I know I'll get judged, but hear me out. I've known my friend for almost 3 years. We've been friends for 2 years, I've also been in love with him for 2 years. He's happily married, with a family. I'm happily engaged and trying to conceive. My fiance has had a feeling for a while that I have feelings for this man, although I've never fully confirmed it. I admitted to my fiance that I used to have a crush on my friend, but that was it. Anyways, I've been struggling with the idea of confessing how I feel, to my friend. I know I risk losing him and his friendship forever, especially if he tells his wife (who I wouldn't consider a friend, but she's been very sweet to me always). I just am unsure of how much longer I can keep it to myself. I think deep down, he's maybe had an idea that I have a thing for him, but he would likely never ask. Should I ever tell him the truth? He's 39, I'm 28.

My Juul didn't used to crackle, but earlier I accidentally dropped the tip in a milkshake (don't ask). So I took the pod out and did my best to clean it. Now it's not letting me rip it without not giving me any vapor (only heat) and it crackles super loud. Can I make it stop? If so, how?

I am outgoing at school and have a pretty good personality formed but just dont enjoy going to partys just to get ****** up and pick up thots that just want one night stands. My friends love it but i find the chase of fun to be a pointless one. Is my thinking flawed or any elaboration on the details?

Ok so my best friend is acting strange. Today we had an Ag show outside, and we were showing a project together. Whenever we had a break or something though, he would leave and go play soccer with his other friends. It didn't bother me that much, I just hung with my other friends. But he came up to me and said, "Today was supposed to be our day. I've barely talked to you!" If he wanted to hang out with me, why would he not hang out with me??? I'm confused.

I had sex with a guy once he said he enjoyed it. Does that mean he'll want to again? I didn't really like it but I want to try again.

In a situation where boy decided to experiment with the same sex: if we initiated sex and he consented in the beginning but as things progressed and I was already penetrating, 10mins in, he decided to change his mind, would I be wrong? Because we were almost done I just finished up (only a few minutes after he started b**ching). I know NC has a law about consent where it only counts in the beginning and that, as far as I've read, only applied to guy on girl. So seeing as he agreed to experiment, and things progressed but once I suggested penetration he started to get if-y and said he didnt want to go there. After I was already in the moment so I continued for a bit. A friend of mine claims I misunderstood, what I consider, a pretty clear law. The boy has been avoiding me since we spoke about it the following morning, and I told him that the law in North Carolina is different when it comes to consent and what not. My friend swears I rapped the kid but I disagree...according to the law in NC I didnt do anything wrong.

My soon to be ex drug addict friend from high school got so whacked stopped going to the doctor for her depo shots and some acid pot head ****** her and came inside her and she told me she's pregnant. But thanks to this idiot who knew she may be fertile did not pull out and convinced her to abortion but she wants to have her baby then toss it into the river to prove woman's rights. I don't know what to do?

It has always been like that. I've had quite a few friends in my life but never really felt like they were real. They only come to me when they have a problem and once they get the help they want, they leave and forget me. I'm never in any of their plans. Not only that but they always ignore me. It seems like I'm only a "friend" when they are facing something hard and then I'm gone! I mean, I'm grateful that they trust me and it means a lot to me but it's kinda hurtful at the same time cause when I have a problem they suddenly disappear! It's always been like that with all the friends I ever had. Only one of them was an actual and real friend but because of college I don't see her that much anymore. The rest just use me and I honestly, don't understand why I am treated like this. I must be doing something wrong! But the question is WHAT!?! I've always been shy and I've always loved to help others but that can't be the reason they take advantage of me, it's not really fair.

Hello. I am in middle school and today two of my best friends got caught skipping class. My teacher knew they were, and he sent me down to see where they were. I found them in the auditorium and went back to class. This may sound like the wrong thing to do, but I said I didn t see them. They ended up getting caught and sent back to class. They both had their homes called and I tried to whisper to them that I didn t say anything. My one friend says that he believes me and that I wouldn t snitch, but the other one won t talk to me. Is there any way I can repair something that I didn t do? He is most likely getting suspended and grounded so talking to him directly is pretty much off limits. Also, the other kid said he would talk to him. Thank you.

I'm 14 and I'm literally so shy. I've gotten more shy over the last three years in middle school and the amount of friends I have has decreased as well. I eat in a teacher's room now with a couple of friends and I'm so ashamed. Next year is the first year of highschool and I want to start it off strong. I want to be outgoing and have lots of friends and be popular even. I have little to none guy friends and if I'm really shy i'll never get a boyfriend.

So basically I'm a guy who's friends with girl. I'll refer to her as M for simplifying. I was very close to M a few months ago and we always went home together (we're highschool seniors). But then I started having one sided feelings towards her. Then I started caring too much about M and stopped caring about others like her best friend when hanging out together to the where when I was with M and her bff the best friend would feel left out. Some time after I confessed my feelings to M and she rejected and we agreed to stay friends, I was alright with that. We continued being close friends, but recently she stopped going home with me because finals are approaching so she stays with her bff and goes to her house. And then she stopped caring about my existence. Like she talks with other guys normally but she ignores me. So I feel left out, and I can't even try talk to her because when I greet her, she gives me a shallow smile yet when she greets others she smiles genuinely. I'm incredibely sad and I don't know what to do. Also I must add that during this period even I have stopped interactong with M and there was once a time where we had cram school and when she and her best friend out they didnt even wait for me so I called her bff and I was very upset so I kinda asked her angrily while shouting why she didnt wait for me she said she didnt see me and i hung up. Next day i go home with M and i talk about and I think she is sick of my drama. I hope someone can give me some advice

Every time I take the train I notice a group of men giving me a mean look like they want to beat the living **** out of me. Sometimes there will be men that look at me and say to their friend " What a ******,". I'm not dressed gay so why are they calling me a ******? I always wear a sweater, relaxed jeans, and a pair of Jordans. So why are they calling me a ******? Why do these type of men want to make my life miserable? What do they get out of ruining someone's day?

I have Asperger's, but I have a really close NT friend, Kristen, who i've been friends with since high school. Kristen is one of my only friends from high school who I still talk to, and she and I hung out a couple times during high school and once after high school(we're in college now). Anyways, it was her birthday yesterday, and I texted her wishing her a happy birthday. She never thanked me or even responded for that matter. I was very hurt and even started crying. I emailed another really close friend, Amy, yesterday and told her what happened, and she responded saying that she still appreciates me and that my emails always make her really happy. Amy really cheered me up yesterday after what happened. Also, when it was Amy's birthday, I wished her a happy birthday just like I did with Kristen, and she responded saying "Thank you for the super special birthday wish! Today's going to be a great day thanks to you! You are amazing and so special to me, and I am so lucky to have a friend like you! I'll be thinking of you!". And then today, I forgot about what happened until I came across some pictures of Kristen's birthday party on Facebook. Not only did she never respond to me when I wished her a happy birthday, but she didn't invite me to her birthday party! I thought she was my friend! She invited all of her friends except me! Even a girl who bullied me in high school got invited! I am very hurt, and i'm crying again! What did I do to her to make her treat me this way? I've always been very nice to her(some of the people she invited aren't so nice to her)! Why can't she be nice back? Even before it was her birthday, I had seen her mom in public, and I texted her letting her know that I bumped into her mom in public, and she never responded. How can I make myself feel better? Should I tell her mom how she's making me feel and ask her mom to punish her if she doesn't apologize to me? Should I try and get together with Amy? Amy is a lot more mature than Kristen(Kristen is immature), and she and I are actually planning a joint birthday party because our birthdays are so close together. I was planning on inviting Kristen to Amy and I's joint birthday party, but after what she did, i'm not so sure. Please help me feel better in this situation! I'm really upset and hurt! Should I email Amy again and tell her how I feel? She has always been very supportive of me too!

will they know by my social security numbers.

Some weeks we will hang out almost everyday then some days she will not want to hang out at all. She says she's going to see other friends but then I see her on social media and she's home. How come she will tell me she has other friends but then doesn't hang out with them she's just home. I don't mind staying a few days at home and then go out but she won't want to do anything for more than a few days. How come she is like that? She doesn't really work that much either she only works now three hours a day and that's it. She used to more than that but now it's less.

So I'm in 8th grade and it's the end of the year so we are asking people to sign yearbooks in science class. I go over to this girl, we'll call her "grass" and she is signing someone else's yearbook and I place mine next to hers and say " hey grass will you sign mine after?" She said yes so I walked off. Then later I find her playing board games w her friends and she didn't sign my yearbook! We are friends but I kinda deep down think she doesn't like me. Does this confirm my thought? Or am I being too paranoid.

I have a best friend, Friend A, who I've been friends with since we were 4 years old, we are now both 24. Now we're adults I'm noticing she's quite needy, clingy, only really talks about herself, moans if I'm not free and can be selfish but she is and can be a good friend. We've done LOTS together and have MANY memories, bare that in mind. I have another friend, Friend B, who I've known for the last 3 years. She's much more relaxed and doesn't feel like she has to see me constantly. She's pretty cool. Friend A and Friend B don't know each other and haven't met. Friend B has asked me to go on holiday with her in October. Friend A will be so p**sed about this. She'll be jealous, she'll say "you never do anything with me" and "didn't realise you two was that close" and she'll just make me feel like a bad friend for going on a holiday with someone else. Me and Friend A have been on holiday together before but it was 5 years ago. We haven't been since because she spent most of her time with her then boyfriend. She's single now so she's constantly asking me to do stuff with her so she "isn't bored". I've asked her recently if she'd fancy a holiday she complains about money and getting time off work or just says "I'll think about it" but Friend B is straight to the point and is like "let's do this!" I want to go away with Friend B but I feel like it could hurt my long term relationship with Friend A. Any advice? Please don't judge or make harsh comments.

I just joined a new school and there are these two girls that are bestfriends. I became pretty friendly with one of them and the other one seems to get jealous that girl 1 and I are getting close. I want to be close friends with both of them. What can I do to make it so that we're a group of 3 bestfriends im a girl

I know this person....... I kinda have a crush on them, we banter back and forth online, I always thought they didn't like me and perhaps hated me but recently they've been sort of.. .. .. Well first off they've practically liked any and every post of mine about wanting a relationship (but yet ignores any post about me having a crush) they're not keen on me being close to other people. They always compliment me & recently said the words so so much when you the L word. And recently said aaaahh at something I said but I don't know if it was meant as good or bad but also used the phrase so so so beyond happy (at something I said) my friends all think this person likes me back but I'm not sure.

My best friend is completely unable to feel emotion. I mean completely. The level of emotional detachment is extremely severe; people are simply expendable things, the closest thing to joy is a momentary distraction. I wasn't aware of this until now, and it makes me feel terrible. He says he's pretty good at making it seem like he cares and is normal. I haven't been able to find a friend I enjoy hanging out with as much as I do with him for close to 4 years... but I don't even think he'd care if I died. It would be the loss of "entertainment." I don't know what to do. I thought he enjoyed himself and stuff, it's fun when we hang out but it's one sided. I don't have anybody if he's gone.. but maybe he doesn't count as anybody.

There's around 5 of us and we're all getting tired of just sitting around smoking pot in a garage. I've scoured the web for things to do but all that's turned up is typically one of three things: 1) Get hammered. 2) Boring stuff like art galleries, stargazing, and museums 3) Crazy **** that's WAY to expensive for any of our broke asses I know I sound bitter but it's from a lack of time with the boys and I'm frustrated that I can't find anything to do. We're in East County San Diego if helps. And to weed out some results, we've (over)done the following plenty of times: - Beach trips - Hookah - Casino trips - Eating out - Mini Golf / Bowling - Some other **** I can't think of off the top of my head. Any help is appreciated, I'm desperate as all hell here. Thanks for your time.

This is even for female friends. When I meet new people at first they like me, then they switch up on me. I'm never going to understand. I do self reflection and try to see what I do wrong... but it just doesn't see. I'm nice and I'm hard working and a supportive friend. So I don't get it.

no one is probably gonna read lmao but holy **** i'm so lonely ahhh. my "best friend" doesn't seem as enthusiastic whenever she's with me or texting me, i feel as if my main group of friends don't really care about me and whenever i go home i feel so isolated. at home i barely talk to text anyone outside my household and no one really bothers to chat with me anymore. am i boring? am i too uninteresting? annoying? i don't really know. i'm supposed to be studying for finals but i've been feeling really shitty about it for the past few days; sure, i do talk to people in school but whenever i go home it's the complete opposite. it's as if everyone forgets my existence until they see my *** in school or a random text message they don't respond to. maybe because i don't fit in at all? it's my first year in high school and it's already almost over. my actually close best friend i talked to previously found new friends and probably left me because i'm boring as duck compared to them, no one seems as excited talking to me; but the problem is i'm trying so god damn hard to keep up with everyone. i've tried expressing myself more or socializing but it never works. if you read through the whole thing then thank you and i hope you have a good day :) <3

I have a family now and I'm pretty much a loner I only have my husbands and kids company at home. I don't know why people don't like me I've noticed this when I started college.. I'm a very caring person and truly like helping people but why do people have to be so rude if they don't even know you that well.. why do people have to dislike others.. I just feel like I'll never have friends in my life unless I start working or do something like that.. I try to be happy for my family but it's sad I don't have anyone to talk to when I have any problems

I am a 27 year old female and I have a friend that's 59 years old and she is also a female and so my mom told me that my friend that's 59 is my elder and that I need to respect her so does that mean that I should look to her as an authority figure? And listen to what she tells me to do?

My friend has been playing the keyboard for 33 years. Nobody likes his music because it is boring. He does everything the hard way and everything has to be plain with him. He never wants to have fun. Everything is work related with him. He always makes simple things complicated. He gets taken advantage of at work because everyone knows he likes to do everything complicated and he lets people walk over him because he is overly nice. It seems like when he has a good song that people rarely like he has to rewrite it and make changes to the song to make it boring and it seems like he likes to make his life hard on purpose. It makes no sense.

So...today we had auditions for a school activity. I told my friend lets audition together. And she always seemed nervous and asked me to sing. I told her she would regret it if she didn't audition, and trying wouldn't make anything worse. When it was her turn to audition, she started trembling and crying. She didn't do really bad, it's just I think stage fright took over. For the rest of the auditions, she wouldn't stop crying, and she even pinched herself. I felt horrible. I feel if I hadn't kept on saying to audition, maybe she would've felt better. I wonder if she's mad at me.

I don't get it I'm always trying to be there for my so called "friends" but yet whenever I'm there for them they don't seem to care about me for example I had this one guy who said "Hit me up to talk more" he posted it on his Snapchat story so I'm all like ok I guess I need a texting buddy and I am pretty bored so I will budge. I texted him that same day "saying hey what's up man" he never even responded and whenever people don't respond to my texts I feel like they are being rude and fake especially if they haven't texted back in like 3 days!!! I am tired of being there for people when they don't even care to be there for me. Is this a sign that I have fake friends and I should move on from them?

1) My sister gave me a cell number via family talk, 2 approach a girl after the parents permission. 2) I called with in 2 days. 3) She was shocked. 4) Kept talking for 2-3 mnths. 5) Meeting 1st time 6) Family told us 2 meet after long talk for 2-3 months on the phone and chat and xyz. 7) When met, I saw her, I was happy. 8) She Stumbled up when she look at me, and looked happy. Like Kept Looking. 9) She told me during all that few months talk, she walk every day 10/15/17k while to and fro from work. 10) I was the same. same thinking and same talk. every thing she says i agreed! Everything I said, she said thats the thing that she is looking for. 11) After meeting first time, we started walking towards a park. 8miles down the avenue. 12) talk, saw, xyz, xyz, etc etc.. 13) sat for 2 hours in park. talk agian. family how we connecting within the family. my sister topic came in. her thing was never about family. i mean she never said anything about her family except she has two cars and her both the parents are driving to work every day. 14) we kept talking and walking from 11am till 4pm. then took dinner. 15) you offer each other the sweets old tradition in family. as togetherness 16) b4 the day end, we talked about going to movie. .10.30pm was her flight time. 18) we were 2 hours far away 4m airport. 19) I was speaking fast n all suddenly i said you will not reach on time. 20) maybe she just walked with me and said "ok!" 21) we don't talk anymore. 22) what you think?