I have been married for 4 years to her always working always faithful never abusive, she never let me drive under any circumstances she has been around different guys often and hasn't worked in 3 years but when a female co worker bring me to her earlier than male co workers she will get violent just because a female bring me to her which she won't do she always tired or has a headache, am I right for not retaliating?

I honestly just really want my parents to get a divorce at this point. I'm 16 and they've argued for as long as I can remember but I'd say these past 3 years or so have been the worst. I feel like if they got divorced my mental health could really improve. It's mostly my mom who starts the fights with my dad and I honestly feel bad for him because whatever he tries to say she just shuts him down. There's defiently times when my mom makes both me and my dad feel like we can't do anything right or good enough. She lectures my dad almost every night about how he's not a good enough husband. She constantly brings me into the issue and tells me how annoyed she always is with him and everything he does wrong. She's taken me to therapists (without telling him) to talk to a therapist about how I would feel if they got divorced. She's also asked me several times whose house I would want to be at. My dad wants to keep our family together (I can tell) which I appreciate but at this point all of it has started to really affect my mental health. When I'm with them sesperately it's much better too. I feel like it's bad that I'm saying I want them to get divorced. Has anyone else gone through something similar or have any advice for me? They also have been going to marriage counseling for months with no sucess and my mom said that the therapist let them go because she didn't see a way for the relationship to improve.

This is my 2nd marriage and wife's 3rd. Ww have been married 4 years both of us are in early 50s. Which should mean this should not bother me at this point in life. We were out with her sister (44) at a Mexican restaurant. I came back from using restroom and overheard conversation before they knew was there. What was basically said was my sister in law found darker skinned men sexy and my wife agreed and add that they always make her lady parts wet and tingle or basically that. Once saw me they stopped and I asked what they were talking about. Wife said point blank that darker skin men makes them aroused. We just moved onto another conversation. But in back of my mind is why did my wife even date or marry me if so turned on by darker skinned men when I am white. Know it sounds shallow in insecure but it's a logical question. Why would you be with someone physically opposite of what you find sexually exciting.

And the wife won't use her outgoing personality to take advantage of her husband. I'm an introvert & I want to marry a woman with an extrovert personality. (I want an outgoing wife to help me learn how to be more outgoing) (I know a few guys who are introverts who managed to marry this kind of woman)

The other night I rolled over in bed and my husband had Instagram up and he quickly closed it and put his phone down. I didn't even know he had an Instagram account, which isn't a big deal if he wasn't quickly closing it when I turned overnight. I didn't say anything at the time because I was half asleep but now that it has been 2 days it's really been eating at me. Is it too late now to say something?

She took everything and threw me out with nothing on the street

Do men prefer a wife that works or a wife that stays at home raising the kids and looking after the household?

Okay so I am going to have 2 leave my husband of 11 years. I found out that he has been paying for porn and lots of it and i found 15 credit cards he had hidden from me. He never buys me a damn thing so the money wasnt for me. I asked him about it and he lied he says this " those are all wal mart cards that we bought and put money on so we could pay the bills." But they all had his name engraved on each 1. I stopped sleeping with him about a week ago and moved into bed with my daughter. He has no ides I am leaving him. He is an abuser and I am afraid things wont go smoothly. Anyways, I am gonna have 2 leave when he is at work 1 day this week. I have money put back for a car and i have a little money 2 ear on. I'm considering either going 2 my dads or 2 the womans shelter. How can I leave and b sneaky about it. I wont 2 leave and never look back. Hurt.