I have a gf but i have laid in bed with another girl And i hang out with girls alone at night and day Im 20 and i broke up with my ex who was 18 for a 16 yrs old

My boyfriend and I were hanging out and I didn't want to talk, just cuddle because I was sad. When we were driving home, he didn't talk to me at all or look at me and now hes not answering my messages or calls. I dont get why he would be mad about that and its making me even more sad and kind of mad. What should I message him or do? This is pissing me off.

In my opinion if he wants to go to the hospital, that's his choice... but I don't feel obligated to go with him when he's being irrational. But I also know that in the moment he does feel as though he's dying. Is it fair of me to say that I won't go with him? Even when he says he needs me?

I sent nudes to a guy I was talking to. And he save it on his phone but 2 weeks later i found out he had a gf now I feel horrible. Im scared he might post it on social media.

My man and I have been together for 5 years and on our way to getting married. We have been through a lot, but always stuck with each other. These issues have surrounded sexual content in many ways, although they are now worked through. Or so I think. I try talking to him to keep open communication, if I m not doing something or if he wants something else but he desperately claims I m all he ever wants. That being said, I wore lingerie for him the other night and he did NOTHING. He watched TV and I fell asleep in my lace on the couch. I also tried to learn a lap dance for his birthday to which he did not get hard in the least. He doesn t touch or kiss me much and I feel so unwanted. I have explained this several times but he continues to tell me he was not raised with a lot of expressed love and he is trying. He shows me he loves me with his actions in every other category. That being said, why doesn t he get turned on by me anymore??

**(assuming he is single)**

We are both girls. She is straight. I know because she has told me in casual talks about things and also she has crushes on guys. Just sometimes she makes me wonder. The way she acts with me doesn't always seem just platonic. For ex. She'll hug me a lot. She's said before during a hug "mine now" and she also says all the time how much she loves me. Like very often she'll say she loves me so so much. She says my name a lot when talking to me. She says how she would like to live somewhere together with me. She's said how "Any one would be so lucky to date me" She had also mentioned that I'm the only one she trusts. And how she loves and cares about me more than herself. Idk how to interpret these things. Is there something between us? She is very affectionate with me. Is this normal best friend stuff? When we aren't arounf she'll mention how shr wishes I was there with her to watch a movie and stuff..I'm. confused. She also says I'm super pretty and that she loves me so much. She always says how thankful she is so have me in her life.

Work has been taking a toll on me. I recently got a new job that is slamming me with long shifts and it's a very labour active job. Today was particularly bad, I found out I have to work on my sisters baby shower and I haven't been able to help her with it at all. I also didn't see my mother on mother's day because of my job. Usually I can force myself to set aside my negative emotions. Especially when I'm with my boyfriend (of 1.5 years) spending time with him makes me beyond happy. But today I couldn't, I had actual panic attacks which isn't normal for me. And instead of just being there for me he got very frustrated and cold to me. He said it was because he's mad at himself because he never knows what he can do for me to help and to be there. He said "I can't be there for you and I wont be" and i cant tell if meant physical or just generally. He also said he feels like this all the time. But I'm never this stressed, i always put my negativity aside for him because he deals with a lot. I tried explaining to him that i never expect him to help or fix my issues i just want him with me and to hear me out. It just hurt that he was acting this way and its confusing for me. I can't figure out if he's trying to say he doesn't want to deal with me anymore or if he's honestly upset because he wants to help but cant. I need an unbiased opinion.

My boyfriend's hooked up before and he keeps comparing me to those girls and the one's he's seen in porn. It makes me extraordinarily uncomfortable and I've told him before but he always tells me that he's not and that he learned so much from those hookups. I think the only thing he learned was what he liked sexually and how to compare any girl he's come across. I don't want to have sex with him untill we're married because I want him to respect, trust, and understand me. Because I know that sex is not the same as love and I want to work on having that love and communication first... This is a person I love and he makes me feel like **** sometimes and then I retaliate in anger (which I shouldn't). But I just get so frustrated because he'll get so defensive and shut down communication. I've talked to my friend's and they say to break up with him. I told him they said that and now he doesn't want me to hangout with them because he thinks they're lame. When in reality he doesn't like them because they think he's not the best boyfriend (they think he's a decent person just immature). I don't know what to do because the more I think about it the more pissed off I get. I've put a lot of time and effort into this relationship and I want an option other than breaking up. He's not a horrible person he's just a turd more often than I'd like. I could really use some guidance right now.....

I saw this girl at my school, I was sitting down in a bench and she caught my eye. I saw her a couple times more and then I never saw her again. I would have talked to her but I felt weird because she was always with the same dude and I assumed she was with him. After those times I never saw her again, I try to go back to the same place in seeing her but its hopeless. Only time I remember seeing her wear was a green nike logo shirt. I'm not sure what else I can do, I'd really like to find her but idk what else to do. I remember the date specifically when I saw her the first time was 9/25 at 2:30pm was near the museum at school, I doubt that helps me tho in finding her without her name.

Can a long distance relationship last if I'm moving school next year and we just get in a relationship for just 4 months?

I'm a 36 year old man. I have a problem. I'm addicted to young girls. I only date girls ages 18-23. Older than that I'm turned off. My friends keep telling me that I need to stop dating little girls, but that's all I'm attracted to. Should I get counseling?

So my best friend told me that her boy friend is "basicly forcing" her to have sex with him but she doesn't want to. She told me that she usually agrees eventually but she's never actually said yes, just "fine" or "whatever" I told her she needs to break up with him but she doesn't want to because "he's still caring" can someone please just tell me what to do. I've been raped and I know the emotional tole it takes on a person and I don't want her to go through it especially with someone who is supposed to love her, my rapist was a stranger at least so it's not like I constantly have to see him. I just don't know what to do so please help!

I'm going to spare the long details about my relationship with this woman, so here is a short version. Ive been on and off with someone for over 20 years. Yes 20. We have a child together and she has a daughter from someone else but I raised her. Anyways, the past year I've been trying my hardest to be with her again. I love her more than I can ever write into words. But she keeps saying I don't "say" the right things. I try to do and say everything right always but it always ends up in me and her arguing. She seems to want me back as well, some days, but some days not too much. I have a condo and live alone and she never wants to come by my house. I take care of both kids, I give her money, clean her house, cook for her even sometimes, offer to take her out when I can, (I'm a hotel manager , not too much time off) but nothing I do seems to be enough. I would do anything for this woman and I want to settle down and make her happy for the rest of my life but it seems like anything I do isn't the right thing. Ladies, what am I doing wrong? I'm not clingy or annoying I give her her space. In fact she's getting ready to go to EDC- electric daisy carnival as I speak WITHOUT ME and I didn't say a word here in Vegas.

He's having a party with his family and friends and invited me... no other employees... I've never met his wife and he told me she doesn't know that he invited me... what's more, when we're together at work it feels like he's flirting with me... he plays or removes his wedding ring... he compliments me... he asks questions about my personal life... bla-bla-bla... to be clear... Im not interested in him and I like my job so I'm NOT looking to have an affair... this whole invitation this is confusing me... what's the reason he invited me? What does he want from me? What am I supposed to do? Help!!!

In her defense, writing poetry is her profession. Therefore, she's not hung up on him, but was simply reading an excerpt from her work. Unfortunately, that poem professed her past love for him. But she shouldn't be stroking his ego. That's his wife's job. FYI - in her poem, it is implied that she asked him to the eighth grade school dance even though he was dating someone. Obviously out of pity, he said "I'll let you know" because he wasn't attracted to her at all. And as far as the present, his wife is gorgeous, so I think he feels bothered by his classmate (the poet) texting him and reading that poem. Did she make a fool of herself? Like I said, she's not pining for him, but I think some things are best left unsaid.

He s like a teenager. He s not a teenager, but he has the mindset of one. He s 24. He hates his relationship and his wife recently faked her pregnancy. We have conversations like he s a student at my school or something and I don t know why I feel this way it s just weird I know but every time I talk to him it feels like I m just talking to another student that I have one of those high school crushes on. He makes jokes with me and like jokingly picks on me of everyone in the class and I don t know I feel really bad for feeling the way I do and I know it s awful but deep down I feel like he s flirted with me unintentionally and has me feeling some type of way

We were driving home from hanging out with some mutual friends at a bar and she just started nagging me for ridiculous **** and Then it escalated to arguing. And I told her to shut up because she was ruining my night which was going really great and then she went psycho on me and smacked me and left a scratch on my cheek I just looked at her in disgust and asked her if she felt better. She just looked at me like "what did I just do." And I told her to check herself into a mental hospital because she needs help, and then I left. She's been blowing up my phone hysterically crying and begging me to forgive her, but I told her I need my space. Should I leave her?

We do not see each other very often. Last time I saw him was like 2 years ago. This time when I saw him I was at a family renunion. He has a girlfriend already. But anyway, i find him very attractive. I hate incest. Ew. Anyway, why is that? How do I stop it.

And lack of courting and romance ? Is it time to give up on love and dating with men in 2019?

I work as a hostess and a lot of older ladies and men say im pretty or could be a model..but never younger guys my age approach me and say anything.. why is this?

I used to hang out and sleep with this girl alot about 2 years ago but we never dated and so for the past 6 months or so she has been texting me every now and then telling me she wants to hang out and come over again. The issue is that she always flakes last minute every single time it's been more than 5 times already. Should I cut her off? Or is she just using me for validation?

Hello everyone. I've resorted to this because my heart hurts so much right now and I don't know what to do. I just need some help. Anything. My girlfriend and I have been dating for four months, she's the best girlfriend in the world, amazingly smart and beautiful. There was a guy before me, let's call him john. She and john were never a thing but she loved him. She gave him her everything and then once he told her that he didn't feel the same way she was broken. It tore her apart. He led her on and it gave her terrible trust issues. After talking to her for three months and finally gaining her trust, I asked her out and now we have been together for 4. Recently we have been getting into arguments about random things. Today I just looked on her phone and saw that she has been facetiming John almost every day for over an hour. She always tells me she can't call and then she does that. She even went to his house today and brought him food without telling me. After a long argument she explained how she still has feelings for him. How could she? He never liked her back, he just wants sex, yet she's falling for him again. I've given her everything, I was the first person to make her happy in the longest time. What did I do wrong? Why does she talk to the one person that never cared about her problems instead of talking to the person who cares about them more than anything? Please help me.

I'm 18 years old, I'm at the end my senior year in high school, I have a learning disability and have ASD, and the guys in my class never talk to me but the girls do. Why is that?

Why do people think they should be allowed to dictate what two people do in their own homes just because they think "Its weird"? Why should anyone care if its "weird"?

My boyfriend constantly accuses me of cheating when I've never cheated on him. It started 9 months ago when he was with one if his now ex friends, the guy lied and said he had sex with me and since then my boyfriend has constantly accused me of cheating on him. He will bring up the old friend and will tell me almost everyday something disgusting and vulgar about what he assumes I did with this guy I never even met or knew about until my boyfriend started bringing him up. I feel like I have to defend myself daily and it keeps getting worse. First it started with accusing me of being with the old friend of his, then accusing me of liking his other friends, then he accused me of staring at other guys and wanting other guys and talking to other guys, then it turned into me having guys in my house, saying he sees me riding around with guys in their cars, saying he sees me sitting on busses or trains with guys, saying he sees me walking around his neighborhood with guys, and even accused me of breaking into his house to have sex with a guy. When he's in this accusing mood he will refuse to answer my calls or if he does he hangs up in my face and will message me saying he heard choking sounds implying sexual stuff, and will call me names like "wh*ore and b..." followed by him saying "go back to choking on that guy, disloyal a..." and all of my calls will go straight to voicemail and I won't hear from him for the rest of the day. (I will add more in the update section) He is very hard to sit down and talk to about our issues, whenever I try he will scream at me and slam doors in my face, punch things, throw things, accuse me of being a cheater, calls me names and will threaten to leave me. He has physically gotten up and left me alone multiple times. In the middle of stores I turn around and he's gone, he's left my house in a hurry, he's walked away from me in public, and once turned down an alley at midnight and told me "go call that guy you're with" I dont know what to do anymore, he will be horrible towards me then he will contact me later and say hes sorry and will tell me how much he loves me, and wants to be with me forever and doesnt want to leave me. He tells me how he will stop and makes promises but then goes back into this angry rage of his followed by accusing. I feel like my mind is going to snap at any second, I love this man but I know what he says to me and the way he acts isn't right. I did mention going to counseling with him and he did say he wanted to at first, but then changed his mind and yelled at me for mentioning it. I dont know how someone could be so evil to another person then turn around and say that you're the love of their life and their soulmate. I'm currently pregnant as well so just kicking him out of my life isn't really an easy solution. I dont have family or friends to talk to about the situation going on so that's another problem. What I'm actually asking for here is for some sort of understanding of why hes being this way and if it'll ever stop. I dont know what to do to make him believe me I dont know how to get him to communicate with me without a fight, I just want to not fight everyday with him, I want to not be accused and called names and ignored by him, I just want us to have a healthy relationship. I just want to he happy with him, I accepted his flaws but this is extreme and I'm confused and lost. I did tell his family about our situation because they heard him yelling at me over the phone and asked me, and they did talk to him about it being wrong ng, but he still acts this way. His father and cousin aren't very supportive of me. His cousin said I'm "just a piece of pssy", and then when he defended me his father said "dont put some woman over your family" so I'm starting to see where he gets his insulting women thing from. I wish I could talk to someone about these things but all I have is the internet and myself, he just tells me hes done with me and doesnt want me then says he wants me, I feel like my heart and feelings are being played with. I dont know what to do anymore, I feel stressed and hurt and I wish everything could be better again like how it was before the accusing started.

Am I very ugly? I am a 27 years old man.

The reason is because most girls that I date have a dog or cat. I'm sorry but I am not to fond of animals and most of the times it's one night stands with these women and I get irritated just because of the smell of an animal and their unusual behaviors. How do I find the right girl in America with the same mind frame as me? Or do I need to get out of America to find the right one?

asking for a friend

We are at a big international university, both 20 years old. We've gone out for a year, and we have no problems except this one thing. My girlfriend has a male friend from Chile who's still a first-year. He's very good-looking (or this wouldn't be a problem lol) and he's on the soccer team. When they meet, even if it's in front of me, he'll give her a quick peck on the lips and call her sweetheart. He'll put his arm around her and be very affectionate and not afraid of me at all. He's younger, but taller and stronger than me so I don't say anything in front of him. But yesterday, he did this with some of my friends watching and made me feel emasculated. So when I went home, I told my girlfriend she was not allowed to let him touch her, or see her without my permission. I called her a bad word, but I don't want to say what. When I did that, she slapped me across the face as I was yelling at her so sharply my eyes began to tear up. She said how dare I call her that and tell her who she could and couldn't see, and how dare I suspect her of cheating, which she would never do. She made me sleep on the sofa that night, and I felt really hurt. I also had to ice my face, which had a dark bruise because it was smacked. This guy is getting kisses in front of me by her, and I'm getting slapped in the face by her? Do I need to confront him?

We had a few drinks on the couch, she leaned over to kiss , while doing so she let out this long foul smelling fart, sounded wet too. I got up, said I had an early morning. Now the gassy slob is texting me . what should I do?

So my crush offered me a ride home and when I said "thanks but I'm going somewhere else" he said "I can drop you off there. He's offered a few times now but I said no thanks each time. Is he interested? Also how can you tell the difference better friends joking around and a guy trying to flirt or tease you?

I have this huge crush on a girl named Kate. So Kate and I hang out a lot and I have another friend that always teases us. Her name is Reagan. So Reagan always says how cute we look and I'll blush and say we are just hanging out as friends. She says we hang out so much we should be going out and Kate will be laughing so hard and I'll just look away with my face turning red. Reagan grabbed my phone one time and texted Kate "Hey, Kate. It's Reagan. You have a great cute guy. He should ask you out, huh?" Kate apparently laughed and told me and I was so red and she just lost it.

started at my new job and there is a guy I instantly felt attracted to the moment I saw him. two weeks after starting i tried to show interest and asked him a random question and he answered and laughed about it. A few more weeks went by I would notice he would stare in my direction but look away as soon as I looked at him. One day he sat down next to me during our lunch break while I was browsing facebook and said Hi. u're the only person I dont mess with at work.my response Yeah you never talk to me and laughed jokingly... he then laughed too and I asked him what he planned on doing to mess with me and he said he wasnt sure yet.. and kept laughing... it seemed he couldnt look me in the eyes for long before he just kept laughing and seemed to be nervous.. i joked and said make sure its nothing too crazy and smiled at him and it he just smiled and seemed to be too nervous about what to say next and walked back to his table. The next day he tapped me on the arm, we work in a loud factory and smiled and waved mouthing hi... and i smiled back saying hi... throughout the day he just looked at me.. but never striked up more conversations when he had the chance to. I do really like this guy and want to get to know him more but dont know what to do or say to get that attention without being too much. Is he interested at all? I cant read guys that well. He talks to other women and jokes with them constantly but seems too shy to do the same with me. How can I show him im interested?

I was in a relationship with a guy and it seemed like he used me because he has nothing. He cheated on me and now is using her for everything. I am still in love with him, and he tells me that he will come back with me, but he can t just leave the girl because she helps him so much. He is trying to get on his feet. He still calls me when he is at work, because he doesn t have a phone. What should I do? Leave him alone? Not answer his calls? How do I move on from this?

Okay, I know that might sound a little weird, but hear me out. About 2 months ago I broke up with my girl of 10 months so we could work on some personal stuff without the pressure of a relationship, but within the three weeks we were broken up, I started having some feelings for someone else, although I still had feelings for my ex too. In the end, I wasn't expecting to get back together with my ex, so I was planning to ask the other girl out, but then me and my ex got back together, which was what we wanted from the beginning. So now I don't have any feelings for the other girl, I mean sure she's pretty, but in a very different way than my girlfriend. My girlfriend also knows now that I had some feelings for the other girl while we were broken up, but that I don't now. So recently, just seeing the other girl around, I've noticed that she's always so happy and just seems so fun to be around, and with the exception of my girlfriend I don't really have people like that in my life, so I really want to see if I could get to know her more. Would that be too weird?

btw it was said to me like eight years ago but i still worry im the same way

im in a pickle. me and my bf were having fun last night and he would spank me. my dad wants to spank me tonight for punishment (wont get into why), and u can still see the handprints on my butt. my dad is going to see this and want an explanation.waht am i going to do

So there is this guy that I've been friends with for a year and he's 18 and i'm 15, but I've had a huge crush on him since the first day I met him. We go to school together but he is so different from other people (I know that sounds cliche but it's actually true), he never has bad intentions with anything and he never does anything "risky" and he's insanely nice to everyone he meets. Anyways we took a picture together at this banquet thing and when I sent it to him he said "we cute lol" and then he said ":) hehe". What does this mean? He's not the type of person to get involved with people as young as me but his parents are friends with my parents so I trust that he doesn't have bad intentions, he's the type of guy that will literally say "I love you" to his mom and not be embarrassed (basically he's really sweet). WHAT DOES HIS TEXT MEAN THOUGH?

I dont like big muscles or big dic. I find it disgusting. I dont need a manly man. I find white men to be little and cute