Family: Question: Is this called "living poor" by SOME standards?

Question: Is this called "living poor" by SOME standards?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:55 PM PST

Eating garbage dinners from dumpsters & sleeping with NO matress! HOW CAN GOD LET THIS HAPPEN. THAT IS NOT LIVING!..I am sorry. I had to have my first husband bring me food from the cafeteria when he was an upper classman. BUT it was burgers, Rotisseries chicken & potatoes lol.I had to work PT for (6.50) an hour (1997 was the year) & go to Tech part time. I NEVER had lobster until I went to Boston. WHY?

Question: Can my mom force me to live with her?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:46 PM PST

I live with my grandfather, him and my dad have joint custody and I'm 14. I've lived with my grandfather and attended the same schools with same people for my whole life. My mom thinks living with her would be better for my health and education. But I really don't want to live with her, at my school I'm taking dual credit classes as a freshman with all seniors , in her area none of the schools have this program so I don't see how moving will better anything. I really don't want to live with my mom, especially because her and her boyfriend do drugs, I found out when I spent the night once and No one else knows, so I don't really want to bring it up and put them on blast or whatever with the rest of the family. I'd rather live with my dad than her, but she's spoke to my grandfather and dad about moving and they both agreed that's it's fine with them. Is there anyway she can actually force me to move and what can I do to not move?

Question: Moving into new house!!?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:40 PM PST

Okay so my mom and her boyfriend, my brother, sister, his daughter, and I were looking at a house. The house has 5 bedrooms and they are all different sizes. My moms bfs daughter and I like the same room. And I know she's going to throw a fit that she doesn't want the room downstairs. She's 11 and I'm 15. The thing is, the bedroom downstairs has a smaller closest and I have way more clothes than her. The bedroom upstairs has a bigger closet and I will be able to hang my clothes. I don't know what to do!! This is stressing me out and I don't know if i should let her have the room or I should have the room downstairs.

Question: How to stop your brother from hitting you?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:13 PM PST

my little brother and my big brother drive me crazy but my big brother but my big brother is not as bad as the little one he drives me crazy the most but he is a cute little baby that what my grandma thinks but he's a jerk but..um this is ambericing ..um me and my brother share rooms so but I'm 9 yr old and he is 8 yr old so he is a total jerk but watch out he can be right behind you...HELP Me.....

Question: My mom was upset that I did not want her side at my college graduation. They always yell and make fun of me.?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:13 PM PST

Question: My sister walked in on me!?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:03 PM PST

Im12 she's 18 and she walked in on me mastubating what should I do? She asked me what I was doing then just walked out

Question: Parents won t let me move out even though I am 18. They threaten to pretend I m not their kid anymore. Should I go?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:01 PM PST

I am currently in High school and will be turning 19 within the next few months. My parents are incredibly controlling and mean to me and my siblings (they say hurtful things to break us down and create unrealistic rules that no kid should have). I am not allowed to sleep at friends houses or even watch R rated movies if I am living under their roof. I am joining the Coast Guard because my parents refuse to pay for my education unless it is the school they agree to. I want to move out but they say they will pretend I am no longer their son if I do. Should I leave anyways?? Please give me answers.

Question: I need gift ideas xD?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:58 PM PST

My mom is hard to buy for. Most moms are. She doesn't like jewelry (well she does but she already has all she wants), and nothing over $150 please. I'm just out of ideas.

Question: Men how would you feel if...?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:48 PM PST

How would you feel if you were in a relationship with your baby mother, and she left you and ended up dating a female and she decided to co parent with you but raise your child together with the female?

Question: My mom is always snapping or yelling at me or making fun of me.?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:43 PM PST

Question: What do I do when my own brother shows nothing but hatred towards his own sister? PLEASE READ?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:36 PM PST

When I tell people my brother hates me, they usually think oh, that's just how siblings show love. I'm 15 (girl) and he's 17 and he has so much hate towards me that I don't even know what to do anymore. He doesn't just call me names like stupid, all the curse words you can imagine he says to me. He calls me everything from dumba** to fat fu*king c*nt etc. For the past 6 months it has gotten worse. He's been starting to say things like your a worthless piece of sh*t and go kill your self. He has been saying Go kill your self more and more and it's already getting to my head. I used to try to brush it off but the constant insults and threats every single day of my life every chance he has is really making me depressed and making me actually wanna do it. I tell my parents and they say "he's just jealous" or "he's going through a phase" I don't even think they know how much his words are impacting me. He text me all the time to go kill myslef and everyone would be happier without me. I responded "okay I will later" and he says "thanks". I honestly don't even know what to do because my parents don't understand how he makes me feel and when I tell them they don't do anything about it or they will tell him to stop but he never does. I need help on how to deal with your own sibling who lives with you and has nothing but hatred towards his little sister. (me)

Question: How do I stop my brother from lying?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:30 PM PST

so my brother is the youegest so he is so mean and rude and anoying but he fools everone that he is a cut baby but me and my brother share rooms so at night he is so mean and anoying so plz help me

Question: Please help me make a decision about my job vs. family. details below. recently my mom has had a health problem a stroke. she can?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:24 PM PST

she can get around and has been living alone but I think at this point no one in our family feels she should be living alone. she doesn't want to go into assisted living which I understand but I live in a neighboring state and have a good job. there are no other family members who are willing to relocate there. she is welcome to come and live with me but i'm not sure she wants to and my situation wouldn't be perfect because I have a long work day and the climate where I live in the winter is very cold and summer very hot. I do have ac. so I am considering quitting my job to live with her. this would be ok but it would put me in bad financial situation and without health benefits unless I could find another job with decent benefits but it's unlikely because I am in my 50's no college degree. my mom of course is far more important to me than work but I am very nervous about the whole situation. do you have any advice for me. I am in pretty bad torment right now. thank you.

Question: If my father had married a different woman, would I still exist and be born to that woman instead of my mother?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:17 PM PST

Question: My dad always says I have dust on my pants and he wipes it away.He looks at me up and down many times.Is this normal?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:01 PM PST

Question: Should I call Boothworld Industries to kill my abusive father?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:00 PM PST

I'm 16 years old, and my dad has emotionally and physically abused me since I was young, and Social Services wouldn't do anything. I just learned about Boothworld Industies, a supposed hitman agency. There's a certain phone number you call, tell them the name of the person you want to die, and they call you back some time later and you can listen to that person be murdered. I got this thought that I could have them kill my father, but I don't know if it's the best idea. Part of me says it's wrong, another part of me says he deserves it, so I'm at war with myself. I'm Catholic, so I'm also afraid of being damned to spend eternity in Hell if I do it. What do you guys think I should do? Call the agency to have him taken care of, or don't do it?

Question: Can I legally have sex with a 15 years old girl if the girl's parents don't object? Age of consent is 16 here in our country.?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 11:52 AM PST

Question: Am I being unreasonable towards my partners sister?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 11:41 AM PST

So my partners sister is driving me up the wall. I live with my partner in his dad's house and have done for 2 years now. I've been with my partner for 3 years and since before I met my partner, his sister was living in another city about an hours drive away. She moved for education but has always worked there so never returned for long periods of time. She got a house there with her partner in 2015 and despite all of this, she still likes to think she lives in the house me and my partner reside. We were not allowed to use her old room as a spare up until recently, when my partner moved his PC in there so we could both have a little more space. We are saving to move into our own place by the way, I pay my way buy my own food and do the housework/ironing etc. So although the situation has slightly improved regarding her attachments to the house, there's an issue. I have a small part in a kitchen cupboard containing my food that I bought with my own money. My partners dad allowed her to eat my cereal without my permission and when I asked where it had gone she said 'can't I have food in my own home?' So everytime she visits and stays over, she thinks she can take my food, teabags (I have green) and I don't agree to it. I've offered a lot of my food communally in the past but it costs for me to stock up. My partner said I should hide the food in our room but should I have to resort to hiding or labelling my food where I live?

Question: Hate my brother....?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 11:41 AM PST

I honestly can't stand him at this point. He's a 19 year old spastic and he's such an *** at any given time. It's not the typical "annoying" brother, he's genuinely such an ********. My mom was concerned that I wasn't eating one time, and he yells, "Who cares let her starve to death, that's her own problem." And he was being dead serious, but I call him a rat in the most playful manner and he starts cussing at me going bat sh*t crazy. He's done other stuff but I rather not mention, but I honestly wish he would disappear. I'm so sick and tired of him. As well as him and my mom speak so negatively about me, he mocks my anxiety, can never speak good of me though I can be nice, but if I say something in defense of myself, I'm disrespectful and mouthy. I'm tired of my mom and my brother and I hate how they believe I'm always in the wrong just because I'm younger. Yes, there has been situations where I'm wrong, where I can proudly admit, but they are just so rude and b*tchy, and its embarrassing and hard to deal with. My family is overal crap when it comes to being their mentally, had to go through years of depression on my own since I was 8 years old, and when I ask for help, they look at me like I'm some desperate child who wants attention. I can't deal with them anymore, what do I do?

Question: What is going on with my boyfriend?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 11:25 AM PST

Hello, I am a 23 year old female in a relationship with my 25 year old boyfriend of two years and I need help in figuring out what might be wrong with him, since it is starting to worry me and he is really suffering. As far as I know, my boyfriend has been a very healthy, very active, and fit person, but the last seven or eight months he's been having a lot of health issues. About eight months ago, he had this fit where his body just kind of slumped to the floor, he was completely unresponsive, and it was like he was holding his breath or struggling to breathe. When they took him to the emergency room, they did all kinds of scans, tests, and blood work, medication but everything came back as normal or not effective and it literally took him close to two days to wake up from it. When he did, he said he could hear literally everything that was happening around him, but he couldn't move or talk at all and they weren't able to diagnose him so they told us to see his doctor who summed it up as him being over-exhausted. About seven months later and he is now experiencing a lack of appetite (he's pretty much refusing to eat), excessive drowsiness, and episodes where he is just completely out of it (his eyes glaze over) and then afterwards he feels extremely foggy and gets a terrible migraine with it. He hates any sound now, lights bother him, and he over all he just looks sickly. His brain scans are perfect and nothing in his tests has indicated something wrong. What could this be?

Question: What would you do to prevent loneliness around the holidays?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 11:14 AM PST

I never get to see my family. They live too far away and it's expensive to travel to see them. Also, it really feels like they don't care that I'm here (mostly) alone. They don't come to see me and they don't call very often. We've had some issues but there's little effort on their part. I give many nice gifts and do call them. Not much is reciprocated.

Question: How can I deal with my emotionally manipulative mother?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 10:46 AM PST

Hi...thanks for reading. My mother is in her 70's, and lives out of state...a choice she made on her own 15 years ago. My brother lives close by her. I have 3 children. My youngest has a severe form of autism, so traveling for me is hard. I fly down to see her once a year for her birthday, and I just flew down again in october to help her recouperate from surgery. Leaving my autistic 16 year old here with aides is very difficult. He's non verbal, and behavioral, so I can't visit her for too long. It's usually 4 days...she never comes here...anyway, she just had another surgery, and I could not fly down this time. I asked my brother to help her recover. He works full time, and is doing his best. Everytime I call her, she screams that she is alone. She screams that her children should be caring for her. She screams to me that my brother doesn't do enough for her. All she does is complain. Even her kind neighbors are helping her, and she's complaining about the hours that they come help. I offered to pay for an aide to come help her...she screams "NO!"....I offer to call and have food delivered, and again, "NO!"... I just had surgery myself 2 weeks ago, and it was a major surgery...I am still on restrictions, and my Dr. said I cannot travel...It's hard enough caring for my autistic son (who is a toddler in an adult size body)...she constantly puts pressure on us...I love her, and I understand that she's in pain. I'm trying to be supportive, but she shoots me down

Question: My dad sides with me against my mother?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 10:31 AM PST

I know it's weird to be annoyed by that . Buti don't like seeing a married cupple where one of them points a finger at the other . This has also been a bad influence on me and my siblings because it really just gives us more room to mess up. My dad does ground us when we mess up but if our mom is involved he'll just blame her . I'll admit that my mom isn't a good person right now , not a good mother eithet but still. My parents already have a really bad relationship so it's only getting worse. The other day i had a fight with my mom and she told my dad and my dad blamed her and now they're getting a divorce . And she blames me for that even though she brought it up . How do i fix this ? I know a lot of this is my fault but I can't help it . I'm 19 btw .

Question: Am I wrong to abandon my abusive parents?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 10:18 AM PST

I've suffered so much grief and pain and bullying from my mother for some uncertain reason. I'm 21 and shes been bullying me since high school. Part of it I'm sure its because she loves my brother more and that I didn't get into a prestigious university. She yells at me every time she sees me in the house with a valid reason or not. She has pleasure in degrading and insulting me, making me feel inferior. I know my parents still love me and care for me. but this is too $hitty for me to bear. I confided to a friend and he blamed me saying im a bad child for abandoning them. Even if they did abuse me, they still sacrificed to raise me. But right now, i can't tolerate or face my parents even one bit without feeling like murdering them. Its insane for me right now.

Question: What can I do about my annoying father?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 09:52 AM PST

My father was never around when I was young. Now when I'm 17 he's finally decided to settle with us. But he forces me and my sister to do everything differently. He thinks we're spoiled and he wants to change us completely. He tries to control our lives in every way possible. Also, since I'm going to University next year he thinks I "need" to be more stressed and I should not be having any fun at all. Instead, I should be studying 24/7. Neither of us have ANY interest in him and anything he has to say, and we will never like him. He thinks that if he forces his "good habits" on us (as if we've had zero development all these years), no matter how much we hate him now, we will remember it and be grateful to him in the future. But I don't see that happening. He's just losing his last chance of showing us he can be somewhat good. I just want him to mind his own business and not interfere in our lives in any way at all.

Question: How do I let my mom know that coughing without covering her mouth is nasty?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 09:40 AM PST

My mom never covers her mouth when she coughs and she doesn't cover her nose when she sneezes, but she gets mad at other people when they do the same thing. I try to tell her that what she does is really gross, but she gets mad at me and threatens to hit me. She was cooking dinner one night and she started choking and she was coughing all over the food and I told her that that was nasty and she got mad at me and took away my car keys for a week. I'm 18 by the way.

Question: Is my mom insane? Or normal?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 09:25 AM PST

So, when my mom makes me clean my room, it has to be SPOTLESS. She has never been in a good relationship with a man, despite her being gorgeous. She is always angry, and always ALWAYS makes a small deal, a HUGE deal. She never believes me. Never trusts me. She has OCD, but I don't think that really has anything to do with this. Earlier, I thought I cleaned up an "accident" my dog had left. I thought it was fine, and left it alone. My mom LITERALLY SCREAMED, and wiped a paper towel on the floor. It DID have a little urine on it, and she proceeded to shove it in my face. I said I would clean it up, and then she flipped again because she wanted me to clean it later. I agreed, and now she thinks I'm taking her shampoo, which I never touched. happiness_is_retirement, my dad died when I was 9 anonymous, she was diagnosed OCD. The place we live in is fine, and she admits to overreacting. If you read the actual question, maybe you'd get it.

Question: Why does my mom ruin so many "fun" things?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 08:58 AM PST

my mom is an expert at getting mad at anyone in our household. It seems we can't do anything fun without her ruining at lest an hour of it. Grandma breaths heavy because she's old, mom takes it as she's being sassy toward her. Take the wrong stop in DC my step dad clearly has it out for ruining her fun. Me and my step dad argue, clearly I'm trying to ruin HER life. It's always about her, and it's always got to be fought out for hours. We had to sit in the hotel room in DC for half the day convincing her changing our flight home to right then would be a waste. Today she won't go to the garden with me as planned because I said "dang, can't do anything right this morning!" In a joking manor after burning my waffles (she's been mad for 4 hours now). Then she will cry like WE hurt HER. It seems with her the only way I can get out of her freaking out on me is not being around which just means she will focus her anger on my other family members. Is it normal for a mom to freak out on her family like this all the time? She can't see her part in things at all. She blames whoever she's mad at and anyone who walks in after is the next victim but no of course SHES somehow always the victim even though all they did was walk in the room. I've dealt with it for so long but now that I have a dorm to live at... I'm tempted to get a job by the school and use it as an excuse to never come home. I don't want to live like this anymore but I know that's not what she wants. I don't know what to do

Question: Family Advice?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 08:52 AM PST

Not exactly sure how to phrase the question. I've always tried to be nice and do the right thing, but I often get in trouble, like yesterday, my stepmom told me not to go in my toddler half-sister's room and to let her cry it out. Crying it out feels terrible! I didn't want to just let her scream her head off. I calmed her down. I got in trouble for not listening and my phone got taken away for the rest of the day. I also have insomnia and I listen to white noise on my phone at night and so when I didn't have that, I just cried myself to sleep. And it's really hard because when I calmed her down, I was just trying to do the right thing but when you get in trouble right after doing nice things it makes you feel like there's no point in being nice at all. I just want to lay in bed all day and do nothing.

Question: What to do when you are bored?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 08:35 AM PST

My parents are at work so I can't leave my home. My sister sleeps until 2 and I can't wake her up from tv noises. My sister is 18, doesn't work, up all night, sleeps all day, acts like the boss and I can't stand her. I am 12 and have no cash and can't leave. I wish my sister would leave though so I could do stuff that involves noise. What do you suggest that is quiet and in a house? I wanted to bake but we have nothing to bake. I have no tv in my room only my phone.

Question: I don't understand why do some parents get rid of their kid's stuff without even asking them first?What is there reason for doing that?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 08:08 AM PST

I had some old toys and childhood keepsakes that were stored in the basement. One day, I went downstairs to the basement to search for my stuff and found out that all of stuff from my childhood are all gone! When I ask my dad about it, He just simply said, 'welll I thought you don't wan't it anymore, so I donated it to the thrift store. He just assume that I didn't want the stuff anymore without even asking me. If he doesn't want my stuff to be in his basement, he could've just tell me about it, I'm more than willing to put my stuff back into my living room. He didn't even bother to ask me about it. I really don't understand why does he do that? I was quite shocked by this because he had never done such a thing like that before. In the past, he rarely even goes through my stuff and throw my things away without asking me. My dad is a short tempered man, I was afraid to ask him for an explanation. So I asked my mom to do it for me. When my mother confronted my dad about it, he get angry, defensive and ignores her. He doesn't even bother to give any explanation.

Question: Why do I feel more guilty and sad when my parents are kind and supportive when I mess up as opposed to when they yell and scream at me?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 08:07 AM PST

Question: Is my mother right or am I? (Please answer)?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:58 AM PST

Male here. My mother's sister/my aunt had been rude to me lately for the past few months. I don't talk to her on a regular basis but the times that I did the past few months she was rude and was giving me attitude and I put her in her place for disrespecting me and she hasn't said happy birthday to me for a few years I think now, don't remember. It's her bday today and my mom told me so I can wish her a happy bday. I said "so? What do you want me to do? She's rude to me and has no respect so why should I respect her or show her love when she doesn't return it?" My mom's response was "she's your aunt" and mine was "that's great mom but I don't allow anyone to disrespect me or at least be rude to me like she was. I don't care if she's the president of the United States. Wasn't cool. So today's a regular day for me"? She's mad at me because she isn't talking to me but meanwhile they had problems too and now they're cool again. Am I wrong for feeling the way I feel? Sh_t really wasn't cool.

Question: What is the best gift someone can give to their mother in law?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:31 AM PST

Question: What would you do if you gave your sibling $20,000 because they were sick and they lied for plastic surgery?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:26 AM PST

I have 2 older sisters. I live with my 28 year old sister in the USA that we will call "Maria" and my other sister lives in mexico and lets call her "Emma" Basically Emma said that she was very sick and needed $20,000 from my sister Maria for surgery to fix her sickness. My sister Maria sent her $20,000 thinking she really need it. Then Maria and I went to mexico a few months later to visit Emma. When we got there Emma looked completely different. What happened was she used the $20,000 for plastic surgery and was never sick to begin with and lied. What would you do if your sibling conned you 20,000 by lying about being sick and used it for surgery?

Question: My brother are asleep and its 10:02 and i wanna play the game but 1 of my brothers is in the liveing room?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 07:05 AM PST

Question: Found out my Dad has a secret 22 year old Thai girlfriend. Should I confront him about it?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 06:41 AM PST

Hey everyone, I'm a 21 year old white woman and recently my Dad (who's 53) went to Thailand on what he claimed was a short business trip. I was using his laptop when I accidentally found a hidden folder with photos of him and a young Thai woman looking extremely close. (Selfies of her sitting on his lap wrapped around each other, giving him kisses etc). I looked through his phone and found out she's a 22 year old Thai woman who works at a bar or nightclub. Their messages were repulsive, where he would call her 'his secret pretty young girlfriend', and she would say things like 'I want to meet your daughters one day' (my sister is 24) and even asked to see photos of us. A typical young Thai trash gold digger using older western men for money. I haven't told my sister or Mom yet for fear of ruining everything, but I'm so angry about this I want to confront him about this disgusting situation. I also feel like sending a nasty message to that Thai woman too. Should I do this?

Question: How does my mom get custody of me.?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 06:19 AM PST

It says that the parents have to agree... well my parents are some of the most imiture people in the world and my dad has not done a lot to harm me and my older sister he's beaten me but that's what normal Asian parents do. Me and my sister want to live with our mom but we don't know what to do and neither does our mom. I don't know what to do.

Question: Would you accept an invitation to Christmas dinner if this happened to your family?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:17 AM PST

We were. Illegally evicted from our home. We needed to b orrow money to go to a hotel. We reached out to. my sister and her husband for help. Th ey declined helping us. T his particular sister is well to do. And I never ask her for anything. In fact, she has called on me and my husband and kids to do things for her family for years. And we always delivered...free of charge. It was as if I were expected to always be available. So the other day she sent a text inviting us to dinner. My husband and daughter dont want to go. Their feeling is if you wouldnt help us whrn we were down and out...why should we break bread together? Real family helps each other out. And th e y didnt offer any type of help at all.

Question: Why is my mom ignoring me?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 05:02 AM PST

The other day I was having coffee with my grandparents and my mom called me and asked if I wanted to go buy groceries with her to make Christmas cookies. I said I wanted to stay with my grandparents a little longer. She said "i ll go alone just like i everything by myself." She came home and i was gonna carry in the groceries for her when i got home but she told me leave her alone. Today she isn t talking to me she is being very cold towards me. She always likes to play victim all the time...

Question: Today my mum got angry at me for something thats not even bad in my eyes?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 04:25 AM PST

its so unlike my mum to get so angry this easily but today me and her went grocery shopping and i saw my math teacher in the car park and she high fived me and i high fived her as hard as i could and my mum calmly said something along the lines of "not too hard" and she said "its alright" and i high fived her as hard as i could again and then while we were walking into the store my mum told me that she was embarrassed and on the way out we heard this loud horn and it made my heart jump so i said the f word (not saying this wasn't bad) but she got very annoyed and when we got back in the car she started talking about me high fiving my math teacher too hard again and said angrily something along the lines of "DONT YOU EVER HIGH FIVE AN ADULT THAT HARD EVER AGAIN OR ILL GROUND YOU!" and i thought she's just in a bad mood because of me swearing in public but then a couple of hours later she was refusing to admit what an overreaction it was and i don't think what i did was bad at all. do you guys think she was overreacting if not why btw im 13

Question: Sister is a snitch?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 03:52 AM PST

My sister is 2 years older than me, shes 19 now. I always hear from my friends and stuff whenever they come home late from a night out or smoke weed with friends their sisters are cool with it and hide it from parents. But my sister is the biggest snitch in the ******* world. Texts my mom saying im not home yet, always against me in whatever argument, like i dont understand whats wrong with some people, ******* idiots honestly

Question: How do i come out to my parents?PLEASE HELP ME!��?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 02:37 AM PST

So im 13(a girl) and i think im bisexual...I needed someone to talk to about it...so i talked to my grandpa..so he told my grandma when i told him not to...so she was like (xyz) told me everything(in mean tone) and you know we are going to have to talk about it....and i refused...she was like cuz none of that stuff runs in my family...and she said "Im going to have to tell my god mom....if you dont tell her,i will."so i got upset and took a walk for a good 20 min and idk what to do...or how to come out to my grandma or my God mom she might kick me out...and they ate very religious 😪😪 PLEAAAASE HELP ME!

Question: My mom is playing favoritism?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 02:25 AM PST

I am among the 5 children she had, i have two sisters 28, and 15 ( i am a girl btw) My brothers 32, and 16 and i am 30. For some reason my mother always prefer my brothers than my sisters and me. But the thing that i hate the most is that my brothers would take advantage with the situation. Like i would remember getting beat up by my older brother and my mom would either allow it or would tell him to beat me up. And she does the same thing with my younger brother to my younger sister. Not only that but my mother bullies us, and belittle us with our brothers and if we confront them it's either that we are jealous or she won't admit that she is playing favoritism with my brothers and turns the situation like if we are the one with the problem instead of her because she plays the victim. I also could feel that my brothers hate me (me more because i am the one who rebels and stands up for myself and my sisters) as i also heard my brothers talk bad things about me to my mom, like giving more poison to the situation like if they don't want me to get along with my mom. And they are spoiled. Last time i catch my younger brother complaining to my mom that why does my mom takes me to the mall instead of him. For me that is jealousy trait to me. What can i do with my brothers and why does my mom is playing favoritism if we all love her the same?

Question: What's the solution for my girlfriends son?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 01:45 AM PST

My girlfriends daughter, 10, supposedly got on the son's nerves, 18, so he flung a shirt on her face so hard her head smacked the wall. She retaliated, upset, so he kicked her in the stomach. The mother had enough so she said he could potentially get in trouble with the law, in order to show him the seriousness of the situation. He took it like she was betraying him, so he is now living at his dad's, divorced, and not communicating at all with the mother. I think this is wrong of him especially around Christmas.

Question: Freaked out over money?!?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:39 AM PST

I recently graduated high school 2016, and am getting ready for college January 2. I got an apartment with a friend but that went way downhill and Im down $500 that I'm not getting back. I have a car payment of $150ish and am trying to get back on my feet, my bank account is almost empty after my last car payment and I'm very stressed lately. I have a part time job which has paid for my car thus far but I'm scared of it interfering with college. Anywho what can I do? I'm so stressed, I can't ask my family either my dad died and my mom doesn't care for me... I'm terrified

Question: I don't know why but seeing my sister tickled turned me on..why?

Posted: 23 Dec 2016 12:35 AM PST

Let me first say..I'm 13 and I'm not attracted to my 11 year old sister at all but one day..I heard my sister laugh harder than I ever had before. I went into her room and her best friends had my sister tied down and were tickling her feet with a hairbrush. I don't know why but seeing my sister helpless laughing so hard got me worked up. And later that night I went to masturbate playing that tickling event over and over. Is it weird that watching my sister being tickled really hard turned me on like that? Has it also happened to you?

Question: Why do you love me because I don't?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 11:37 PM PST

Question: Is stealing dirty panties bad?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 11:14 PM PST

I'm taking my step mom and step sisters dirty panties and smelling and jerk of to them I'm now spying on them and I've fingered my step sister and eaten her out a few times but I need help cracking the step mom into giving me the key to her pussy

Question: Can I get legal custody of my niece ?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 11:10 PM PST

I love my niece her parents have problems and even asked for help. However I don't have a house and am considered below poverty level income, could I still raise my niece?

Question: Is it ok to like like my step sister?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 11:08 PM PST

I love my step sister so much I rub my penis on all of her clean clothes including the inside of her panties and her bras I jerk off to pictures of her and I spy on her in the shower and when she changes I've once even pulled down her pants and shoved my finger in her pussy which was a little to far I don't know what to do I need help

Question: What do you do if your partner's parents are extremely emotionally abusive?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:47 PM PST

Question: Cousins and what they are to me (Family tree)?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:40 PM PST

What would my Grandpas sister's Granddaughter be to me would she be my second or third cousin because I like her and she is bad as hell oh and what would my grandpa's sister Granddaughter's daughter be to me CAUSE she is bad as hell ALSO

Question: Can I get my one cousin a present and not her brother?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:31 PM PST

I'm very close with my little cousin (7 y.o.), but she also has a brother (5 y.o.) and I always felt that it would only be fair to get them both a present if I were to get them presents for Christmas. Here's the issue... She is the most grateful little girl in the world and she would absolutely love anything that I got her. Her brother, however, is a brat and does not appreciate anything that is given to him. I've babysat them both and he destroys all his stuff and DEMANDS more. I got her something really cool and I got him something that I know he'll like but there wasn't much effort put into this gift. However, I told him tonight that I got him a present for Christmas and he started freaking and said "Give it to me NOW!" He also knows I have an excellent set of video games and he said "Either give me one of your video games or don't get me anything!" Now I just want to return what I bought him and give my little sweetie her presents. Is that fair? Will the parents freak out?

Question: How can i move out by the time im 19?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 10:27 PM PST

I just turned 18, and i seriously cannot be in my parents house anymore.. theyre so old fashioned, their way of parenting has got me sick... like im not a baby anymore but yet still they treat like im 15 how can i move out any tips will help pls

Question: I want to run away from home! I need to make sure my entire future won t be affected and I need to know how to call my parents(also im 15)?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 09:58 PM PST

So I ve been planning for some time now to runaway from home I don t plan to do it till summer, I read that I can go to school as a runaway but will I be found if I went to school, also I plan on traveling to another state, I hate it here I live in Texas I was forced to move here and I m not really being abused but my parents are really strict, I also basically hate my school as it is trashy and there are a lot of people that I ve known for a very long time but some are just rude, it s not like I have a "horrible" life but it s not good as I am being "verbally" abused my step mom yells at me all the time and I get made fun of and the only people I actually care about are my dad and my grandma and I want to know how to let them know that I m safe and that I will be ok because I already have places that I can stay when I do it I just don t want to make a huge deal out of it I just want to leave to another state where I can finish high school and I m not dumb I ve obviously put logical thought into it but I don t want to hurt my dads feelings so I want him to know that I will be ok and I promise that I will not do anything bad and I ll be taking showers everyday and I will be able to take care of myself please don t tell me not to runaway as I have made my decision but I just need to know how to let him know that I m ok so he won t feel bad I was already gone for a year living in Colorado so he won t really feel bad

Question: I "hate" my niece. Need help?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 09:48 PM PST

I'm 16 and my niece will be 2 in one month. My sister (her mother) is 18. We all live at home with our parents. Since my sister is 18, I'm eager for her to move out so I don't have to put up with her kid anymore. She drives me f*cking crazy. I've never liked kids, and I probably never will. So view me as an a$$hole if you want to be that kind of person. First of all, my parents bring her down to my room when my gf comes over, no matter how many times I tell them we want privacy. It's bullsh*t because my sister is allowed to run around everywhere with her boyfriend and leaves her daughter for us to care for. So why am I required to babysit? My sister is an ungrateful b*tch to all of us, but my parents are too f*cking nice to kick her out. I can't even sit down and play a video game without being asked to go up and watch my niece because my mom doesn't trust her in a room by herself for 10 seconds. I want to love her, I really do. But it's too hard. I can't go to my gf's house because I haven't gotten my license yet, and my parents won't drive me over there (she lives like 30 minutes away. It makes me feel bad because I'm supposed to be the gentleman and go see her, not the other way around). Whenever my parents are holding her and walking towards me, I don't even look at her. I just ignore her. You wanna know why? It's because I don't want her to get attached to me, and want to be around me 24/7. I really just want to be a good uncle. A little help would be much appreciated.

Question: PLEASE ANSWER! How can I tell my parents I wanna move into a house?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 09:34 PM PST

I found house probably in our price range and I just wanna know how to show them to my parents. There is nothing I want more than to move out of our trailer.

Question: What should i do..?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 09:24 PM PST

my mother is obsessed with shopping. i know that sounds super stupid but its a serious problem. she has to look at every little rack and not just glance through she has look at EVERYTHING. she buys stuff she doesn t need and wonders why she has no money, also why no one wants to go shopping or go anywhere with her is because she takes hours. her closet is completely packed with clothes to the top and falling out of the closest. she has clothes that she s never even worn or had since she was 20.. shes almost 50 now. she even picks stuff up on the side of the road.. especially fruniture. our house is so packed we can barely even use the dining room, living room, and my parents bedroom. Shes so obsessed she will go the goodwill donation box and steal donations. My family (me, my brother, my dad) and my mom constantly argue about it and her response is always "i ll do whatever the **** i want","this is my mother ******* house","its my way or the highway". she doesn t understand that we live there too and just living in a house like that makes you not want to even do anything because you have to face a huge disaster every day. I told her thereipist and she proceeded to say "i dont know what they re talking about","im not like that". All her therepist said was "well maybe you need to get rid of some stuff" and that was practically the end of it. I don t know what to do anymore..

Question: Im afraid of my father getting a gun?

Posted: 22 Dec 2016 09:17 PM PST

My dad wants a gun for christmas. Im afraid somebody will give him one. I understand guns protect people, but I know he isn't the most responsible person. My family has a history of anger issues. My mom, brother, and dad all have anger issues. I don't. Im afraid one day he will crack and start shooting. Im afraid my mom will shoot herself because once she tried to overdose. Im afraid my brother will shoot me because once he tried to stab me. I don't know what my dad might do because he is irresponsible, and he could do anything. I know for a fact that the gun will be left out un protected. Everything thats happened has been controlled after but, a gun is just one shot! What do I do?