He proposed to me a year ago without a ring and I said yes because I love him. This Christmas he went out and bought an engagement ring with a heavy price tag and I can't justify wearing something so expensive. He told me he put a lot of effort into getting the ring and that his mom helped pick it out but I feel really sad knowing that it will put him in debt and I don't want that especially since we are going to be getting married soon. So I asked him to return it and we argue about it and he storms off and is spending Christmas with his parents. What should I do...

My engagement is only lasting 8 months, but I m not sure when is A good time to go dress shopping or when is the proper time to even look at them, I have one I love, but I have A problem ordering something so important online and $300 at that. So can anyone give me any advice on this? We also want A casual wedding so if you have any ideas im open for them!