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- Question: Why do people say I'm being unfair to my parents for sending me to a mental hospital for anorexia as a teen?
- Question: Friend advice?? (part 3)?
- Question: Should I send her a letter?
- Question: Should I go back to work after my 2 weeks vacation?
- Question: Friend advice?? (part 2)?
- Question: Friend advice?? (part 1)?
- Question: Should I invite my guidance counselor to my family's christmas celebration?
- Question: Mean girl on my basketball team?
- Question: Need ideas to switch roommate?
- Question: My best friend didn't get me a birthday gift?
- Question: I HATE this girl! 1/2?
- Question: I am a 43 year old woman and I have never had a "maternal" feeling.?
- Question: My best friend left me behind. Help? What do I do about this?
- Question: Is my friend out of line?
- Question: Good starter anime?
- Question: What does it mean when my guy friend looks away and starts tapping his foot every time I start talking?
- Question: I don't have enough friends / lonely?
- Question: How to get rid of a friend who doesn't want me to leave?
- Question: What is fake fighting???
- Question: What am I missing in life?
- Question: How to make friends?
- Question: Should I accept this or not?
- Question: Is it safe to tell people what school I go to?
- Question: Thoughts about white people?
- Question: What to do if someone's bothering you at school?
- Question: I smashed her phone because she took a picure of me without my permission. Do I really have to pay for a new one?
- Question: Why does my friend stalk my family online?
- Question: There is a kid in my school who is really ******* annoying.i mean REALLY.should i fight him yes or no.people in school want me to.?
- Question: I m wasting my youth?
- Question: What can i do this is serious !?
- Question: Is it normal for an English teacher to do this?
- Question: I just found out the guy who sat me up for felony charges text his friend after the incident, told him about it. Can I get the message?
- Question: Do you ever loathe your friends?
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| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:52 PM PST I told them that I would never forgive them, but they did it anyways. |
| Question: Friend advice?? (part 3)? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:34 PM PST please read part 1 and 2 and leave advice on here. so i told jessica who was still talking to anna since anna was only mad at me and julie, how i really did not care if she was sad and that i had nothing to apologize for since she was being a hypocrite. she would never apologize to julie after anything. well, anna blocked me on snapchat making us lose a 100+ day streak, blocked me on instagram, and went through both her spam and main account and deleted literally every pic of us. thats like more than 300 pics on her spam. so yeah she's being really petty and extra. and may i remind you that WE WERE BEST FRIENDS LIKE NOBODY SAW THIS COMING NEVER WOULD I THINK SHE WOULD BE THIS MAD AT ME. she texted jessica telling her she was trying to cUT JULIE AND I OUT OF HER LIFE. AND THIS WAS LITERALLY YESTERDAY. well anyways, I'm starting to feel like i should just be the bigger person and apologize so we can get over this. and also starting to feel bad because anna apparently was really sad to begin with probably because of other reasons and we made it worse so she couldn't open up and talk to us about it. i also feel bad cause as a friend, even if i was pissed, should i have still cared if i knew she was sad? idk but please tell me what you think and what you would do if you were me. thanks! |
| Question: Should I send her a letter? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:32 PM PST I wrote a letter to this girl who I've known since I was six, but I haven't sent it out yet. She was more or less my childhood friend. We had so many great memories together, but lately (as in the past two or three years) we began to grow apart significantly. She's no longer apart of my life, and frankly I don't even think she cares about me. I send her a couple of texts every now and then, but most of the time she doesn't respond to them. I can tell she doesn't need me in her life anymore. But I still think about her on a regular basis. I really do miss her. The main reason I want to send her the letter is to reflect on our once-great friendship and mostly just tell her that I miss her, but I'm not going to try to bring her back in my life. I'm having second thoughts about sending it out because I'm worried she'll perceive it as "creepy" or "unsettling". But the truth is, I don't care what she thinks. I have nothing to lose from sending it out. Here is the letter in case you want to read it: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1iuw10rNdfQ5sn8v301zLin5DqGs38rSM8MAEz62-L0I/edit?usp=sharing Based on what it says, should I send her the letter? |
| Question: Should I go back to work after my 2 weeks vacation? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:26 PM PST After a meeting we all had about the verbal bullying from my supervisor and coworker, the people higher up told me to think about rather or not if I want to keeps working here after my 2 weeks vacation. I had 4 job interviews coming up. Sounds like 3 really like me. After being the joke for 95 percent of their jokes, screamed at for nothing, lied about. After I start defending myself they quit but they started making rumors about me, talking trash behind my back, trying to get me fired. Trying to notice me to violence. I'm not sure if I want to come back after my vacation. |
| Question: Friend advice?? (part 2)? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:24 PM PST please read part 1 and 3 and leave your advice on part 3, thnks ok so like this past week, julie has just been strange, she picked another fight in the group chat and said my opinion was dumb which made me mad because opinions can't be right or wrong and should be respected. the day after she left the chat and on her spam she was ranting about how sad she was. i asked her what was wrong and she ignored me. at school we asked again and she ignored us we julie and i continued acting liike nothing was wrong. later that day while she was sitting away from us and looking salty, we were like, "omg she's so salty lol" and whatever. i took a picture of her to make a meme with (why not?) she like physically attacked julie twice that day. in the chat, julie and i were talking about how we didn't care if she was sad or not and how she would get over it and should stop being immature. someone in the chat must have showed her cause she snap chatted me asking to say what i said in the chat, to her. so i was like hell yeah and i did. she came back to the chat to say a rant and then left. it was talking about how she was mad at us because after we saw that she was sad and didn't care,k we continued to "taunt her" later that day. okAY WELL THIS PISSED ME OFF BECAUSE TO JULIE, HER AND OUR OTHER FRIEND WHO WE WOULDNT CALL APART OF THE SQUAD, LIKE ALWAYS HARASS JULIE AND JULIE HAS MADE IT CLEAR SHE DOESNTR LIKE IT AND THEY STILL DO IT. AND THEN AFTER THE TAUNT HER ABT BEING SALTY FOR NO REASON. |
| Question: Friend advice?? (part 1)? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:14 PM PST ok so, hang in cause this is gonna be long but just tell me what you think and what you would do if you were me. (names are fake) so my friend anna and i have been like super close for a few years now. before middle school, anna was friends with like this whole other squad and ever since like the first year of middle, they've been like super popular. anna has grown away from them and we like created a squad with me her, jessica, maya, and julie. and we are all really close but out of the friend group, we both express very clearly that we're each others like best friends so nobody really saw this coming and it was pretty shocking. k so theres your backstory, moving on... so like last week i guess there was an argument in our group chat which went much further than the other few disagreements we had after julie said something pretty mean about someone. anna took it up to her to tell her popular friend squad knowing they were going to tell everyone else. and so alas, like everyone who heard about what happened, hated julie. and i was pretty mad at this so i expressed my anger to anna. i was never siding with what julie said because yes it was mean although she didn't mean it, but i thought it could've been handled in a better way and that anna was just being overdramatic and starting up unnecessary drama. but we all kinda moved past it later that night and we were like all good again. please read part 2 and give me your advice on there, thanks! |
| Question: Should I invite my guidance counselor to my family's christmas celebration? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:14 PM PST My school guidance counselor and I have a very good relationship. To give you an idea, I go to talk to her about twice a week (just to have casual talk with her). In fact, we are so close that I refer to her as my "school mom" and she is always looking out for me. She has talked to my parents on many different occasions and she obviously comfortable around them. My family is having an upcoming holiday celebration and I considered inviting her and her family to the party. I hesitate, however, because I fear that it may put her in an awkward position or be inappropriate. Would it be weird for me to invite her? I am a girl |
| Question: Mean girl on my basketball team? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:45 PM PST There's this one girl on my basketball team... she's really good, I'm not so good, but I'm trying my best. Every time I touch the ball, she shouts, "Come on!" Or "dude, come on!" Or "Play better!" Or she just shouts "Sarah, STOP making mistakes!". Before I even make a mistake, she'll yell at me. It stresses me out because I can't concentrate on the game with her yelling at me. It also hurts my feelings and makes not want to go in the game anymore. I wouldn't mind her telling me something if I wasn't hustling or I wasn't covering someone, but she just yells at me unnecessarily EVERY single time I do anything. What should I do? It's really getting me down. |
| Question: Need ideas to switch roommate? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:38 PM PST so this is a 3 room apartment and we have one person leaving this semester. I asked this guy i barley know to live with us for next semester and everything is set and done. but one of my best friend back home is coming to my school and wants to be my roommate, how do I ask nicely if he can switch with my friend from back home and live with someone else lol |
| Question: My best friend didn't get me a birthday gift? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:38 PM PST I know this sounds like such a stupid thing to be upset about but I'm in a really sensitive place right now and I'm honestly so sad. I consider her my best friend my birthday was a week ago and she didn't even say happy birthday. On her birthday I surprised her with a game sje really wanted and she was so happy it made me really happy and I felt like we became closer. She didn't acknowledged my birthday at all other than a text that said "happy birth" I don't even want a gift I just wanted her to sort of care. I don't know what to do I feel like such an idiot because now I'm thinking maybe she doesn't think we're as close as I do but we text everyday and we hangout a lot. She gave my other friend a birthday gift about a year ago on her birthday. I'm just so confused what do I do? |
| Question: I HATE this girl! 1/2? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:18 PM PST So there is this girl who goes to my school and is in my friend group. I dislike this girl very very much. Why? well here are my reasons.1st: I hate her laugh ( I know dumb reason but yeah) 2nd: we used to know each other in 5th grade but then she went to a different school for middle school now she goes to my school because they didn't have a smart enough class for her in math, smh, tbh i didn't like her in 5th grade. But now she goes to my school and i was like, "oh cool it's fhshsfk from 5th grade." but not cool. When she came to my school she only knew one other person besides me in our group and she was friends with this other girl. Well on the first day she didn't even try to make new friends she just went straight to our group, i heard someone tried being friends with her but she didn't want to be friends with that person. Nobody i my group liked the fact that she just came in. 3rd: She tries to be someone she is not, honestly she is such a goody two shoes, and my group is like the opposite of that, we cuss a lot sometimes and listen to bad music. I know for a fact this girl would never cuss and listen to this kind of music, but since she's in the group she starts trying to cuss and tries to go along with the music (dance/sing) but she literally sounds like a dying cow. part 2 is the next question because i didn't have space lol. |
| Question: I am a 43 year old woman and I have never had a "maternal" feeling.? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:55 PM PST I have never thought to myself"I want a baby." I never got involved in conversations with my girl friends about getting married and having kids at the same time so they would be best friends too. Has anyone else had these non-maternal-feelings? I can't be the only one with that missing from my brain. |
| Question: My best friend left me behind. Help? What do I do about this? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:42 PM PST Me and my best friend have been friends for almost ten years now. I am eighteen years old and she is nineteen. For the sake of identity I won't say either or our names but here is the story. She moved into my town when we were really young and we because friends and have been friends since. Almost one year ago she decided to move out of the country and slowly but surely we have grown apart. Before she even moved out of the country, I moved out of the state so now it has been about 2 years since we have seen each other. We are so different now. It's like she glowed up and I grew up. I got a lot wiser but she got a lot hotter Lol. I know thats crazy to hear but we used to look exactly alike so it's worth saying. She has new friends now and so do I but I can tell that we are not close anymore. We are both in different colleges and I know that she has been wanting me to move from my country to stay with her but I just don't know (after all of these years apart) that we would even be able to live together or if I want to leave what I have behind just to keep out friendship alive. Any advice? |
| Question: Is my friend out of line? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:37 PM PST My best friend got married a few months ago and I was one of 2 maids of honors. I could tell she was upset about something, and we recently talked about how she is upset that I wasn't "excited" about her wedding. She feels I didn't ask her enough about it, or bring it up enough and act like I was interested/excited. I was very hurt by this and still am. I was there when she went to find her dress, for her engagement party, bridal shower, bridemaids dress shopping, bachelorette party. I gave her gifts before all this. I wrote a speech. I put a lot of time and effort and money (which I did happily) into her wedding. I am balancing a full time job and grad school. Do you think she is out of line for saying this? Or should I have been asking her more about the wedding to seem more "interested?" |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:08 PM PST My friend and I have a deal for each other. We re best friends but we come from completely different planets. She likes makeup and romcoms and she s on the cheerleading squad. Adversely, I am a weeb on the robotics team. Oh God, I m making it sound like a shitty teenager movie. Blah, blah, onwards. |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:05 PM PST He loves to talk about himself. He almost never asks about me or how I'm doing, or bringing the conversation towards me at all. Ive made him aware of this and he claims that he is trying to get better about it and means no harm by it. Another thing, when I start talking, he starts looking away and his leg starts thumping on the floor (like a nervous habit). I recently made him aware of this too and he denied it. I am a pretty good conversationalist, so I know I'm not boring. Why is he doing this? Is it that he just likes to talk about himself and doesn't care about me? |
| Question: I don't have enough friends / lonely? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:03 PM PST I'm a very social person.I make strong relationships with people easily and my personality has been said to be fun and nice to be around.All in all I'm very bubbly and friendly and I am not the kind of person that likes to be alone because I enjoy going out and socializing.I've quite a large friend circle all my life and never had to worry about being left out . But about a year ago one of my friends from my circle got a closer friendship with me than everyone else and the closer we got, the more my other friends seemed to drift away.This girl is really nice and we get along well but I've come to hate her,Just because now she's one of my only proper friends and I've come to find her so annoying because she's not got any other friends so she's very clingy with me and she hates the people I used to be friends with and calls them hoes .I want to get better with my old friends again/ meet new people but she seems to always stand in my way because I know if I hang out with someone different in the break or something she'll be alone . so it's like a dead end and I can't meet any new people through her making me quite anti social.This whole dilemma has made me go out less and feel lonely and like I'm wasting my teenage years alone and I worry about things I shouldn't be worrying about like if I'm gonna be alone ok my birthday :( I wish I hadn't gotten so close to her because no I'm so lonely and my personally isn't showing through ... what should I do ?? |
| Question: How to get rid of a friend who doesn't want me to leave? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 02:57 PM PST Well, My friend and I have been really good friends the past 3 years or so. About 3 months ago hes starts dating a girl and doesn't tell anyone about it, even me, his now ex-best friend.. He lies to me on a daily basis about her but I easily find these things out through his girlfriend's facebook. I can no longer remain friends with him as it stresses me out about everything he says because I don't know what is the truth and what isnt. I have already confronted him about it and he says sorry but still continues to lie. I have tried to end the friendship but he threatens suicide.. I really don't know what to do. I can't stay in this toxic friendship any longer but he won't let me go.. Please I just need advice. Thanks! |
| Question: What is fake fighting??? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 02:50 PM PST What is fake fighting??? |
| Question: What am I missing in life? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 02:50 PM PST So, everybody says that love is all you need. Well my mom and stepdad make fun of me jokingly but it still really hurts for some reason and whenever I confess my feelings to them, they just laugh at me like I am a drama queen or they just don t care. But if it s a serious matter, they care. They don t realize that lately I have been feeling empty inside and my friends are the only things that make me happy nowadays. I have tried to tell them but it only makes it worse for me. They hug me a bit but then they forget about the entire conversation and keep on joking with me. I feel like I m missing something of life. The only way to feel full again is by telling myself that life will go on and soon I ll be happy. But I m afraid that I won t ever be happy. |
| Question: How to make friends? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:58 PM PST I'm 15 and I only have one true friend. He is a great friend but I rely way too much on him. He has friends of his own but he doesn't seem willing to "share" them or whatever and recently he's been kinda ditching me so he's becoming unreliable. Iv tried contacting "old" or acquaintances (people who spoke to me willingly basically), but that actually ended up pushing them further away. This has been putting me down recently and I had a similar problem last year (but I had literally not one friend), I was in a really tough spot. luckily I'm not getting bullied or whatever but I am a little bit of an outcast, I don't like sport, so that limits me on making any guy friends. If there is a website or whatever.. or any tips... anything. That would help. I'm from England if that helps |
| Question: Should I accept this or not? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:54 PM PST So my male friend is pretty close, and wanted to get me a Christmas gift, asking what I liked. I told him not to, and I wasn't gonna tell him, but he said he really wanted to get me something, he just enjoys doing Christmas, and I didn't say anything back. Week later, he asks if he could bring a gift to me, because he wouldn't be able to on Christmas, and I told him he couldn't. Saying I didn't want it dropped off, or wanted it at all. He said he really wanted to give it to me, and spent some time trying to figure something out, but that if I really was against getting the gift he would just get rid of it. I ignored him and haven't responded yet, what should I do? Note: He buys gifts for lots of people, and said to me, that he doesn't want anything in return, simply just to spread some holiday cheer. |
| Question: Is it safe to tell people what school I go to? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:48 PM PST I have some online friends and some of them want to know what school I go to. When I ask they just say they're curious, they also live near me, in the same city. I'm 15 and they're grown.. why would they want to know? I won't tell anybody.. I'm just curious what they could do if they knew |
| Question: Thoughts about white people? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:28 PM PST |
| Question: What to do if someone's bothering you at school? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:27 PM PST These two boys always bother me at school. They always annoy me and sometimes tease me. It's getting really annoying I told them to stop but they won't. How do I stop them from bothering me? I never did anything to them, why do they keep on bothering me when I asked them to leave me alone and stop. Any advice please? |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:10 PM PST A few days ago at my friend's house, we were both sat on our phones minding our own business. I'm always really paranoid because she LOVES to take pictures of her friends without them knowing, and refuse to delete them. She took a picture of me and I told her to delete it. She refused. I was about to rage but kept it together. Suddenly she takes another picture and I shout at her to delete it and that I hate getting pictures taken, for the like 17382992 time or so. I walk over to her, grab her phone, and smash it into the wall. Her screen is left in bits and pieces. I am really insecure about how I look and she knows that! She tells me that I have to pay for a new one. Do I really have to pay for a new phone? I very much feel like she deserved it. |
| Question: Why does my friend stalk my family online? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:54 PM PST It really pisses me off. When I first met him at school we were getting along. After a few days, he found my mom's FaceBook and kept on showing me her photos. He also shows me other friend some photos of my mom. (Disgusting, isn't it?). Whenever mom changes her profile picture, he gets to know. He then found my dad on FaceBook. The most annoying part is that somehow with an app called TextNow, he found both my parent's numbers! Now that he has the green light to contacting them, he threatens to tell my parents if I do any bad thing. Doesn't that lowlife has anything better to do? Why does he do this? He must live a sad life at home. The stalker friend also found my other friend's parents and their numbers. Thanks for the answers. |
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| Question: I m wasting my youth? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:27 PM PST I m 15 years old. I have a decent sized group of friends but they re not very ideal. The friends that go to my school either can t hang out with me or don t want to. I really have only one friend outside of school who I spend time with. But it annoys me that I have to rely on my parents for everything. They have to drive me everywhere and always know what I m doing. I know comparing my life to tv is bullshit but I can t help but be jealous of kids in movies who have large groups of great friends and are always having fun together and partying and can be independent of their parents. I know that movies don t usually line up with reality but that s what I want to be doing. Does anyone else feel this way? |
| Question: What can i do this is serious !? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:23 PM PST My friends pants are always always falling and we always see his butt crack whatever the position he is sitting in . Me and my friends told him that many times but he doesnt listen . I am sure he is str8 and i dont think he is gay and trying to attract someone espesially me because he comes in front of me many times and bend to take something from the ground and he makes sure that he's butt is facing me. I repeat he is str8 but why is he behaving like this ? And how can i convince him to not show his butt like that again |
| Question: Is it normal for an English teacher to do this? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 11:48 AM PST Is it normal or appropriate for an English teacher to give a student an assignment on homosexuality, and give them biased sources that influence the kid's view opposed to letting them form their own opinions and choose their own sources? |
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| Question: Do you ever loathe your friends? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 11:34 AM PST My best friend and I attend different colleges and most of the time we text, which seems to be on a monthly basis, we bicker. Ever since she came out of the closet, she's been so distant and constantly neglects me for her gf, who happens to be a mutual friend. They cancel plans to hang out and at this point, I'm just so fed up with them. The embarrassing thing on my part is, I'm afraid to be without a best friend (as ridiculous as that sounds) even though I feel like we haven't been acting like best friends for years. What should I do? |
| Question: My friends all got better grades than me and I feel so bad...any advice??:(? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 10:34 AM PST My first semester of college just ended. I went to every single one of my classes and I worked really hard on everything I did. Final grade are coming out and one of my friends got 3 A's and 1 A-'s. The other friend got 2 A's and 2 A-'s. So far I have 3 A-'s and i'm pretty sure the last grade i'll get will be a B because that professor was a really hard grader. I'm pretty sure no one got an A in his class and everybody honestly hated him for that including me. I'm upset that I got all A-'s so far. That's so depressing to me. It's like I almost made it to an A but I didn't. My GPA is going to be lower than there's and this is so upsetting to me. My one friend literally got an A in her class when the only grade she had been given in that class was a B for a paper she wrote. How does someone get an A overall when there only grade was a B??? I'm on the verge of crying because I feel like a failure. I tried so hard. It's worse because both of them also had jobs and they managed to get all A's and I only did school. I really feel inferior and terrible about myself. Any advice on how I can get over this. Christmas is in 2 days and I feel awful. Every time I ever hang out with them, I'll feel like failure because they both are better than me. What do I do?????? |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 10:26 AM PST Boys in my school are constantly bullying me everyday... I don't want to tell my parents . The boys are constantly bullying me . I have. Doubts about telling the teacher as the teachers would lose respect for me . I also don't know what to say to the teachers and I need urgent help . I have told the teachers before but the boys still carry on its been three years and I'm really upset . I don't know what to do . I cant retaliate so plz don't give that answer and also in other questions people have answered that the boys like you but in my case This isn't the case . I'm a girl btw and I'm in year 9 |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 10:23 AM PST I have a friend who is soooo clingy, she follows me everywhere. I tried ignoring her but she just doesn't stop ✋. I then found her soo annoying I want her to stop following me. She knows I am scared of the head teacher so everytime I for do what she says she threatens to tell the teacher. If I tell her to to away she will tell the head teacher. I don't know what to do to get her to leave me alone . She doesn't just threaten because when I actually don't do it she snitches to the head teacher . I've been in sooo much trouble because of her before and I dint want to be in trouble again. I want her to stop being so clingy and stop threatening me all the time. Because If I do or say something that she doesn't ike she snitches to the head teacher m In my past questions people are saying I'm just talking nonsense but I'm not and believe me she snitches of EVERY AND I MEAN EVERY little thing how shall I get her to leave me the f*** alone Only mature answers if its a mean comment or anything keep it to ur self plz xx |
| Question: How do I deal with a really fake friend? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 09:27 AM PST Well I m a 15yo girl. Ok, I ve struggled with drugs and mental health and I m doing pretty good as if now, but my friend is kinda rude? Well the thing is she always complains about depression and how she ABSOLUTELY needs me to come over and bring her comfort food or take her to a movie then when I see her she s totally fine like full makeup and hair she s just peachy. Then she had the nerve to ask me to go get her drugs, the same stuff I m trying soo hard to stay away from and when I refused she got super pissed and ugh. Also she never takes pictures with me. She will be wearing my clothes and at my house and ask my to take pictures of her and our other friends or whatever but will NEVER take a single photo with me. I can t just dump her what do I do |
| Question: I need help getting rid of my friend who doesn't want to get rid of me...? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 09:20 AM PST Well, My friend and I have been really good friends the past 3 years or so. About 3 months ago hes starts dating a girl and doesn't tell anyone about it, even me, his now ex-best friend.. He lies to me on a daily basis about her but I easily find these things out through his girlfriend's facebook. I can no longer remain friends with him as it stresses me out about everything he says. I have already confronted him about it and he says sorry but still continues to lie. I have tried to end the friendship but he threatens suicide.. I really don't know what to do. I can't stay in this toxic friendship any longer but he won't let me go.. Please I just need closure. |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 08:08 AM PST And those fights happen 1or 2 times a month..is she really my best friend? |
| Question: Wtf, did I do something wrong in this situation? I am REALLY annoyed? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:46 AM PST So I have this issue where I would ask a question in my friend's group chat, and nobody would respond. So last week, I asked them what are they doing for NYE. Only one said "idk yet". And then two days ago, a meetup I'm a part of sent me an email with a discount for a really great party in NYC. I told them about it in the group chat, and one friend asked "oh are you going?" and I said "idk, I was going to ask if you guys wanted to go". NO response, until another friend posted that she would definitely be down to go, but since her boyfriend's birthday is next week he might have a NYE party at his apartment at our old college. All of us graduated in May and we're 22, and I've moved on from college. But the two other friends said they were down for that. I told them I didn't feel like partying back in college. Fast forward to today, my company sent us an email and said they were giving out free tickets for a party in NYC. I snatched them fast and also got tickets for two other friends (not from the group chat). The tickets were out within an hour. Well, now in the group chat the girl who said her bf was having a party said that the party was cancelled. They asked me if I "knew of any parties" and I told them I'm sorry but my company gave out free tickets to a party and I'm headed there. Now they're mad at ME for not telling them. I told them that when I asked them to go out previously, they were silent, so how should I expect a response to my second request? Did I do anything wrong here? In addition, stuff like this ALWAYS happens with this friend group |
| Question: How to get over being ugly? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:46 AM PST I have suffered from this natural, incurable disease of intractable ugliness for a decade now. I'm twenty three years old and have never had a boyfriend, first date, first kiss, had somebody ask me out..nothing. Nobody's ever had a crush on me. Normally I'm able to get past this and it doesn't effect my everyday rutine since what the hell, it's not like I'm gonna apply at some modelling agency or an air hostess or anything. But today I was reminded of just how much the world can't stand to look at ugly girls and how pretty girls are the only people worth something in life. I went for a haircut with two of my other friends. I was up first and the guy cutting my hair was so uptight with me asking just how I would like my hair cut and then getting on with his job with no other words except random rude comments on the state of my hair. He was rough with handling it too, pulling it this was that way, not looking at my wincing facial expressions at all. Took less than 10 minutes I think. But when my friend came up he was all smiles, complimenting her hair and making conversation and being overall friendly. The guy who cut the third friends hair also spent over 45 minutes and gave her a free styling as well. At the end they asked or our names and phone numbers but only wanted their number, completely ignored me standing there. I was so bummed out by this because I know had I been a guy, my looks wouldn't even be an issue..people would still treat you like a regular human being. |
| Question: I used to be happy, warm, and have a lot of friends. Now I'm not. What's happening? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:38 AM PST So I used to be really happy, chatty, and like posing for pictures. And I had a lot of friends and I liked to text them online personally. Untill I was in 8th grade, I changed A LOT. I got a horrible class full of mean dramatic popular girls (and boys). And I got mad. And got really bitter and I had no friends and the strange thing is I SLEPT A LOT. Like I'm sleepy all the time. I thought it will be over soon but I'm still bitter and lonely (Im not sleepy anymore). Now Im in the 10th grade and the only messages I get is group messages. i feel like i'm trapped in that bitter version of me. What should I do? I don't even like and trust people that much now. |
| Question: Fun things to do for new years eve? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:33 AM PST im 23 and i need something new to do for new years eve.....i feel like in to old for house parties and if i have all my friends like at my house it wont work either causer they hate eachother i need something fun to do with a friend that isnt like going to bars to drink or going to clubs to dance......i need something fun that does involve drinking but not centered around going downtown.......please help me i dont want to have another boring new years |
| Question: Do you know David Anderson? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:08 AM PST is he nice? |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:56 AM PST She has her classmates & they usually meet off & on.I don't like when she meets with the male friends & i feel uncomfortable.Just because of her I've stopped meeting my female friends.I ask her to stop from the things I'm not doing. Today, she had a party & she told me she don't want to go.Now, she suddenly told me she is in cafe with her 2 female friends & now they're forcing her to go to the party despite she doesn't want that & Ik that's bullshit like if you don't want to go no one can take you forcefully.She's I guess just trying to put this thing on her. I just keep feeling so uncomfortable behind her.I told her many times I don't like it but Idk what to do. I'm not being possessive it's something different. REGARDS. |
| Question: I think I treated my friend badly? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:41 AM PST So I go to a private highschool and I have five supposed 'friends' that I sit with three of them are not very nice and I dont think they treat me as a friend would and one of them ,lets call her sally, I told her that I thought she was being a bit selfish and wasn't treating me right and she started crying and said I was being the selfish one but she says I'm her bestie. The other two behave similarly. Anyway the other, other two are very nice and polite especially one of them (lets say her name was alice) she always helps me and whenever I need someone she is there but I have been ignoring her and hanging out more with my other not so nice friends because I thought they were 'cooler'. What do I do? Have i messed up a lot or a bit? How do i apologise to my nice friend and get rid of the not so nice ones? I'm really upset about what i have done :( |
| Question: Why don t I feel like I fit in ? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:13 AM PST I m a freshman in high school and all I ever want to do is fit it. Many of my peers would describe me as popular and although I can see how they would view me as that, I don t mentally feel that way. Yeah, I talk to quite a few of people and I tend to hang out with people who are pretty popular, I never feel like I truly fit in. I always feel like I have to impress them in some way to be the same. I hang out with a group and within that group, certain girls hang out with each other more because they re best friends. And to be completely honest, I get sad when I think of how many people I can really be a hundred percent myself with. Now, I have my own best friend and she s amazing, but we just don t have the same interest anymore. I just want a best friend who will be down to grab some food anytime of day or someone who will go to events with. I just don t feel like I have a best friend anymore and certainly this is not her fault. I just wish I have a best friend who I can do these things with. |
| Question: Am I doing something wrong? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:12 AM PST There was this girl going through so much bullying and I was there for her, with her when she needed to talk and was her witness for the bullying issue. We talked constantly and i was literally her shoulder to cry on. She however, has two other friends in two different schools who she hangs out with but who haven't helped her much with the bullying issue. Yet now it's the holidays and she prefers to spend time with them, go out with them and I offered her about us meeting up she said yes but we should and so should the other two girls( she clearly didn't want to go just alone). Now she's meeting up with them and not with me? Also, home come I always help people when they need help but then they choose other people over me? And prefer to meet up with other people ?? |
| Question: Why is my guy friend telling me I should disown and disrespect m own mother? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:51 AM PST I have a guy friend that keeps insulting my mother. He says I should disown her and that shess a controlling ***** etc. She can be controlling at times but she is helping me pay my student loans and lets me live at her house rent free. I love her. Shes my mom! Why is my guy friend constantly telling my I should just ditch her and forget her and do what I like. I feel lik ewhile I live in her home I should respect her rules. but he keeps saying his stuff and its really weird. I think I'm gonna stop talking to him. he also keeps calling me naïve. |
| Question: I don't think I can afford to go to my best friend's wedding, what do I do? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:12 AM PST My bestfriend is getting married in June of 2018 and asked me to be her maid of honor. However, I've recently moved to France and have realized that I will need to go back to the US in August of 2018 to renew my visa. This would require two roundtrip tickets from France to the US over one summer. 1. I'm worried that I won't be able to afford going back twice within 3 months. 2. Even if I could technically afford it, I would be shelling out $1500 and taking at least a week of vacation time. (By technically I mean I would probably be left with very little emergency savings) She's my bestfriend and I know it's important to her that I be there, at the sametime now that I'm living abroad it makes things complicated. Am I an awful friend if I don't go? At what point should I let her know I may not be able to be there? |
| Question: What is fake fighting?? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 02:31 AM PST What is fake fighting??? |
| Posted: 23 Dec 2016 02:12 AM PST I have an.. Acquaintance that doesn't leave me alone, he says he 'loves' me and is really annoying... I can't get him to go away and its really scary, he keeps making new social media accounts every time I block him. While at school he is really mean to me, and makes inappropriate comments, and even occasionally hits me and pushes me, one of these times I ended up spraining my knee because of his forced abuse, and touching. I have tried to get help about this but noone seems to care. What makes it more complicated is that he is my friend's ex boyfriend, which he broke up with her and started following me... It makes me feel violated and less in controll of myself. I'm only 14. |
| Question: I need a good online friend? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:44 AM PST I'm just im a bad place with my depression and anxiety and all of the things going on in my life. I need an online friend who i can skype when i have a nightmare or i'm sad but i don't know where to find any. I just don't have friends and having one would be nice. Any suggestions ? |
| Question: My friend got me a better gift than i got her? Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:11 AM PST We're 17 years old. she has a job so she obviously has money to spend, where as im looking for a job and my parents decided to cut me off until i get a job, so i literally had to beg for like 40 bucks to get her a gift, while she spent a little more and i feel embarrassed and kept apologizing for her shitty gift... :((( theres not really a question to this, im more just embarrassed and need to vent haha |
| Question: Por qué las mujeres hacen eso? Posted: 22 Dec 2016 11:23 PM PST Tengo una amiga con la que me llevo mucho. Sin embargo, me llamó la atención que un día que salimos ella y yo se quejó de una ampolla que le lastimaba el pie, por lo que fuimos al Oxxo a comprar unos curitas. Después de salir del establecimiento, la chava no quiso ponerse el artículo en cuestión porque deseaba que yo lo hiciera y tuve que acceder. ¿Por qué las mujeres hacen eso? Esta pregunta fue escrita con la intención de pasar el rato. Agradezco a quienes se hayan tomado el tiempo de leer y responder. El mejor comentario lo calificaré con cinco estrellas :) |
| Question: I don't want any friends is there anything wrong with that? Posted: 22 Dec 2016 11:00 PM PST To be honest guys I don't want any friends I'm good being alone forever with no friends I don't want friends and I don't need friends. Friends are just temporary. I want to be alone forever in plus I have nothing in common with kids my age I'm 18 but I absolutely have nothing in common with kids my age. But I would rather be a loner then to hang around with people I have nothing in common with. Just because I'm 18 does not mean I have something in common with other teens. I don't want or need any friends I'm good all by myself you don't need friends there's no such thing only associates. |
| Question: ��Would you be upset? Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:55 PM PST I spent time with my friend, and have a wonderful evening. I was sad when it was over. When I spend time with my friends I'm happy, but I go home and I feel lonely and depressed. I wrote about how I felt on Facebook that night, but she saw the post and now she's angry with. I understand why she is upset, but I don't know how to make this right. I don't know what to do :( |
| Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:47 PM PST Before the age of 22 when my face was clear of acne, I had at least 10 friends who talked or hanged out with at least 1 time a month. I also had at least 5-10 of acquaintances or minor friends who I catched up with at least once ever 6 months. 3-4 of them were friends who I talked to at least 1 time a week. I even had a girl that said she would lose her virginity to me if I dated her. At the age of 22 for 2 years, I suffered from severe acne on my neck, back, face and the back of my neck. I quit my job. I wanted to contemplate suicide and cried often. I woke up at 4pm and slept at 3am and played computer games and hardly went outside. I only went outside to run outside for 1 hour at night or that visit to the laundry, doctor or store during the day. I stopped picking up phone calls and the number of friends started to dwindle quickly to point where the only people I had contact with was my family, doctor and a counselor. I lost all my friends. Today at the age of 30, I reached out to the 2 friends who I knew before the age of 22 but they stopped texting me within 1 month. I even met at least 3 of them at 28-29 but it was just to say Hello and talk a little. No contact with anybody of them. Currently I have 6 friends who I talk at least 1 time a month and starting to go alot often with at least 15 people other people who catch up with at least 1 time every 2-3 months Im starting to go out at least 1 time every 2 weeks and plan to go out of my way to meet more people. What do you think of this situation? Opinions? |
| Question: Is my "best friend " really my best friend? Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:20 PM PST Ever since we transferred to different high schools it feels like she ignores me we dont talk anymore she didnt even wish me a happy birthday what should i do |
| Question: Does Donald know where my friend Armando lives? Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:13 PM PST Cause he's a nice guy and he shouldn't have to leave. |
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