After having sex with a woman why would he want to keep her panties? I was thinking about leaving my panties for this guy. I wonder if he would like that.

My friend keeps on telling me about these thoughts and I want to know they have any problems or anything. They also don't know either so I need to find out to tell them. Help!!

started college, same loosely with high school since she went to a boarding school abroad. Would it be weird to give her things in her gift bag (small trinkets) that reminded her of our childhood together? such as a charm bracelet with home made charms that remind her of specific stories/things that happened, a collection of letters to cheer her up when she is down, etc.

been playing an online game on playstation 3 for awhile and this girl i met on there plays too. we can talk to each other on the microphones. lately shes been messaging me goodnight everyday before she goes to sleep. and today she sent a message saying "thanks for being good with me, you are not like the others..." idk if that was a i like you message or just a you are a nice person message. i have been the only one nice to her and helping her

My friends dad is a cop and staunch staunch republican but my friend is a pot smoking hippy and communist. My friend would give you the shirt off his back if you asked for it.

so basically im in high school and i have like a close group of friends of 7 people. so out of these people i know this one girl for about 8 years and she my best friend (ill call her emily). we have been super close and i tell her everything. but there's this other girl in our group (ill call her sam), and while we're all close friends, her and i have some unsaid "beef". i can tell she doesn't like me, and i feel like she tries to put me down a lot. so i had a talk with emily a while ago and we talked about how we feel about sam, and she feels like sam is a little fake too. but recently, both of them have been getting super close, and they act like best friends. Emily is always supporting sam over me, even for small things. ig my group is pretty fake because we talk about each other behind each others backs. i know that no one talks about me, but lately im getting the feeling that Emily and sam talk **** about me behind my back. idk how i feel and i just feel sad because i feel like i have no one I can talk to anymore. what do I do?

My friend has gotten to where she acts like it's a problem that I ask her questions and I think I might ask them kind of a lot and she told me that she doesn't know how to answer my questions and me and her are both adults and we're both females but she's a lot older than me and she has never said that to me before and so now I am scared to ask her anything because last night I was about to ask her something and she said well you better hurry up and ask it and then she said I didn't have to hurry up so do you think this is weird of her to be like this?

So if I'm trying to find a dark skin woman, which app works better than Tinder or POF?

There is this girl that always tries to impress people by talking about how she's rich, she has a g wagon and how much her mom makes. She is always posting about the new designer things she gets, and she always tries to buy and come to school with new bags that aren't very popular in hope of impressing people. She always talks ab her money and stuff, but doesn't this mean the opposite as if she was actually that wealthy she wouldn't put it in peoples faces like that. I'm asking this because I find it very rude to talk about your own money in such a way and I know many wealthy people but they never talk ab it: furthermore a few years ago her friends told me that she would buy fake designer and act like it's real, but I don't understand what is up with her. I am simply wondering because I HATE it when people brag about money and their belongings and I hate when people shove such things into peoples faces. I just want to understand why she does this. Also keep in mind I go to a private school full of wealthy kids, me my self I am very lucky but I never feel the need to talk about my belongings or my parents money, so why does she feel the need to show off and talk about it?

There is actually no hope for me. Like I'm just done out here I live in the Uk, I've gone secondary school for 5 years, I'm in my final year. I literally have no friends. I guess people who I thought would stay didn't, and I basically couldn't find my people. My tutor class is quite fake and I won't miss being in that environment whatsoever, I can't say everyone in my year a dickheads because that's no true. I consider myself quite a sociable person, when I'm around people who i feel won't judge me I guess. Like whenever someone new came to the school I would always make them feel so welcome and ****. I'm quite giggly and funny sometimes too I stopped hanging out with these group of girls in December (I go to a girls school) because like I'm 16 now, and like there's no point being in a situation that just don't really make you happy. I kinda had a little fall-out/ish with one of them whom I was the closest to I guess so I thought nah there's no point hanging with them anymore then. They are quite rude people to be honest, they NEVER go out. When I say NEVER I mean NEVER. They judge those who do, they basically live like old people and have no problem with it which is so weird. They NEVER see each other outside of school, just ugh. So when I stopped hanging with them it was actually alright. I went library and just chilled with this aquaintance who i guess grew into a friend. and just kinda went to any aquaintance I could. But obviously aquaintances cant really grow into much more when you're in your last year of school. So yeah I dont know what else to say. I'm starting college in September, but I dont think I'll make it alive to that point. I'm currently doing my exams and then I have a HUGE summer, I dont even have a group of people to share that with.

These women gets mad and even violent if you flirted with them or hugged on them or came onto them. These women typically looks like they box or they look like a boy trying to transgender into a woman, or vice versa. They and black people typically hang out and white guys are treated worse than dirt. Any suggestions?

I went to the arcade with this guy and I asked him to win me something and he did.

I owed friend 110 bucks for hotel share from when we went on a trip to Tampa. He said I can just pay him 100. Also later the uber was more than I though 30 bucks. I asked him if he could just spot me 10 since it was more than that, he's like I'll give you 15. Reason I'm paranoid is few months later once he owed me 9 bucks and gave me just 8 for whatever reason. Even if he was being kinda cheap then based on those other past instances I should just let it go right?

My friends asked me why i wasnt upset about the abortion bill and i told them for one im gay, have been since age 5, never will I sleep with a woman so i dont have to worry about pregnancy in my lifetime nor do i care about a group of people that most dont even know i exist, i lost 2 friends because of this but ive always been a loner and idgaf about most things

Person A offers to put in a deck for an hourly rate of 35/hour plus material. The estimated total is 8000 with a design, or 7000 without design at 100 hours of labour - Person B (customer) agrees to without deaign. 3/4 of the deck completion Person A offers to do a design free of charge. Person B just says to do it fastest and simplest way as design isn t important. Person A says he wants to do the extra work for his resume. After a few extra hours of struggling with the design Person B says to just do it the basic way. Person A says that their price doesnt change so it is 7000 with or without the pattern and Person B is getting a deal as they normally charge 9k. Person A finished the job in 75 hours instead of 100. Person B gets annoyed and said their original agreement was 35/hour which worked out to be 47/hour plus materials. Person A says person B was willing to pay the 7k to begin with. Did person A do something wrong?

Is it racist if a friend think part of where you get your accent is from your parents? Or are they just misguided?

There is this girl that always tries to impress people by talking about how she's rich, she has a g wagon and how much her mom makes. She is always posting about the new designer things she gets, and she always tries to buy and come to school with new bags that aren't very popular in hope of impressing people. She always talks ab her money and stuff, but doesn't this mean the opposite as if she was actually that wealthy she wouldn't put it in peoples faces like that. I'm asking this because I find it very rude to talk about your own money in such a way and I know many wealthy people but they never talk ab it: furthermore a few years ago her friends told me that she would buy fake designer and act like it's real, but I don't understand what is up with her...

a month has gone by since my birthday but i haven't gotten anything from my best friends for it. We always get each other gifts but they didn't for me. They have joked about it a week ago saying that they still haven't bought my gift but it makes me sad because i feel like they don't give me enough importance since they keep on pushing that off. Do they not care about me as much as i care about them? should i say something?

When I'm with this girl i like, who's also my friend, people like to tease me and say she's my girlfriend or that I like her a lot. We went to get ice cream and the lady there told my friends that she had a sweet boyfriend. I turned so red and told her we weren't in a relationship. My friend giggled when she saw my face. Our mutual friends love teasing me about protecting her and saying how I'm dropping treats to her work because I like her. She ends up giggling and saying how funny they are, while I'm on covering my face.

Recently a group of my friends had a casual get-together. My roommate, who is one of my good friends doesn't generally hang out with these friends and only casually knows them from when I've had them over. My friend can be very overbearing and is by far the most over the top person I've ever met. He gets even worse when he drinks. He is also super nice and we are very good friends, but he is an extreme attention hog. A few days ago, he begged me to invite him to my friends gathering. He took up a large portion of my time that I wanted to spend with my friends who I rarely see. At the gathering we discussed a going away party for another friend (who wasn't there) that we've been planning for months. My roommate is friends with the friend who is moving but has not spent much time with him in the context of that friend group. Another of my friends invited my roommate to the party, but left out details. Now I feel responsible for providing him the information. I'm afraid my roommate will take most of my attention at the party or will try to be the center of attention (especially if he gets drunk). I don't want to feel responsible for entertaining him or trying to be inclusive when we talk about things he was not a part of. I am a very inclusive person, so I am afraid I'll be miserable. He also has diversely different political opinions from most of my friends in the group and even the other night when I was with them made a snide political comment that only I could hear. I already can't concentrate on my work or other obligations because I have let the stress of something I was so excited about possibly being ruined. It's even more stressful because I am such good friends with my roommate, and I don't want to have these emotions. I also have a lot of other stressors in my life right now which is why I think I am letting this affect me so much. I'm not sure how to let go though. Maybe I should see some counseling. I'm also afraid that if I don't tell him or remind him that he'll be insulted. I'm going out of town and won't be back until the day of the party, so I'll have to let him know I'm coming back (because we live together) and he will likely ask me for the details at that point. If I don't talk to him and just go without telling him, his feelings will be hurt.

I do get bullied in school because people find me weird. I do talk to a friend about this to seek his approval.He does keep reassuring me that i'm not weird and there is nothing wrong with me.Im also very insecure about my looks and i keep seeking approval from him and he kept reassuring me that i am quite good looking and there is nothing to be insecure.I used to believe that im way smarter and prettier than those who pick on me... And even he agreed that I'm indeed better than those people. So whenever i felt insecure i would call him and seek approval. He even suggested me to start therapy and i did. During my therapy i did improve a lot... I started working out and reduced the need to seek approval.... But of course it didn't go completely. Today this friend of mine texted me and he congratulated me on the progress I've done and he told me that he does believe in my ability to overcome. Then he started saying stuff like there are somethings that he feels i must know. He was like I'm not as smart or good looking as i think.All those girls i thought were "okay" actually look way better than me. He said that even the bullies are actually better looking and smarter than me.He said that he used to tell me to avoid two people Mr P and Mr N because they were negative to me.... But everything they say is true.... I am indeed weird... And these two people arent bad at all.. But they are direct and want you to know about the harsh truth about myself.

Associate have stopped communicating with me , but view my photos all the time on Snapchat and Facebook stories . They've suddenly became quiet and don't communicate. After deleting them from my friends like or changing my number ...they come around trying to find me . Why ? If they didn't seem interested before when they were staring at your pics , why once you prevented them from Looking at your pics they ran back ?

I'm trying to keep from sharing my opinion when it's not wanted, but its hard to know when Its appropriate or not. For instance, when someone has a problem, do I share my opinion? or do I just let them constantly vent? Should I just be honest with them and tell them not to complain so much or do I just put up with it? I hear a lot of "I vent to my friends about everything" but I don't find that to be very healthy. How do I know the difference of being there for someone, and being a pushover? Is there a defined line where I should be able to see if I'm being a push over or just being there for someone?

hi i know this sounds pathetic but when i was around 10 i catfished a group of girls. by this i mean that we were friends and they asked me to send a picture of myself and i didn't want to so i used another girls picture and lied about my age. i never accepted anything from them and we were just really good friends. i can't stop thinking about it and i feel so guilty, am i bad person?

The one day im sick and had to miss school my friend got in a fight, I tried everything to get them to fight again, i made a fake Facebook account pretending to be the guy he fought and started sending him messages talking ****, I tried bringing up the fight every day at school, tried spreading rumors about the other person talking **** still and no matter what I do they won't fight again It's bullshit that I didn't get to see it in person, I only got to see the video. What do i have to do to make them fight again? I have to see that same exact fight at the same exact location with the same exact people breaking it up

There's been so many times where people berate me for having "no plans" for an extended period of time, like it's unnatural of even indicative of something fishy afoot. Even though I work full time and take care of myself completely, and have a social life. I honestly think the US is a workaholic culture (it's been documented that we work more than many other developed countries), so we're just programmed to think free time is equivalent to being a bum. Me? I'm an introvert, so having "down time" is basically like crack. Don't f-king shame me. Thoughts?

Ok so I'm an 18 year old boy and I have Agenesis of the Corpus Callosum and Global developmental delays. Today I was a party and I was hangin out with my cousin let's call him M and hes 12. And M said he had a friend that was gonna show up. I am a very friendly guy so I was pretty happy to hang out with a new person. His friend showed up and i thought his friend was going to be a guy and I was surprised to see a girl show up. Let's call her T. Well we were all talking and for some reason I thought T was really cool. She was just so much fun to talk to and she had really pretty earrings and she was pretty. I dont really hang out with girls much cuz they're girls but for a reason I don't know I wanted to hang out with T again. I really hope to see her again and im gonna ask my cousin if we could hang out again. She was so cool she plays video games and shes super funny. I never felt this way about a girl before I think it's because I hit puberty late. I hit puberty at 17 yrs 3 mon and now I'm 18 yrs 7 mon my voice changed almost a year ago. Like I hung out with T one time but I wanna see her again. Is this normal feelings cuz of puberty?

I have friends but they always are hanging out without me like they forgot to invite me. Is it because I'm not on social media?

my best friend and i always hangout and her boyfriend is also one of my good friends. they have been dating for so long and at the beginning he would just always be texting and non stop asking what's up or anything just to get an answer. i thought that it would end as the times went on but it hasn't. and when i hangout with my best friend, she's always just on her phone texting him bc he always just texts random things and gets upset when she doesn't respond. however when they hangout, i respect their time and don't text her at all. should i confront her if it's really bothering me? and confront him too?

My friend, who is also an unbiological mom to me has stepped back from our relationship. I admittedly did something so horrible and violated her trust and her confidence in me. She trusted me with information that I was to keep to myself and I have never violated someone s trust in me before! I beg for her forgiveness and she forgave me. But I was told that because it was her daughter that I talk to and gave the information to that it freaked her daughter out and I m not allowed to chat with her for now. We are both the same age her other daughter and I. In our forties. And I want to respect her wishes and so I haven t said anything to her daughter about anyting since. But that daughter is talking in her ear and causing her to think all sorts of horrible things about me. And my unbiological mom has been questioning everything that she knows about me now. And I haven t had the opportunity to defend myself. I haven t even tried. I simply want to mend the relationship. Her birthday was today and of course Mother s Day was 12th. We spent every single day together practically for the last 6 months and she knows everything about me from my darkest secrets to my most beautiful moments and she s treated me like a daughter the entire time! But because of my stupidity she s taking a step back. And I wanted to wish her happy birthday so I wondered if that was okay to do? Would you step out of the break just to say happy birthday? No expectations but just to be nice.?

I went to the arcade with this guy and I asked him to win me something and he did.

This might sound silly for some, but I have an anxiety of talking with somone on the phone (I have got social anxiety in general). My friend's in college dad passed away 2 months ago and I haven't called my friend ever since.. I have a feeling that she is mad at me because of it. (I did call her on the phone on that day and went to her house to pass my condolences). I'm not really close to her we only talk on the phone when she needs something from me and I don't see her these days since we're on break from college. She is part of my 3 friends group in college (I don't really have many friends) and graduation day is next month and I'm afraid things will be weird between us. Please understand that I fail in social interactions so this is a big deal for me and I'd appreciate any help/advice i can get, I've got no one else to share this with.

I was going to have a party tonight. I did everything right. I got food and drinks and music and I invited about 10 people but none of them showed up. Even after they said they would. I texted them and some said they were working others didn't even reply. I feel so stupid now.