Ok so I contoured my nose one time and went to school and the kids were acting a different way towards me as if I was a new person and the kids didn't act that way towards me before and I was even getting attention from boys who didn't even pay to me. I even felt as if I was attracting new people and friends. Why did they do this?

My ex gf and I are still great friends. And currently I'm staying with her while my house is being remodeled. We've had so many great times together. And she helps me out whenever I need it. Like letting me live w her currently and she even buys all the groceries and let's me use her car when I need to etc. However I found our shes been snooping though my computer when I'm not there -(reading emails and looking at pics I saved) and even though I occasionally buy some party drugs and share with her,shes been taking what I have saved in my dresser drawer to add to the portion I already gave to her. And she makes about 3x as much money as I do. Some of my other women friends laugh it off as normal. I think it's bad enough to end the frienship.. Especially when I hear she brags about it to her friends! Oh she also read my old journals.

The home school where I live it has a heavy drop out rate, and the people that goes there are prone to bullying or getting into fights and mischief. My mom and sister went to that school, my sister brought home all of her female friends from that school. My sister's female friends looked like prison imates and were very violent and mean. I had to be around them. They claimed to have come from family's that would come after you, they didn't care about law, they had ways to "get back' at the people who called the police on them through their family and network of friends. My sister became close friends with these people and some of them lived in my neighborhood and would walk down the street to visit my sister. Any suggestions?

I'm a guy in my early 20s. Back in the fall I became friends with a girl at my work. I was pretty much her first friend there. Sometimes we would hang out. I would pick her up from her house and take her to get ice cream, go to the mall, etc. she would run up to me and hug me while I was working. We definitely liked each other. Word was she thought I was cute. She would text me "goodnight" "wyd" "Will I see u at work" etc. A couple months ago she quit her job to go to school. There, she met a boyfriend. So we drifted. Her texts stopped entirely. Just this month, she added me on social media and we discovered we have jogging in common. We've gone twice. I want to be her friend. I can find another girl to make a potential girlfriend. But I want this girl as my friend. She's cool but I just don't see with a boyfriend in the picture how she could find time for me or if she's even "allowed" to hang with me by his standards. How can I become a closer friend? I want to hang out. But it's really awkward with this guy, especially since she had a crush on me. We never "dated" but I mean we used to hold hands and share milk shakes.

So I graduated and a female friend who was close to me congratulated me and sent me a loooong text about what she liked about me and how I made her feel and she would miss me. I said thank you and wished her all the best. Then randomly one day she sent a rant about how she thought I had not given her proper attention by not sharing all my stuff and not introducing to my friends and even not hanging out with her. Does she want to be friends or is she asking for more?

I had friends in middle school but high school came and I moved to someother high school from where they went. The school I went was supposed to be good but I went and made "friends" but they talked behind my back and I left them I tried making friends no body wants me. My old ones forgot about me and say they are busy or can't talk now. The school I am in I got bullied and beaten up. I told my mom to move me but she won't she thinks it's a good school when it is really not. When I told her I got bullied she just said to deal with it and move on. My dad left us. And I don't know what to do. I just can't deal with this I still have 3 more years of high school but it's hell. WARNING: Also if you comment don't be rude I am looking for help not some negative comment if I see one it will be reported.

My friend and i were trying to get a place together and i thought that i was going to be able to find another part time job but i haven't had any luck yet. And I'm having a hard time getting hours at my current job how do i let him know the bad news? He really wanted us to move in so we could save money but things haven't gotten financially better for me

They're all the same and stick together and you come in and talk different act differently and hold yourself differently. They treat you worse than a dog and are very hostile towards you over the way you are. They are mean to you because you're not the same way that they are, and treat you worse than dirt

When I was about 4 or 5 years old, I had this friend whose older brother used to babysit us. My friend and I were in kindergarten and her brother was either in the 5th or 6th grade. He babysat me with his sister once or twice, and he kept the bullies away from us. Anyway, I'm now 21 and he and I have reconnected! But would it be weird if I started dating him?

I have a few close friends. Recently they have been negative towards me as I am VERY close friends with someone they dislike. However I feel so much more happier when talking to this specific person rather than my other friends. Also its gotten to the point where I will go and greet my friends but none of them talk to me or they just look at me wierdly. Plus its always me putting in the effort into conversations. The other friend is telling me to cut these people out of my life , and so are my relatives. Im not sure how to let them know. Any ideas?

I'm a 17 year old cheerleader for a relatively small organization. In the past, we have had a system of the oldest and most-experienced girls becoming "captains", who are in charge of warm-ups, stretches, choreographing JV and Varsity dances, and more. We're like big sisters. I have been made a captain after being a co-captain last year and I have been cheering for 3 years. We have a new coach since our old one retired after 5 years. She is just the parent of a girl who came in last year late. She has done many questionable things, such as saying she hated one of the girls because of her outgoing personality, telling everyone to leave a room so that we would be alone and proceeding to ask me why I hate her (when I told her I didn't and that I barely know her [I had only met her 2 times before], she got very mad and continued to ask me, saying she had asked people I knew why I was such an awful person, and worse), saying she's taken notes every single time I've been a "rude child" to her. She has said in the past that I will be able to do everything captains do, but then said I couldn't after the "youhateme" thing. A girl my age who doesn't cheer for us has been put in charge. She's entirely toxic and the assistant coach has already quit because she can't stand her. I have gone to the board about it and she had already talked to them, saying everything I was telling them about her was a lie. I don't want to quit. The girls like me as captain + I love my team. What should I do?

I have this one friend who hasnt tried to reach out to me ever since he moved but ill explain the situation. Me and this friend have been friends for over a couple years and we got pretty close he never had much growing up and I would help him out when i could. The problems started happening when he moved back into our hometown and he quit his job for another one that didn't pay as good. He would always ask me for money, rides and weed (we would smoke and hangout) and also money for his rent because he would always be behind. It got to a point to where he would ask almost every other day to everyday and would beg me to help him. I would help him out because I wanted to be a good friend and i felt after awhile he was taking advantage of the situation. I would often say no and say i was busy and he would get mad and drop me as a friend and later on make amends with me (hes already done this a couple times). Just over a month ago i gave him $50 for his rent to help him out but in the end he still got kicked out. He called to explain the situation and i told him to bounce back and keep your head up. That was a couple weeks ago and i tried to call him to reach out but he never called me back or texted me either. I was thinking of reaching out to facebook because i always see him online but I feel like he feels some type of way about me. He's been a long time friend. Should I reach out or should i just drop it and move on?

Seems like my friends really don't care what people do to me and it sucks because I'd do anything for them. But I can't just drop all of my friends

I'm 17, a rising senior and I have a friend the same age. I care about her but she can be so childish. She can't even microwave her own food without asking for help. I look at her and tell her she is a big girl. I warn her about a specific person at our school who is known for trying to force himself on girls (only God knows why he isn't in prison) then she goes to try to fix him and runs to me complaining that he is a lost cause. Then talks behind my back saying I talk about people because I specifically warned her about him. The list can go on. Should I just ignore it or break off the friendship when someone cannot even grow up. Like I honestly don't know how she will function in life outside of highschool and it concerns me. It reminds me of middle school to be honest.

So I graduated and a female friend who was close to me congratulated me and sent me a loooong text about what she liked about me and how I made her feel and she would miss me. I said thank you and wished her all the best. Then randomly one day she sent a rant about how she thought I had not given her proper attention by not sharing all my stuff and not introducing to my friends and even not hanging out with her. Does she want to be friends or is she asking for more?

I share an apartment with another guy. I'm 25, and hes 20. Anyway, he gets home early in the morning, at 12:30 or 1:00, 2-3 hours after I go to bed, and wakes me up out of a deep sleep most nights. He just cant do anything quietly. He runs up the stairs loudly. It always sound like hes moving furniture around in his room. Some night it sounds like he dropped a 30 pound weight, and it wakes me up. About 12:30 this morning he was in the shower, and I'm woken up with a "hey siri!" I guess he was trying to change a song on his phone while he was in the shower, and than he yelled hey siri at least 4 more times. He also just slams his door when he goes in his room, which is right next to mine.

It was a pretty big deal to me with lots and lots of training. For weeks. I felt pretty hurt. it's been a few days since. Should I let it go? I don't know if I'm being too sensitive

so i am a 19 year old boy and i really hate all my friends except for one who i dont hate at all so i decided to literally make my own friends and by that i mean imaginary friends. i literally made imaginary friends and these are not the animal kind of imaginary friends or weird ones these are actually people that are my imaginary friends. Their names are taylor, joseph, tyler, george, megan and jo. Megan and Taylor are both blonde girls. Taylor has blonde hair in a bun and Megan has straight long blonde hair. They are both skinny also. Jo also has blonde hair and is skinny too but she has her hair in a ponytail. George and Joseph both have short brown hair like me and are skinny too like me. Tyler is skinny and has long blonde surfer hair. So basically they are all skinny. I basically made my imaginary friends based on the friends i wish i have had but never could have. These imaginary friends are the best because they are very caring, supportive, nice and aways there for me. They really are though and i really like my imaginary friends. None of my friends now are not caring or aways there for me which is why i hate. My imaginary friends are the best ever. I know its really weird for someone my age but they are really the best ever. I actually never have had imaginary friends when i was younger so it makes sense now i would. i am happy they are my imaginary friends and i have made them and i am not telling any of my family about them because they would make fun of me. I obviously dont have to tell my friends anything because i hate them and dont want to be friends with them anymore. Ill admit having these imaginary friends is the best because they are the exact friends that i wanted my whole life and couldnt really have until now. I also will admit that it kind of affects me talking and making real friends but i dont really care because i dont want to be friends with real friends because real people hurt me with the hurtful words they say but my imaginary friends never do because they are nice to me and they would never say anything hurtful to me because they really like me and like me the way i am and dont want me to change.

I've been friends w/this person for over a decade. She's always been a story teller where there's a grain of truth in the story, but exaggerated to make her life seem grand. I invited this friend on a weekend trip a few months ago w/others she hadn't met before. She'd insert herself into a conversation w/a clearly embellished story & continued on doing so for 3 days. When we left another friend told me she wished I hadn't invited my lying friend. I was mortified & still feel terrible about it! Part 2: This weekend we went on another trip together w/others she had met a handful of times before. Her embellished story insertions interrupted group conversations to a point where people would just ignore her. The last day I snapped & called her out on a lie. Instead of dropping it she added more lies on top of it. After moving onto another topic she was clearly upset & blew up about how offensive I was! I told her she was acting weird, but she held on until someone else told her to drop it.

A person is being bullied because bullies find him weird. So if i too find that person that person weird too and try helping him out.... But i do tell the victim constantly that the bullies are wrong to bully but they are right about the victim being weird and i tell him that he is weird.

Today i was having a conversation with few of my friendd about people making fun of me and bullying me in school. I was talking to a few seniors about it. Then one of them said something to motivate me and to make me feel better. He said that inspite of how i look and inspite of how much people make fun of me i still have the courage to go and sing on the stage and he admires that. I really found the statement offensive.He said "in spite" of how i look.... So does that he just called me unattractive.

I have a friend from high school who I ve become very close to, but the thing is, I don t know how to stay in touch with her over the summer. I d like to have her over, but I have severe anxiety and can never start conversations. I ve only talked to her in person and not over text. What should I say? Also, I ll be leaving the country for a month and I really don t want to lose her. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

So I graduated and a female friend who was close to me congratulated me and sent me a loooong text about what she liked about me and how I made her feel and she would miss me. I said thank you and wished her all the best. Then randomly one day she sent a rant about how she thought I had not given her proper attention by not sharing all my stuff and not introducing to my friends and even not hanging out with her. Does she want to be friends or is she asking for more?

Me and my friend recently stopped talking we're not friends anymore and she had a boy best friend he had a crush on her and she didn't like him so she stopped talking to him but he texted me saying "let's be friends and IOS games?" I don't know if I should talk to him like even though they never had a thing i think it's weird to talk to me friends ex best friend like even though we're not talking I just feel like it's weird. I'm not planning on flirting with him or being friends any advice?

My friends have some mental issues. My parents took them away from me in many different ways. My mom was a teenager who chose the wrong friends who took her down the wrong path in life. I understand she wants to save me from that, but I'm willing to DIE for them because I LOVE them so fricking much. I often just break down & cry. Advice?

I've been with this guy for a few months and I can say that I fell in love.Because he thinks my finances are better than his, he barely spends money on me or does anything special.We get intimate often, but don't go out to parties or to eat, etc.I found out that he has a girlfriend in his hometime, but he tells me he wants to be with me.I know he had a life before moving to my state, but I was in disbelief when I found out.I belive him but I just don't feel the same way.What should I do?

There's this guy I know who's my age (23) and he's buff, he's got tattoos and looks like a pretty cool guy. he's really outgoing he works with me and I only see him once a week, but I notice that he gets really awkward and weird as if he's intimidated by me. Hes always looking at me from head to toe...I don't understand why he would be intimidated. I'm a normal dude and I've been told that I'm very good-looking. But why is he intimidated by me???

Im going to see a friend in about a month. I've been pretty close with her through high school and os far through college (she lives in another state now). And next month she wanted me to come visit and willingly I said yes! I'm spending 5 days there and I asked where I was going to sleep and she goes "In my bed of course. I've been saving 6 years of cuddles for you". How should I read that? Should I expect she'll want to do other stuff than just cuddle?

Sorry if this is a stupid question, but someone texted me something, and I'm not quite sure what it means I was in church yesterday morning, when I realized I didn't know what our weekend homework assignment was, so I texted one of my classmates to ask oh, and she wrote back, "idk, kys". What the heck does that stand for?

My friend ran away from home last week after a huge fight (verbal & physical) and has since, been sleeping in pretty scary/places, and doing other risky things like hitchhiking and hanging out with strangers. Even though his parents can be pretty abusive sometimes I've been trying to get him to just go home or turn himself in bc I'm genuinely worried and I think he's less safe now than b4 (I've only met up with him twice at the park) but he's being stubborn and has convinced himself that he'll get in trouble (with his parents and the police) if he goes back home even tho I seriously doubt. I think that's just what he's decided to tell himself bc he really doesn't want to go back home and the police weren't much help to him with his parents before. Btw, he's 14 and we're in Chicago, IL.