Family: Question: My girlfriend took my penis out and playing with it should I pull her bra down or keep her boobs covered? We are alone?

Question: My girlfriend took my penis out and playing with it should I pull her bra down or keep her boobs covered? We are alone?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 02:03 PM PST

Question: My parents are emotionally destroying me, what can I do to get away from them (besides run away, that's not a good idea, I know)? Help?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:49 PM PST

I'm only thirteen, but I can't stand living with my parents. They divorced right before I turned 10, and since then I've went through many court changes in custody. First it was simply split custody, each parent had me half of the week, each week. Then, my father had custody of me with my mother only having visitation on the weekends. Now, I spend one week with my father and one week with my mother. It's confusing and messes with my grades, and I don't see the custody case closing any time soon. My mother is emotionally depressing, she takes any anger out on me, and gets aggravated at my thoughts and opinions. She smokes, and I have asthma, so it harms my breathing to be around her or in her house. My father is an alcoholic, he also smokes, which again harms my breathing. But drinking all the time makes him less of the father he should be. I consider myself depressed, I'm constantly upset ("sad"), I feel as if I'll never be happy, as if I have no importance, and occasionally I do consider suicide. If I can't find a good solution to this, I may just be forced to run away before I end up hurting myself as a way to escape. Someone please help me somehow.

Question: My friend got my boobs out on my bus.should I pull my bra up or leave my boobs out until I get home? I am walking on my street?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:47 PM PST

Question: Should I love my father?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:47 PM PST

He cheated on my mother with a married woman from houston. He's constantly go there for his so-called "business trips" He even tried to convince us to move to Houston (because apparently he had found some fortune business there) and had us all fooled into moving there. He cheated over the course of a year-- he even continued cheating when my mother'a father was nearly dead in the hospital after two heart attacks. When we found out firstly, he lied and said it was just a friend and said my mother was just a paranoid *****. The second time, all he said was "it was just a little over talking" I don't believe sending someone kisses and "my husband'a downstairs but I still love you more" as just a little overtalking. He told everyone my mother was paranoid and everyone believed him. I even tried to come out with the truth and everyone believed me for some time until my dad came out and said I was just lied to and convinced by my mother. And then came into my room and yelled at me for almost ruining his business reputation. He's given my mother bruises. Red ones purple ones all colors. And has told her to cover them up so no one would question or embarrass him. Do you think I should still love him?

Question: As a director of a family run business I was to receive £300,000 a year in salary instead I was beaten up by my elder brothers son?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:37 PM PST

Question: Are my niece and nephew spoiled?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:33 PM PST

Whenever I babysit or am at my sisters house my niece and nephews interrupt adults while they are talking constantly. They also whine and cry if they do not get what they want or get more to eat or don't get dessert (they are both overweight). They also get to watch what they want on tv and their decsison of what to watch overrides adults and will tell adults to shush if they are talking and they can't hear the tv. They also always decide what's for dinner and that overrides what the adults want. Are they spoiled?

Question: How do I keep my social anxiety down on Christmas?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:27 PM PST

I'm so worried about irritating family because I feel if I irritate them they will never forgive me. They act like they like me but I never know if they really do as my mom had a couple relative she pretended to like but secretly did not like. I have anxiety and ADHD just like the two cousins my mother disliked of hers

Question: How do I get my brother not to wreck my parents Christmas like he has the last three years?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:25 PM PST

He is a failure of a person but they still love them as the parents

Question: How do you know is someone is trying to help you for your best interest or plain being mean?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:22 PM PST

I am struggling in my career but a friend suggested I do something that is a much lower level than I am trained for, love and even have the patience for. How do I know is she is looking out for my best interest of just being mean/nasty?

Question: My cousins is an idiot, how do I get him back?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:21 PM PST

Two of my cousins invited me to a church service. They're both 17 I believe. An intern asked us for help unloading some tables out of his truck. So all of us including my brother walked down the first floor out to the parking lot. So the intern got on one side of the table and I got on the other side. Then one of my cousins cuts me off and grabs my other side. I tried grabbing it but he just wouldn't let me help him. Then he did it again when we tried bringing the second table inside. I was so mad at that point. I really wanted to punch them in the face. Now I just feel like taking his spots everywhere we go or something. He does this kind of crap when im around a lot. He tries to make me jealous and think he's better all the time. I just wanna teach him a lesson. What do I do?

Question: WWY Name This Couple's Twins?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:20 PM PST

Mom: Elena Grace [Jareau] Michaelson Dad: Austin James Michaelson Daughter 1: (adopted) -twin -20 months old FN: Sarah, Nicole, Amelia, Jessica, Caroline MN: Grace, Rose, Noelle, Riley, Sage, Anne Daughter 2: (adopted) -twin -20 months old FN: Madison, Kayla, Amber, Megan, Lauren MN: Abigail, Bailey, Elise, Elizabeth, Grace, Nicole

Question: My nephew died last week but....? Is it weird?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 01:03 PM PST

My nephew died after crashing his car against a tree last week,he was 33 and about 10 years ago he served in the Marines. I almost didn't even remember he was in the Marines because he was now a a librarian,however he was buried with full military honors,21 gun salute,bagpipes playing "Amazing grace" and taps. Then Today it's the first time I actually saw his grave and there is written "CPL US MARINE CORPS BRONZE STAR W/V PURPLE HEART IRAQ " He did actually serve in Iraq but by just looking at the grave it seemed like he died there,anyway I'm not saying this to complain or anything,my brother decided,it was his son and he had all the rights to put those inscriptions,but isnt it just a little weird? I mean,the inscriptions,the full military honors,I mean he wasn't in the service for a decade or something and he never talked about the Marines.

Question: Why is my dad racist?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:56 PM PST

My dad is 54 years old and has lived a long life. He hates black people and whenever something bad happens he blames them. He also always tries to get attention because his wife doesn't love him(I hate her) and I think he thinks I don't care about him.

Question: I hate my mom!!!?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:49 PM PST

So i hang out with this girl that my mom hates and she always brings her up and my mom constantly fights with me over nothing! She loves making me upset and calls me the worst possible names a mother could call her child and i really hate her. then she acts like she's the victim but she's not she instigates everything

Question: Is it normal that my mother hit me hard and insulted me just becauae my room was a mess?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:42 PM PST

Question: So here it goes I came here in canada for over 6 months now and live with my mom whom I haven't been with since I was a kid,?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:39 PM PST

she has a family here now (3 kids) and I don't like my stepfather, sometimes he acts like a ***** well he always ***** out, he even argues with my mom right infront of my granparents(motherside) before. I told my mom that I don't like that guy but I'm very civil when we talk and I don't want to live in the same roof with him, I mean I grew up without a mom and dad only my grandparents took care of me. mom said "I already told you about adjusting before, we're not the one who is going to adjust for you! She even cursed at me. What should I do? I'm confused.

Question: I can't live like this anymore�� But what can I do about it??

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:31 PM PST

My sister is very evil. Everything she wants she gets even if it's not hers. She always gets me in trouble for the slightest reasons. Like when I found a marble under my bed and she started crying and telling my parents that I stole it from her. And that's not all. When my friends come to my house she makes me look bad. She's just wants to make my life a living hell. I tried telling my parents but they'll just say "stop trying to explain your bad deeeds" What can I do about this situation?? Please help

Question: My wife and I are allowed to cheat one time per year?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:28 PM PST

Am I wrong to be mad that she got double teamed? I mean that's two guys. She says its only one session so she is fine. Who's right?

Question: My mother molested me a year or so ago and nobody believes me cause i'm a 40 year old man that is supported by his mother and she's framed?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:26 PM PST

me a threat to society. what do i do?

Question: Does my dad still love me?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:26 PM PST

So my mom and dad got separated when I was like 8 or 9 years old now I'm 19 (when I was 12 they got divorced) I'm super close with my mother, and I always have to reach out to my dad (sometimes he does but it's rare) to me. He never takes me over to his place, or let's me meet his new girlfriend (if he has one). He's just not there, and is it bad to say that I'm used to it? Does he still love me? Cause I really miss him...

Question: How to convince my dad to move to another state?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:19 PM PST

My mom really wants to move to another state. All of her family is there and she really wants this. But my dad does not like change and doesent like the hot and this state is really hot. We have been trying to convince him to move for ever now. My mom always changes jobs and she would work with her brother and it would he awsome for her, but again my dad hads a really good job here but it is way to expensive and we already dont have a lot of money. I would just like some edvice On how to convince my dad to move there.

Question: My husband hit me and i dont know what to do?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 12:06 PM PST

Its the first time hes ever done it after 2 years of being rogether , its along story but to make it short he was angry because i went to dropp off a co worker at her house yesterday night after a secret santa we had and my car broke down , he was so angry when he got there that the first thing he did was slap me like two times and he was screming at me , i was so scared that i ran to knock on someones door for help .for the last like 2 months hes been accusing me of cheating on him, ( i have not) so he thought i went to go see a guy or something, ive realized hes insane , he apoligized and said he would vever do it again but i didnt believe that at all......and now my car is useless and i start a new job tomorrow and hes a acting as if nothing happened yesterday ....im still in shock and confused and scared i dont know what to do.......i feel like i have no one......

Question: How do i get my parents to let me have a bigger room?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:59 AM PST

I have a younger sister and she has a bigger room then me. Her regular room is bigger then mine and she has a bathroom connected which also leads to another room slightly smaller then mine. She has both rooms and the bathroom to herself. My point is that as i get older and i need more space my room wont fit my things. Because i do all my homework and spend all my free time in my room and everythinng i own/use is in my room i think i should get the bigger one. My sister is never in her room, she dosent do her work in it, and her stuff is all arround the house but mainly in the basement, so she really dosent need the extra space. How can i convince my mom to let us switch? (please exsuse my awful spelling and grammer im in the car and on my phone which has a small keybord)

Question: I may have caught my father having an affair?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:56 AM PST

I spotted my father out with another woman. I was off from a distance at first, but they both ended up seeing me because I got in closer to see who the woman was. She was someone that is friends with my dad and a few people in my family. I would like to think that he was helping her with something. But I don't know. This is a horrible place to be in. I want to say something to my mom but I don't want to create a situation if it was all innocent. On another hand, I don't want her being in a situation with that going on if it's not innocent. I've been betrayed and let me tell you IT HURT beyond anything You can imagine. The thing is my mom already has emotional problems and something like this would truly tear her apart. I just want what is best for her. I love her so much. I am really torn. I truly don't know what is best. Sometimes when I'm over, my mom makes comments about my dad being away with his girlfriend. So, maybe he is being dirty and she knows? Again, this is just a very uncomfortable place to be in.

Question: I think my mom is hurt? Help me please!?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:54 AM PST

i went to bed about 2 hours ago and as they do every night, my parents were gonna stay up for a bit to watch television. Anyways, about two hours after i went to bed I hear strange moaning sounds from my parents bedroom coming from my mom and it sounds like she's hurt. I'm in tears and I never thought my father could hurt anyone in my family. All my life my dad has been nothing but a good pearson and the fact that I'm now finding out he's an abuser hurts me more than anything. I want to go in their and help my mom but I'm worried my dad will hurt me too. I can't stop crying and I've never been this terrified in my life. Please help me, should I call the police?

Question: Sister asked if she could kick my balls for her birthday?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:36 AM PST

My little sister is 13 on Wednesday and she asked me today if she could kick my balls for her birthday. She said she'd kick my balls, knee my balls, punch my balls, squeeze my balls and crush them (she'd stand on my balls). I'm not sure whether to allow my sister to do this, because she's hit my balls and always enjoys it, so why should I stop her?? :)

Question: I think my mother is cheating on my dad?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:35 AM PST

So I needed to use my mum's laptop for my studies. She just got it so she's completely new to the whole 'notification' thing. Apparently she had disabled 'notifications' for Facebook Messenger and because of that I could see on her laptop, whenever someone messaged her through that. After a while of studying and listening to music I got these notifications from this guy named Leo. They were explicit messages, like; 'I can't wait to hold you again,' and 'my wife doesn't like sex as much as I do' and 'you're the best I ever had'. I just found out about this today and as far as I know, I'm the only one who knows about it. I don't know what to do now, I really love both of my parents and I wouldn't want to break them up. But my father is a sweet man and he deserves to know the truth. Should I tell my dad about it and risk breaking them up, or should I let it go and have my father spend, possibly the rest of his life with the illusion my mum only loves him? Please help me.

Question: Will she ever love me?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:20 AM PST

I've always loved her but she never knew I was a lesbian. She was my bestfriend and we used to spend all of our time together inside and outside of school. Then she became depressed and we stopped talking and just drifted apart. I see her on a daily basis and it hurts me that she'll never understand..she has a boyfriend and she's asexual...I really regret not confessing to her when I could..all we do now is have disagreements and unsolved problems but I still love her...I really regret not telling her I was a lesbian and not kissing her before her younger brother walked in... Please don't tell me I should find someone else because I know I won't be able to do that...I've tried my luck with guys but it just never felt the same..I love her and I don't want to let her go...I know we may not talk as much as we used to but I really love her.. she's beautiful and such a talented girl...I don't think I'll ever be the same without her... it's like she took a piece of me with herself when we stopped talking.....will she ever realize that I love her? I think her parents didn't like me because I got too close to her... we used to hug each other everyday and say how much we loved one another..

Question: What can I do? I´m a girl and I turned 18 a few months ago.?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:16 AM PST

About a year ago my brother and I found out my dad had been cheating on my mom with other men, having sexual encounters,etc. My mom forgave him really fast. Now about 2 months ago I found out my dad keeps meeting up with these men, I haven´t told my mom anything. My father is also very sexist. Everytime I look at him I feel so angry because he doesn´t care, maybe he thinks that there isn´t going to be any consequences? I love him, he is a great dad. I want to move out, but I don´t know where to go. What should I do?

Question: How can a teen mom help out around the family home?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 11:08 AM PST

My son and his girlfriend (both 18yrs) are living with us currently and had a baby together almost 2 weeks ago. About 6 months ago when he asked for her to move in I said she could (for free) if she agreed to help out around the house. I gave her a list of jobs she had to complete each week, this was good as it made her feel like she was doing her part and helped me out a lot too. When she was heavily pregnant I let her off all of the jobs as I knew she wasn't feeling great. I was wondering if 2 weeks post-baby is too soon to start enforcing chores again? I mentioned this to my son who got angry at me and told me she was tired from nursing and that I should "leave her alone". My son works 12 hour days so hasn't been able to pick up her jobs. I was thinking maybe instead of things like vacuuming and hanging out clothes I could give her jobs that are a little easier with a newborn. Any ideas? Or I do I just wait a little longer before bringing it up?

Question: Bad parent driving instructor?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 10:58 AM PST

I am currently learning to drive and have a learner's permit. My mom has to be in the car with me when I drive, but she is not a good instructor. Whenever I do something wrong, she yells loudly at me in a nasty tone of voice. I find it very difficult and stressful to drive when she acts like that to me and I have told her numerous times to stop treating me so poorly when I drive. She never listens to me and it makes me very anxious and stressed every time I have to drive. She got mad at the way I parked one time so she grabbed the keys and scratched me in the process. She makes me feel horrible and I don't know what to do. My dad works so he isn't often available to drive with me. What should I do?

Question: How do I get my sister instead of having a relationship again?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 10:51 AM PST

She hasn't wanted anything to do with me in six years because I kept her moms house when she died instead of selling it so we could both have ownership in the state. I gave my sister her share but she's jealous that my mom left me the house. I miss my sister even though she's being hurtful. How do I get her back one day? Especially hurts here at the holidays

Question: How do I stop being so upset that I have no Dad Christmas?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 10:50 AM PST

Seeing my dad is a big deal at Christmas because my mom wouldn't let me when I was little because of their divorce but as a teenager she started loving me again. Now I'm 18 and my dad is not gonna be around this Christmas because his fiancé is going on a trip with him. My mother is rubbing it in by saying I told you he doesn't know how to love. How do I get over the sadness that I won't see him or any of his family but will only be with my mom side of the family? I'm the only one of my cousins with no data Christmas. I am also the only one with divorced parents on my mom side.

Question: Is it odd my husband s family is asking to pay to attend Christmas lunch?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 09:47 AM PST

I grew up with all our family members just bringing sides and drinks to share with everyone. My husband s family is asking everyone to bring 2 sides, a drink, and $10. I might as well have our own meal at our home with all that! Does anyone else think this is weird/tacky?

Question: Mom wants to track my phone?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 09:32 AM PST

I havent done anything for her to want to track my phone, but she has on multiple occasions tried to get me to download the life 360 app. I have calmly denied it each time or delayed the convo to where they forget about it. She already tracks my stepdad and brother. I am always out with friends and i tell her where i am going (i always go where i say i do). She tells me the reason she wants me to have it is for crazy reasons like "if isis invades" im not kidding she actually said that. Or if I get kidnapped. Anyways i just feel like she doesnt trust me for somereason. And i really dont like the idea of being tracked.

Question: How do I handle the anxiety I feel that my aunt might decline a visit at Christmas thus making me feel loss at Christmas?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 09:29 AM PST

I am so nervous about asking her when a good time would be to bring a gift by. She is my mother's only sibling in town and my mother has died. Thus the one year I did not see her it hurt me because I'd lost all connection to my late mother's family. The aunt is an alcoholic so has limited ability to socialize as her own kids are distant from her. So it is weird I make it this important. 50-50 if she'll say sure or say she is busy and has a virus which is what she says when drinking. So how do I handle the anxiety I feel about this? It is tomorrow I will be giving a call. Also how do I phrase it (I only stay about ten minutes as she does not like long visits due to her drinking). The connection to my late mother is why this is important. Her other two siblings don't live locally.

Question: When do you let kids grow up?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 09:19 AM PST

My wife seems to have this thing to where we are always suppose to keep snacks and things in the house for the kids. If I buy anything for myself to snack on she'll complain that I never think about anyone else but myself. I'll buy a box of cereal and stick it in a certain cabinet for myself but the minute she sees it she complains. However, she likes a certain brand of cereal and will buy it and put it in the cabinet for herself too. If anyone eats any of it she hits the roof. I love pistachios and will buy myself a big bag of them. They aren't cheap so I really do have a hard time sharing. Again, when I take "my money" and by "me" anything I don't care about anyone else in the house. If I stop at a gas station to get a soda or just something to drink I have to always think about everyone at home. "I wonder if they want something? I'll just buy everyone something just in case they're thirsty too." Oh, did I mention that the kids are now both 20 years old. One is in her second year of college and only home during breaks and one just graduated college with his AAS degree. They aren't kids anymore and can fend for themselves. Why does my wife think that these are still kids walking in the house from school looking to a couple of cookies and a juice box on the counter? These two can now cook for themselves. Am I wrong to not buy everyone something when I just buy me something? And at what age do you stop?

Question: What are the chances this woman is so innocent?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 09:02 AM PST

I have a family member who's very sweet but she keeps attracting these loser friends and boyfriends that get so bad she usualkyends up gettong restraining orders on them. They all have criminal records and are drug addicts and she gets tied in w them. She's even doing this most her life and shes almost 40. Yes SHES clean and successful and very educated so it appears ahe's this poor victim of all these vultures wanting to cash in on her kindness and success. But my sister says at her age she should know better so if it's still happening, she is probably just as bad as these others it's just she's better at hiding it. Amd simce she's has a certain image she is pulling the victim card when she gets sick of one of them and the whole family rushes to rescue her (partly she thinks this because last time we showed up at her request to remove an abusive bf from her house w police, the bf yelled she was out w him smoking crack and hooking the night before). But of course we think he's lying. But do you agree her pattern shows she's probably not so innocent?

Question: A mother wondering how to approach my son whos going thru puberty to clean up after himself? Semen stains r always on his laundry and bed?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 09:01 AM PST

Question: How would you be able to speak to a teenager about saying no to any drugs while under peer pressure? -- A concerned mother of a 2.?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 08:59 AM PST

Question: I don't think I like my family anymore?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 08:25 AM PST

It's mostly my mom and my brother but now my bad I will explain why. My dad was saying how he is going to visit me since I moved to a different state but only because he was in Florida of course but if he wasn't he would have never even thought about visiting, the first day he said he was going to he didn't he had to find a hotel I thought it was ok the hotel he was in was about an hour away he said he wasn't going to but was kidding. I gave him my address for the morning he never told me when when he was texting me I was sleeping he was so mad I wasn't answering he could of visited because he had my address he knows I'm not an early bird don't know why he'd be mad, but what bothers me if it was my cousin instead of me I know he would visit in a heart beat. Now my mom and brother are both such hypocrites they always complain about each other when one is with me they are like little kids but they both are older then me! I am a 21 year old female about to go to bartending school.

Question: My little sister is crying what should I do ?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 08:07 AM PST

My sister has this computer game she's really obsessed with but it makes her sad. The game is about cats. She also has one about dogs and horses but she likes the cats one better. She was playing it this morning she cried because she accidentally sprayed her cat with a water bottle. They do that when the animals in the game are bad. But her cat wasn't bad she just wanted to try it but she sprayed it so many times that her kitten ran and hid in the corner having a meowing fit now she can't get it to come out. Even though it's just a game she feels really bad. She hasn't played this game very much. She doesn't know how to make it stop. She's sitting on her bed crying her eyes out. She said she wants to sell the game she never wants to play it again. Also hearing the kitten crying makes her cry. How can I comfort her ?

Question: Why do they refuse to walk 13 miles?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 08:02 AM PST

I don't want to teach my children how to drive. I don't want to get them driving lessons. They have no one else to teach them. I threaten my wife and tell her she is not allowed to, if she mentions it I yell at cuss at her. I do the same to my sister who mentioned teaching them. I am not spending money on getting them a learners permit/license/car/insurance/ or a bike. Public transportation is a 4 hour walk from where we live(13 to 15 miles away) they refuse to walk on the side of the road because cars and it's too narrow. I have had them homeschooled since 6th grade, I stopped buying them the things they needed(work books) in 8th grade. They're supposed to be in 11th grade but have not been doing school for 3 years. I say they're in the wrong. Who do you think is in the wrong? I never celebrate their birthday's either. I punch my wife and sister every time they buy them a gift

Question: How Do I Deal With My Ex Framing Me?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:49 AM PST

About a month ago, I received an email from my ex's sister. She did not specify what she was contacting me for and accused me of being angry at her brother and constantly trying to reach out to him. I have not felt any of those feelings nor have I contacted him in a while. I asked her if we could talk on the phone because at first I thought it was about the things I returned to him around the same time. Not receiving the call after two weeks, I had my brother get in contact with her merely asking if she emailed me. She stated that she did and the reason was because of an email I sent my ex. I had definitely sent him an email, yet that was back in September and it did not express any of the feelings she described (A nice farewell, really). I did send him a much older email early July, which did in fact, express my anger (He was disrespectful so I had reacted). I had my brother send her an image of the email I sent in September asking her if it was that one. She said it wasn't the email she was talking about. My theory with this is that my ex most likely and out of the blue, showed his sister my old email, lied to her that I "just" sent it, to make me look bad. I do not appreciate trying to fight for my innocence over a lie that he created, but I will not stand down and let this go on. My ex has a history of blaming me for things he is most likely guilty of (sociopath) and dragging me back into situations I am not trying to get involved with. The objects I returned belonged to him. I had attached a simple note saying that I have no ulterior motives and that all I'm doing is returning them. I do consider dropping things off as a way of contact, indirectly.

Question: Guys can I get any advice for my first time moving out. I'm looking for an apartment. Any tips on moving out? And balancing my money..?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:46 AM PST

Ok well yes I am always on time with paying my bills. But not very experienced I'm still pretty young but I do have a good job. I work for a clinic admin office as an operator and I only get paid 800$ every two week or 805. My friend told me about these apartments that that only charge 540 plus the utility bill and have free wifi.The thing is that I live with my mom and my sister always visits over. They both bully me bad and make me cry so bad. Like they did yesterday. I always help my mom clean and stuff and pay the light bill. Right now the only think I pay is some light, groceries and 387 for a small cabin shed room I was going to turn into a tiny house.I had dreams of owning a tiny house. But I just cannot stand my mother at all. I've been having suicidal thoughts and I tell her I'm going to kill my self jokingly and she said fine go ahead and doesn't care I have an actual problem.I also love music and I play piano it's the only thing keeping me alive and my mom and sister threatened me to sell just to get me angry and they forced my keyboard out of me and posted an add online for sell. I'm just so tired of being bullied I need to move out now. The worst doesn't even begin with story on how bad I'm treated at home.Or what awful names my sister calls me. I want to move and seriously never speak to them ever again.Any tips please help me. First time I move out they stalked me to find out where my place was but I never lived alone.Had to move back do to roommate problems. I will actually move alone this time or with a really trusted friend. First time was a disaster lived with a married couple who were young and naïve with a mother in law who barged in any time they wanted. I found out later I was nothing more than a personal ATM to them. They never cleaned up after them selves and plus I never had any reals bills besides 200$ of rent and 50$ bucks of light. But I'm actually ready to begin my own life and stop living under other peoples roofs.. Ok I live in Houston Tx

Question: Would It Be Weird If I Celebrated Christmas Without My Family?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:40 AM PST

By family I mean my brother. We school abroad and we never go home during Christmas holidays because it's too short a period for an expensive ticket. Usually, we don't do anything special to celebrate Christmas. We just eat lots of food. Here's the issue; I was invited to a little Christmas get together. My brother wasn't invited because they don't know him. He's really not a sociable person so he rarely goes out and therefore; hardly meets people. Now, I don't know if it'll be weird for me to go to this get together without my brother. I feel like people will view me in a bad light for not spending Christmas with family. I really want to go because it's always fun. We eat, tell jokes, play lots of interesting games. It's just fun and I don't want to miss it. By the way, my brother doesn't mind. He loves his laptop, mangas and video games more than human company.

Question: Who made better cookies.?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:36 AM PST

Question: Is this selfish of my boyfriend not to help me with?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:35 AM PST

OK , please bare with him, Ill start off by saying , we been together for over 3 years and we live together , I am a stay at home mom and I do the housework etc..shop for food, so it's not like I am some bum lol I have severe hearing loss , and I desperately need hearing aids ok...However , they are expensive..the ones I need ( best for my hearing loss) are 900 $ a piece , he has a great job and the money to down for payments ..he even got approved for over 2000$ credit at the store , they do hearing aids at this big store...and he STILL wont help ...Of course I would have signed up for a credit card, but I have BAD credit , from my stupid past ( I know I messed up). I am not expecting him to fork up the 900, I even offered to make the payments by getting a job ( I cant get a job with my bad hearing) I already screwed up many jobs in the past because of this, so I don't want to cost another company money etc...I am even signing up for cam girl sites to help..but the hearing place needs a lot of it up front , anyways he straight up says NO...im just asking for help to start it so I can PAY IT...am I asking too much?? I think he is being a total jerk, but I'm probably the wrong one here.. I'm sorry I am just a worthless piece of **** ok

Question: Is *family* basically another *F* word?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:32 AM PST

Question: Now my supervisor is telling all of the clients that I'm crazy when he found out I have anxiety?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:10 AM PST

I didn't put my 2 weeks notice in yet. my vacation starts on the 23rd. I'm finding a new job and just looking at this as a bad work experience. My supervisor is gay which makes me even madder because he should know what discrimination is. if I was crazy and too dangerous then I would of attacked him a long time ago when he closed my hand in between the door . He was always screaming at me for no reason, trying to embarrass me, insulting me, starting rumors about me, trying to agitated me. yea I'm not going to miss this place.

Question: Why doesn't my dad love me anymore?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:02 AM PST

We got in an argument a week ago. After we cooled off, we talked about it and he says it's fine and he's over it. I apologized and he accepted it but ever since then he's been different. He was very loving before. He used to tell me that he loves me everyday, he used to call me sweetheart, sweetie, he was just very loving. He would always make me laugh and talk about whatever we had on our minds. But now, he's serious. Never tells me he loves me, when I tell him I love him he doesn't say it back. Feels like he doesn't want to talk to me anymore but he says he does. I asked him why he's acting different and if he's still mad about the argument but he says he's not acting different and he's not mad. Why isn't he like he used to be? Does he not love me anymore?

Question: This past weekend we had Christmas with my wifes family.?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 07:01 AM PST

We have a tendency to party pretty hard when everyone is in town. My wife passed out around midnight, but her sister and I kept drinking. She walked back to my room around 2:00 where my wife was sleeping and said she wanted to blow me while her sister, my wife, was asleep. I wasn't sure what to say so I said "sure". We did it and boy was that awesome. Happy Holidays for this guy!

Question: Recommendations for a mother in her 40's for 'assisted living' in Central Florida who needs special care for meds and stable living?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 06:56 AM PST

I've got a lengthy history with my mother, she's a barely recovering, LONG time alcoholic. So in turn, she's done some damage to her body and has now been on atleast 13 different medications. In and out of the hospital weekly for seizures, and she keeps house bouncing with strangers. She wants to live on her own, but we all know she's unable to do that on her own. At all. I'm trying to find a nice comfortable place where she can eat like a normal person, think like a normal person, but still be able to receive the medical help she really needs. Any suggestions for a non profit womens living center would deeply be appreciated. Its been years of craziness and I'd hate to lose her to this alcohol problem she just doesn't care about anymore. Thanks so much.

Question: I missed the bus and don't have a ride to school!!?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 06:43 AM PST

I missed my mom's ride. My dad yelled at me and said I m not going to give you a ride to school. He said you either miss school or walk to school in the freezing cold. (there's snow outside and I'm sick) It takes 30 minutes to walk to school. I don't have a phone so I can't ask my friends to drive me because my friends don t live near me. what should I do if I can t find a ride and how can I make my dad not mad at me?? :( what I mean by my mom's ride is if I don't get in the car by 6:45 she'll leave without me because she also has to go to work

Question: Is this normal?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 06:42 AM PST

My sister and her BF are going to stay in my parent's house for a few weeks, and i'm more excited for her BF than my sister, probably because she is strange! I think she's bipolar and hypocrite... Some times she is good and i like to talk with her about a lot of things but yet sometimes she becomes mad for no reason apparently... Complains about anything, criticizes all i do and never encourage me in anything... And later she is all good, and even try to joke around with me, like nothing happened... It feels like i'm just a punching bag to her or something... Sometimes i ignore her and then she notices and start to be all good again, and later the same thing happens again... And well her BF is mostly cheerful... I don't know if he fakes it(probably no), but yeah i think he is genuine, cool and funny! So that's why i'm more excited to see him instead of her, and it makes almost a year that i haven't see her... is this normal ? Sorry for my english...

Question: I have a sister who is A bossy and unpleasant person. How do I act when I have to see her Christmas next weekend?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 06:26 AM PST

Question: My mother is trying to destroy my Christmas by bringing me into her divorce drama. How do I stop her?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 06:25 AM PST

Question: Am I selfish? Or am I correct ? Or am I a asshole?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 05:36 AM PST

i have always gotten what I want by buying it.No matter what it was,I always bought it.Christmas,and birthdays, I've always asked for things ,and never got what I wanted but was still happy with what I had.But when ever I got money I would get what I want.My mom gaveme money to buygifts for Christmas,and yes I would buy all the gifts,always get me what I truly wanted because noone else would.well let's face it, when ever I asked for something I wouldn't get.when family members I live with say they want something during the year or mention it,I make sure they get exactly what they want,even if they forgot about it.But it seems when it comes to what I say or ask for,I never got it,and if I do.its 5 years later(honest to god)this year,I wanted a single item.a charm bracelet from Pandora.i asked for one 5years ago, and during those two years,both my sister's recieved one.and I never got one, even when I graduated(they got theirs when older sister graduated college and when youngest moved from the 8th grade to the 9th)Am I wrong for getting inexpensive gifts,that I am for certain ever one wanted and getting myself the highest priced gift?In my family price doesn't matter for the gift because we get what each other likes.what I got myself is the most expensive because I really wanted the bracelet.honestly, it's always like that.In some shape or form when ever I really want something I always get it myself.and yet, it's always opposite for my family who undermines me practically.

Question: My brother and his new girlfriend make fun of me, and my brother keeps comparing us?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 04:50 AM PST

My brother and his gf are both atheists and I recently became a Christian. Apparently my brother and her laugh about me being a Christian all the time, and they've only been on three dates! She hasn't even met me yet! The first time, my brother told her I'm a Christian and she said "why?" and he said "God knows" and they both laughed. And then apparently today, my brother said I went to church, and she said "lol church doesn't make a person good" and they laughed about it. These are 24 year old adults! She doesn't even know me! Apparently his gf is very scientific/smart. He keeps comparing her to me. He keeps saying to my parents that "she's very smart! Unlike Mia (me) is." And then my brother was yelling at me yesterday and I told him "you know, you can't yell at your gf the way you yell at me. No one will put up with that." And he replied, "well she's not as dumb as you are so I wouldn't need to yell!" His gf is a health freak and doesn't eat sugar, gluten, or any junk food. So she has really good skin. I like to wear make up a lot, so my brother said "Yeah my gf doesn't wear any make up. She has natural beauty because she eats well. She doesn't have anything to cover up unlike Mia does. And she doesn't even use the cheap make up that Mia does. She doesn't waste time watching make up videos like Mia does either because she's smarter than that." I have tried telling my brother to stop and he just said that his gf makes fun of his sister too and that it's normal.

Question: How do you get a relative to let go of the past?

Posted: 19 Dec 2016 04:43 AM PST

My brother and I have always been close, we even lived together for close to a decade after high school. We are now both married, I have 2 kids, we both have created our own lives away from each other. However I can't seem to get him to let go of negative aspects of our past. He feels the need every time we meet up together to bring up any old flight or something stupid I did when we were younger. He then seems to get offended when I reminded him that these things happened over seven years ago. I am certainly not trying to claim to be perfect nor was he, I just don't see the point in bringing up stuff that happened so many years ago when all it seems to do is try to drag up old beefs we had. What can I do to get it through to him that he doesn't need to constantly do this?