I'm with someone and I told him it's important for the future wife to know the investment that she's getting in to and to know their personalities not to have him all to him self but also focus on his family agree ?

Long story short while my spouse was visiting his family I slept with one of my coworkers. My guilty conscience couldn't handle it so I told on myself the moment my spouse came home. They kind of just laughed and paid it no mind. I'm not sure if they even believe me honestly but I at least I told right? And if they didn't think I was joking then why no reaction other than a laugh and shrug? (This was 3 months ago) and we moved on like nothing happened at all . I'm pretty confused on how to handle this situation.

My boyfriend is going through a very difficult time - family member dying of cancer and losing his dog 2 weeks ago - and he wrote this to me, "I m fine and am just needing space now and I simply can't move things ahead in a relationship as it's not fair to you or anyone. I have high anxiety and getting these texts only increases them. Please respect this." What does this mean? Does it mean he wants to break up? Please help. Thanks.

I know that it is a betrayal, I know that is unethical, I know that it is fraudulent but with all that said the fact still remains the same on some basic intellectual note we must be aware that we have either been in one of the following camps the one who was almost cheated on, the one who was cheated on and either knew or didn't or the one who is being cheated on currently knowingly or unknowingly or the one that is either cheating has cheated or is strongly consideration and/ or a combination of all previously listed! So let's talk about it! Don't let any unresolved tension prevent you, let it out!

they don't realize what a bullet they dodged and that she will now become some other poor schmuck's future problem.

I sawed a sex show on friends laptop, it was a game show , sort of. girls would do things for money and points. girls were shown porn , the girls would sit naked on a chair, watch porn, but the girls had to sit on white paper to show which girl got most aroused. do you know that every girl had wet the paper with vaginal arousal. some even left poo stain, weird . im gonna watch it again tonight, even though I know who won. once girls get older, nobody wants to see them sit nude.

So it's been established that my fiance is emotionally and most likely physically cheating on me. I live with her left all friends and family behind to be with her. I get paid friday and I'm thinking about leaving. We go to counseling. I do have a job and a car. What should I do?

we have been together for four years. we were best friends for a LONG time before we got together. when we were friends we would basically talk all day everyday laugh and joke around with each other, we were both sort of nerdy and outcasters and didn't fit into any particular group. neither of us are into drinking and partying. my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend one particular day after me saying that he could never make me fall in love. he said I was different from other girls and an example of how a true woman should be. I never thought we would actually fall in love but we did. he's always been there for me. there was a time when I was unemployed and he would give me hundreds of dollars per week. I don't have my license so he drives me everywhere I need to be. He has three kids but he still makes the time to see me at least twice a week. I actually lost my virginity to him. I can say that he is the only man I've dated that has never cheated on me. we haven't had sex in like six months and he still hasn't cheated. he decided we should wait and do things the godly way, btw. it wasn't my decision. however, in the first one-two years we were together he was very controlling and had a short temper. one time he got upset when we went to his house and the neighbor who is 18 was looking at me. my boyfriend tried to rush me into the house. about a year ago I got really upset while at work and started crying and my boss was asking me whats wrong. told him my anxiety was bad. told my boyfriend that I confided to my boss about my anxiety and my boyfriend got super mad and was like " so hes your psychologist now, I know you better than anyone else does." there was a time when my boyfriend used to get mad at me for wearing certain clothes that show skin but I don't think he cares about that anymore. my boyfiend's temper seems to be getting better but every now and then he will fly off the handle. he's NEVER hit me also. i'm 26/ hes 34 my boyfriend is scared of everything. my boyfriend used to have an issue with being out at night, he had to rush me back home before it got dark. he doesn't want to go and ride roller coasters with me. everytime I mention traveling he has to name all of the dangerous places and which ones have gangs. i'm an adventurous person and love to explore, have a change of scnery. the one thing that we both love is going to the movies. we go to the movies every weekend and that's kind of our thing we do i'm trying to learn how to drive and my boyfriend doesn't want me ever driving for fear of me dying. I don't want to be dependent on him for the rest of my life. I don't know if he might ever leave me or die or whatever. my boyfriend says my attention span is too short to drive and i'll end up killing myself or someone else I am finding myself falling for my coworker as I find that he is more easy going, laid back, he encourages women to be independent, as well as he has a good career, his own house, two degrees, and isn't scared of living his life. i'm trying to push back these feelings but it's so hard because I see him everyday and seeing him just reminds me of everything lacking In my relationship.

I get home from work and almost every day my wife's daughters fiancé is always here at the house. I want to relax and unwind but he talks too much. Every second he is saying something. Plus my wife's daughter is so obnoxious. I mean she always wants me and her mom to always go out with them on saturdays when all I want is to have alone time with my wife. Plus I can't keep up with their enthusiasm and energy. I'm 44 and so is my wife. Her older daughter who is very obnoxious is 21. Her youngest is 15. I just dislike always having to go somewhere and spending lots of money every weekend. If I want alone time I get the guilt trip from my family. I can't stand it.

They humiliate LGBTQ community, laugh at a joke about black people, and make a remark that degrades women's status. I know I could be over-sensitive... Originally from Tokyo, Japan, I grew up surrounded by nice, sweet, and polite people. J says everyone can say anything they want. He did not stand up for me when I felt humiliated at sexist jokes. I did, on the other hand, when his brother criticized him. Would you let me know what you think?

I'm 37, I had tons of friends in high school. Today, out of all my high school friends, the ones I'm still friends with, they are single. One by one, I lost my friends as they got married. They wives don't let their husbands come out and play. Why do men let their wives treat them like kids?

I am divorced but my ex wife and I are still on friendly terms. She calls me occasionally. She has remarried. She called me and said she very much wanted to go to her high school reunion but she did not have the money for an airline ticket. I told her that I had some good news for her. I had a pass for a free airline trip anywhere in the US from being bumped off a flight. I would give it to her for free. That made her VERY HAPPY. I got a call from her current husband and he asked me where his free airline ticket was. I told him I only had 1 ticket. He said if I really was her friend I would get him a ticket also. He told me that if he did not get a ticket, he was not going to let her go. My thought at the time is this guy is nuts. I am not about to buy him an airline ticket. If he wants to tell his wife he will not let her go, that is none of my business. I thought about telling her what he told me but that would probably just cause them to have a fight so I didn't tell her. Gals did I do the correct thing by not telling her? Did I do something wrong offering her a free airline ticket?

My daughter Whois 26 and my wife have always had a strained relationship as my wife is very controlling and used to be abusive to her as a young child. I told my daughter still buy her mother a gift for mother's dsy because God will bless her for being the bigger person. She bought her something even though my wife told her not to. This morning the whole family is going to church and my wife told my daughter she was to wear the outfit that she laid out for her because our daughter has a habit of dressing sloppily. Our daughter has anemia and gets cold so she wore a T-shirt under her suit and pants my wife laid out and my wife " you better tuck that tshirt inside of your pants where it's no visible or we will drop you off back home and you will not be attending mother's day dinner with the rest of the family. And your father won't do anything about it either."