and it's painful and he laughs. I tell him I'm not joking and guess what. Last night because of that he just took it out and got mad at me and turned around to go to sleep. I asked him if he still loves me he says yes. Other than that that he ignores all my questions and walks away. I feel offended. Anyone who can help out here and give advice. I don't know what can help but please. Maybe you had a similar situation?

My husband keeps texting with this woman (who is single) from his work... some are work related... others aren't... jokes and pictures and emojis... it annoys me... he sometimes texts her but she mostly initiates...then,he responds and then all of a sudden the messages start for a little bit... this happens almost every day... it's driving me crazy... shouldn't he tell her to stop? I feel like he's facilitating this and that this could potentially open the door for an affair... he says I'm overreacting and that the texts are harmless...

them but they are getting ready to go out of town with them for 5 days. Does anyone except me think that's a bit weird? Just last week I found out that he had to go to a class in another state (not an all night trip) and took a woman (one of his new friends) with him. He said that she was stranded (she is in the same college credit class and also one of the new friends whom I have not met) if she did not ride with him. He told me about this THE FOLLOWING day although he did know about this prior. I admit my jealousy is awful sometimes, however I am trying to do better. We are both in our 50's. So its not like we are kids. We have both been around the block or two. On 3 separate occasions he has asked me to go with him to these events and I have accepted but then forgets that he asked and leave me here at home. What/how exactly am I supposed to take this? Part of me worries that he maybe having a mid life crisis, the other part of me worries that I am no longer good enough for him and another part of me feels that maybe he is embarrassed to be around me. Regardless it all hurts. I have tried to get him to understand how all this makes me feel and I ask him to put himself in my shoes and asks him if the tables were turned, how would he feel. He just says I am over-reacting... But I don't think so. Suggestions.. please?

I just found out my husband got invited to a wedding to take pictures with a few others. He is not taking me but instead taking his best friend with him to "help out". She doesn't even need to be there because it's a one person job but he wants her there with him while he takes pictures. They're going to the wedding rehearsals and everything. The whole event. Is this normal? I don't think it is. :(

Divorce decree states that "single parents shall avoid having a member of the opposite sex living or staying overnight while the children are in their custody. Such actions may be grounds for modification of custody or visitation rights." This is all it says. There is no time frame. No further information. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We have been around each other kids and are ready to start taking the next steps. But since the divorce was only finalized a month ago we have no clue what this actually means. Help!

When I was pregnant my ex left me for a woman with more financial status. She broke up my family. Now they married and have a kid. We coparent. I think he still has feelings for me and I want to capatilize on it. I want to break up his family like he broke mine. I know everyone protects marriages but why? God chose me to have his baby first. Anyone agree? I want them to know what it felt like.

I'm married and I have a good friend that's also married. I've hung out with her a few times and met her husband. We are all good friends. The problem is that I want to give her oral sex. I don't know why but the thought of giving her that just drives me wild. I don't want anything in return and she has no idea that this is what I want. Is there anyway I could ask her this? If she were single, it would probably be easier. Furthermore, I don't want to ruin our friendship or make things seem awkward if she says no. I don't know how other women would feel about getting oral sex from another man even if they are in a relationship. It would strictly be a one way thing. Any help would be appreciated.

Their parents are searching for suitable bridegroom for her. She's an Indian in India.

When is it ok to discipline your wife through spanking? obviously it''s punishment so I don't think she would be completely consensual when it needs to happen. Also is it okay to administer the spanking over the knee bare butt and with a leather belt? What are some of your experiences with domestic discipline?