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Every time my wife tries to suck me, I go soft. It feels good, but after a few minutes, im soft. The only time I ever *** from her sucking me is when we are in a 69 pleasing each other. Anyone have this problem?

what should I do? is she just a gold digger?

IS this normal behavior, i don't know what to think.

My husband and I have sex about every other month. We ve been married 3 years. I m 24 and he s 28. When we first got married we had sex at lest once a week, but about a year into our marriage he simply quit wanting to have sex. He does not have errctile problems. He gets erections frequently but simply turns me down when I try to initiate. I brought this subject up and he simply said he guesses he s not a horn dog. I don t understand what s wrong. He won t even let me give him blow jobs or handjobs. Also he is NOT gay. He s a super husband in every other way and tells me he loves me everyday. Please help!!

I know it sounds like a dumb question, but there are really people who dont think it is cheating. He has told me how badly he wants me and is very attracted to me. Hes been fighting it for 3 months. He's sexted me twice. Do you think this is considered cheating or almost? he has no kids, but we really do have such a strong attraction to each other, and it's so hard to ignore him because the way he looks at me shows sooo much desire. But I am trying to resist! I dont want to ruin a marriage He told me he just doesnt think he can cheat when we sexted, but when i see him, it looks like he could explode any second

Question sounds confusing, but there is this married man (early 30's) and him and I have a very strong attraction/connection stronger than I've ever had with someone else...Have you been in an "off limits" sexual relationship, why is the passion so intense? **He hasnt physically cheated on his wife, and I am not trying to make him. Please no comments on the married thing he's tried to stay away from me, but will come back and text me.. He has the same attracion to me another note: I was into him before i knew he was married, before and after i found out i never approached him or made a move on him. I ignored him and did what i needed to do ( i see him almost everyday)..but we both feel the desire. But i am not trying to ruin his wife's life

My husband and I have never been homebody type people. Always hung out somewhere after work. We now have a four month old. My husband still goes out almost every evening 3-4 hours to our normal hangouts while I'm at home with the baby. I have a stay at home job that I do with the baby and his job is a little more demanding so he thinks he needs the break more. He sleeps in a different bedroom everynight because he doesn't want to be woken up. I feel like I'm mentally tired. Up all night. Work all day. then baby alone almost every evening. I'm honestly curious if this is the typical man?

would you be mad at your friend or your wife ?

It was in the shower. He wanted sex. I said no, but he did it anyway! He used force too. What should I do? This never happened to me before. I am so scared.

I went away on vacation and when I came back I found that my husband who never helps out in the house went through my kitchen and threw out all my recipe books and my papers, He also went through my cabinets and threw out everything that he deemed unnecessary even though he never cooks in the kitchen. I feel like the hired help with my husband telling me what to do. My husband does nothing all day while I work and do everything in the house and my husband doesnt lift a finger.

Our neighbor called tonite and wants to bring us a Christmas gift. Our house is a wreck, and I don't want them to see this. I work full time, but my husband is retired. His whole life and whole day evolves around sleeping and a walk he takes with our dogs. He refuses to put his clothes away, clean off the table where he sits, do dishes, throw out trash, and he collects more and more **** to the point, I am about to lose it. I can feel myself shaking the inside, but I have no recourse. He refuses to clean up after himself. He was going to hire a housekeeper, but he just lost his rear end on a house he sold and we can't afford it. Last night he came home drunk after an evening with his family in town. Im getting more and more out of sorts, and its bothering me to the point I am considering moving out. Should I stay or should I go? Do ultimatums do any good?

We recently decided to work things out. Upon his return he started offering to pay me for sex when I did not really want. I took him up on his offer a couple times because he was my husband. However, now he gets upset when I refuse the offer. I mean he wants it everyday, to the point I am starting to see why a high paid adult would sleep on people couches. I love him, but this is eating me up inside. If we do have sex, he will then try to pay me. This is weird and I feel like all he did while we were separated was prostitute with women.

I love my wife, so she invited her girlfriends over and us 3 had dinner on the living room, when her friend got up, i smacked her a$$ and it felt good, my wife looked and yelled at me, and i just spat at her face, disgusting women..

My fiance is a college professor. His mother is in her mid-nineties. I've decided that I can't live with her once we get married because she's too controlling, and it would be a bad idea in the first place. He lives with her. We've had discussions before about possibly getting an apartment or house. I don't know if the house he lives in with his mother has a mortgage or if it's already paid off. I can't see him selling that house. I would love to live in the house if it were the two of us, but his mom lives there, so I don't want to move in. So, right now it looks like there's no immediate solution or answer to this. But how should I come out and tell him I can't live in the same house as his mother? I want to tell him this in the most polite way possible, because my fiance always treats me with respect and I want to do the same to him.

ive been married to my husband for 10 years im in my mid 30's and we dont have sex hardly ever maybe once a month. we both work have 3 children and am both tired. i've been dreaming sexually about one of my husbands friends hes friends married as well with children and hes wife's currently pregnant but before she was pregnant i told him and we talk for a couple of months (he was out of town for the months we talked), my husband found out we were talking so we stopped since shes got pregnant and he came back in town we haven't been in contact. i cant stop thinking about him i dream of him almost ever night very sexual dreams and i think of him daily, i know where him and hes wife lives but never went over there had hes number but through it away. Should i contact him? i feel like if i sleep with him maybe i'll get him out my head and dreams and the thing is thats all i want from him, im really sexually attracted to him and he is to me as well. But since my husband threatened him he has contacted me. what should i do

I love my husband but he likes to get his gun out during intercourse. It's kind of cool but sometimes he just presses to hard against my head. The scary part is he likes to load it too. There was one time when he started shooting the walls. It was so loud. I worry about what the kids are thinking when it happens. My kids don't need social services they are already social enough. They louder then us

My husband's son from his prior marriage is a senior in high school. The son has a new gf and neither of us knows her well. Tonight, my husband invited his son out to dinner. The son asked his dad if he could bring his gf and the dad said yes. My husband proceeded to tell me he is taking them out to dinner and that I cannot come. I am hurt and he thinks I am overreacting. How would you feel?

I had the most wonderful husband who would take care of me so well.We have been married for 2 years and together for 6.He has changed so drastically.He just doesn't want a family life anymore after we had our first child.He did help a lot during the first few months with the baby.Now he doesn't even wanna keep an eye one the baby while I prepare dinner.We have been fighting over his chores around the house for months now.But he always bails out,always. We fought again today as usual and I couldn't take it anymore I told we should divorce he said ok.He didn't care at all.He just went out the door.Now that the topic is serious I don't think I can live without him. I begged him to come back telling I'd compromise on everything.He came back but wouldn't talk to me.Why am I so desperate?I don't think I can live without seeing him.And our baby likes him a lot,I don't want to ruin that.What do I do?I suggested counseling he told its me who is crazy n needs counseling not him.

So my wife cheated on me. When I asked why? She said it's because I wasn't spending time with her. To be fair, she isn't entirely wrong. for a while, I was working 2 jobs. Dealing with anxiety and depression. I might have spent too much time thinking about my own problems and forgot about her. So I neglected her involuntarily. Anyway, I think she deserves a second chance. I also share the blame on this one. My problem is. I am ready to forgive my wife, but I'm not sure that I'll trust her ever again.

Lets face it. No one is 100 percent faithful these days and adultery is tolerated in most western cultures. Even family courts award adulterers. Females, have you ever cheated on your husband? Men, how did you feel and what did you do after your wife cheated?

Getting married, my husband didn't have good credit, but he didn't have any credit cards. He mentioned that he would get his credit fixed since it happened when he was in college. I understood. He's told me how he has wanted to start his own business like his friends. I agreed to help him, but I did not know it was going to cause my credit to drop tremendously... Now my credit score is down 100 points, and our business expenses are what ran the credit cards out. He used all of my retirement, savings, and credit cards. He doesn't seem to take it seriously that my credit score is decreasing. I'm a financial perfectionist (I've never been late for a bill or anything), but my husband won't listen to me. He keeps signing up for luxury items (like cable, agreeing to spend money for His family's functions, eating out, etc.). We recently had a baby, and he told me he wanted me to stay home. Now he wants me to get a job so we can have extra money, but I need to make a certain amount to pay for health insurance and daycare. I just don't see any passion in him about fixing our situation. He still hasn't sought out a financial advisor like he said he would when we first got married. I love him, but I told him before we got married was to save for a down payment to own a house for our family. Now he's beginning to say I'm materialistic... I don't know what to do. I have my parents who are telling me to move back home so we can get caught up on the bills, but he doesn't want to do that.

He moved back in after 4 years separate. He wanted to move in. So when I say hey can you change this behavior (phone in pocket all the time even when he s asleep, ringer always off, never ever has it lying around even to charge) he says if I had something to hide I wouldn t have moved in, that s stupid. Or gets angry with me. But he will not do as I ve nicely asked.

My husband has just decided to tell me he doesn't want to spend Christmas with any family or friends, tells me this when we have flights booked for Sat, he says he just wants it to be him and I like it has been all year. He is ex-marine and has been diagnosed with PTSD which he had before the military and fiercely refuses treatment for. He also has no contact with his family. When I met him he was very closed off -he doesn't open up easily and doesn't want to be around many people-, He rarely attends social events with me, He prefers it to be the two of us which I normally have no problem with because I absolutely adore him but I'm a very social person with a big family and group of friends, I feel a lot of pressure from him sometimes because he claims I am the only person he feels safe with and trusts, Don't get me wrong I'm deeply in love with this man but I'd like to spend Xmas with my extended family too as I only see them twice a year. Any advice guys?

My wife and I have been married for about one year now (we are quite young to be wedded already). We love each other incredibly deeply, will forever be absolutely faithful, and I can't imagine life without her at all. Though at the same time, we neglect spending time together for some reason; even though the only place I'd ever want to be is right beside her. Because of college and work, we both don't really do much besides sit at home. Whether it's due to lack of money or time, or some other excuse, we don't really leave the house and have been on very few dates. We also don't talk very much, and I find myself reluctantly growing more susceptible to lust. I really want this to change. There should be no excuse for not finding the time for the woman I've given my life to. I find that we tend to admire each other from afar, like fans, rather than through interaction as a couple should. I'm also too formal with her. Please suggest anything so that we may remain happy together. I hate the thought of her being bored or unsatisfied, yet I keep her waiting. I feel like a terrible husband but I know things will improve over time. Thank you.

Hi guys. I am married since 2012, been together since 2009. He is Aquarian, I am Virgo. These three years have been hell for me, because I am suffering from mental disorder. My husband has been with me through it all, and he loves me. I don't work because I am recovering and I am spending 16 hrs in the same room. I am introvert and don't spend a lot time with other people. However, I do want to upgrade in my life. My husband is down to Earth, good person with deep heart but he isn't interesting in evolving. The same habits since I met him, and sometimes he act as primitive man, in sense of opinions and some habits he makes. I love him very much, and this love feels like a poison, because I am like a plant who can't live in the same surrounding with him but does need him because I deeply love him. But when love is updateful, uplifting and makes us happy? I don't feel happy with him. I amake psychological efforts to get us close, and sometimes my heart is bleeding because he appears not enough interestied and simply, satisfied with himself like he doesn't need another human being. I love adventure in my life, exitement which I think it will do good for me, but I don't get any. I am going down any day now, and he is just enough with his work and to pay the bills and to have what to eat. Some advice? Different aproach maybe? What do you think?

Help! Married 30 years, whilst drunk 25 years ago had a wild fling with a handsome stranger, one night full exciting sex BJ etc. Told my sister only, now after a huge family bust up she has told my husband He is furious and wants details, my best friend said 'tell him it was a hand job only he wont like it but will get over it!' What do i d

I was with my ex for 2 and a half years. We got married 6 months into our relationship. I knew I wouldn't rather spend my life with anyone else. He was more than my husband. He was my best friend. We did everything together. We did fight a lot and it was mostly on and off but we always ended up back together. I didn't treat him the way he deserved to be treated in the past. I put him down a lot. I emotionally abused him. He cried a lot cause of how I was treating him. It seemed like I didn't care at all when deep down it was killing me. I hated myself. I still hate myself. I never cheated on him or anything. I just took him for granted and thought he would always come back cause he did. I was just scared of getting hurt so I hid my emotions. I lost my mom to suicide when I was 4. I took my pain and trust issues out on him when he never deserved it. We've been separated for 2 months and I'm realizing what all I put him through. I didn't give him what he deserved. I'd do anything to take it all back. If me and him could switch, there's no way I would have put up with it for as long as he did. I wish I would have thought about that when I still had him. I tried protecting myself but all I did was destroy myself. He got with someone else 8 days after we separated this last time. I just don't understand why. I don't know if it's just a rebound relationship or not. Or if he's hurting as bad as I am or if he misses me as much as I miss him. He says he hates me but does he mean it ..

I came home all tired and hungry from work, and the stupid woman only made spaghetti, so i got mad and i grabbed the plat and i smashed on her face

I love to make my husband happy, any other advise of a clean mature people who have been in a marriage over 6years?

We moved to a new home, dog has diarrhea & poo'd up every carpet for a few days now. I'm tired of cleaning it up, so I wanted her to stay in the hardwd floor area but my husband "has to" let her sleep in the room. She has all the poop stuck on her butt hair and he "has to" have her on the bed. She stained the pillows/bed, but my husband says it's ok, but he complains and gives me crap when our son spits up/vomits, also shows no concern toward him or me being sick but acts more like a father to the dog when she's sick, he has patience feeding her but none to son, he hasn't even fed our son if any at all. I see how other guys change when they become a father but why is my husband not? It gets on my nerves, he puts the dog on a pedestal but treat me and son like crap, it feels hurtful.

We've only been married for two years and I already feel like we've been married for 20 years. I feel bored and uninspired in this relationship. I've had 2 serious long term relationships in the past (before I met my wife) and the only reason I broke up with those girlfriends is because I got bored. I dated the first one for 3 years and the second one for 3.5 years. I dated my wife 4 years before marrying her. The reason I knew she was right for me is because I got bored of my other relationships after 3 years but I was still interested in my wife after 4 years so I knew she was "the one" since she was able to hold my interest for so long. But to be honest I've been feeling bored in our marriage for over one year. So the honeymoon phase only last 6 months. My best friend said that not all men are the marrying type and that I was destined to be a bachelor for life. But I'm not the type of guy who likes to have one night stands with lots of women. I like having an emotional attachment to my partner and I like stability. Its just that I get bored easily once the newness of the relationship dies down. I miss the spark I used to feel for my wife. I miss the anticipation I used to feel before seeing her. I miss the butterflies I used to feel when I received a text message from her. Blah. I don't want to get divorced because I still love her but lately I've been flirting with a woman on facebook who is making me feel the butterflies again. I'm always eagerly checking my phone anxiously awaiting her response to my messages. And every time she sends me a message, I feel butterflies. Its a great feeling. This woman knows I am married and knows I have no intention of cheating on my wife or leaving her. We just enjoy flirting with each other. I like her a lot. She's attractive and fun to talk to but I know that leaving my wife for her would be stupid since I will eventually get bored of this girl too. What can I do to fix my problem?!

Got married to my wife 2012 and I have a son aged 2 years. Our marriage was little less than perfect but I was under impression things were ok. I am 35 she is 28. May 2016 I discovered she having an affair and chatting on whatsapp and calling her ex. she admitted to the affair and I forgave her. But I expected her to be little remorseful and show extra care towards me...which kept bothering me...after being exposed I expected her to love me more.which she never did and everytime I brought up this issue hse would argue with me and accuse me of blackmailing her and expecting too much from her cuz I caught her. So I would once in a while let out my concern and frustration but carry on...I never thought of divorcing her. Few months down around Sep I discovered she was physically involved with her multiple times that shook and tore me apart....she cried....I forgave her again but her behavior or her attitude towards me never changed. Tried continuing....went to couple counseling nothing changed to my satisfaction. Later I discovered she has been using her friends mobile to try to contact that guy multiple times, that also hurts a lot I lost faith and trust in her. But the thought she slept and was emotionally involved never left me and I was often sad and thinking about it to which she would always be angry on me accusing me of doing this on purpose to make her feel bad and one day she said she can't take this anyone and packed her bags to leave....I was very hurt and the second day I suffered a major heart attack but survived. Even after my heart attack there was no change in her behavior and she got aggressive now I am leaving in a constant fear she might conatct him again I lost trust on her, the fact she was never remorseful makes me feel a less worthy man and I am constanly worried so i deciced to divorce Now she tell me not to divorce her keeps crying and today she agreed for divorce provided I do not expose her in the family. Do you think my decision to divorce her is correct? And should I tell our famalies why we are divorcing> Thanks for your time guys!

What is the average dating period before marriage?

She's really upset. I did buy her a gift after, but it didn't solve nothing. Any ideas how to fix this?

I told my wife to clean the house, so I came from work to home, and it's even a bigger mess, so I took the kids tickets to disneyworld and I ripped them to shreds and I then went to a strip club and i didnt tell her i did, boy was it a night countin em stacks of cash, behind your wife's back

Bite your tongue

My husband and I both work full-time Monday thru Friday. He also goes to school 2 times a week. So he's more busier than I am. I also cook every day. He cook sometimes. But today, I'm exhausted and don't feel like cooking. He's complaining because he has school tomorrow and does not have leftovers for his lunch tomorrow. So I suggested to order the pizza or Chinese food that he likes. Now he's upset with me because he wants home-cooked food. I'm really really tired and I simply don't feel like cooking. But I'm feeling guilty because he wants me to cook and I don't feel like it. I cook most of the time. Why can I have a break sometimes? Why can't I have a break sometimes? Should I be feeling guilty for not cooking for him?

So I am in a room mate situation where my husband and I stay in a room and the Landlord stays in the other. My husband and I have had problems in our marriage ever since we started to room in this house with the landlord here. It didn't start until she broke up with her boyfriend and she started to get needy and emotional and too personal with us, and kind of attached herself to my husband which I only saw and my husband didn't. She was asking him for all sorts of help around the house, asking for help or advice for any little thing, giving him eye contact and not US, and I was just there like watching it all happen. The funny thing is she never asked me for anything, and she always blatantly ignored me. It wasn't until I said something to her and him that I was jealous that she finally backed away and started to respect our marraige. She also lied to my husband about something she told me and tried to say I was the problem and she wanted my husband to believe what she was saying over what she told me, and it upset me when my husband was considering her side. Well, he told her that I was his wife and priority always then she apologized. It wasn't until she respected our marraige and relationship did she really talk to me. When we were all together though, it would bother me that she would call me 'his wife' or 'your wife' and not by my name at times. It just was horrible and I'm so glad to be out of here. Oh forgot to mention my husband didn't realize any of this was going on until she tried to give me advice on my life and my marraige when she was having issues with hers. He said as I had said from the very beginning, it felt like we were married to this blah lady. Men are so clueless sometimes.

My wife of ten years loves to fight then wants to have sex. I do not like or want to fight her, but she is 5 ft 10 inches and naturally strong. The times she has attacked me, I had to punch her for real to get her off of me. Usually I will leave if I can first. Most of the time, out of nothing, she will create a reason to attack. She has never done any drugs, never raped, never molested, never lived in poverty and never verbally abused. She is very intelligent, works, graduated college has a tall forehead(frontal lobes?), and extremely emotional in all ways possible. But everytime after a fight, she gets so wet she has to change panties(and no it s never pee, I sneaked and checked) and is extremely horney and apologetic. I know there are many other woman like this. And just like my wife, will never admit it. Besides crazy, from a scientific point of view, what would make a woman be this way? And what are some healthy creative substitutions to replace the physical fighting that creates her post super aroused behavior?

I have been married 8 years and love my wife, but I may have done something wrong. I went to a strip club two nights ago with some work friends. One of my buddies bought me a private dance. While she was grinding on my I came in my pants. Is that cheating