I have a friend that I've liked since I met her that recently broke up with boyfriend of like three years (I'm not sure of the exact time) and we've been hanging out the last few weeks. I hadn't tried anything and I even listened to her talk about him and vent just as a friend. Anyway, Thursday night we went to a bar near campus to watch the game and she ended up getting drunk. I had two and ate so I wasn't even close. When I drove her home her she kissed me, like a lot. I'm not sure how long we were outside but it was a while. I told her I had to leave when she asked me if I wanted to go inside because she really was drunk and I haven't heard from her since. I'm not sure what to do now, if I should make a move or just see this as her being drunk and rebounding. I really like her and want us to a thing, so Is it too soon and should I wait?

My husband and I have been together for 6 years and married for 2. For our anniversary, all he wanted to do was go to the park with some lunch. Its sweet and all but I expected that and a NICE gift. I mean I do everything for the man, he hardly lifts a finger at home and I hardly feel any appreciation. I expect during the holidays and anniversaries to be spoiled a little. Is that wrong? He can afford it but he says I shouldn't expect it. Then I shoot back with well you shouldn't expect me to wash, cook, clean, and pick up after you. Am I spoiled? Is it wrong to want to be spoiled on holidays?

My husband is someone who always wants more. More money, a better job. In the past 7 years we've moved to 7 different cities and we have lived in AT LEAST 10 different apartments in the past 7 years. My husband now wants to move AGAIN for another job offer. I'm tired of it! Yes, his field is in high demand and he's somehow able to continually pick up new employment but it's having a huge impact on my ability to work as it now appears on my own resume that I'm completely unstable and hop from job to job. We don't have much money left in savings and at 32 years old I was really hoping to have a home and be settled by now with kids. I've talked to my husband about just staying where we are since we've been here almost 2 years now. He told me this job opportunity means a lot to him and that if I choose not to move he's going to go anyway. I'm not sure what to do! I want to be supportive to my husband but I can't take moving again. Any advice? I'm considering a divorce

He's having a party with his family and friends and invited me... no other employees... I've never met his wife and he told me she doesn't know that he invited me... what's more, when we're together at work it feels like he's flirting with me... he plays or removes his wedding ring... he compliments me... he asks questions about my personal life... bla-bla-bla... to be clear... Im not interested in him and I like my job so I'm NOT looking to have an affair... this whole invitation this is confusing me... what's the reason he invited me? What does he want from me? What am I supposed to do? Help!!!

He thinks so much better because his mom brought him a house, and he lives there rent free. He even tried to use this as leverage in our custody hearing, saying that mobile home parks are full of drugs and prostitution, etc, and that it's unsafe for our daughter. This is a very safe secure community, and there's nothing like that here. It's not as though it's a run down trailer. It's a newer manufactured home, but he thinks he's superior because he lives in a proper house. I pretty much ignore it, but I know he's said derogatory stuff to our daughter.

After my friend dumped me on email and wrote, i wish you the best. I responded with I wish you the best I did not try to change her mind or anything like that I did not get ugly How would interpret my short response

I have 48K saved and have ended relationships/ women ending relationships with me over the last 8 years. I'm 28 now a year out of the military. I treasure my free time off from work more than anything to recharge. I just love watching movies, series, football, and working out. I need that time to myself. Family members keep asking when I'll settle down. I just love enjoying life too much and my free time. Why should I have to do something I don't want for society/family expectations. It's all BS. I don't need a woman to have fun and enjoy life and traveling. I was stationed at ramstein and traveled all of Europe. It's such a strain on finances to raise a family. I'd rather move to Vegas and go all out. I believe the marriage thing is a sham, putting your future on the spin of the reel of roulette

Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 12 and we are now 16. Most couples get married after 4 years of dating.

****? @Ana, get help! I never implied that I wanted to have sex with other men.

We've been together for 10 years and he has two children from a previous relationship and we have one between us. His CS is not court arranged and really, keeping the courts out of child-rearing matters is simply best for a multitude of reasons if he and their mother can work it out. However, she's incredibly financially unstable and in addition to well over 1,000/mo in CS, we also take them half the time and continue to cover costs for basic necessities. She has even committed tax fraud twice, resulting in a 401k pull on my side (trying to help my spouse out of that financial woe). I love my spouse and his children and want nothing more than to work as a team, however, given the financial history and instability of the children's mother, I won't marry him for fear of being legally held accountable for CS if she ever comes for back-pay. Out of kindness and dedication to our family, I work full time, go to school full time and split every bill down the middle. I have even paid some child support. Am I wrong?

For a while I thought he was trying to have an affair with me in his wife's back so I kept my distance and stayed away... he has now invited me to a family affair and his wife will be there (along with his family and friends)... should I go? Does this mean I was wrong about the affair and that we can be platonic or do you think theres's more to it?

My husband and I have been married for 3 years and known each other for 4-5 years. Until now, it was all going perfectly, but lately he had been exerting too much control on me. I'm doing my uni masters degree and therefore I'm always either working or studying, usually I like to stay up on Netflix or YouTube because I'm bored, now when he sees me on Netflix or YouTube, he starts pressuring me to go to bed, he also constantly asks what did you eat today, did you drink water, why aren't you studying more... etc, When I talked to him about it, he couldn't understand me so I cried and then he comforted me and literally put me to sleep Our sexual relationship has also been weird. I kinda just want to chill around and don't have much energy to do the whole thing but he always wants to go all the way. Im too tired with work and uni. What do I do

I'm so extremely devastated when my husband is nice to stranger women in public like saying hi how are you. I have really disturbing neighbor who always greet my husband and when she sees him. Enough is enough I'm so irritated by this I had to talk to her she needs to stop talking to my husband. I freaking hate her so much I want grab her and dragged her from her face to show her the pain I'm experiencing. My husband is my husband and my baby father he don't belong to her he belongs to me I swear I want to burn this *****. G

If you were fighting, when do you find it ok to stay at a hotel or something?

I divorced my ex-husband when my daughter was seven. I met someone wonderful a couple years later who truly cares about me. We have been together for six years and are serious and committed. We keep separate places because my boyfriend works a lot and mainly because I've been raising my kids. Now it's just me and my 14 year old daughter. I have about 50 per-cent custody so she's with me half the time. Anytime my boyfriend comes over my daughter has a major issue with it. It's not because she doesn't like him. When my older son comes to visit she feels the same way about him too. She basically wants me all to herself and it seems like I can't even have a life. She has also been very difficult lately when we spend time together. If she had it her way my boyfriend would never be allowed to come over or my son's wouldn't even be able to come and visit when I had her on my time. Is this selfish behavior? How do I deal with this?

So, to make a long story short, My wife left her son in the care of his grandmother when he was about 7. A few years later when she could provide a stable home for him and tried to get him back, her mother went to court for custody of him and eventually won. Before you draw any conclusions about the validity of this you should know that my wife has never been a criminal, nor has she ever done any drugs. Her mother, who happens to be both a social worker and a psychotherapist is both cruel and controlling to her daughter. Also, she messed with the boy's head and suppressed contact between the boy and his mother, even putting him on Zoloft when he was about 12. The boy has since moved away from the grandmother and now has a life of his own in another state for about 7 years now. To this day, my wife is heartbroken and suffering over her son. She has no way of knowing anything about what he thinks or feels or what he has gone through. She does see him on FB, but that's the extent of it. Where can she get info on how to approach him and develop a relationship? She will never be a whole person as long as her only child is estranged from her. Just to add - my wife avoids things she finds stressful, including trying to talk to her son. There's only so much rejection she can take though. Avoidance is a big part of her problem. A bigger part of her problem is having a cruel and spiteful mother. She may never be a whole person having been raised by her.

Like if you don't seem interested in talking to him or in the conversation, he gets angry

Im trying to buy a house I might need a cosign from my son who is married, while his wife be needed for him to co-sign and will she have claim to that property if i add him to my title.

Not going to lie I'm feeling pretty abnormally right now. My best friend just got engaged and my boyfriend's sister is getting married next week. There are times when I feel on cloud 9 with my boyfriend and want to marry him, yet there are others that I don't see it working at all. It's not just my current boyfriend, though, I've felt this many times in the past with my exs. I've always been wishy washy and unsure about marriage. I'm 23 years old... you would think I would know what I want from life... but to be honest I really don't. There are times when I can see myself being a great wife, yet still others I see myself being miserable if I ever did get married. Is this normal? I feel like I'm the only one second guessing myself anymore. Everyone around me is so sure what life will bring that they feel comfortable adding someone else to the equation.... but I just don't know if I'll ever get to that point. Is it just me?

So my girlfriend was angry with her life and took things out on me I told her that I dont deserve this treatment Then she ended our relationship Why did she end it

My husband has a lot of substance abuse issues. Right now he's addicted to prescription drugs, without which he has severe anxiety attacks. He is a tweaker who goes around from ER to ER looking for his next hit. He has been staying at a local Gospel Mission for several weeks now. He has a huge bag full of medications prescribed by several different doctors that he has probably lied to and manipulated. He got kicked out of the Gospel mission for 72 hours for testing positive for oxycontin. We can't keep him here at home. He went into the bathroom, didn't turn the light on or lift the toilet lid, then pissed all over the floor and complained that there was water on the floor. He ate a bar soap. He poured a bowl of cereal that had no cereal in it and spilled it all over the floor because he couldn't carry it. His speech is slurred and no one can understand him. It's like living with someone who has Alzheimer's. We just can't take care of him. The alternative is for him to be kicked out on the street. He needs to be in a nursing home where his prescriptions will be controlled, and he will try to escape. What can we do?

Since divorce decrees are public records, I would like to know how many here have ordered divorce decree of the person they are dating without telling letting them know. If yes, why and if no, why not? given they are public records, would it not be smart to have the opportunity to see what is written in a divorce decree?

I break up with my husband because he was emotionally abusive towards my children and was physically abusive towards our pet dogs. Now my ex husband friends trying to pressurise me telling me to go back with him , also my ex know my finances are poor at the moment he keeps dropping his pay checks to manipulate me even if I said no he wont listen.

My husband has a female single friend he hangs out with at work a lot... their relationship has bothered me for a while because it got so close so fast... they eat together and they text each other all the time about all sorts of stuff...he has even compared her to me on occasion...i told him it was making me uncomfortable but I made no demands thinking he'd do the right thing and stay away from her... so until recently, I figured he'd cut ties with her and she'd go away soon enough...then a surprise party was thrown for me and he invited her... It made me so mad it ruined my own birthday. Why would he invite this woman to my birthday party??? I don't get it...it was so awkward for everyone...the party was attended by close family and friends... and then there was her... I feel like he's being disrespectful to me and to my feelings... what was he trying to accomplish?

I think it's a no-no but I'm just curious what you think. Why would he do that?