Family: Question: My mom won't let me out?

Question: My mom won't let me out?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:56 PM PST

I'm 16 grade and my mom won't let me out I have no social life I'm always inside everytime I asked to leave my mom gives me various stupid reasons like" I'll become apart of human trafficking" or" idk it's cold so I don't have time" she said all that. I asked my dad why she doesn't let me out she apparently told him cause I'm in special classes I shouldn't be allowed out but I'm capable of doing things like normal person I cook and take care of myself. I've already tried talking to her but she gets angry and doesn't listen then go off and talk bad about what I said being childish. How can I convince her to let me out.

Question: My mom calls me out.....?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:49 PM PST

My mom has been calling me names and embarrassing for several years, especially in front of people. I always do my best around the house and everywhere I go. But my mom tends me to call me names when she is talking about me to others just out of the blue and I don't like it. I've just recently turned 21 and on my birthday she was repeatedly calling me a dog in my language in front of my dad, aunts, cousins and siblings. She always always keeps bringing me down especially my self esteem. I always told my parents can you please stop doing it and they response is just the same "I don't care what I call you". Numerous of times my mom has said in front of my friends and others no one will marry me cos I'm a dog and I'm ashamed to call you my daughter. Nothing works with me I've tried sitting down with them and letting them know how it feels by them saying that to me and apologized for nothing etc. My friend's have distance themselves away from me from what my mom says to them and especially my cousins. There is no reason behind why she is saying this. I do everything she tells me but she is so hard to satisfy. She doesn't give me much time to do everything. If i were to make a mistake in something she told me to do, she will just keep naming and shaming me. This is why I hardly go out the house or even to cousins house because I will have no one to talk too. My mom causes problems for me. She has put me off everything especially marriage, as I'm scared of her.

Question: I hate my mother, how do I deal with her for the next two years?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:21 PM PST

I'm sixteen, and in two years I can finally move out. However, I dread the next years I have to spend in my mother's house. My dad, the only sanity in the house, divorced my mom a while back and she has full custody of my sister and me. I feel nothing but hatred for my mother, who never once gave me the kind smile or compliment that a mother should give to her daughter. She's homophobic, racist, miserable, bitchy, and passive-aggressive when something doesn't go her way. Besides watching TV and yelling at me, my mother basically does nothing around the house. I cook, clean, and do the laundry, while she lazes around the house and glares at me. She's told me plenty of times that she hates me, and spends no money on me. All of my clothes I've bought myself, I even had to buy the mattress in my room myself, and yet she refuses to spend a penny on me. "worthless", "stupid", "fat", and "lesbian" are a few things she's called me, the last because I hugged a girl friend after hanging out. She used to be so supportive, moving to the US for a better future for me, but ever since the divorce she's treating me like I'm trash. How can I deal with such a mean, narrow-sighted mother for the next two years?

Question: I hate my life and want to die?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:17 PM PST

I want to die! My mom hates me and is emotionally abuse. My sister is a brat! I barely see my dad (the only person who cares about me). I'm not on good terms with any of my friends. I don't get good grades. I eat too much and get called greedy and fat. Christmas was the only thing to stop me from killing my self but I didn't get anything I wanted so what's the point!

Question: New Years Dilemma?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 12:48 PM PST

So, tomorrow is New Years. My family wants to come over and spend the night, but my mother won t let them.. She just wants to chill all day. Also, usually when I ask her, she gets mad.. I m just a kid, so I don t know a whole lot about adults yet, but I just really want my family to come over for New Years. Anyone have any suggestions for how I can persuade her to let them com

Question: Why is my daughter so mean to me?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 12:48 PM PST

Every day she talks behind my back and then calls me stupid to my face. All she does is smoke cigarettes and then when she's in her room with her boyfriend all they do is clap their hands in a bucket of water. All I hear is wet clapping. I don't know why her habits are so weird and she's so mean to me!

Question: Grandfather won't stop looking at my body?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 12:36 PM PST

Ever since I became a teenager he has been looking at my body. I try to cover up from head to toe but no matter what he keeps looking at me. The problem is my behind is kinda big and it's not easy to try and hide my behind. I don't know what to do I see him actually trying to look at my behind when I walk past him. I tried covering my behind with my hand I even tried turning they other way and walking quickly. No one else cares to tell him to stop. I even saw him staring at my chest. I hardly walk around him anymore because he tries to stare at my behind all the time. My behind is bigger then my whole body. What can I do to make it flat?

Question: Why should I obey him and listen to every word he says?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 12:04 PM PST

I'm a 20 year old female and I love with my mother... My parents divorced, when I was only 2 years old... Since a week ago, I didn't know anything about my father and I really hate him, because I believe he left me and my mother alone, without thinking that a girl needs he father next to her... So, a week ago my mother suddenly told me that she wants to remarry my father and she wants him to come back home (I don't even know how my mother was in contact with him and I was oblivous about this fact!)... I was shocked, hearing that my father was retuning after so many years... He's a stranger to me and I don't like him, but he keeps commanding me! When I want to go for a walk, outside, he says:"Why do you want to ramble all the time?"... And I told him that it's not his business to control me, but my mom suddenly started yelling at me and defending him! She says:"He's your dad and you must respect him!", but I don't want a "dad", who hasn't raised me! He doesn't let me go outside and I can't stand this situation anymore... I can easily run away from the house, but my mom keeps threatening me that if I get out of thehouse, without my dad's permission, she won't allow me come back... Sorry... I've scribbled...

Question: I need some advice regarding my step dad and mom! Please help, it's a disaster!?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 11:55 AM PST

No judgement plz So real quick. step been in my life since I was 2. Ma is a good mom, she is suicidal has been for awhile. (She has mental issues). Well step had a real bad up coming, extremes: say If he didn't pick the path he did, he would probably be a mass murder. Everything in his life seens to screw him over. Well 21 years they been together she was the only good thing, he say "you see a person, see who they can become! U give them no reason to hurt you& they won't" [I know this isn't true, ppl will turn for nothin! hearts too big] He has 0 self confidence now*Ma Is really mean & she realize it.* well ma is all about Revenge, she was convinced step cheated on her, so she (with no proof)(she was guilty so accused him) planned, & cheated on him. [Just a kiss she says but ehhh] which was the 1 thing he thought she'd never do! + Revenge cause 3yrs back I had a miscarriage& drove off the deep end, (mom couldn't help me, she didn't know how) which i didn't mind, step did cause i cared about nothing & already self destinative. We became close (also work wt him) she got uset due to "u can't have 2 best friends". I'm caught in middle of, it was Inevitable!! shes still suicidal (said that if she succeeds, wants me to know it's only my fault) she dont talk to me much & hes having a mental breakdown I guess. Got real bad a week ago. Stuttering, forgets mid sentence what he was saying! Cries all day, no hope to try! 'Im trying to keep them both alive & idk what to do anymore!

Question: My grand ma makes me feel terrible about my self?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 11:45 AM PST

I don't know what to do I'm 13 a straight A student and have never not even oce been grounded. She'll give me dirty looks, tell me how stupid I am and treats me like I am unable to solve things she tells me I'm a baby and I can't take care of myself( yes I know I'm not and adult but I have been through a lot I talk my brother out of dropping the nice that was on my throut) she makes me feel like I'm a worthless pice of trash. Once I was out her house (last week) i was spending the weekend with her and I went to the room I was staying in starting to read a book and she came in about then minutes later and told me to pull done my pants and she hit me on my butt with a paddle (not abuse only bright red and sore) my parents have never not even one hit me I don't know what to do please help

Question: Found a disturbing picture on my dads phone?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 11:34 AM PST

I was looking for a picture that my dad took of my brother and I and stumbled across a picture of a naked girl. Not like a woman. An actual girl. Looked about 12. She was in her underwear and it looks like he just found them online or something. I m still extremely disgusted and can t believe that I ve found something like this. I don t know how to get over it and there s no way I m going to confront him about it. I love him very much but this has really just made me question his morality. I don t know what to do or how to even talk to him anymore without being reminded of what I ve found.

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Posted: 30 Dec 2016 11:20 AM PST

Question: My parents don t let me do anything even though I m 17?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 11:05 AM PST

This will sound really first world problem-y but honestly it s annoying me so much, and their rules alone have pretty much killed my social life. Please bear with me and read it all. I ve only stepped out of line once. But apparently because of that once (which wasn t even about me going out), I m not responsible at all to go out. It s at the point where my friends don t even bother asking if I can go out because they know the answer will be I can t because of my parents. Having to say I can t go out early in the evening, because of rules, is honestly humiliating (and by the time I m 18 I won t have anyone to hang out with) The kicker was when I made plans for a party with my friends. Three weeks or so in advance. I even asked them if I was free to do that. They said yes, and never said anything more about it until the day before. Their criteria for me going was A- the party must be at someone s house B- they have to talk to the person whose house it is and see me walk in c- they have to pick me up from the house AT 11PM. d- I use a phone tracker app to prove I m there. Eventually I told them the plans might change and we may all end up having to hang out without drinking, and they tell me "we don t want you hanging out in town at 7pm" I get home from college later than 7pm! They say they don t know if I m responsible enough to be out at 7pm, but don t even give me a chance to do so and prove anything to them? I don t see how staying at home is going to prove anything.

Question: I heard my sister talking but she swears she didnt say anything?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 10:52 AM PST

Me and my sister were the only two in our room, both doing our own thing minding our business, and she started saying something. And when i asked her what she said she looked at me and told me she hadn't said anything. but i know for a fact that i heard her voice. What do you think it was, it sounded too loud and real for me to have imagined it. It weirded us both out.

Question: Alright so I lent my mom and dad money to buy my brother and sister Christmas presents this year.?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 10:11 AM PST

A gift from me was a phone for my sister and brother.. They both have been getting an attitude and not cleaning when they been told or before they leave. So my question is would I have the privileges to take it away until they get it done? My mom never grounds them and when she tries she gives in within the next couple hours.

Question: My mom cheated on my dad and now my dad is going crazy what can I do?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 10:04 AM PST

I'm mad at my mom but I'm scared overall. My dad is saying he's going to kill the guy etc. and my mom and dad keep fighting everyday. He wants to expose my mom to everyone in the family (Both sides) and I don't know what to do. No one but us 3 in the family knows. What should/can I do? Tell all 4 of my grandparents and let them handle it? Help. I'm 19 years old so I'm more scared for my 13 year old brother. On one side there is family shame and the other a honor killing. What can I do?

Question: I need help about my dad?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 09:43 AM PST

Just a minute ago I was arguing with my brother. He punched me in the back of the head and then I went to hit him and he kneed me in the face. It hurt and bought tears to my eyes so I went mad and started to hit him. My dad then comes out of know where grabs me up in the air by my neck and throws me quite far I was screaming for him to get out and he hit me and then grabbed me by the neck again and shook me. He started screaming and shouting that I shouldn t hit him like that and was using his body to corner me. This part probably sounds stupid but I was honestly so scared that he was gonna strangle me again I got the scissors and told him to get off and leave me alon and he still wouldn t move so I threw them on the floor and that made him move so I ran up the stairs telling him I would call the police if he didn t leave me alone. He then started sayin things that how I hit my brother was abh and that if I did I would get in trouble for doing that and for being crazy for pointing scissors to your dad. I m really ******* scared right now and my mum isn t home she s at I m too scared to tell anyone because I know he will make me out to be he bad one please someone tell me what the hell to do is just sat in my room terrified and crying

Question: My dad slapped me?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 09:20 AM PST

So when I was young I annoyed my father and he slapped me. My mom saw this and started to yell at him and all. Every time he hugged me he tended to grab my butt and groan. I thought it was funny but since I stopped hugging him or being affectionate to him whatsoever he just stopped. My sister is 9 years old and he has complimented her breasts but my mom says he does it jokingly and he says it in a joking tone. I dont find it funny. Overall I have grown to resent him and once i'm 18 I am getting the hell out of there. I also stopped refering to him as dad and call him by his first name.

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Posted: 30 Dec 2016 09:11 AM PST

Question: My sister is a brat and my mother enables it how do I break the cycle?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 09:11 AM PST

Question: How can I comfort my sister when she's sick ?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 09:11 AM PST

My sister has been sick all week. She's been coughing a lot every night. She's been taking her breathing treatment , cough syrup , antibiotics and Tylenol everyday but she still has coughing fits every night. She's been running fevers. We took her to the doctor yesterday they gave her a flu test they said it was negative I don't believe it if she's still doing this everyday. She's upset that none of her medicines are working when they usually do. She seems to be a little better but she's still coughing. How can I help her feel better ?

Question: Can I marry my niece? We love each other?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 09:08 AM PST

My niece and i have fallen for eachother hard. We are close to the same age (my brother is much older than I am), and she wants me to marry her. I love the idea, she is the love of my life. Anyway wondering if we can get mmarried? Legally my brother and I are not related, he was adopted out, also we have different fathers. Any help or advice would be very appreciated.

Question: Should I report my mom?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 09:05 AM PST

I am 16 and we were driving home from town and we have been arguing the last 2 days. She always makes me feel bad about myself in times like these and I told her I'm tired of it so long story short she hits me in the chest and tells me to get out of her car at a gas station a long way from home or she's calling the cops and I told her my phones only on 5 percent but it didn't bother her. I said I have to call someone she also informed me that's it's a teens word against an adults word. I'm tired of her treating me like I owe her everything and if I don't let her treat me however she wants things like this happens

Question: Constantly being blamed for the behaviors of my younger siblings?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 08:51 AM PST

I want to start out by saying I m not some perfect saint. I ve messed up a lot and I ve been rude to my parents at times. But generally, I ve been a decent kid. I get good grades in the B+ to A range, for the most part and I have good values. The problem is, I have two younger siblings and whenever they do something wrong, my parents always blame me for it. They say that if I d been a better kid for my siblings to look up to, then my siblings would be better behaved. This has been going on for over two years. I cry a lot because I feel like an honest failure. I ve tried telling my parents that I don t like it-but they never listen. I m sick and tired of this. Moreover, they always recognize my negative qualities as opposed to my positive ones. I bring home good grades for the most part, and they never compliment me. I slip up once and bring home a B, and the world is over. They yell at me for being a failure and then bring up how bad of a role model I am for my siblings. NOTE: If you re going to tell me to tough it out-then don t bother answering. This has been going on for SO long and I ve tried being brave but I ve had enough.

Question: How would I know if my brother is still doing drugs?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 08:39 AM PST

I think he is still doing them but my parents think he sober I can't say for sure.

Question: My cousin and her mother hate one another is this normal for a mother daughter relationships at some point to go through this?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 08:38 AM PST

Question: How do I educate my mother so she won't be such a racist?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 08:36 AM PST

Question: How to get my grandmother to be nice to me?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 08:14 AM PST

She was nice to me when I was younger but now that I am older she is extremely rude to me she will yell and just all around be rude but she is nice to my brother any advice?

Question: Would you be okay if your lawyer brother charged you (well sort of) for his legal services during a family crisis?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 08:08 AM PST

My late husband passed away and I had an issue which needed to be resolved regarding my late husband. I was distraught during this time, not thinking clearly, because my husband had just died from a horrific car accident and I had a number of things to contend with at the time. I was trying to juggle everything at once My brother drafted a letter to send to the company involved. He told me for him extending that service I could pay him back by sending him a tool that he wanted from my late husbands tool collection. Which I did. I was grateful for the advice. I wasn't expecting pro bono, but a friend thought that was a horrible thing to do to his own sister during a crisis. Thoughts?

Question: I have a great extended family... I feel like a dumb family member?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 07:32 AM PST

I'm basically retarded run my mouth think I'm funny then when the get together is over I review my stupidity and cringe. I'm retard they deserve better how do I stop being so stupid. I hear cant fix stupid... i need hope. I want to be rich and help every one out.

Question: Why is this woman so ugly?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 07:25 AM PST

She is 34 and harrasses my friend who is 17 saying he is her boyfriend even though he tells her she is super ugly and to get lost. https://s29.postimg.org/6lyocp7sn/IMG_2625.jpg

Question: My parents are fighting and I don't know what to do!?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 07:21 AM PST

this has been going on for a year or so and I think my Mum thinks my dad is cheating on her. The fighting started about when my dad was on his phone or something when they were together. It cooled down for awhile and started up again in the past few months. my Mum was looking at my Dad's texts and messages to other people on facebook and most of the messages were to other women but my dad doesn't seem nervous at all when my Mum is looking at his phone so I think he has nothing to hide. I think my Mum is being delusional and doesn't know what's actually happening. I want to tell them what I think but I'm scared to confront them. What do I do?

Question: My parents hate me especially my mom.... What can I do?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 07:07 AM PST

I'm just a normal 21 year old female who is pursing her goals and dreams but my parents get in the way of everything. From the age of 11 and onward my parents have treated me like crap, wishing I wasn't born (my mom normally wishes it). I don't have many issues with my dad or anything against my parents. I've been hurt physically and emotionally for many many years from my parents, aunts, uncles, cousins to my friends. My mom seem's to blame me for everything and does favoritism. As I am oldest and have one younger sister I have to make sure my sister does nothing wrong and keep a look out on her otherwise I would face the consequences for her actions. I tend to my find my mom liking my younger sister more then me due to the fact she buys her everything, compliments her and lets her go anywhere and do anything, but when it comes to me I have to have a reason for everything and don't really have much freedom as my sis. All these years I have lived I've been facing a lot of abuse especially from my mom. She always says I am the cause of the problem, wishing I was dead or never been born, she has even wished her killing me when I was born and this still goes on now. Whenever me and my sister and my mom were to attend a party, wedding etc, she will always compliment all my siblings especially my sister and told them how nice and lovely they looked. I've been suffering from depression for years now and been cutting myself cos I can't take it anymore. Need help?

Question: Girls would you have done this?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 06:36 AM PST

I just got home from riding with my dad to go get donuts. He drove and went in and I sat in the car. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of the car I went for the ride in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic and I feel so alone not having him in my life. How do I get a Dad back?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 06:33 AM PST

My mean Mom won't let me see him.

Question: My sister shits all over our Mom but gets everything she wants. How do i get my mother to see this?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 06:33 AM PST

My sister will never change without my mother saying no. My mother hates conflict so she screams back but them my sister gets what she wants. I have two brothers and we were never allowed to do that. She is the only girl and gets to be horrible. Worst part is the sister is a 25 year old adult

Question: My stupid brother wrecked Xmas for our Mom again by not wanting to spend time with her after she flew him home. How do I get over being mad?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 06:31 AM PST

I had a good Christmas myself but my brother went out Christmas Eve. Was home Christmas Day and then went off again the next 3 days. Then he went home this morning. She barely saw him except the day he had to be there because the two grandmothers were coming over. He is 23, a junkie, and lives near Chicago. My mother flew him in (we live in Boston area) for Christmas and he just went off to see his worthless friends. My mother was left mourning. So while I had a good Christmas my mother's was once again wrecked though the day was good for her. I hate my brother for this but know I shouldn't hate him. He is the only boy in the family (I have a sister also and I am a girl). How do I get over being so mad at my brother that I practically hate him? I hate him because of what he has done to our mother plus he has no values. I know I shouldn't hate him though.

Question: My brother is such a spoiled brat?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 06:16 AM PST

Whenever he does something wrong I get in trouble for it. He s not special or anything but sometimes he acts like it. He is never thankful for anything at all. Just now he rode my hover board that I had raised all the money for and crashed it. To make matters worse for me he continued to cry and scream on the floor while I was telling him to get up and I went to his room to get a pillow for him if he was just going to lay on the floor and closed the door behind me not knowing it was locked. When he saw me in his room he rushed up stairs and tried to open the door but it was locked so he punched me in the chest my parents grounded me for locking his door and told my brother to go to his room. He is always behind on homework and is always getting help from my mom. He always complains about everything and refuses to eat some things my parents cook because it looks weird. To top it all of my friend s brother is my brother s friend so whenever my friend and I hang out he always ruins it by he and his friend being bratty and rude. He is just so INCREDIBLY spoiled and I don t know what to do. He is literally ruining my life

Question: Is my mom a bad mother?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 05:44 AM PST

I am 20 years old and I have gynecomastia. Back in high school, I was mocked and touched inappropriately even after I told people to leave me alone. I became isolated because there were a large number of students that would target me or laugh at me. To make things worse, teachers would laugh at me over this. I have never had a girlfriend and am still a virgin because of this. Right now I'm in college. I told my mom about this but she was dismissive and said to get over it. Meanwhile she goes out to party multiple times a week aND jokes about celibate people.

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Posted: 30 Dec 2016 05:25 AM PST

Question: Physical fight with my mom. What to do?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 05:13 AM PST

I am going to be 24 years old in a week. And I am at a complete lost of what to do. I got into a physical fight with my mom last night. I currently live at home with my parents. My parents were in the living room. I walked out to talk to them. My mom asks me if I could delete all my family members and church friends off of my facebook. I said why? She said cause I don't want them knowing your business. I said that I don't really post nothing on facebook. She said I want my family to have a good reputation that has values. That's when I knew what she talking about. I am dating a guy who is an atheist. She can't stand it. I am only child. I just graduated last April with my bachelors degree Magna *** Laude. I pay for all my bills, car insurance, phone, car payment, student loans. I just live there for free. My job is 10 mins away. I got upset and she just went on about how my boyfriend wants to drag me into the gutter that's fine. She said she saw the devil in my face LOL. I kind of lost my temper and shoved her out of the way cause she was blocking me in the room. After that she started slapping me, pulling my hair, biting me. I will admit I did all back to her. She also said how she has been wanting to do this for awhile. And how pathetic it is that my boyfriend lives at home. He lives at home cause his father had ALS who died last month.... Finally my dad stepped in and pulled her off of me. What should I do? I don't think I will ever get past this. I feel so depressed Well I told her I was going to leave. She said if I left she would make it so bad for me that I would regret it. She said yeah go live with a guy in sin. It was really horrible.

Question: Trying to buy a car and my dads negative attitude is wearing me down, what to do?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 05:10 AM PST

He kept arguing that his insurance is too high and that I shouldn't get his. I told him I just wanted a quote from two insurance companies, and then he argued at me for wanting to go to two places. He told me that, "I can't get everything I want." So I went to two places and turns out his insurance is much cheaper than the other place. Then we had to drive back home, I saw a few cars on the side of the road and EACH and every time I wanted to see one he argued at me. He also argued at me for blowing the horn on a very slow moving car (I think they were looking at their cellphone) when he was trying to cross lanes to be behind them. He was going to hit the car and so I just blowed the horn for him, they moved up and he was able to cross lanes. He argued at me for that for about 5 mins. And told me flat out that he didn't car if he was going to hit the car. Today I just woke up really happy and ready to go. And guess what? He is arguing at me again. I am really resisting from punching him, this time is supposed to be a really happy time since I'm getting my first car. With -MY OWN- money. And all I have to remember is him being pissed all of the time. I have nobody else. care* not car.

Question: My dad passed away. do i need to call teamsters?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 04:45 AM PST

my dad used to work for roadway and got a pension and he passed away a few days 8 days ago do i need to call teamsters to tell them that he passed away so they know to stop his pension or do they already know?

Question: Both of my parents are cheating on each other, what do I do?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 04:20 AM PST

So my dad lives in another country due to work, and he heavily supports us here in the US. My mom and dad have issues like any other couple, but infidelity always comes up because they both have trust issues towards each other. One time my sister was in my dads apartment abroad, and coming out of the bath she saw my dads phone (his back was turned to her, and he was texting some stupid wh*re(sorry for the profanity I m just frustrated). Then to try and emulate this incident, I used a decoy number and pretty much catfished him and he was hooked from the start. IS IT THAT HARD TO RESIST YOUR HORMINAL TENDENCIES??? Expire ting with different ages I found that he only responds to young women making me think that maybe his 59 year old head is having a mid life crisis. Then recently I found out my mom was calling this guy and going on dates with him, and she s been doing the exact same thing she criticizes my father for. Tldr: is it my fault in finding my fathers infidelity (as in was it my fault that I was baiting him) and WHAT DO U DO WHEN BOTH OF UR PARENTS ARE CHEATING ON EACH OTHER?! I m just a junior in high school and my experience with stuff like this is minute.

Question: Do I need to tell a parent I have bow legs?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 03:55 AM PST

I am too ashamed and scared to tell my parents I have bow legs and I am 12 and skinny please help

Question: Is it normal to not trust family?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 03:03 AM PST

Over the years, I learned not to trust my immediate family. Seems like every time I have a problem and ask them for help, they either give lame advice or make the problem worse. Also asking for help in my ambitions, instead of help they discouraged. I'm in my late twenties, if that helps. On the verge of cutting them off once or if I ever make it in life.

Question: Would a feral child raised by wolves be treated equally as the other wolves or would they be treated differently?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 02:51 AM PST

If a feral child is raised by wolves and is treated like a wolf can they become the alpha male.

Question: My brother proposed to me. What should I do?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 02:51 AM PST

My twin brother is my lifelong best friend and we've done everything together. I love him so much but not as I would a husband and he doesn't understand. Wouldn't it be incest? I mean he's hot naked and very handsome. Just not someone I want to marry. I don't want to break my dear brother's heart though.

Question: Rude family and bullying?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 02:23 AM PST

I never wanted to resort to asking such a serious question on Yahoo, but I need help and I need it now. I'm 15 years old and an adopted child. My "family" adopted me when I was 4 and ever since the age of about 8-9ish my life has been horrid. My parents starve me and treat me like some servent. While they're sitting on their bums I'm cooking for them and their spoiled children. Cleaning the entire house while their mother just smokes the devils lettuce. I'm constantly talked down on; being told things like I'm a worthless ***** and a stupid **** who should've died while in adoption or better yet during birth. To make things even better (not.) My "father" is always trying to flirt with me and touch me inappropriately. I fear one day he might rape me and it doesnt help I get the same vibe from his eldest son. School is about the same, though. The bullying is NON-STOP! I'm constantly getting beat up, insulted and rejected. I just want it all to stop. Sometimes I really just want to kill myself. Please, help me. I just want to be happy, I want the pain to go away.

Question: My mum won't let me keep my phone at night?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:54 AM PST

Recently i've been going on my phone a bit at night which i don't normally do. my mum got so pissed off at me and she won't let me keep my phone at night which is so frustrating because that's when all my friends text me. i can't convince her to keep it in my room because i need an alarm because it's holidays and i sleep in everyday so there is no use for one. what do i do to convince her to give it back to me

Question: How can I ask my mom to return all my Christmas gifts without her taking it the wrong way?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:41 AM PST

Don't get me wrong.. I'm super grateful that she got me gifts in the first place. But I can't have them. I don't deserve them. And before you tell me "you deserve them!" Im here to tell you, that I REALLY don't. I've fallen a year behind on school and costed my parents $1K+ in the process. I begged to be homeschooled late in the semester a few years ago, and they had to spend a fortune. When I started online school, I thought I only had a semester to do a year of school and I procrastinated badly.. I didn't realize I had a full 365 days to complete it until there were a few months left. Now I'm a full grade level behind and it's my fault. And now that I'm in public online, I have deadlines but I'm STILL falling behind. I didnt do the assignments I had on the last day before winter break, so I told myself I would do them during winter break and I haven't even finished them yet.. (I will HAVE to finish them tomorrow but that's not the point). Even them I will still finish my assignments before school starts up.. I STILL procrastinated. I'm still not trying my hardest. I have two D's in school that I can't bring up, and I can't do anything right. They've done so much for me and I'm still being a disappointment. I hate that I got myself to this point. I don't want my gifts because I don't deserve them, I can't stand having them because I don't deserve them. I don't know how to tell my mom without her taking it the wrong way. I don't want to tell her why I don't want them either.

Question: I don't understand why my dad have to donate my stuff to the thrift store without even asking me first? What is his reason for doing this?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:19 AM PST

Now before we begin, let me make one thing clear for you. I didn't move out. I am still living with my parents. I had some old toys and childhood keepsakes that were stored in the basement. One day, I went downstairs to the basement to search for my stuff and found out that all of my toys and things from my childhood are all gone! When I ask my dad about it, He just simply said, 'welll I thought you don't wan't it anymore, so I donated it to the thrift store. He just assume that I didn't want the stuff anymore without even asking me. If he doesn't want my stuff to be in his basement, he could've just tell me about it, I'm more than willing to put my stuff back into my living room. He didn't even bother to ask me about it. I really don't understand why does he do that? I was quite shocked by this because he had never done such a thing like that before. In the past, he rarely even goes through my stuff and throw my things away without asking me. My dad is a short tempered man, I was afraid to ask him for an explanation. So I asked my mom to do it for me. When my mother confronted my dad about it, he get angry, defensive and ignores her. He doesn't even bother to give any explanation.

Question: My sister is jealous of the relationship I have with my Cousin? Help?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 01:00 AM PST

we are all very close in age and were good friends until we were around 8. my cousin &I were very similar & we got along better then my sister & my cousin would. she was also raised differently which my sister hates.Flash forward over a decade &my sister's jealousy grew. we only see her twice a year but my cousin & I would keep in touch often. My sister & I are pretty close but our personalities are different. She is more conservative and I'm more liberal (not by much but enough to cause fights between us). We argue a lot because she takes something I say the wrong way (most of the time it's way out of context- she also takes things very personally). When we get to see our cousin, my sisters feelings get hurt after a while. My sister then goes to our mother to complain &*****/moan about how I'm very fake &acting a certain way around my cousin when the truth is I'm being myself- I just feel more open with my cousin. Sister also brings up old drama. She thinks there should be no secrets between us but over the years I've learned to filter what I say because she is very judgemental & nothing stays a secret. I'm more comfortable talking to my cousin but she has gone to my sister once before and repeated what I said. my cousin has been known to do some mean things before. I don't know what to do- Everytime this has happened I always go back to my sister I know I'll always have her but I'm getting tired of this, especially now in college & when we're all supposed to be 'adults'.

Question: Sister jealous of relationship with Cousin?? help please!?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 12:48 AM PST

Question: My dad told me he can kill me with a punch in my splene.He said you will respect me.I can kill.From now on I wont be his daughter.?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 12:24 AM PST

Question: My aunt told me I have a fat ***.Girl here.��?

Posted: 30 Dec 2016 12:13 AM PST

Question: Why are girls these days usually arrogant and bitchy?

Posted: 29 Dec 2016 11:35 PM PST

Why aren't parents raising their daughters to be sweet and kind?

Question: Should I let my 19 year old daughter go to a pool party?

Posted: 29 Dec 2016 11:29 PM PST

There will be boys there. She is 19 but she lives with me so I have final say

Question: How do I make changes without harming those around me? How do I put myself first?

Posted: 29 Dec 2016 10:57 PM PST

So here it goes....I am currently living in a household with my son (9 years old), my 16yr old brother whom I took guardianship of about 6 years ago and my grandmother of 76 who was like a mother to me and raised me since the age of 3....my issue here is my grandmother who has been like a mother to all 7 of her grand children ( both of her daughters turned out to be total losers :( allows everyone to come in and out of the home to shower, eat, hang out etc...now of all the grandchildren nobody pays rent in the home or helps her out in any way at all. There is constanly drama, fighting and just complete negativity. Ive been wanting to leave it all and continue my life with my son and brother and just get away from all this negative tension. Ive become such an angry person and i hate it. The only thing thats stopping me is my grandmother who is ill will renal failure and cant fend for herself. but i know she would never come under my conditions of not allowing anyone in my home. how do i make that move without the guilt of not abandoning her. i know when i leave nobody will take care of her financially, physically and emotionally like i do...what do i do?

Question: Can I have contact with my brother in foster care?

Posted: 29 Dec 2016 10:41 PM PST

I have an 8 year old brother in foster that I never really met just when he was a baby. I would like to know for sure if he is my brother and could I have contact with him? His mother was losing the battle of getting him back and sadly she passed away, I would like to meet him and stay in touch is that possible? I would try to get him but I have 3 children and living in a 2 bedroom right now and I know living space is one of the things they look at. Although I have plans on moving soon to a bigger place. Any help and advice would be great. The mother said she had given my information to the lawyers or judge but they say I'm a stranger to him( which I am, I understand) but I never even received a call from anyone about this