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- Question: How to convince our friend it was a misunderstanding??
- Question: Bestfriend forgetting my birthday?
- Question: Friends and dinner plans?
- Question: If a guy enjoyed sex with a woman what are the chances of him having sex with her again?
- Question: How to find out if my potential roommate, is alright with me being white?
- Question: How do I deal with this fading toxic friendship?
- Question: Everybody likes me?
- Question: Is it normal to be annoyed by students who don't try at all?
- Question: Men: Is it standard to ignore all of the bad things a girl has done to you if you think she's attractive or is that low self esteem?
- Question: Did you just make some interesting friend here?
- Question: How can I tell my best friend hes took old to be fist fighting?
- Question: What should I do...?
- Question: Why am I overally attached to special needs kids?
- Question: With texting: would you be friends with someone that only replied once a week?
- Question: What is her problem with me?
- Question: My friend screwed me over, my moms mad at me, my teacher (also my moms friend) hates me, and i want to die. i need advice (CG=colorguard)?
- Question: Friend problem. Who is right in this situation?
- Question: This guy says he enjoyed sex with me but he came quick, is he lying?
- Question: This is a great forum to express different views, ideas, advice, etc, especially to posters who have no friends or family support, agree?
- Question: No one sees that side of her.?
- Question: How to “break up” with a friend of 5 years?
- Question: My Best Friend verbally assaulted me?
- Question: How to use attention to get popular?
- Question: Why would delete my comment?
- Question: A friend of mine keeps thanking me for our friendship and it’s getting kinda annoying. Am I wrong to feel this?
- Question: Why do i feel so left out?
- Question: If a guy enjoyed having sex with a woman, would he have sex with her again?
- Question: My Frend Promised Me $80 but Flaked on Me Last Minute?
- Question: Bestfriend/roommate problem?
- Question: How do I nicely tell someone I don’t want to give them a ride?
- Question: If a guy enjoyed having sex with a woman, would he have sex with her again?
- Question: Why does this girl hate me?
- Question: Is it okay to hang out with a friend of the opposite sex while in a relationship?
- Question: What should I say to “friend” who is always comparing grades?
- Question: Ladies, do you find guys who surf and play guitar attractive?
- Question: Do straight girls kiss each other?? and if you are a straight girl/woman, have you?
- Question: Is doing well in school and sports a good way to prove yourself to other people and prove you aren’t a loser?
- Question: I need a gift idea for a horror movie fan?
- Question: What does this mean?
- Question: I slept with my f-buddy’s brother 7 years ago, why is he mad?
| Question: How to convince our friend it was a misunderstanding?? Posted: 23 May 2019 05:30 PM PDT Some friends gathered last weekend and, long story short, pretty much everyone brought drugs or alcohol and everyone was on something except 1 friend who hates the thought of pills, snorting, and alcohol (he's the only one in the group who is under the legal drinking age anyway) and is afraid of needles. He was being a party pooper, party police man so me and the other guys offered to help him loosen up. Note: we were all heavily under the influence. I genuinely believed that he want to join us but didnt have the balls to shoot up himself so a couple of the others kinda pinned him down and we gave him a little H. It wasnt anywhere near a lot bc we knew he wasnt really into drugs but just enough like I said to help him loosen up. Even that little bit and he got super pissed but eventually fell asleep. We thought it was just good fun but the next morning he left super early and hasnt really dealt with us since, we invited him to just hang out this weekend but he said he'd rather not and that he's still pissed and they we took things to far. Each of us have tried reaching out to him and he's shut us all down, we've tried explaining it was a misunderstanding but he's being stubborn about it and wont let it go. Playing the victim card as usual. How do we get it through to him, this weekend there wont be any partying just hanging out and he's not even caring to listen. He's just sulking over last week. He's 18 btw |
| Question: Bestfriend forgetting my birthday? Posted: 23 May 2019 05:23 PM PDT Look, I really hate to sound childish, but my best friend (since elementary) has forgotten my birthday. Mind you, we're still in high school -- so it isn't like we have busy jobs or anything. . . and although we go to different schools now, we still hang out from time to time. I've always been there to shoot her a text for her birthday even if I can't see her in person, and in the past she has done the same. However, recently, I feel like she doesn't really seem to care about the things going on in my life. She's gotten a boyfriend this year (which seems to be a serious relationship) and so, whenever we talk, it's always about things with her boyfriend, etc. etc. or the drama she has at school. I've ALWAYS been there to listen to her problems and try and help her troubleshoot them, but I feel like everything is always one-sided. So, when she forgot it was my birthday but texts me about something else, I feel like I lost my last bit of patience. I know I shouldn't be this hurt over something like this, but with everything that's been happening prior to this with her, I feel like this is saying something -- not sure what that may be. I haven't responded to her text yet (because, you know... just me being sulky) What should I do? Should I call her out on it or should I just let it go? |
| Question: Friends and dinner plans? Posted: 23 May 2019 03:48 PM PDT So my college friend and her boyfriend are supposed to come over this month. Initially we're supposed to hang at their place but due to budget we switched it to my place. Now my husband and I are finding ourselves tight with budget especially because we're planning our wedding. I'm finding it hard for myself to ask my friend if we can go grab something small together. Would that be in the wrong? What's a good solution? |
| Question: If a guy enjoyed sex with a woman what are the chances of him having sex with her again? Posted: 23 May 2019 03:09 PM PDT If a guy enjoyed sex with a woman once what's the chances he would do it again? |
| Question: How to find out if my potential roommate, is alright with me being white? Posted: 23 May 2019 02:13 PM PDT In short, the facebook account I use to message people has a very unique name, and 0 pictures of myself. I've recently come to realize that my potential, her current roommate, and 99% of the people they know on facebook are people of color. Chances are, she might have thought I was a sister. "Just skin" or not, some people take serious comfort in that fact. Is there any way I can bring this up without making her feel guilty if she wants to turn me down? |
| Question: How do I deal with this fading toxic friendship? Posted: 23 May 2019 01:30 PM PDT I have been friends with this girl for about five years. We would usually consider ourselves best friends but something happened these past two months. We are a fading friendship and I can't stand to be around her. She makes me feel bad for my position in life, is very negative, and always tries to prove me wrong or correct me in some way. There are so many other things that make my skin crawl and have upset me dearly but the list is too long so that's the sum up of most of it. Now usually I would just stop talking to her, but here's the thing. She is dating my boyfriends best friend. My boyfriend, his best friend, and her all rent this house together. She will be moving out soon and I'll be taking her place but in the meantime I want to see my boyfriend and I don't mind spending time with his best friend/her boyfriend. |
| Posted: 23 May 2019 01:20 PM PDT My friends say that everybody likes me. Which is not true. I get along with a lot of people because I have a lot of interests, and am very social. My friends on the other hand, like to stay to the themselves and only talk to me. When have small arguments, they say: "Everybody likes you, just go to them." Or "You don't know what it feels like to be alone, because every body is your friend." It's true that I talk to people and make my time enjoyable but that doesn't mean that they have my back. It's quite frustrating that everybody thinks I'm loved by everyone. I can't tell them that I can relate to being alone because they attack me. I am alone sometimes, but I can never say such a thing to them. |
| Question: Is it normal to be annoyed by students who don't try at all? Posted: 23 May 2019 01:07 PM PDT I'm at a university, a major one apparently, and there are still students who don't bother trying first before asking questions. As a fellow student, I don't mind helping because when I get stuck on something, I'd appreciate help too. But there are a lot of students who don't study on their own and try to wing the class by bugging everyone else without trying on their own. I'm annoyed. Should I just delay replying to them? it's almost to a point they have no respect for other people's time by asking basic questions like "how do i do this?" without even having made any effort on their own. There are literally students who meet classmates only to collect answers without even trying. |
| Posted: 23 May 2019 01:01 PM PDT There's this guy in his early 40s dating a 21 year old. She broke up with him in November for the sole reason of seeing if he would fight for her. He did but he didn't go to the extremes. She literally talked crap about him from November up until about 5 days ago. Saying he was a narcissist, a loser, a f**k boy, he just used her for her looks, he wasted her time and she wished she would have known what a loser he was before dating him. She posted all of this type of stuff publicly on her online accounts. He obviously knows about this because she shared the posts publicly and linked her tumblr account on both facebook and instagram. She also slept with another guy, trash talked her ex to her friends, family and co-workers and for attention even agreed to go on an all expenses paid vacation with a 50 year old man that she met through work who she stood up at the airport. This guy lost his money and couldn't get a refund on the trip and she blocked his number the day of. The guy posted a public status saying she was a user and a manipulative snake and even compared her to a hooker. YET....her ex the guy in his early 40's recently befriended her again and their trying to get into a romantic relationship again. Why? Why would someone date a girl who has caused so much chaos. Why would he add her back on social media and start taking her on dates again (all paid for by him) and talking about getting back together? |
| Question: Did you just make some interesting friend here? Posted: 23 May 2019 12:55 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I tell my best friend hes took old to be fist fighting? Posted: 23 May 2019 12:44 PM PDT Hes 26 years old and quick temper. Ever time he tried starting a fight with me I avoid it by talking to him. He was just diagnosed with multible sclerosis and he is getting weaker in arms and fingers. I know some people are rude and he cant help but to get angry but he has a sickness which may cause him to go paralyzed. Meaning hes going to have to defend himself another way. |
| Question: What should I do...? Posted: 23 May 2019 12:08 PM PDT I have this ex-best friend that I've unfrinded two weeks ago, and I kinda miss her but not really. I accused her of behind fake and toxic and she confirmed it. I just miss when we would mess around and when she would make jokes with me. She also replaced me with new friends which is what caused us to not be friends anymore. Do you think I should try to be her friend again or not? |
| Question: Why am I overally attached to special needs kids? Posted: 23 May 2019 11:40 AM PDT Im only 17. Senior. I have grown a relationship with almost every special needs kid at my school. Today is the last day of school and i just started balling my eyes out at the thought of not knowing whether or not they are okay. I actually built the same kind of relationships at my old school, it always seems to follow me. But this year i had to report a teacher and students for bullying one of them and im scared that now that im gone it'll just continue. Im scared someone will bully them and they won't get the respect they deserve. I dont even really need mt question answered...i just need reassurance. I just want to know they are okay. My bestfriend told me she'll watch out for them but she hasn't built that connection with them like i have. I just feel so useless now. |
| Question: With texting: would you be friends with someone that only replied once a week? Posted: 23 May 2019 11:12 AM PDT |
| Question: What is her problem with me? Posted: 23 May 2019 11:00 AM PDT I've been friends with this girl for a year. I feel frustrated because she is copying everything I do, my hobbies, my interests, even my dating life. She messaged me as soon as she saw online that I took up dancing and asked me if she could join classes with me. I naturally said yes and since then we have been going to class together. I took photos of myself dancing in a studio and she messaged me asking how I got my photos done and she wants me to take photos of her dancing now in the exact same place and get the same photos. I put on social media that I was back into dating and she messaged me asking how I got dates and where I got them from and I told her I met them online so she joined the same dating site. When I go on dates she will message me and tell me that she's jealous and wants to hear all about them. When I do tell her on nights out she changes the subject quickly and then talks about guys who she is messaging. On a recent night out, she kept calling me an idiot for forgetting my ID, then when we got home she kept telling me I spilt my make up everywhere and wouldn't stop going on about it. She also takes joy in my misfortune. If something ever bad happens to me or I post anything negative she is the first to message me. But when I upload a photo of myself she never likes it, she never likes it when anything positive happens to me either what is her problem with me? Why does she treat me like complete dirt? |
| Posted: 23 May 2019 10:55 AM PDT i recently joined the CG at school bc my friend wanted me to go on the band trip with her so i signed up & tried on the uniform (which i took pics in) & was very happy. i posted the pic & said "me when i sign up for CG bc *friend* wants me to go on the gay trip w/ her & so now i have to look dumb but i'm very excited". i thought nothing of it until my mom told me that i couldn't go out w/ friends & when i questioned it she said that "we have to talk" i was confused & upset that i had to cancel plans but i went with it. i got into the car & she says "i saw you posted some hurtful things about CG on social media" & i asked her what she was talking about & she showed me a screenshot that my friend took & had sent to the CG coach who then sent it to my mom. my mom told me that she was extremely disappointed in me & that she didn't know how much of a bad person her daughter was behind closed. she said multiple people sent this to the coach & that i'm not allowed to be on CG. the thing is, only 1 person on CG follows my spam IG so i knew who reported me. my mom told me that i had to apologize to the teacher & to the CG. recently i've really been struggling w/ suicidal thoughts & such & i thought that doing CG would help & my schedule would be much more full & i wouldn't have time to be stuck in my thoughts but now that i can't & that i know my friend went behind my back & adults are mad at me, i just can't stop thinking that this whole thing would be fixed if i just killed myself |
| Question: Friend problem. Who is right in this situation? Posted: 23 May 2019 09:08 AM PDT My friend tells me about his problems about men all the time. He would go online and meet men in person. I am a type of friend who gave him advice/my opinions about his man situations. When I use to tell him about guys I met in the passed he would just apologize.. 1 guy who he met put on Facebook threatening to kill him. That's what him and my other friend told me I guess he was so mad at his ex bf that he wanted me to talk to him over the phone. When I spoke to his ex on the phone my friend video tapped the phone call and told people I pranked call him. I was protecting my identity because I didn't want to be threatened or fear for my life. Since my ex hurted me, called me names, blocked me and had 1 of his friends or relatives to call me to call me names such as "pu**y a$$ female dog, pu**y a$$ H**, ect over the phone I was hurt by it. I was being harrassed by whoever that was. I didn't press charges because I didn't want my parents to be involved and yell at me because I don't tell them different things and who I'm with and stuff. I wanted my friend to step up for me by having a conversation with my ex and then tell him that I hope we can make peace with each other. Again my ex blocked me after calling me names. I am still hurt by that. I tried to step up for myself though. My friend didn't want to help me with that after I stepped up for him. So I told him not to tell me about his man problems and not to ask me for anything. |
| Question: This guy says he enjoyed sex with me but he came quick, is he lying? Posted: 23 May 2019 08:01 AM PDT I had sex with this guy once and I asked him if he liked it. He said he enjoyed it very much. But he came quick so how could he have enjoyed it? I didn't like it because I felt it was over too fast. But I did give him oral sex beforehand. I want to try it again because I like the way he touched my breasts. He said he enjoyed it but I don't think he liked it. |
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| Question: No one sees that side of her.? Posted: 23 May 2019 05:01 AM PDT My 'friend' is fake, in the way that she has a fake personality. She likes to make a lot of things, about herself. She IS over dramatic and tends to exaggerate a lot of things. When with different people she changes herself completely. If she hangs out with people who don't like me, she becomes mean, swears at me and calls me things. I've confronted her more than once and she brought 'tears'. I've tried leaving her but she always finds a way into my life. I've tried telling adults, close friends and a social worker, but they all call me a bully and don't believe me. What do I do? |
| Question: How to “break up” with a friend of 5 years? Posted: 23 May 2019 03:53 AM PDT This "friend" has treated me terribly for years. Sabotaged 3 of my relationships. Ditched me in another country. Crashed my car and never said sorry. Constantly puts me down. She also surrounds herself with drama and I can't take it anymore. I started to distance myself but she will send me long messages saying she thought something happened to me. She has definitely crossed boundaries before and I think telling her the ways she's hurt me won't do any good and might make her angry. How do I proceed from getting this woman out of my life? |
| Question: My Best Friend verbally assaulted me? Posted: 23 May 2019 03:46 AM PDT She lives in another state. But we FaceTime a lot. I haven't been having a lot of "me" time so I have been a little annoyed & rude probably when I talk to her. I'm self centered at times, & I've been a bit rude. Otp she called me "weird" & it hurt my feelings and when I texted her about it she kept saying she doesn't fw me, & my energy sucks, I'm insane & I need help, & we just went back & forth but I was trying to be the bigger person & understand why she's acting like that. & all she said was that she just doesn't want to be around me & was putting me down. It hurt me really bad and I cried a lot. I'm still sad, I wrote something to apologize & explain things to her but at the same time it was extremely painful to hear that from Her since we were so close and I trusted her. What do u think? Am I wrong or is she? |
| Question: How to use attention to get popular? Posted: 23 May 2019 12:52 AM PDT Hey guys, I'm serious about growing my personal brand and making new connections, especially with people who go to school with me. I know popularity tends to be a shallow topic, but my intent is to get more people to know about my mission. I want to make new connections and work on my social skills at the same time. I feel like I'm in a pretty good position to increase my popularity at school. Not trying to be cocky or anything, but I say this because I wear nice clothes, drive a good car, play sports, make my own money, have a 4.0 GPA, and have over 50k followers on Instagram. I know that materialistic things aren't everything, but these get me a lot of attention, which I want to utilize for building real connections. I don't brag about this in real life either, just giving you guys some background info to understand my situation. I think one of my issues is that I don't really talk to anyone except my close friends, so some people think I'm stuck-up. A lot of people also follow me on Instagram but never come up to me in real life to talk. A lot of girls have asked me why I don't talk more and that they'd talk to me. Any solutions on how I can grow my circle, meet new people, and essentially become more popular? School ends in 1-2 weeks and I'm currently a sophomore. Going to be a junior next year. Also, is it too late? |
| Question: Why would delete my comment? Posted: 23 May 2019 12:06 AM PDT Why would somebody delete my comment on Instagram. I only put a fire emoji to state how great the picture was. |
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| Question: Why do i feel so left out? Posted: 22 May 2019 11:57 PM PDT i have friends, my life is good, but i feel like i've kind of drifted from my two best friends even though i'm literally with them everyday... we're having a campaign for school soon and i expected the three of us to team up, but they went ahead and found these two other people instead... maybe bcs one of them became buddy buddy when they went to DC but i just feel so pressed abt it... How am i gonna be class president if I can't even keep my friends???? |
| Question: If a guy enjoyed having sex with a woman, would he have sex with her again? Posted: 22 May 2019 10:58 PM PDT I had sex with a guy once he said he enjoyed it. Does that mean he'll want to again? I didn't really like it but I want to try again. |
| Question: My Frend Promised Me $80 but Flaked on Me Last Minute? Posted: 22 May 2019 10:44 PM PDT Y?? |
| Question: Bestfriend/roommate problem? Posted: 22 May 2019 10:31 PM PDT I have been friends with this girl for over 13 years. I love her as a friend but can only tolerate her in small time periods. She has ADD and cannot understand/comprehend almost anything. I've learned to deal with this in out lives. Recently she lost her job and beeged me to see if i could get her a job at my work. I do because i feel bad but now ive realized this is a bad mistake. She embarrasses me and makes me look bad because she cannot understand simple concepts of the job and also slacks off constantly. I feel as though this was a huge mistake to get her in my workplace. She does not have a license and therefore has been staying with me so that we can drive to worl together. She has been woth me for 2 weeks now and does not buy any of her own stuff and gives me no space. We also had plans to move in together into my grandpas old home. This was before she started styaing with me at my current living situation. I have now realized there is no way i want to live with her but now shes so hopeful and set on living together. I also wouldnt be able to afford the new house unless i have a roommate but i feel that i will absolutely hate having her as a roomate because shes been driving me insane with only living together for 2 weeks. I need any advice on the workplace matter and the rooming together matter. Please help. |
| Question: How do I nicely tell someone I don’t want to give them a ride? Posted: 22 May 2019 09:17 PM PDT A girl that I am not too close to told me how she doesn't have enough money for a bus pass and she also doesn't have her drivers license, so I offered to give her a ride if she ever needed one because i felt bad for her walking everyday. I was thinking of it as more of a once in a while thing, whenever she really didn't want to walk to school or whatever, but now it's every single morning she texts me. We are going to the same place so it's not out of my way, but I personally just really enjoy my own personal time in the morning. I'm not sure if that makes me a bad person when it's not out of my way to take her, i'm just so used to having my own time in the mornings and I don't know how to tell her no. Keep in mind I'm not friends with this girl... We only took the same bus for a couple weeks where I talked to her maybe three times and I have a feeling she's just using me in order to get a ride. When I told her I couldn't drive her for a couple days due to me visiting family for my great grandmas funeral she merely asked when i would be back instead of offering condolences which is a little strange to me. So, how do I get out of this? |
| Question: If a guy enjoyed having sex with a woman, would he have sex with her again? Posted: 22 May 2019 09:11 PM PDT I had sex with a guy once he said he enjoyed it. Does that mean he'll want to again? I didn't really like it but I want to try again. |
| Question: Why does this girl hate me? Posted: 22 May 2019 08:39 PM PDT There's a girl at my school who really hates me for some reason. I've never even spoken a word to her before or even given her a thought before. I know she doesn't like me because she called me names behind my back infront of my friend and my friend told me. Also she tried to kill me off in this one game. She's kind of popular but not really and I'm not a loser at school or anything. Our school doesn't even have cliques so it's not a popularity issue. I'm just genuinely confused as to why she hates me does anybody know? Oh yeah this one time she apperently had the highest score on a test but then later it turns out that I actually had the highest because I only missed one question, but I don't think that's a big enough reason to seriously hate someone like she hates me. Could it be that she's jealous of me? I'm seriously so confused. |
| Question: Is it okay to hang out with a friend of the opposite sex while in a relationship? Posted: 22 May 2019 08:25 PM PDT What are the boundaries usually? |
| Question: What should I say to “friend” who is always comparing grades? Posted: 22 May 2019 08:00 PM PDT I'm really emotionally drained at this point. I'm excited because I am switching schools for next year. I still have finals. I'm in regular math and my manipulative friend is in advanced. She is constantly making rude remarks about me not being good at science or math and puts me down on the few things I take pride in doing. She makes me feel like we are always competing. As mentioned earlier, I am really done with her and school in general at this point. I am studying during my elective block tomorrow that I have with her. If she starts saying things such as "ugh I wish I was in your class, you get extra time so it's easier (learning accommodation), how don't you understand this?! I got all A's on chem, etc. what should I say if this happens? I'm about to lose it on her. I'm working my butt off. I have tried telling her that it rly hurts me before but she doesn't seem to care when I am polite. |
| Question: Ladies, do you find guys who surf and play guitar attractive? Posted: 22 May 2019 07:40 PM PDT |
| Question: Do straight girls kiss each other?? and if you are a straight girl/woman, have you? Posted: 22 May 2019 07:23 PM PDT |
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| Question: I need a gift idea for a horror movie fan? Posted: 22 May 2019 06:52 PM PDT I literally know nothing about the horror genre and I want to get my best friend a graduation gift he loves horror films. I have no idea what to get. Any ideas? |
| Question: What does this mean? Posted: 22 May 2019 06:45 PM PDT My friend doesn't talk about himself much, hides his problems and fears from everyone, to save others, and from things like rejection or disappointment. |
| Question: I slept with my f-buddy’s brother 7 years ago, why is he mad? Posted: 22 May 2019 06:15 AM PDT Here's the story, I met the younger brother in highschool. We didn't hook up until college where I'd only see him summer and breaks since he went to college out of state. We spoke often and I caught feelings(unfortunately). I told him how I was feeling and my feelings were dismissed. I really thought we were friends up until that point. I then told him we had to stop sleeping together because I was afraid of being hurt. He said cool and we left it at at that. We continued to be friendly and still messed around occasionally that summer. So it never completely ended. We have a group of friends that all went to HS together and we make it a point to hang as a group when everyone is on town for holidays and such. He starts sleeping with on of the girls that's a regular at our gamenights. Her and I weren't best friends but she was bestfriends with my younger cousin by 3 years so I often saw her at family events and we had a good relationship. She didn't know about he and I's status. Him and I eventually get on good terms and there's a party one weekend with all of our mutual friends. I couldn't make it I had to work. He and I made plans for after and brought food home for him and I have that night. He never made it to me. Instead, I received several texts from friends and my cousin about him making out with this mutual friend girl at the party. What makes things worse is he took her home and spent the night. She also lived in my apartment complex and I could see his car from... |
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