Family: Question: I can't talk/be the same whenever I am around my brothers.?

Question: I can't talk/be the same whenever I am around my brothers.?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 02:10 PM PST

I work with them at my family business so I see them all the time. And there's stuff I can't/dislike dealing with because of how they are. I am the quietest(mostly only around them)/youngest one of them too. It's definitely taking a toll, and I definitely can tell its putting me in a place over time that's not looking for a good future. Should I seek help, or not really wanting to pay a ton of money for something so ridiculously sounding. I do mention to my friends sometimes about why I don't get along etc.

Question: My cousin likes holding grudges and bringing me into her feud with her mother. How do I politely respond that I don't want to get involved?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 02:07 PM PST

The mother, my aunt, has only brought it up once but the daughter likes to give jabs against her mother (my aunt). I am publically neutral and nice to both but lean on the aunt's side.

Question: My parents have a rule that their enemies must be my enemies. Is this fair?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 02:05 PM PST

Question: How do I get my father interested in getting me a new car?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 02:05 PM PST

Question: Shall I act like I ve heard nothing?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 01:57 PM PST

I found out recently that my father is cheating on my mother. I m conflicted on whether or not to tell her. I m selfishly worried about what will happen to me if they got a divorce

Question: Can a 17 y/o in ireland leave home without parents permission?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 01:47 PM PST

Can I at 17 y/o in ireland leave home and either move into my boyfriends house or into an apartment that will be in my boyfriends name (aka he will be the one paying it) Can the police make me go home If i am safe and 17? I want to leave home due to emotional abuse and my parents are toxic. I used to be physically abused until my counsiler told my parents I'd basically be taken away if they didn't stop. I can't go to a counciler as I stopped seeing her three years ago and my parents won't let me go to another. I just want to leave as fast as possible and with no drama or very little drama. I will be 17 in 5 months, please link any sources you used x thank you

Question: How do I get my Mom not to wreck Christmas like she did Thanksgiving?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 01:40 PM PST

On Thanksgiving she got in an all out fight with my father. She threw the first punch and he grabbed her by the arm and she called 911 saying he was choking her and trying to kill her. The cops were used to her lies and arrested her for false police report. She has something wrong but has refused help. When she gets mad at someone she will tell horrible lies about them for revenge. She once tried to get me to think my Dad had molested me (never happened). She also broke up a couple's marriage by saying the wife was having an affair and cutting out a picture and pasting it on line to make it look like the wife was with another man (she claims to have done this and don't know whether to fully believe her or not). She also tried to get her sister to think her sister's husband was cheating but her sister knew not to believe her. This was because of a bad real estate deal with her sister's in-laws. So how do I get this woman not to wreck Christmas? Last Christmas was an arguing fest with lies about her sister. Thanksgiving was hell as described. My Dad won't leave for some reason and takes the abuse and takes her false accusations that he hits her and cheats on her. I wanted to stage like an intervention but am too young to (only 15). My mother's family hasn't spoken to her since last Christmas. Therefore I am unable to see them accept via Facebook. One last thing is my sister's teacher even called CPS on her so my mother pulled us all out of the school. That was two years ago. Since there is no physical abuse nothing changed.

Question: Whenever my 49 yr old dad comes home from work he watches anime in his bedroom and refuses to cook dinner my mom is pissed what should I do?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 01:03 PM PST

Question: My mother doesn't want me to talk to my sister because my sister is mad at my mother. Should I follow my Mom's wishes and boycott my sister?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 01:02 PM PST

My sister was a slacker in high school. She has gotten much better and works harder. However she is cold to our Mom ever since our mother laid the rules out that she had to have a job before she could come visit us on holidays (tough love). My Mom's family thinks my Mom is too hard on my sister. My Mom says she loves my sister but hates what she has become in life. I find my sister to be fine now accept she is cold to our Mom. In high school I agree she was a slacker. Our parents are divorced so our Dad is the enabling type. So do I disown my sister until she and my mother reconcile like my mother wants me to do or stay out of it like my father says. I tolerate my Dad but my Mom is the one I love. Our Dad is unmotivated and lazy just like my sister was. My Mom and I are best friends, I am not friends with my Dad. So do I follow my mother's wishes or is her family right she is too hard on my sister? I am 21 and female and my sister is 23 and female. I also have an older half-brother but he is my Dad's son only so I have no feelings for him.

Question: Will it bother them?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 12:42 PM PST

My parents barely tolerate one another, for Christmas this year, my father is going to his parents' house and my mother to her own, leaving me alone in our apartment. I don't want to spend the holidays alone; shall I ask them if I can join either of them or will it miss the situation up even more?

Question: My mom married some scum piece of shite. A lot of family members despise him should my mother have listened to what her family wanted?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 12:34 PM PST

Question: Why wouldnt my mom throw out my weed and bowl?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 12:08 PM PST

my mom found my **** and took it from me a while ago and i thought she threw it out but i was just looking for christmas gifts and found it lol wtf why wouldnt she throw it out

Question: My grandpa makes me feel really uncomfortable or am I just being paranoid?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 12:05 PM PST

I'm 16 and my grandpa just came into my life when I was about 14. The most we ever do together is go out to lunch and stuff like that. The past couple of months he has been making me feel really uncomfortable by being to touchy. Whenever he hugs me he'll let his hand sit there on the outside of my ribs and do this thing where it feels like he's attempting to tickle me or something and then start tapping the outside of my bra wire. So I pretty sure he feels it my bra but doesn't stop even though I try to give him hints. When he hugs me goodbye he will slap my butt really hard a couple of times for some reason. If we are standing in line for something he will stand behind me and start weirdly massaging my shoulders and then almost tried to press up against me but I won't let my backside go into his pelvis. I don't know what's wrong but I've never felt this uncomfortable with people that I don't even like. I know he has two other grandchildren that are much much younger than I am which makes me his eldest grandchild. So I don't know if he just doesn't know how to act around teenagers and that I'm not five or what??? The other day he invited my sister to come with us to McDonald's and she is seven when he was telling her goodbye he smacked her butt really hard about a good six times and it made me feel really uncomfortable and just seemed wrong. What do y'all think I should do??

Question: I m looking for anyone with the last name "Robbie" NOT first name.?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 12:03 PM PST

My father passed away recently and wasn t in contact with his side of the family but I would like to get to know them. Plus, I can t find ANYONE with the lastname Robbie. It s always first names and that doesn t help me. Or anyone who knows they have a relative with the last name Robbie that their family says they don t talk to anymore. I really wanna find a whole side of my family that I don t know

Question: How do I move on from my brother?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 11:32 AM PST

My brother went to jail a couple of years ago for a whole year and he was realeased after one year. The thing about my brother is I was really close to him when I was younger, but for almost all my life he was on drugs. I don't remember my brother being sober when I was younger I only remember him being on drugs. Yet when he was on drugs he was a better guardian/parent than my actual parents. When he went to jail there was this big whole in my heart where he is suppose to be. Now he is sober and I can't talk to him at all I don't know how to. A part of me feels like I lost my brother the other part of me wants him back. I feel bad for saying this but I miss him being in drugs because I was close to the druggie brother. Do I move on and just forget about him??

Question: Help! advice about an email to cover up!10 pts!?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 11:19 AM PST

so my mom saw a UPS tracking email and she is wondering what it is but i dont want to disclose that i ordered something what do i say to cover it?

Question: Why do family get so greedy and toxic when a rich family member dies?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 11:00 AM PST

It's like a reality show. Everything's being done legally. People who had little family involvement are trying to do things that are slimy and not legal, gossiping and forming alliances and acting nasty, and are acting self-entitled and greedy. Why do family get so greedy and toxic when a rich family member dies?

Question: Christmas is in five days and i am nervous my Dad will be drinking and not want to see me, how do I not let this ruin Christmas?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:52 AM PST

In years past as a kid I wasn't allowed to see him. As a teen my mother let me form a relationship with him. Some years he sees me and it is the ultimate joy because as a little kid I had no Dad and Christmas was devoted to my Mom cutting him down to me. Now years i see him I have overcome that and am thrilled. However, two years of the last 8 he has been binging and not wanted a visitor. Those years my mother runs it in with "I told you he doesn't love you or anyone else". It is like she likes see me hurt so she can bash him. While she was wrong to hold me back as a kid the disappointment is what she was protecting me from aside from her bitterness and using me. So how do I avoid being disappointed if he is drunk and won't see me? Also, how do I get over my mother rubbing it in if it does happen? Even her family rubs it in some as they like whispering "his Dad was too drunk to see him" I am 20

Question: My drug addict brother is coming around at Christmas. How can I sense if he is high?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:51 AM PST

Question: My mother is celebrating Christmas by bad mouthing family she is estranged from. How do I break the habit of copying her?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:51 AM PST

Now I am a young adult at age 22 and bash family the same as my Mom since it is what I learned growing up. I increase the bashing at the holidays.

Question: Grounded and locked in room for 4 days over chores?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:48 AM PST

Grounded and locked in our room for 4 days over chores? Edit Ok so I'm 15.Yesterday was a snow day and me and my 14 year old brother were the only ones in the house, my mom called my brother saying to empty and fill the dishwasher, clean and vacuum the living room, and clean the whole kitchen, they didn't say there was a deadline set, so we cleaned and vacuumed the living room, emptied the dishwasher, and swept the kitchen floor. we decided to do the rest when out step dad got home when our step dad came home he inspected the house for the chores and our little brother and sister trashed the living room again. and said you half***ed your chores and called our mom. then he said you are grounded for the whole day. I said ok, and was continuing my life until then our mom changed her mind and our step dad then confiscated our phones and was about to touch my brothers computer he paid for with his own money and when he said no our step dad said if you threaten me again I will kick you out of the house. when our mom got home she wouldn't talk to us. she was acting like we just ruined her marriage. she went to the store and said don't come out of your room and keep the door shut. when she got back she brought subway so she could make us feel bad by not letting us eat any. though we made pizza. later she told us we were grounded for 4 days that cuts into our winter break which is in two days I know we should of done our chores and I will take the two days of grounding but not the two days of winter break we got any ideas? and before you say? how did you post this on yahoo? I used my school computer at school

Question: Does this guy love his girlfriend as much as he loves his sister?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:44 AM PST

So this guy got upset because a guy commented on his sisters picture saying his sister had dick sucking lips and his sister was like 16 at the time and he was 18. Fast forward to him now he is 21 years old and he convinced his girlfriend of 7 months to give him head and he posted it online. He said in a post I love you two days later to his girlfriend.

Question: Is beating my little brother okay?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:34 AM PST

So, my little brother is a dick and I beat his *** like 5 tymes a week. He's 6 and I'm 20. Do I stop beating on him or is it okay because I'm older and don't use brass knuckles or anything? Just punch him really hard and sometimes it leaves really big bruises.

Question: When did it become popular to have children out of wed lock, we should go back to shaming those people?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:29 AM PST

Accidentally is fine, but planning on having a kid without 2 parents involved is no good for the kid i think, bottom line, if you want a kid, adopt or get married first

Question: My daughter said her stepmom won't stop talking about sex?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:17 AM PST

She said all her new stepmom talks about constantly is sex. Should I ask her in what context? I don't want to go accusing the new stepmom of anything. Thanks.

Question: I want to live in a rural area so bad? I'm really jealous?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:16 AM PST

My cousin lives in the country in this rural small town. She has four horses and all of these other animals. She knows everyone when she goes to the grocery store and all they do is talk about how well she does showing her animals. At her house she has about six neighbors-spaced out by acres of land. You can actually see the stars at her house, and she spends her time riding her horses, exploring the fields, showing, and doing fun family things. Me, on the other hand, lives in NYC. My parents are normally too busy working to do anything "family". I go to the mall and that kind of stuff but I still feel so bored. All you can hear is sirens and shouts and cars. I just want to live in the country so bad I cry at night. I would love to have a horse and spend my summers showing instead of partying. I listen to cowboy music now when my friends aren't around and just think of how amazing that life would be. I'm a teenage girl. Does anyone else feel this way? Any similar stories? What did you do?

Question: Over-protective grandparents?!?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:14 AM PST

Okay so, I know they mean the best at heart but this is a little too far for me and I can't stand it anymore. They don't let me go outside without one of them with me, I can't ride my bike alone. But that's not what gets me, what I hate is that they don't trust me. I have a security thing on my window so if it opens (Which it wont because they nailed it shut) it will set off an alarm. As if that's not enough, when I was 10 they nailed a translucent trashbag over my window so I couldn't even see outside. Over the years I managed to get out and rip a hole in it so I can see the moon at night. My granddad found the hole and is currently nailing a new trashbag over my window. This is a severe fire hazard because my room is in the basement right next to the furnace. I am a straight A's student who has no bad record. I'm also a 15 year old girl. I don't know how I'm going to handle the real world. I feel trapped in here. Any suggestions? Thank you for all the answers in a short period of time, I just want to make it clear they don't physically abuse me, I believe they just have severe trust issues. I can hang out at friends houses but it requires strict rules of when I have to call them, how well they know the parents, what we will do, etc. They let me online because they don't know much about the internet and everything on it. I'm going to try talking with them again later and hopefully get them to see that I can be trusted.

Question: How can I reinvent myself for the new year?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:11 AM PST

hi, there! okay so basically for the new year, i want to stop being socially awkward with people. i am so desperate for a change. i want to make friends at work and i want to talk to my crush without being nervous. i am funny at home but i can't be myself at work idk why. so guys, how can i get rid of social anxiety and get confidence in myself? thanks. :)

Question: I want to live in a rural area so bad?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:08 AM PST

Question: Is a pregnancy hump hard or soft?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 10:01 AM PST

Random question but I m really paranoid my mums pregnant. Not being nasty but she s got a bit of a bump that makes her look a bit pregnant but sometimes she doesn t. I can t really tell if it s not just fat. When she leans on a cabinet it squashes up against it flat. If it was a hump would it be able to do that?

Question: My sister owes me money and I m now broke?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 09:54 AM PST

My sister would so oftenly ask for my money to buy stuff and she promises to pay back but she never does. Now that she has spent so much of my money that I dont even have money for myself for emergencies and whenever i ask when could she pay the money back she gets defensive and angry. The worst thing is she expects me to get her gifts and she hasnt gave anything to me for 5 years, what should i do?

Question: My mom dabbed today should I get her checked for cancer?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 09:54 AM PST

Question: How to convince my dad to move to another state.?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 09:51 AM PST

My mom and I really want to move to another state. In this state my mom has almost all of her family and she can continue her job there. We live in one of the most expensive cities and we already dont have a lot of money and moving to this state would be super cheap. The thing about my dad is he is stubborn and he has a job qnd he doesn't want to move his job. We have tried everything to get him to move but it is not working. I dont know what to do, i am homeschooled and have always wanted to live here and i think it would be awesome. Every time we bring it up my dad and mom get in a fight, and they already fight a lot about money and if we move to the new state the money probelm would be fix. Sorry this is long but one more thing. Right now we live in a pretty warm and cold state and the new state is really hot and my dad doesnt like the hot so i dont know how to convince him. Please dont say just leave it alone or tell me why not to move. Please just tell me ways to convince him. Thank you!

Question: Mother in law gets upset that I don't say grace in my house?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 09:30 AM PST

No matter how many times I tell her I don't believe in anything she always expects me to start grace in my own home. Advice?

Question: Do you think my mother in law would be offended if I bought her a ham to use for Christmas?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 09:28 AM PST

She is obsessed with making "ham" for the holidays. However her "ham" come from a can. It's like this giant version of spam. It makes me sick every time and I'm always forced to eat it to be polite. This thanksgiving we were fortunate to receive a free turkey from my work which I helped my mother in law prepare. I though of maybe getting a real ham and saying the same thing to her? Even my husband thought what she makes was ham. Poor thing... it's not that she can't afford ham I think she is just a bit lazy. What do you think? I'm trying to do this every year so I don't have to eat her holiday spam. I also can't host at my house because she gets really upset.

Question: Is my mother unfaithful to her parents because she doesn't spend Christmas with them?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 09:00 AM PST

She sees them during other times of the year but does not see them at the holidays. So does this make her an unfaithful daughter since her siblings all see them. She sees them at other times they are just not holidays but she expects us to see her. By her I mean my mom Her insistence is that we see her (Mom) not here parents. I wish it was us being able to see her parents, our grandparents.

Question: My mum hates me??

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:59 AM PST

ok I have been tolerating for months now and this is the end. my mum scolds me all the time and sides my siblings and I'm always getting scolded (even when I'm not at fault). I'm the youngest in the family and my mum literally treats me like ****. whenever me and my sis sorta argue (like normal siblings) my mum butts in and sides my sis and lectures me til I start tearing cos whatever she says hurt me so much. she often threatens that she will one day kill herself or leave the house and never come back again all because of me right in front of the whole family. she doesn't beat me much honestly but when she does it's really scary; she'd slap me or push me to the ground or smack my head. it's so obvious that she adores my siblings more than me and when I was suicidal, she saw my cuts and got angry asking "what is wrong with you", asking me to change my shitty attitude. never have she asked me about what happened that made me sad. all she says is what's above or "stop overthinking." I am not close with my siblings at all and neither do I have many friends to turn to. life is so harsh and my grades are all dropping. crying under my blanket is just another routine I have in my life.

Question: My mom had me very young and people think we are sisters?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:54 AM PST

Everytime we go out somewhere and people ask us if we are sisters(we look alike so they know we are related) and then my moms like no she's my daughter and some people just gasp with the shock and when they find out how old we are they think we are joking. I'm 20 , she's 38. It's getting a little annoying. Will it ever stop

Question: How do I prevent my family from entering into a war on Christmas and rather get them to be civil for our sake?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:48 AM PST

So my mom hates her brother her brother hates her sister her sister doesn't hate either but like to judge both of them but her sister's husband hates both of them. We're all gathering on Christmas for my grandmother sake one other sister just stays out of it and is traveling with her son that sister hates everyone. So how do I survive Christmas with all this hatred and backstabbing and backstabbing?

Question: Estoy en piloto automatico es bueno o malo?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:44 AM PST

hace 1 mes siento que no disfruto mucho, de vez en cuando me alegro y a veces estoy triste pero el resto del día siento que lo hago todo automáticamente,se siente raro pero no me desagrada del todo tengo 18 años tengo un grupo pequeño de amigos,vivo con mi abuela,no tengo pareja siento que tengo muchos problemas en mi vida para tener alguna,e vivido 2 años solos hace 2 meses regreso mi abuela no se si estoy bien o no ayuda

Question: Mom:always takes my sisters side so she gets mad at me. brother:not as mean as mom but ALWAYS gets mad at me. sister:is a mean,greedy,bratty?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:28 AM PST

,meanie,selfish. feel bullied by my own family,i feel like no one wuvs me. I know that my brothers girlfriend wuvs me because she told me so.She gets mad at my brother for being mean but i dont see her a lot t

Question: My dab refuses to make me a peanut butter and bannana sandwich what should I do?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:21 AM PST

Question: My mom watches Naruto 24/7 instead of going to work im afraid she's gonna get cancer from watching anime?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:14 AM PST

Question: Why are my parents acting like this?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 08:00 AM PST

Although I am at a relatively older teen age, recently, I have noticed that my parents have become more protective of me rather than less. It feels like my father is aggressive towards any guy that looks my way and he always demands to know where I'm going (I'm still in high school). My mother is also opposed to the idea of me dating and she has recently taken to speaking to me as though I am half my age. When I stayed out at a later time than usual for a close friend's birthday party, both of them lost it at me when I came home. Although my father still has not apologised, my mother sat me down a couple of days later and told me that she just did not want anyone taking "what was most precious" from her (whatever that means). My father also calls me sweetie and pumpkin regularly, even in front of my friends. I don't want to sound like an ungrateful pig, it's just that I feel I should have more house room, especially as I will be off to college soon. I have tried speaking to both but they will not listen. Is there any reason as to why they are acting this way?

Question: What age is to old to kiss your son on the lips?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 07:54 AM PST

I asked this question before, but I didn't get many real answers I'm a high school football player but I help coach a youth football team and after one of the games one of my players kissed his mom on the lips. He's 9. Is this normal for a kid his age. It was just a little kis on the lips, so it wasn't like they where making out.

Question: Parents take about money more than my happiness and disability. Help?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 07:44 AM PST

I am a cripple women and my parents take care of me. But they are planning to marry me off to my rich cousin only for his money. My cousin is really rude toward me. If I marry my cousin I CANT be a wife. In my country being a wife is literally being a servitude. I can't serve him and do hard chore daily because my cripple legs get easily tired and I might get into a kitchen injury. I told my parents my cousin treat me rude and I CANT be a wife aka servitude. My parents told me "pretend your legs aren't cripple be strong. You got be a strong wife and try so he don't leave you." I told my parents "how about if he wants leave me?" My parents said "he won't" because they will stop him and force him to stay with me and continue the marriage. I certainly DO NOT want marry my cousin who treat me rude and won't care about my cripple legs. And if I marry I'll become a wife aka a servitude in my country. I can't be a wife because how about if I get injured? All my parents care about is his money. I talk to my parents many time and they said I'm "disobedient" and "bad" for talking back and I'm getting married to him that final. I'm going report my parents for force marriage but will they get in trouble for trying force me to be a wife aka servitude in my country even though I'm cripple and could get injured?

Question: Turning electricity off on roommate?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 07:33 AM PST

He moved in August 4th and has been giving me the run around ever since. I've done nothing but favors for him and he's done nothing but take advantage of my kindness. I've told him several times that bills are due today. He gets defensive and tired of me "riding his @$$" I told him "I'm tired of stressing out about overdrawing on my account because you can't pay $130 for your share of utilities, but you'll spend $50 in a week on papa johns delivery." I leave for work at 6 am. If he doesn't send me bill money before work, I turn off his electricity to his room and put a lock on the box. Is that too extreme? I'm really tired of his excuses and his $h!+. I don't think it's unreasonable to pay bills on time.

Question: Should I let my youngest nephew suck his older brothers dick?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 07:32 AM PST

Question: My sister is a cruel person but sometime she apologizes should she be forgiven for all of her cold day or just the parts she apologizes for?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:59 AM PST

Question: My mother likes to take the road of hate and bitterness I like to take the road of love and forgiveness which of us has a better approach?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:57 AM PST

Question: Why does my grandma become confrontational when I confront her?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:53 AM PST

My grandma is in her 90s and I believe is having some sort of issues because whenever she comes to our house, she begins fussing at my husband or I about the housekeeping, food, dogs, kids, etc. She cannot stop chastising others and even fussed at my in laws and told them my husband is terrible one holiday(she of course "does not remember this", as usual). On Thanksgiving, my mom said she caught her making snide remarks about "letting the dogs out in the yard so they will hopefully run off" and my mom said she told her to keep her mouth shut in our home. We are having Christmas Eve this year and I reminded her the other day that she is a "guest in our home and is to keep her mouth shut". She began lecturing me saying "you need to remember you are a guest too and you need to keep yours shut too" (which makes no sense, given its my home and my husband and I are hosts) but she began projecting stuff from the past. How can I get her to behave (which she usually doesnt given her bossy nature) and not start lecturing me? She is going to my in laws Christmas Day and they are also tired of her lecturing them about their dogs or fussing at my husband or me in front of them. This woman has been like this even when she was young (my mom has said)- she has to be the boss, her own husband (owner of their accounting firm) fired her as his office manager because he got complaints about her attitude 40+ years ago!

Question: Abusive relationship?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:37 AM PST

My girlfriend (20yr) was forced to withdraw from school and go back home with her family. They have cut her off from the outside world not giving her any internet access or phone. They installed security cameras and locks on her door to prevent her from leaving. They have been verbally abusing her for over 40 days now and I just discovered that her dad got physical with her a few days ago (ie pushing, punching, kicking, choking) and hurt her. They said that if she leaves then they'll get a divorce and her siblings will grow up in a broken home. If she comes back to our college town they'll find her. And if she leaves with me then they'll find and kill me. What can I do to help her? I'm not scared of what her parents will do to me. I'm worried about her health, mentally and physically.

Question: If your mom yelled at you ?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:22 AM PST

If your mom yelled at you and you got into an argument with your mom would you ever stay mad all day for the next day and stay in bed all day because of the argument or would you move on with your life

Question: Why does my younger Sister have to be so bratty?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:19 AM PST

Question: What do I do if my parents decide on Christmas morning to divorce?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:14 AM PST

Question: How can I help my sister feel better ?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:02 AM PST

My little sister is mad because they're not showing her favorite Christmas special this year. It's the Dora The Explorer Christmas Carol Adventure. They already shown it once but she forgot to record it. Now she won't get to see it again till next year. It's not online anywhere if it is we have to buy it but we don't have the money to buy stuff plus our parents don't like us buying tv shows online. We don't have a video store in town anymore so we can't rent it. She's upset because they're also not showing much of her favorite Christmas shows this year. There showing all these new cartoons she don't like them or doesn't know what they are. She thinks there's something wrong with our tv. She hates all these new shows she wishes they would put her favorite shows back on Nick Jr. We mostly get Disney channels but she doesn't like Disney. She wishes we still had cable but we can't get it where we are. She feels really sad. How can I help her feel better ? She wants to know why does the tv keep changing everything and adding new stuff all the time ? Also is there anywhere online she can watch Dora's Christmas Carol for free ?

Question: I am alone for Christmas with my Dad. No one likes us and we have no friends or family. How do we mourn with still enjoying the day?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 06:01 AM PST

I am 14 and a boy. It is cold and snowing usually where we live (Minnesota) so after church we sit by the fire. We enjoy each other a lot but it is only us. I've never had a Mom and my Dad's parents died when he was 18 and his sister as well. He has no extended family. We have no friends and I am home-schooled because the bullies were so bad to me at school. So how do we enjoy the day even though we mourn having no one but each other?

Question: Did you got abused once in your life?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 05:17 AM PST

I'm not saying that I got abused, but this is one of the hardest part of my life that I'm going through right now, let me share it to you guys. My mom and dad decided to lend us to my grandmother and my half-sister that was adoppted by my grandma. First of all, I think all will be fine and good, but I'm wrong. They are nice to us at the first months or so, but after months of living here, they started to shout us even in simple things and always blame us to the things that we don't even do. And they even not give us enough food, even my dad gives them money for us and my dad pays my half-sister's tuition fee so she should be nice to us, but no they are not that nice. And my half-sister's son have ADHD, and they start to bully us like spitting on us, kicking us, punching, etc, and even he does the bad thing, my grandma and half-sister always in his side, (He is a spoiled kid). And my mom start to notice that they are cursing and shouting on us, and they don't treat us better, and they start fighting, physically until the

Question: My father had a stroke, he is in really bad shape and refuses help. He lives alone, what can I do for him?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 05:12 AM PST

My father's stroke left him paralyzed on his left side. He cant use his arm and he can barely walk. He lives by himself (he is 70, I am 37) and I would love to care for him but I work a full time job and have my own life and he lives a distance away. He did not go to the hospital after his stroke, he is just really miserable, says he wants to die and he's lost all will to live, yet he refuses to go to the hospital, saying "if I die, I wanna die in my own home." What can I do for him?! I feel really bad I can't help him, he keeps calling to want me to come to his house to do senseless favors for him, but I can't do it anymore. I can't sit and watch my father die like this. Who should I contact to get him the help he needs?

Question: Why is it difficult to deal with these memories?

Posted: 20 Dec 2016 05:06 AM PST

I'm one of the few elderly who attend the yahoo, I have 85 years, as I'll explain my recollection, 1948 I'll never forget, I have 17 years and I decided to take my homosexuality to my father and he decided to hit me and I respond and leave the punch each other and I hit him a lot more and ran to my vo which at the time was 62 years , as a child my father beat me whip and stick and always talked about "donate more to me than you" and always played the tough guy on me and when I was 14 years slapped me in front of the whole world, many will consider absurd what I did but I don't regret what I did back then 31 December 1948, I'll never forget that date.