Hello all, We got married loving each other, had a great marriage and we were just perfect, life was good and every thing was going great, i had a small illegal part in my biz ( tax stuff ), and she knew, i got arrested and sentenced for 19 months, she kept visiting me, sending letters we actually we even more romantic and in love, after the 4th month she disappeared, on the 6th months i received divorce papers and that the marriage is over , didnt hear any thing from her, no good bye no nothin, in all her letters she kept saying how she will wait etc, am out now, i looked every where for her with no sign, no profiles even her email has been deleted, address etc nothing, its like she vanished, i try to forget her but almost every night she is in my dreams, should i move on or should keep trying to find her and see what going on? Thnaks

My husband likes to go out with friends we used to go out together but now we have children so these days we often go out separately... the thing is lately i've realized that when he goes out, he tries to make it last as long as possible... like he'll push his friends to stay longer or go somewhere else to continue the night... we fight about it because I feel like he should go out but then come home at a decent hour (instead of staying out until the morning hours) to spend time with his family...am I wrong?

I am a 25 year old virgin dealing with Schizophrenia. I have to take a lot of medications one being a sleeping pill to sleep at night. I guess I am asking how when married do i go from having sex with my husband to like "oh see you in eight hours?" Is this a turn off? How do I explain it to him?

I'm 23 and I'm dating an older guy who's in his early 40s. We've been together on and off for a year now. Things were great when we first started dating. He treated me like a queen, he took me to dinners, movies, to meet his family, he met my family and friends and even treated me to a nice 2 week vacation to a resort in Mexico for my 22nd bday After we got back from the trip we decided to take the next step and get a place together. We moved into a nice apartment and I decorated it and we were so happy with how it came out. I was so in love and wanted to marry him, things were going well. Then things took a turn. He started acting like I was to young and not at the same place in life because I think he was jealous that I was in college and still had my whole 20s ahead of me. We fought a lot about things. I have depression and anxiety and compulsively shared a lot of our drama on facebook because I wanted support from friends and to vent. I broke things off because he wouldn't accept my depression and said it was a choice. He moved out of the apartment. My family didn't like him after that and some of my friends didn't either. I was 22 I couldn't afford a $1600 a month apartment on my paycheck from working part time and being a student. I got help for my depression and I graduate college next weekend. Now we can finally start a life together and he said he needs to take some time to think about it and that he loves me. Will this work? Just to be clear I'm not a gold digger. This guy makes 46k a year and lived with his parents and was saving for a house when I met him. He drives an older car, doesn't own a house. He obviously makes more money than I do at 23 but I wasn't with him to become rich, he treated me to vacations and paid the rent because he could afford to. But we weren't living a lavish rich lifestyle or anything lol.

I was talking to this married man online i send nudes we met up last night and had sex he used protection. He lives in another town but works in mine he commutes to work everyday. he's been married 18 years has three kids told me she complains about everything they constantly fight and argue they don't have sex or sleep in the same room. he wants us to continue to meet up to have sex including tonight again i have a boyfriend and have to sneak out or make excuses. is possible to have a discreet secret affair without our partners finding out about it? I believe my boyfriend has also been cheating on me as well...

Me and my hubby loves eachother a lot but its a abusive relationship.. Initially he used to abuse me now even i do the same.. today we faught again and he left to office. Blocked my no. And after office went to his friend and i was worried all night calling helpline and what not but he never bothered to come. We have 2 months old infant too.. please suggest me what step should i take

If i get a house before I get married and I m the only one paying for it and I keep records of this. Then one day we get a divorce can my ex take the house from me

We have no kids together, and we recently got married (we're in our late twenties). I love him a lot, but recently I've discovered (after snooping through his phone, I'll admit) that all the porn he watches consist of women that are either 18-19 or who are maybe in their early twenties but have braces and pigtails, etc. Basically it's the whole teen thing. I understand it might just be a "fantasy" and not something in real life, but I'm utterly repulsed. If he watched non-teen porn too (which he says he does, but there was no search history of that) I wouldn't mind, but it's obvious this is his preference. Should I leave him? I love him a lot but I'm so disgusted. I would rather die than roleplay that I'm a kid. What if we have kids one day?

I recently divorced my wife of 35 years without most family and friends knowing as I didn't want a big thing happening between everyone and also it's just no ones business. Anyway, my best friend, who is a female as been my best friend for 4 years and we've always done most stuff together when we can. It has been 1 month since my divorce and I'm ready to marry again...to my best friend. We never realized that we had fallen in love in the course of our friendship. The thing is...this doesn't really make either one of us look very good to family and friends but we want to get married and we are surprisingly ready.

I find out that a man who worked with my wife before he was a state trooper was trying to get her to have a relationship with him. He even caught her off guard and kissed her. This was just before her and I got married. She didn't initially tell me because she thought I would freak and make her leave her job. The problem is he knew she had a ring on and was engaged but he kept at it. In a civil manner I simply reached out to him online. I just wanted to call him out so to speak and ask for an explanation. He didn't even apologize. In fact, he got very disrespectful. Well, I want to tell him what I think. I just worry if he knows people in his work and would abuse his power to try and get me in trouble. Thanks

Hi Y!A community, your favorite meme is back (UV) and I've got a serious question. So life is crazy having teenage kids. I'm going to round their ages up for approaching birthdays but I have an 18, a 17, and a 13. The 18 is hyper social, the 17 is reclusively anti-social, and the 13 is in the middle. My wife is hyper business minded and has basically 3 jobs (she has a normal 9-5 job, an online job, and she's on a board of directors). That leaves me to do all the housewife chores and all of the parenting (which btw I suck at). On a given day we have maybe 30 minutes to say hi to each other; the way my wife wanted to design this family was to have the children the focus of the family so they don't feel neglected. I'm starting to think that was a mistake since two of them are narcissists and one of them is a recluse. Meanwhile I'm the one who feels neglected. I understand this is a belief problem though and not really something that's easily fixed but maybe some of you can read this and give me advice on how to sell to my wife that the teenagers don't need her attention as much as she's giving it and she should be focusing on her marriage more. I mean it isn't hell any more, I get occasional sexual favors when she feels guilty enough or when I do a really good job, but for the most part the marriage is still on the backburner and the romance/sex/fun is dead. We hardly spend time together any more as a family or couple. Any ideas?

We've been dating for four years and Everywhere we go women always stare and smile at my boyfriend like he's a God. An older woman in her 60's was like " dang you a hunk of beef cakes foreal". We ran into my friend while we were at the store and she was looking him up and down and smiling and she was like " if I had a man that look this good and treated me nice I would've married him in a heart beat, what are you waiting for crazy girl it's been four years ." My friend went crazy when she seen how handsome he was and the fact that he opened every single door for me. I think my boyfriend is handsome but when I run into my coworker it's like electricity runs through my body like never before and I fantasize about ripping his clothes off right then and there. I'm 26, my boyfriend is 35. I want my boyfriend to look at me the way my coworker does. I want my boyfriend to want me and to flirt with me like he does.. but I don't want to have to tell my boyfriend things that should come naturally. When me and my boyfriend have sex it's never spontaneously it's always planned. He's like " take off your clothes, we'rr Going to have sex ". I always thought it was more sexy when It's a random act of being hot and heavy and he took off my clothes instead of me taking off my own. It's always been this way our entire relationship he said he's never been the affectionate type either. But I do love my boyfriend and I believe in trying to make things work.

Just this last year we've had our 5th kid I am beginning to feel worn down some days I feel that I'm having a mental breakdown but then I pull out of it and do what I have to but every time my husband comes home he always calls me something that makes me feel like nothing I don't think I can handle having anymore kids at this point but I'm too afraid to tell him out of fear he will leave me he wants to have 10 kids this was something we both agreed upon or at least flirted with the idea when we first became a couple but after some of the abuse he's been giving me I don't know if I can go through with it if he would be more nice I think I could be happy again I don't really know but if anyone can help me I would really appreciate it thank you

If you're married to a woman or a woman married to a man wouldn't life be so much simpler if cheating was actually against the law because your already signing a contract to say you'll give up half of your home, possessions, belongings, etc it makes no sense that an affair would be left out. Marriage rates would go up too and this would reduce crime?

Most romantic couples do tend to get into fights with each other A LOT, while most friends who love each other platonically don't fight with each other. And also about half of romantic couples do end up breaking up or divorcing each other, while most platonic friends stay friends until the very end. Also most people tend to feel more comfortable around their platonic friends than they do around their romantic partner. So how is the romantic type of love special when the things that I stated are true?

If a married woman is friends with another married woman who is going through a divorce. Later, she finds out that her close friend who is going through a divorce is having an affair with her husband. Why does this usually happen?

Title says it. Disturbing cause some vids feature step parents and step children...doubt if it is real, prob staged and "minors" are prob young looking actors...idk, I didn t check it personally. He s also watching 20-40 vids a night. Red flags here?

My husband received an anonymous text yesterday morning accusing him of cheating on me and me finding out and having set up something to punish him. not even considering that someone might have accidentally sent it. He calls me and starts accusing my family of doing it. Just because me and them are not on good terms right now. we have not talked in nearly two years and they are not the type of people to do this why accuse them. He tried to escalate the situation by telling me that I will always defend my family, that they are high and mighty. And hung up on me. I texted him to let him know his behavior was very dishonest and instead of apologizing for his mistake he wants to blame me for defending my family. he ignored me the whole day, and came back home and is still ignoring me how do you explain this? You know you're wrong and you ignore me. What should I do. Because he can keep the silent treatment going for very long. I want to get back at him, or make him taste his own medicine.

My boyfriend hasn't seen me in 6 months although we see each other almost every day because of work. We've been together for over 5 years. He hasn't seen me because he doesn't believe us dating if we don't live together and he doesn't agree with my lifestyle choices. Today he invited me to go visit his family overseas. He said it in unkind why. Threw his card on the table and laughed as I started looking at the information because I doubt his sincerity. I want to have a good trip and I'm someone who needs reassurance since he tells me all the time how I don't know who I am, I am selfish etc.. I asked if he could tell me 'loved me' because I don't know the last time in these many months he sincerely says it. Yes, we talk but there is no emotional bond like we once had. Since I asked for reassurance, he said I can no longer come on the trip and since I ask that he tells me 'you have no love for yourself.' And that he can't be with someone who doesn't love themselves...