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Question: What can I do about my verbally abusive mother? Posted: 14 May 2019 03:14 PM PDT My mother is verbally abusive, has been abusive in the past and is generally ballistic and cruel. Every now and then she ll go crazy and yell and scream and find a reason to be mad at us. Usually me and my sibling who are both bellow the age of 18 just try to ignore it, but it s too hard to anymore. We can t deal with this **** alone and it is really effecting us mentally, she is always verbally abusive (reminding us of our flaws) and always assumes the worst about us. She ll ramble on on the phone about us to other people (all of which are assumptions) and will never listen to our reasoning. I m sick of this, and I don t want to deal with it anymore. I can t go anywhere, my grandparent s live right about us and they just tell us to wait it out. But I want to call the cops or get her put in an institution, I really don t care, I just want her not to be with us anymore. She had mental illnesses and I m sure she is a narcissist, she has been abusive to my father in the past who lives in a different country now. I just want to know, what am I able to do about this? What rights do I have? Can I get her put somewhere? Can I get her parental rights removed? Anything? |
Question: Was I sexual abused as a child? Posted: 14 May 2019 03:11 PM PDT I ve suffered with depression and anxiety my whole life since about 13 I m now 30. Thing is I m not sure if you would class this as abuse so here goes.. my mum and dad split up when I was 2, both had problems with drink. My mum met a new man.. who was my step dad who bought me everything.. toys, gamestations, decorated my room, etc.. everyone used to say he loves me like a daughter . And I really loved him to because he used to buy me everything and take me home from the pub when my mum was drunk. But him and my mum broke up when I was about 11. And I went a bit of the rails in my teens.. ran away from home, was drinking doing drugs, then when I was about 15.. I remembered!!! Out of nowhere the man I thought was like a dad to me... I remembered him sticking his tongue down my throat... I must of been 9 or 10. He used to always ask for a goodnight kiss and it had to be on the lips. I remember him shouting at me after I pulled away. Another thing I remember is him showing me how to put a condom on a banana... telling me I have to know these things. I also remember when he would lie in bed with me and I could feel it rubbing right against me. But I was too young to understand what was going on. My husband says I was groomed by my step dad. I haven t spoke to him in years since I remembered. Is this classed as abuse? Also I ve had night terrors since I could remember |
Question: What are the signs that a man has done incest with his younger sister? Posted: 14 May 2019 01:45 PM PDT Hi there, So basically, I'm 27 and my half-brother is 55. He did incest with me 4 yrs ago and it lasted for almost 2 yrs. It was NEVER intercourse. It also wasn't really my choice... In fact, I hated it and I feel disgusted just thinking about it. But I went along with what he wanted, because back then, I had severely low self-esteem and I couldn't stand up for myself. He took advantage of that. Anyway, on to my question... 6 months ago, I was arrested (for other personal reasons) and my brother was there when it happened. He talked to the cops and everything. As soon as I was put in the back of the police car, the cop asked me if my brother had been sexual with me in the past. Then he said he could tell by the way he was acting toward me. Before he asked that, I didn't say anything about the incest, so how would he know that... Like, what are the clear signs that other people can see that a man has taken sexually advantage of his sister? I really hope I made sense, sorry if I didn't... Thanks, I greatly appreciated it! :) |
Question: How to deal with a father who hates me? Posted: 14 May 2019 12:44 PM PDT Me and my father have gotten along up until I was around 18. It was revealed that he blew through the very small college savings that him and my mother saved up (it was small, but it meant a lot to my mom). He is a gambling addict, and that's what he probably blew it on. He also took out credit cards and loans in my name... and put the cable bill in my name. This absolutely destroyed our relationship. Whenever we do see each other, we fight and argue, and scream at each other. I can honestly say I have absolutely no love for that man. Recently, my father told me "I hope you rot slowly in He**" I was absolutely shocked by this, and couldn't stop crying for hours. I can't believe my own father thinks that way. I'm tearing up about it as I'm typing. I don't see this relationship ever getting back to the way it was, and I don't care. I don't want nothing to do with him. Recently, he's been calling me up asking to borrow money from me. Any advice? |
Question: Why do my parents love me less each year? Posted: 14 May 2019 10:42 AM PDT each year that goes by, my parents get more demanding, angry, and less loving. Why do parents get like this? |
Question: Mom is outta control. What do i do? Posted: 14 May 2019 10:33 AM PDT Im 25 and my brother is 27. We currently live with our mom helping her out with bills because she only gets 780 in disability. We both work at a factory but right now i am on national guard orders and have been for almost a year so i barely be home. We have been helping our mom since 2012. Over time she has started back drinking and acting crazy. She had a drinking problem back when we were younger and she went away and lost custody of us. Then came back when i was about 15 and my brother was 17-18. My brother cant sleep at night because she sometimes play loud music til 4 in the morning. He also is somewhat suicidal. Couple months ago she almost tried to fight my brother over something stupid (yes she was drinking) but i was there for the weekend so i stopped it. He came home from bingo last night and Mom was drunk. She started some mess and They got into it. He called the police and told them he wanted to die and Stuff. They took him away. I asked my mom why she doing all this drinking and playing music til 4 in the morning and **** she gone say "sO alL ThIs My FaULT huH? So now im just like whatever. I told her before i got off the phone she need to chill with all this drinking. She said no and hung up. Im honestly lost. I would hate to cuss my mom out but im almost at that point. She dont care and my brother is on egde to killing himself. What do i do?! |
Posted: 14 May 2019 10:18 AM PDT Welp, the rabbit bit the internet wire for the computer, now the computer has no internet but tv and mobiles work fine, and my parents are mad because of me :/, dad said he will take the rabbit away when he comes at 10 pm (I hope not), but I'm afraid he will release him in the wild or streets, and I will be going to Vienna at the end of the month, and he said he may cancel it ;-;, all because of a rabbit, and he needs to buy a new one, my mom is afraid too, I dont know what now, I cant release her anymore, poor rabbit, he will be in her cage for a long time :(, if I release her I'm super dead, but rabbits need freedom, what now? There are more problems in my house now all because of me |
Question: I think my mom hates me and wants me dead? Posted: 14 May 2019 10:12 AM PDT When I was a kid my mom physically abused me with a belt with a metal buckle. I am an adult now but she keeps poisoning my life. When we get in an argument she says I will die soon because my palm line is short. Who says that?? Do you think she might be bi polar? |
Question: I'm worried my daughter is being sexually abused. Please help? Posted: 14 May 2019 10:00 AM PDT Hello everyone. I just asked this question and was called a "troll." I don't know what that means. I figured getting an unbiased opinion from someone who doesn't know my family would be a good thing. If you're not going to be be useful don't answer my question, as I am panicking at the moment. My daughter Zoe is 10. My nephew (older than zoe) and sister moved into our town a year ago. Since then, Zoe and nephew have spent a lot of time together that I never monitored. I never thought I had to. Recently Zoe has been acting strange. She's been wetting her bed a lot. She's never done this before. Zoe has been overheard talking about: -fingering -bjs-how she wanted to be a stripper -penises -sex Additionally her swim coach emailed me that her locker room conduct was so vulgar other teammates filed a complaint. She basically wouldn't stop talking about sex, thrusting, or dancing naked. The swim coach also said that when everyone was getting into their swim suits, (this was in a large gym with boys and girls) she stripped naked in front of everyone to change. A kind mother ran up to her and put a towel over her to help her change. When calling a guy cute she said "He could do whatever he wanted to my body." The thing is Zoe wouldn't have learned this from me or my husband. She doesn't watch much TV and we monitor her internet activity. She doesn't really have any friends either to explain for this behavior. |
Question: Why doesn't my daughter's mom care about me? Posted: 14 May 2019 09:24 AM PDT I wished my baby momma a late mother's day and said I feel like you dont want me in you're lives.. She said better late than never and that she wants her to know who her dad is.. Than i told her i dont like mothers day and fathers day because i feel like a bad parent and that she hates me, she said i dont hate you I just wish you didnt act stupid and treat me like crap and try being a better parent. Than i went off and said i act stupid and can be an asshole because I've seen and done alot of **** in my life and there is still things you dont know about. She was like fine i won't care anymore I was like really she was like never like you did anyways i told her fine when i get my **** together don't come back. She said i won't im done with everything. What does this mean? |
Question: Depressed. How do I get rid of my baby Father? Posted: 14 May 2019 08:39 AM PDT My baby Father is literally stressing me out. When I tell him I don't want to be around him he start threatening to get me put out My Home with our new born. I'm literally depressed. Then on top of that he let his family and side women disrespect me by saying f me to him. Plus he gets mad and slap me. I literally just don't know how to make him leave me alone. How do I get rid of him? I think I have the right to not be bother with him anymore. |
Question: Why does Pearl L have two accounts? Posted: 14 May 2019 08:37 AM PDT I'm confused. |
Question: Has anyone of you ever quit your job without another one lined up? Posted: 14 May 2019 08:01 AM PDT I am 21(F). I have never done that tbh. I feel it's risky. I always quit when I get offer from another company. But this time I really need to go and live with my family for 5 6 months. Obviously I won't get vacations this long so I will have to quit. I am done, I need to visit my family now they live across the seven seas. I miss them. I am financially okay. If I come back I know, I will have to struggle a lot to find a job. I have already asked my company, they refused to grant me vacation. I am looking for motivation. Is it worth to quit job?? Ps: I am sorry for reposting it, I couldn't find my actual question. For anyone who is asking how many jobs I had. I had 4 jobs including my current one. At one place I worked 9 months, at other I worked 1 and a half year and with that I was working one part time too. I quit my part time after 6 months. And when I got this current job, I quit my that job too where I worked for 1 1/2 year, |
Question: Moms do you like your sons girlfriend? Posted: 14 May 2019 04:25 AM PDT |
Question: Why did my bro yell at me, choke me and hit me? Posted: 14 May 2019 03:38 AM PDT I had a laptop and he didn't then he did this. I bought him a laptop .whhy didn't he say to buy him at first. he is 28 im 19 |
Question: Why does my sister talk inappropriately to me? Posted: 14 May 2019 01:25 AM PDT Sex is always on her mind and she is a very blunt person and lies a lot and has anger issues. She has problems. Thing is she always would tease me saying I'm a virgin, I'm never going to get laid.... sometimes conversations aren't sexual and she says your d is.... she says I masterbate etc etc but to be honest if my sibling is doing something sexual etc I don't wanba know and I'd find it gross even thinking about it. She makes me very uncomfortable and my family knows she is in the wrong she always is. Idk what to do or to make it stop. If she does catch me doing so and so she will tell ppl and it's like who talks about their brothers d anyways that nasty... I am not a virgin anymore but still. In front of people or in public she says I'm a virgin. Her being this way makes me feel very very uncomfortable |
Posted: 14 May 2019 01:19 AM PDT example: I said to fix the water tape. fix the air conditioner. all in polite and soft language. but he ignores.then when my brother yells it's so hot , fix the air conditioner. he does the exact same day. even our school turned on the air conditioner our ages are 28 and 19. im girl, he is opposite |
Question: Why my dad and bro wear and buy everything black? Posted: 14 May 2019 01:07 AM PDT they have bought my every cloth black. i meant my mom buys them but my dad tells her to buy it black. i my bro gives his phone to me and buy new one . the phone and cover is black . why . i like everything colorful and sparkly . anything just not black.also why my dad didn't buy me a phone and like i'm using others garbage. he is boy older than me 27 yer old. i m 19 year girl |
Question: Why does my dad lock the home door and hide the keys? Posted: 14 May 2019 12:25 AM PDT we have two doors. one which is to yard. anouther leads to out of the yard. he locks them both with big locks and hides the keys. why? I wanted to put garbage in the yard but couldn't.it is a free day here. I don't have school. |
Question: Do you think it's their business to monitor me like that? Posted: 14 May 2019 12:09 AM PDT I was in my uncles house with my parents... We had gone to their house for a week. It was afternoon where everyone was free.My uncle and aunt wanted me to study. I also had some assignments to complete. After completing it in an hour i used my phone and my uncle started scolding me for using it.I told him that I've been studying for the last hour and I'm done with my assignments then he started blaming for only pretending to study.... Because he thinks that i don't study. I was like im done with my work so I'm using my phone....and whats his problem if i do... And even i was pretending its none of his business he is just a relative... He's got no right to tell me what i should be doing. After which i started studying more and again i used my phone then his son just went and complained to his dad that I'm using my phone. The thing i did use my phone once behind his back but what angers me is that i need to do it behind the back.... When he is just a relative and i should be freely doing whatever I want without worrying about it. |
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