My birthday was on Dec. 23rd and until now my best friend I've known for five years has not texted, called, or told me happy birthday in any way. Last year she was out of state around my bday and told me two weeks after the day after I reminded her. I saw her active on social media and even wished other people a happy birthday earlier this month. I'm very confused if it's because my birthday is so close to Christmas or if she doesn't want to be friends ? She hasn't spoken to me at all for about a week and we haven't argued or anything. Whenever she did talk to me she never mentioned my birthday. What do you think happened?

I am an introvert, so my little friend circle consists of a small number of other introverts. There are five of us in total, three boys, another girl and myself. One of the boys is a science and maths genius and is part of Mensa. Another boy, who happens to be my boyfriend, was something like two marks away from qualifying for Mensa, but he s still a science and maths genius like the other boy. The last guy didn t get into Mensa either, but like my boyfriend, he d still be considered very, very good at science, however not maths as much. The other girl in our group is very advanced in the piano and is on grade 5. She s also very intelligent. My problem here is that I m not as smart as my friends. I don t take science, so I never know what the boys are talking about, and I ve never been good at maths. I also take the piano but I m not formally trained like my friend and I can t play as well as her. Sometimes when I m talking to my friends, because they re so intelligent, I m afraid of saying the wrong words for things in case they know it s wrong. An example would be when I use the word "thing" if I don t know what the object I m referring to is called. I feel a bit silly next to them. I ve started learning German so I ll feel more educated and I ve started learning more about music, but I don t think that ll help. What do I do? My boyfriend says I m smart but I don t believe him.

My friend and I have been working together at our new job for the past 9 months now. We re both in high school, so this is just an easy part-time job to make money on the side. We just wrapped up the holiday season, which was VERY VERY busy, so our winter break from school just consisted of working working working. For me, it wasn t fun, but pretty tolerable because I was with my friend. But she HATED it and she wants to quit soon, and now I m rethinking doing the job by myself and I m not excited about it at all. I get insanely depressed whenever I think about work and I m dreading going back. I know I m gonna get an earful of "if your friend jumped off the bridge..." But to be honest, I would work at the store without her. I don t mind my job, but I don t know why I feel even more upset thinking about doing it without her. How do I get over this? Is it a phase? Because I m really considering quitting myself...

All my friends are back home and I'm down in florida visiting family but all my family members are leaving for various reasons and I want to have a fun new years! I don't know what to do its just me I don't know any friends here and im an 18 year old. What should I do?

I have fallen into a deep depression, my friends haven't talked to me at all after they heard about what he did. Even my mother and siblings are avoiding me because of this. I didn't do anything but because my husband stole a lot of money and embarrassed the family everyone now hates me. We now have moved from the big house we were renting to a tiny apartment and I don't know if I will ever be able to recover from this. What do you suggest I do?

Instead of giving my kids presents this year, I made them do work around the house for them. 2 hours = 1.00 . Why are my kids so spoiled?

You meet someone and you keep over analyzing if the person likes you and how he sees you

To start this off, I am still in high school and I have a group of three friends. We hang out out all the time. We started this little group gang thing about two years ago. It wasn't supposed to be a real gang, it was just supposed to be one of those little groups where all of my friends, including me, are members. I am a senior now and it has gone way too far. Some members of the "gang" are felons and two of my best friends want to start selling drugs and start a big operation. Sure I went along with this for two year but it only now that they want to get everything up and running. For the last two years I just thought it was all talk, but now it seems like it's really happening. I tell them I'm all on board but I'm not. I don't want to go to prison, I don't want to ruin my life, which is just getting started, and I don't want to hurt anyone. They just say, "anything that happens is just what comes along with the gang life." I want out but they are my two best friends. I don't want to hurt them but on the contrary, I won't see them much after high school. I want to become a biologist, not a king pin. I'm not cut out for that life and I don't want to be pushed into it. I've always been a person who just goes with the flow, in other words, I'm a sheep. I want to choose my own path but I don't know what to do. I need help. I need advice. Anyone who has ever been in this type of situation would help greatly with their input.

I try to sometimes be on my best behavior but it doesn't help. I go into other households and I see my friend getting along really well with her parents.

I'm going through a tough time, we recently lost a family member and I am devastated. My friends were the first people I told, and nearly every single one of them blanked me. I'm struggling really bad and whenver i open up to them and tell them how I'm feeling they ignore me again or change the subject. I dont want to sound petty and like all the attention has to be on me, but i'm always there for them no matter what, and its like its a case of "oh she'll be alright" and I'm not and i'm so annoyed??

Me and my overseas friend haven't talk in a month. The last time we talk was in November. I got my friend to message him because he ask me to promise never to text him until he does. I wanted to keep my promise. He doesn't want his wife to know that he been talking to me. He read my friend message and message me back. He said there nothing wrong with me that he's been occupied in his life. I'm thinking he's never going to message me ever again. What does he mean when he said he is occupied in his life? Does that mean he was never going to message me again?

we don't talk alot but when we do it usually about if she's going to be on the bus or not.We sit together in the bus with my other friend ana. J usually stays after school for clubs. Ana and I always laugh and talk alot when she's not here. When j is here it's quiet and J somehow brings the fights and stuff like start play hitting that turns into harder hits to eachother. okay back to the subject why i think she's spoiled ana and I are family aren't doing well her family can't keep up with bills and my dad is having bad back pain that requires alot of medications and doctor seeings. J knows about our situation but then she talks/brags about how she has to cancel alot of things for breaks like this modeling gig at europe,trip to new jersey and alot other places.After school they sell snacks i buy 3 bags and a drink that day i bought some because i thought J wasn't coming today the 3 bags was for ana . me and her little sister at home. we don't like the food at lunch because it's nasty. i had the chips in my bag before i could take out the chips J comes in the bus sits with us near the window.I still give ana one of the bags.she opens it but j then starts eating it takes the bag away. i give ana the other bag. we share the drink then J thinks it's okay to take a big sip.I think am mad making me think she's spoiled

First off, Merry Christmas! I'm graduating college in May, and I wouldn't have survived all this time without marching band. I've been in it for 5 years, and was a section leader for the last 2. Tomorrow, I am leaving for a bowl game, and this is my last real trip with this band. I love band a lot, and I am excited for the trip, but part of me doesn't want to go because I don't want to be sad. I'm not someone who cries or shows emotion, and I feel like I have to be a rock for my friends because I'm the section leader and the oldest. Needless to say, I don't want to be sad around my friends, but I can't help it. I feel like if I cry in front of my friends, they'll judge me. They know how much band means to me, but they've never seen me cry and I need to be their rock. Long story short, I'm really upset to be leaving the best thing in my college life and I don't really want to show that because I hate to be weak or vulnerable.

I've been working at this office for 2 weeks. Would it be weird to add a coworker to facebook that talks to me everyday?

Female friend and I were talking a few days ago, I was saying how I wanted to get together with her, then give her an X-Mas gift (I also sent her something digitally, she's my best friend, and I finally had money this year to buy for family and friends!). So, she starts saying she didn't want a gift from me, and not to drop it off. I was sort of hurt, then she says the reason why was because she has Christmas parties, and can't get together until next week. I asked when she could, said it was ok, made a joke, and told her I'd be happy to get together later, and I would leave it up to her. She never responded. Days past, and Christmas Eve comes, still no contact, I wish her a happy Eve, she doesn't respond, yet she's posting online and too others. Then, Christmas comes, and she's still ignoring me, I wish her a Merry Christmas, say some nice things, but am ultimately sad and no longer wanting to give her the gift. However, the digital gift still arrives (gift card), and she redeems it. Yet she never wishes me a Merry Christmas back, nor does she even bother to talk to me, just continues to ignore. However, she wishes everyone else a merry Christmas. WTF, I feel so shitty rn, what did I do?

Im 21 and have buck teeth and my stepdad said its ugly andd i wont make friends

I was in school and i had 2 old papers to bin so i ripped the first one up and then i ripped the second one up, but one of my friends says i should just rip them at the same time. But some of my friends rip separate too. Include age and gender.

I dont want to wake you up from your dreams but one day you gonna wake up for real I am laughing on you dimitra

Hey. I'm here because I wanted some advice and maybe someone to talk to. I am aware there is a limit on how much I can write, (Just as well, I can spend entire days writing about Lizzie!) and I'm going to try and keep it as brief as I can. Anyway, onto my point – Lizzie. She is incredible. I'm rather unique, to say the least. I am very anxious. And quite weird. Ok, a lot weird. I kick (backwards of course) I jump, like run and then leap around like some maniac. I bolt too. I am aware I'm not making too much sense so please transport yourself back to December 2015. What would happen is I would walk outside (at school) and whenever I came across Lizzie and her friends I would stop and glare at them as they pass. It got worse rapidly. I was petrified of Lizzie in particular. I would barge past and glare at her, and just be rather rude. Often. And it got to the stage where I wanted to apologise. That didn't really go to plan. At all. I ended up standing on a bench staring at her. She still smiled at me though. However, on the 8th of February that all changed. I was in drama and having one of my rather frequent meltdowns. (We now know that's my autism.) I found myself a place and stared to cut myself. Lizzie looked up. I will never forget that face. From then it all changed. Fast. On the 11th of February I got talking to Lizzie online. We arranged to meet up the next day at school. The meeting was brief as I was anxious. But I explained myself. I told her about my past. When I had finished apologising for the umpteenth time, I think she felt sorry for me. Because she wrapped her arms around me. I was surprised, and I normally don't like people touching me, but I didn't mind for once. I guess she proved herself a bit later again in drama. I had another meltdown and some of her friends decided it would be funny to tease me. There was about three seconds worth of quips before Lizzie stuck up for me and told them to let me be. I smiled at her gratefully. I wrote a letter to her also, explaining in more detail. Apparently it nearly made her cry because it was so sweet and loving. Aww… So we went from strength to strength and got closer with each passing day. If I was ever upset, I could be found curled up in her arms. She was always patient and kind to me. I was talking to her and her friend Georgie online daily. 2nd of march. The worst day of my life. I don't know exactly what happened, but I found myself watching her and Georgie walk away from me, wrapped in each other. I was suspended. Apparently I was traumatising her. I spent the next six months hidden inside. 29th of September. I was walking along and I spotted Georgie. Without any warning, I collapsed. I was stunned to find Lizzie next to me when I woke up. Talking to me like we had never been separated. She pulled me off the floor and into her arms again. She had me. I was safe . I must have cried for about 3 hours after that. It was so overwhelming. The next day things didn't get any better. I was upsetting her. I could see that. And the teachers decided I was too much. I was expelled. . Two weeks before her birthday. It was actually her birthday when a new school accepted me. To cut an awfully long story short I hate it. I pass my old school and lizzies house on my way to school. Our busses cross paths too. I am always collapsing. I miss her so much. Since I've left school I've tried to kill myself twice. But then I got ill. Really ill. My appendix had burst. I was told I should have died when it had. After my operation, I became even more sick and ended up in intensive care It was the thought of her that kept me going. Anyway, I miss her terribly. Any ideas on what I should do? Um thanks for the replys. I'm not on meds for one reason and one reason only - no doctor will give them to me considering my overdosing past So that's not great, I know, but I can't change it

Sorry sweety but my appereance and my succes will kill your self esteem

"When you have someone who knows you so well you have to hold on forever ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️" the other person response "merry Christmas baby" they are the same sex. Can you say this to a friend?

Tbh ive been bullied since i was 3 yrs old (when i started preschool) first it was bcuz im short then bcuz i had a big forehead then when i got to 2nd grade it was because i didnt have any friends when i got to 3rd and 4th grade they bullied me because it was a new school and i didnt act like everyone else. Then i was bullied from second semester of 4th grade to 6th grade because my best friend pissed herself in 3rd grade and they told me i was the smellys bff then from 7th grade to the actuality im bullied cause im ugly. Do u think i am ugly? (Check my profile pic) What should i do to make it stop? cause they also bully me cause i dance publicly to kpop songs choreos

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I'm a female, but everyone says that I behave manly... I'm single...I love drawing, painting and writing stories...I've already written 2 books and I'm working on another book (each of my books are around 200 pages)... I also love reading... I'm good in swimming, wheel skating, cycling, running and arm wrestling and I'm starting to learn how to ski... I love walking around in the nature... I become excited about new things and I'm really curious to discover secrets behind everything... I'm also very adventurous... I hate sitting around and wasting my time... I love my parents, but I don't have a good relationship with my brother (he's older than me)... I've a lot of friends, but I also have a few enemies... I keep my privacy for myself and I rarely tell someone about my secrets... I care a lot about saving money and not spending it for unnecessary things... I easily become angry and get into arguments and fights... I'm not afraid of anyone and I can easily fight with the problems in my life... I behave very friendly with females, but I become serious in front of males... As much as love a man, I become more indifferent about him...

Ight, context: I met a girl a year ago and we barely spoke to each other. A couple of weeks ago, she added me in her Fb friends. Then she posted a picture (of her appearing in the newspaper) and I liked it. She soon started texting me and we talked a bit about our lives. After, she started to text short messages, but during the conversation, she said the "we should do something soon <3"

So my best friend of 9 years said she does not wanna be my friend anymore pretty much because when my bf who I haven't seen in 1yr surprised me, I spent the week with him and didn't really talk to everyone. I dropped in from time to time but u know I wasn't always available cause i only had a week with him and also I'm working and I just can't text all the time. She said I forgot about her because I got a man but thing is she has a bf too and he see her way more than I do but she lives walking distance from me and she drives. She texts me just as much as I text her so I think its pretty hypocritical of her say that. She never iinvites me out but she's always out with him and his friends sometimes. I thought she was joking but she hasn't texted me back. It hurts that she would end our friendship like that but I'm gonna apologize especially when its no different on her part. A few months ago I met two girls who I'm really close with, we do things and talk about things that I don't do with my best friend. They never took her place but its different. I wonder if its time for us to move on from each other tho? Seems she already gas anyway.

I m afraid of talking to people because I m afraid that they would think I am desperate.. plus I don t talk a lot so I m not used to having a conversation.. My parents say I m vero beautiful so I m looking for a boyfriend but -1 I have never had boyfriend so I have zero esperience in everything -2 he would probably talk badly about me PLEASE HELP ME *I m not an English native

Tengo un amigo desde hace un año y hemos pasado muchas cosas juntos , hacíamos todo juntos un día algo muy intenso se dio entre nosotros y caímos en el romance (eramos prácticamente novios) de pronto el se espantó y quiso dejarlo como "amigos" luego el comenzó a buscarme de nuevo y a tener detalles conmigo , me tomaba de la mano y tenía muchas atenciones, hasta la fecha me compra cosas.Nos hemos besado unas tres veces desde ese momento en distintos periodos de tiempo y me invito a conocer a sus padres, me llama de una manera especial y me cuenta mucho sobre su vida , sus intereses y lo que le gusta y hace. Sus papás me tratan muy bien y no sé cuando hablamos por wa es más demostrativo con corazones y así ,en persona me busca cuando menos me lo espero y quiere que esté con el , me llama o me manda mensajes pero muchas veces lo siento como normal como si no pasara nada y luego no me quiere mirar a los ojos.Pero puedo ver como se ilumina cuando yo aparezco. Es extraño porque ya no sé que somos a sus amigos no les dice nada de mi siempre calla con el tema y no se que siente que quiere ya no sé ni como tratarlo pues yo realmente lo amo y se lo demuestro todo el tiempo pero hay momentos en los que siento que amo en vano y no se hemos llevado la situación pero no se que hacer ¿alguien tiene alguna idea? Ya no se que hacer ni pensar sobre esto.

There were 3 maintenance men who worked at this place. The first was my supervisor now. My boss said he was a terrible worker. The place was dirty. It was a lots smaller too. The 2nd was some guy for 3 years. I slept on the couch most of the days. There were some days he didn't work. I'm the third. When there was nothing to do I got on the internet. When I tried working my supervisor, who was the first janitor got an attitude with me for working too hard. So I decided to do my work after and before the day away from the clients. The clients were complaining about me not doing anything. I got smart with my supervisor about always making me the joke and his attitude toward me for no reason. He use the excuse that I don't do nothing and there were lots of dust build up. I asked him why are you stopping me then every time i cleanse. He said you defend yourself now, I'm done defending you. The he started making up rumors about me, telling the clients that he made me cry, telling the clients I called them bitches which he did, telling them that I'm retarded. ILol reportef him to the supervisor, we had a meeting. He said do you remember all of the stuff i did for you. No nody talk about you. I will not let that happen. Will nice. After the supervisor left he ran to the clients and started tuning his mouth about me again. Lol all I did was laugh. I never seen this before

I'm not selfish actually, i give stuff to people and even share certain things. Like i don't mind sharing pizza or french fries etc. but what i hate is when i have lunch with my family and theres one bowl of salad that almost everyone is taking from and i dont take much cuz then it wouldn't be enough for others. And i also hate sharing with 'friends' or other people that arent really close to me.

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Lately I've been having mixed feelings, I'm still feel lonely and depressed, today is Christmas and I feel nothing but sad. I think I might be having feelings for a close friend that is also an ex but also a close friend that I trust a lot. He's a wonderful man and a good person but he must not know my feelings, he knows I care a lot for him but I care about him as a friend. I want him to be happy and to be careful, I hope he finds a girl that will treat him right and makes him happy, and I will support him every step of the way as his close friend. He's moving soon and that's what I'm kinda sad about, but I shouldn't, I'm happy for him. My feelings are all mixed and confusing to deal with, friends and family, me always being stuck home, makes me kinda crazy but there's nothing I can do... I wish I was more of a positive person and know what to say at the exact time, and a bit smart. Sometimes I wish I didn't care at all, but that I do care a lot about everything it hurts me and makes me feel gross and weird...I can't explain but I need peopel's options and to listen. I don't know what I feel anymore but hey I'm still alive. Lol

are you generally happy? meaning almost always in a good mood. never in a slump or depressed and are oblivious to negative feelings and negativity.you are optimistic or are you more unhappy? meaning more often in a dark mood. your outlook on life is more grim and youre more of a negative and pessimistic thinker. youre a dark person and unresting thoughts are contantly racing in your mind and your mindset is "phuck the world" im more of the second. i cant think like a happy person no matter how much i try How did you almost die?

I know that this may sound weird, but my (not worst) fear is getting shamed in public. For example, if I go to school and I just make a simple mistake, the teacher yells at me, says how rude that was, and everyone is staring at me and the room feels hot, I feel stiff, and I can't move. This is why I'm home schooled, but too not long ago, my friends and family came over to thanksgiving, and one of my annoying friends was keep on poking me on the gut and my gut was very sensitive. So while we were about to pray, my annoying friend pokes me on the gut and then one of my family members says " do you know how disrespectful that was"? " do I have to separate the both of you?" And every one was just starting at me. No one knows about this fear, and it scares me, how do I overcome it? how can I escape the shame around me? Alright please help me!!

This is really annoying. I am trying to make NYE plans with my friends. A week ago, I told them that I found a great party that would give us a great discount. Only one person responded (out of 4 of us), asking if I was going. I tell her "idk I was asking if you guys wanted to go". No response all day, until the next day when another friend said she'd be down but her boyfriend might have a party back at the college we just graduated from. That's when the other two finally spoke up and said they were down, but I don't want to go a college party so I only asked who's going. A day later, the girl finally responds and says she doesn't know who and he might not even have it anymore. So then another friend responded saying they're interested in the party I mentioned and where is it. So I gave them the location yesterday morning - no response. NYE is in 6 days, and ticket prices will rise. The last time I check eventbrite there were only 9 tickets left. I want to ask them if they can make up their mind ASAP because tickets are about to sell out and I want to make firm plans by tomorrow. But how do I say this nicely? Mind you, this group is always like this - they would make decisions very last minute and then realize they can't do it anymore. My sister invited me to another party so I have the option to go out with her but since that party is farther away, I would rather go some place closer.

My best friend is 10 years old and lately she's been acting different. I use to blame myself since at age 11 I would start being a bit negative because of my depression but after her cousins and I decided to research more into it we found out what BPD is. We realized our friend/cousin was experiencing the same symptoms like mood swings and changing topics when we were trying to help her or her threatening to hurt or kill herself. She says she doesn't care about anyone but she sometimes would say she only cared for me or she'd kill herself if I died. We're trying to find a way to help her in this situation but we're just not sure how. Every time we try to talk it over with her she seems to space out or say she forgot everything. How can we help her?

girls could you lift and carry her over your shoulder?

I just came back from this social club and seems like everyone was just sitting in a small group talking about the silliest things ever like hair color of her dog or some crap that i have no interest in.

I am a guy and i do have an older brother and a brother with Autism but I don't see my oldest brother as much. Well I have two friends whouse I have known for 8 years now and our families are really close with each other. My friend who is the oldest son is very protective of me and. he always looks out for me as if I was his little brother. An example is that sometimes my real brother with Autism can get violent with his temper tantrums and my friend knows about them so he gets very defensive of me if my brother with Autism tries to start trouble. I don't really see my real brothers and sisters since they are all moved out so my friends have become my adopted siblings in a sense. Well anyway when ever I date my friend sometimes gets up tight when I like a girl he doesn't approve of and he doesn't stop me from dating but he still watches out for me. Then if I fail a class or get low grades he lectures me on howhat education is important. Why does they act like this?

Tonight I had some friends over and we smoked weed. My autistic brother asked what it was when we pulled out a bag of it and we told him tobacco. He asked if he could have some and I told him it was just for us. I didn't want to be mean but I didn't want him to smoke it and have a bad reaction and start freaking out.

Recently I talk to my new friend about childhood memories (That what I like to do). I told him when I was young I like to play tag, hide and seek, jumping from sofa to sofa (the lava game), cosplaying soldier with my best friends, got into fight and many more. He ask my "are you stupid", and Im kind of confuse and reply to him you never do this when you were young ? he say "Why on earth would you do these kind of stupid stuff". The thing is that time I was only 7 or so and that the natural of most kid. How do I explain to him that this is natural of most kid, I find it hard explaining to him because I think his childhood were basically studying and staying at home. Sorry for my English, Not my first language :)

Recently I was watching this road rage compilation video on Youtube and my friend walk by and start saying its not even real. I told him road rage is real, and ask him that "don't you ever witness it before" He told me that he never witness it because Its fake and no one smart enough do this kind of stuff. He also denied that murder (Psychopath) happen in this world, he say no one would kill another person just for fun. Is he holding these idea because he never really interact with the real world, stay home all the time, or read any news. Sorry for my English, Its not my first language.

I've been living in the same town/city for a long time and I know trying to make friends at a work place can be futile because most people just want to go home after work and keep coworkers at a professional work-friendly relationship. So, what do you do to make friends? Where do you go?

I've been going to the same school since 2nd grade. everyone there knows me and likes me pretty well, i'm pretty popular honestly. life has been pretty boring lately is the thing. i'm originally from florida and my mom and i kind of want to move back because my whole family lives there. i kind of wang to move, but i'm nervous i won't like friends. i've never really been put into a situation where i really had to work at making friends, considering i made most of mine in 2nd grade and everyone is friends at that age. just looking for some reassuring words or maybe advice. thanks!

just wondering btw

I don't know whether I should hang out with my aunt and uncle or have drinks with friends. I love my aunt and uncle but my 2 cousins aren't close, don't really talk to me and we are extremely awkward. Or should I have drinks with friends I haven't seen in a while? please help I will be having dinner with my immediate family but they want to see a movie afterward. I don't know if I should go

Me & my best friend went out for a friend's birthday. We had a lot to drink and of course acted stupidly. Throughout the night I lost her in a club which I spent looking for her. My friend who had the birthday had already gone home & I was looking to go also. I was very disorientated and thought maybe I should start heading home but thought get my best friend who was with a guy she said she liked. Later on, I managed to find her and I told I'm going home. She then responded with I want to go to a party, I was like it's best I go home as I'm really out of it. The guy with her was like "the party won't be any fun if you don't come". I replied how adamant I was get home and began to start dosing off. I called a taxi & ask her are you sure you don't want to come & she said no I fine, I said are you going home and she was like yes. We live in the completely different directions but I could have got her in the cab, I was in and take her to sleepover at my place. She was very persistent and she didn't seem drunk acccoding to my psyche. In taxi, I called her & asked if she was fine and her response was I'm fine, I'm going home. Continued in comments..

So my sister is friends with this person who's very... let's say untrustworthy. I want my sister to see that. She never does though. (Litterally everyone but her sees it. Even our mom sees it!) Her friend is constantly starting fights and then talking **** behind her back. She's also not a very good friend in other ways, always playing the victim, never trying as hard for my sister as she does her. Basically, she's a shitty friend and my sister doesn't see it. Whenever I try to have my sis see it, it always erupts into this thing that I'm "trying to ruin her friendship" and we've stopped talking mutiple times because of it. For some reason it seems my sis feels like she can't live without her (she's never said it, but she acts like her life is horrible when her friend isn't in it) So, I'm trying to figure out how to have her see it. Any ideas! Thanks a ton if you help